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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Such a long shot but what the hell.....
What I really want is a lovely lady as a permanent girlfriend. The ‘scene’ side doesn’t have to be part of what we do but would be nice, in any case if the lady is on this site then she’ll be sexually confident which is ideal.
So ladies, if you’re also looking for a bloke through more mainstream routes like POF, Match etc then give me a shout! Ideally based in West Midlands so that we can see each other lots and have a social life together!!
I’m probably crazy expecting anything from here but who knows!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t use fab as a dating site. Just because women are on here, it doesn’t mean they’re sexually confident. I met M on here, but that was a stroke of luck. It’s not something that happens all the time. Just keep trying on the more conventional sites.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t use fab as a dating site. Just because women are on here, it doesn’t mean they’re sexually confident. I met M on here, but that was a stroke of luck. It’s not something that happens all the time. Just keep trying on the more conventional sites.
L. "
That’s a bit of a paradoxical statement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t use fab as a dating site. Just because women are on here, it doesn’t mean they’re sexually confident. I met M on here, but that was a stroke of luck. It’s not something that happens all the time. Just keep trying on the more conventional sites.
L.
That’s a bit of a paradoxical statement "
Well I wasn’t looking for love at the time. We met for a one off meet and ended up staying together. Neither of us were looking for love, but it just happened. You shouldn’t look for love, you should let love find you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Convential dating sites are a bit shit....and if your sexual preferences are a deal breaker (like they are for me) you end up wasting a lot of time.
I wish fab did a dating service, I know a few people who met through here so it is possible.
Good luck OP. I'd never have been brave enough to post this as a topic even though it would be the ideal outcome for me and my time on fab! |
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There's nothing like actually meeting lots of people to find someone that you gel with - and where you needn't be specifically looking for a committed partner Imo. Explore many possible options that get you meeting others and potentially not just via sexual interests. |
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"I wouldn’t use fab as a dating site. Just because women are on here, it doesn’t mean they’re sexually confident. I met M on here, but that was a stroke of luck. It’s not something that happens all the time. Just keep trying on the more conventional sites.
L.
That’s a bit of a paradoxical statement
Well I wasn’t looking for love at the time. We met for a one off meet and ended up staying together. Neither of us were looking for love, but it just happened. You shouldn’t look for love, you should let love find you. "
So you have actually proved it is possible, yet are advising the OP against trying to find a pattner on here. Doesn't make sense.
Good luck OP and keep an open mind. Love can be found anywhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good luck OP. There are couples on here who have met on here so it does happen.
I think you've done well in being honest and posting this.
I hope it happens for you. |
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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago
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"There's nothing like actually meeting lots of people to find someone that you gel with - and where you needn't be specifically looking for a committed partner Imo. Explore many possible options that get you meeting others and potentially not just via sexual interests."
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"I wouldn’t use fab as a dating site. Just because women are on here, it doesn’t mean they’re sexually confident. I met M on here, but that was a stroke of luck. It’s not something that happens all the time. Just keep trying on the more conventional sites.
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"This place is littered with loved up couples who met here and now live together/got married/had children.
Meeting someone you connect with is just as possible here as anywhere.
Best of luck. "
this!
It is not common to meet someone here but it does happen. We met 5 years ago on here, been married 3.5 years now |
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I'm not looking for a soulmate on here but if at some point someone comes along who knows.... you find these things when you're not looking I'm told
I'm at the age where company would be really nice ... good luck to you OP |
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We met here almost 3 years ago so its entirely possible
I think more people seem to be open to it nowadays too,be upfront about it and hopefully you will attract a like minded lady.
Good luck op xx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I still have hope that I’ll be able to find a full long term relationship on here  "
Good luck! I’ve had a few nice messages of support and clearly some couples met on here so it can happen. |
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"Such a long shot but what the hell.....
What I really want is a lovely lady as a permanent girlfriend. The ‘scene’ side doesn’t have to be part of what we do but would be nice, in any case if the lady is on this site then she’ll be sexually confident which is ideal.
So ladies, if you’re also looking for a bloke through more mainstream routes like POF, Match etc then give me a shout! Ideally based in West Midlands so that we can see each other lots and have a social life together!!
I’m probably crazy expecting anything from here but who knows!!"
Its not crazy, I met my bf on here a year ago and now we're living together 
Good luck OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a sweet post!
Good luck OP, I hope you find all you’re looking for!
Did you read the 4th post? 
What’s the issue with it?
It's not what I'd call "sweet" personally. "
Okay. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also looking for a relationship on here. Life isn't all about sex, but swinging is such a big part of my life now I'm not sure if I could go back to Vanilla (monogamy no problem ).
What I'm looking for by the way is kooky, friendly, likes adventure, 23-43 around the Manchester area |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say there's more chance of a man finding a woman on here that wants more than a one off, than a woman finding a man.
A lot of men will tell you what you want to hear in order for them to get sex.
I stopped looking on here ages ago, it took me a while to realise I wouldn't find what I want here but I wish you every success. |
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A lot of men will tell you what you want to hear in order for them to get sex.
I stopped looking on here ages ago, it took me a while to realise I wouldn't find what I want here "
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You may get slammed but I pretty much agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say there's more chance of a man finding a woman on here that wants more than a one off, than a woman finding a man.
A lot of men will tell you what you want to hear in order for them to get sex.
I stopped looking on here ages ago, it took me a while to realise I wouldn't find what I want here but I wish you every success. "
There are some good ones as well we are just a rare breed. I started swinging cause I got tired of being messed about and cheated on so I'm always straight with people |
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By *scanioMan
over a year ago
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I get you! I think along the same lines to. I'm on POF which I think is a mine field, the girls will talk to you, then jump to the next guy. It's all talk, no dates. Similar to here.
Good luck pal.
If your boat doesn't come in, swim out to it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say there's more chance of a man finding a woman on here that wants more than a one off, than a woman finding a man.
A lot of men will tell you what you want to hear in order for them to get sex.
I stopped looking on here ages ago, it took me a while to realise I wouldn't find what I want here but I wish you every success. "
I agree completely with this.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Funny how you get cynics saying there’s no chance and this is the wrong place, then others mention how they found their partner on here.
I know the kind of lady I’d like and she won’t be a wall flower that’s for sure. Was going to say ‘she’s got to show some spunk about her’ but that might be misinterpreted in here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny how you get cynics saying there’s no chance and this is the wrong place, then others mention how they found their partner on here.
I know the kind of lady I’d like and she won’t be a wall flower that’s for sure. Was going to say ‘she’s got to show some spunk about her’ but that might be misinterpreted in here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say there's more chance of a man finding a woman on here that wants more than a one off, than a woman finding a man.
A lot of men will tell you what you want to hear in order for them to get sex.
I stopped looking on here ages ago, it took me a while to realise I wouldn't find what I want here but I wish you every success. "
Totally agree ! Would love to find something meaningful but I can’t even find a fwb !  |
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"Funny how you get cynics saying there’s no chance and this is the wrong place, then others mention how they found their partner on here.
I know the kind of lady I’d like and she won’t be a wall flower that’s for sure. Was going to say ‘she’s got to show some spunk about her’ but that might be misinterpreted in here
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Are there any more requirements than female and single? The ladies here are not exactly a broad section of society in my experience... |
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"Funny how you get cynics saying there’s no chance and this is the wrong place, then others mention how they found their partner on here.
I know the kind of lady I’d like and she won’t be a wall flower that’s for sure. Was going to say ‘she’s got to show some spunk about her’ but that might be misinterpreted in here
Are there any more requirements than female and single? The ladies here are not exactly a broad section of society in my experience... "
How do you mean? |
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"Funny how you get cynics saying there’s no chance and this is the wrong place, then others mention how they found their partner on here.
I know the kind of lady I’d like and she won’t be a wall flower that’s for sure. Was going to say ‘she’s got to show some spunk about her’ but that might be misinterpreted in here
Are there any more requirements than female and single? The ladies here are not exactly a broad section of society in my experience...
How do you mean?"
There's a lot of lefties on here. Despite swinging having slightly more right wing /conservative people according the surveys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Convential dating sites are a bit shit....and if your sexual preferences are a deal breaker (like they are for me) you end up wasting a lot of time.
I wish fab did a dating service, I know a few people who met through here so it is possible.
Good luck OP. I'd never have been brave enough to post this as a topic even though it would be the ideal outcome for me and my time on fab!"
I know what your saying I can't exactly post what I want on Pof match etc if someone came along I wouldn't be opposed to it
Fab dating now there's an idea although you'd still get married men on there pretending to be single |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fan Dating would be good. I'm more looking for a gf rather than an occasional fuck buddy too. Can't see it happening on here but you don't try you don't know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would like a fab bf as the vanilla dating sites don't work for me either. I hope to be loved up soon, but I am not holding my breath!"
in the same boat dating sites I find hard to get a good conversation out of girls on there
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would like a fab bf as the vanilla dating sites don't work for me either. I hope to be loved up soon, but I am not holding my breath!"
We could talk! I fit most of the criteria on your profile except for distance  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m sure you’ve all been eager to know if anything’s changed  . Well I’m all excited because last week I met a lovely lady in my local pub. Wow, have we connected!! Early days and all that but it looks like my days on here are numbered |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m sure you’ve all been eager to know if anything’s changed . Well I’m all excited because last week I met a lovely lady in my local pub. Wow, have we connected!! Early days and all that but it looks like my days on here are numbered "
Yay! I’m happy for you |
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"I’m sure you’ve all been eager to know if anything’s changed . Well I’m all excited because last week I met a lovely lady in my local pub. Wow, have we connected!! Early days and all that but it looks like my days on here are numbered "
Because you wouldn't want to be a couple on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn’t use fab as a dating site. Just because women are on here, it doesn’t mean they’re sexually confident. I met M on here, but that was a stroke of luck. It’s not something that happens all the time. Just keep trying on the more conventional sites.
L.
That’s a bit of a paradoxical statement
Well I wasn’t looking for love at the time. We met for a one off meet and ended up staying together. Neither of us were looking for love, but it just happened. You shouldn’t look for love, you should let love find you. "
This made me want to 
Sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m sure you’ve all been eager to know if anything’s changed . Well I’m all excited because last week I met a lovely lady in my local pub. Wow, have we connected!! Early days and all that but it looks like my days on here are numbered
Because you wouldn't want to be a couple on here "
Probably he wouldn't... What's wrong with that? Each to their own and all that surely? |
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"I’m sure you’ve all been eager to know if anything’s changed . Well I’m all excited because last week I met a lovely lady in my local pub. Wow, have we connected!! Early days and all that but it looks like my days on here are numbered
Because you wouldn't want to be a couple on here "
Maybe she doesn't. Should he force her? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m sure you’ve all been eager to know if anything’s changed . Well I’m all excited because last week I met a lovely lady in my local pub. Wow, have we connected!! Early days and all that but it looks like my days on here are numbered
Because you wouldn't want to be a couple on here "
Because I seriously doubt she’d be interested
Thanks everyone else!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m sure you’ve all been eager to know if anything’s changed . Well I’m all excited because last week I met a lovely lady in my local pub. Wow, have we connected!! Early days and all that but it looks like my days on here are numbered
Because you wouldn't want to be a couple on here
Because I seriously doubt she’d be interested
Thanks everyone else!!"
Good for you OP |
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"I’m sure you’ve all been eager to know if anything’s changed . Well I’m all excited because last week I met a lovely lady in my local pub. Wow, have we connected!! Early days and all that but it looks like my days on here are numbered
Because you wouldn't want to be a couple on here
Because I seriously doubt she’d be interested
Thanks everyone else!!"
Best of luck OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m sure you’ve all been eager to know if anything’s changed . Well I’m all excited because last week I met a lovely lady in my local pub. Wow, have we connected!! Early days and all that but it looks like my days on here are numbered
Because you wouldn't want to be a couple on here
Because I seriously doubt she’d be interested
Thanks everyone else!!"
Good luck! Hope it all goes well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m sure you’ve all been eager to know if anything’s changed . Well I’m all excited because last week I met a lovely lady in my local pub. Wow, have we connected!! Early days and all that but it looks like my days on here are numbered "
Yay! Hope she's all you wish for |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I’m sure you’ve all been eager to know if anything’s changed . Well I’m all excited because last week I met a lovely lady in my local pub. Wow, have we connected!! Early days and all that but it looks like my days on here are numbered
Because you wouldn't want to be a couple on here
Because I seriously doubt she’d be interested
Thanks everyone else!!"
I'm happy for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m sure you’ve all been eager to know if anything’s changed . Well I’m all excited because last week I met a lovely lady in my local pub. Wow, have we connected!! Early days and all that but it looks like my days on here are numbered "
Does she have a sister? Good luck to you both.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m sure you’ve all been eager to know if anything’s changed . Well I’m all excited because last week I met a lovely lady in my local pub. Wow, have we connected!! Early days and all that but it looks like my days on here are numbered
Because you wouldn't want to be a couple on here
Because I seriously doubt she’d be interested
Thanks everyone else!!"
So your not really wanting a woman who is into swinging..... So basically you were looking for a woman in the wrong place by looking on a swingers site.....what a narrow escape all the swinging single ladies on here have just had!!!!
Probably yet another guy who just used the site for casual shags with women he probably had no respect for while he was single and had no one else to shag. |
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"I’m sure you’ve all been eager to know if anything’s changed . Well I’m all excited because last week I met a lovely lady in my local pub. Wow, have we connected!! Early days and all that but it looks like my days on here are numbered
Because you wouldn't want to be a couple on here
Because I seriously doubt she’d be interested
Thanks everyone else!!
So your not really wanting a woman who is into swinging..... So basically you were looking for a woman in the wrong place by looking on a swingers site.....what a narrow escape all the swinging single ladies on here have just had!!!!
Probably yet another guy who just used the site for casual shags with women he probably had no respect for while he was single and had no one else to shag."
He said she wouldn’t be interested, not that he didn’t want it What a very strong opinion |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I’m sure you’ve all been eager to know if anything’s changed . Well I’m all excited because last week I met a lovely lady in my local pub. Wow, have we connected!! Early days and all that but it looks like my days on here are numbered
Because you wouldn't want to be a couple on here
Because I seriously doubt she’d be interested
Thanks everyone else!!
So your not really wanting a woman who is into swinging..... So basically you were looking for a woman in the wrong place by looking on a swingers site.....what a narrow escape all the swinging single ladies on here have just had!!!!
Probably yet another guy who just used the site for casual shags with women he probably had no respect for while he was single and had no one else to shag."
Wow! Quite an assumption you have made there! Not everyone is cut out for swinging! Plus new relationships takes time to establish themselves as it is never mind saying to them, do you still want to fuck other guys?
Sometimes the lack of common sense and sensitivity despairs me on here!
Maybe HE had the lucky escape! |
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"I’m sure you’ve all been eager to know if anything’s changed . Well I’m all excited because last week I met a lovely lady in my local pub. Wow, have we connected!! Early days and all that but it looks like my days on here are numbered
Because you wouldn't want to be a couple on here
Because I seriously doubt she’d be interested
Thanks everyone else!!
So your not really wanting a woman who is into swinging..... So basically you were looking for a woman in the wrong place by looking on a swingers site.....what a narrow escape all the swinging single ladies on here have just had!!!!
Probably yet another guy who just used the site for casual shags with women he probably had no respect for while he was single and had no one else to shag."
Gosh you sound bitter.
So if you met someone you really liked but they were dead against swinging you wouldn't pursue a relationship with them? |
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"I’m sure you’ve all been eager to know if anything’s changed . Well I’m all excited because last week I met a lovely lady in my local pub. Wow, have we connected!! Early days and all that but it looks like my days on here are numbered
Because you wouldn't want to be a couple on here
Because I seriously doubt she’d be interested
Thanks everyone else!!
So your not really wanting a woman who is into swinging..... So basically you were looking for a woman in the wrong place by looking on a swingers site.....what a narrow escape all the swinging single ladies on here have just had!!!!
Probably yet another guy who just used the site for casual shags with women he probably had no respect for while he was single and had no one else to shag.
Gosh you sound bitter.
So if you met someone you really liked but they were dead against swinging you wouldn't pursue a relationship with them? "
That's not really a conundrum for people who reject sexual monogamy. Which is what this site was built for. |
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"I’m sure you’ve all been eager to know if anything’s changed . Well I’m all excited because last week I met a lovely lady in my local pub. Wow, have we connected!! Early days and all that but it looks like my days on here are numbered
Because you wouldn't want to be a couple on here
Because I seriously doubt she’d be interested
Thanks everyone else!!
So your not really wanting a woman who is into swinging..... So basically you were looking for a woman in the wrong place by looking on a swingers site.....what a narrow escape all the swinging single ladies on here have just had!!!!
Probably yet another guy who just used the site for casual shags with women he probably had no respect for while he was single and had no one else to shag.
Gosh you sound bitter.
So if you met someone you really liked but they were dead against swinging you wouldn't pursue a relationship with them?
That's not really a conundrum for people who reject sexual monogamy. Which is what this site was built for. "
Oh..... Right
I'm too tired for swinger top trumps right now. |
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"I’m sure you’ve all been eager to know if anything’s changed . Well I’m all excited because last week I met a lovely lady in my local pub. Wow, have we connected!! Early days and all that but it looks like my days on here are numbered
Because you wouldn't want to be a couple on here
Because I seriously doubt she’d be interested
Thanks everyone else!!
So your not really wanting a woman who is into swinging..... So basically you were looking for a woman in the wrong place by looking on a swingers site.....what a narrow escape all the swinging single ladies on here have just had!!!!
Probably yet another guy who just used the site for casual shags with women he probably had no respect for while he was single and had no one else to shag.
Gosh you sound bitter.
So if you met someone you really liked but they were dead against swinging you wouldn't pursue a relationship with them?
That's not really a conundrum for people who reject sexual monogamy. Which is what this site was built for.
Oh..... Right
I'm too tired for swinger top trumps right now. "
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