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over a year ago
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Would someone having scars put you off
I used to have very pale skin which I was told was soft, (they could have been lying)
I've had gall bladder surgery and now have scars which I hate with a passion
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would someone having scars put you off
I used to have very pale skin which I was told was soft, (they could have been lying)
I've had gall bladder surgery and now have scars which I hate with a passion
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Learn to love them
Your issue with them will be bigger than it will be for those you meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It wouldn’t bother me in the slightest, I have a big scar from surgery too. Have you tried bio oil, it’s meant to be pretty good at reducing the appearance of scars. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It wouldn’t bother me in the slightest, I have a big scar from surgery too. Have you tried bio oil, it’s meant to be pretty good at reducing the appearance of scars. "
I will get some to try thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They don't bother me. I get it though, I developed a couple of proper lumpy big stretchmarks on my stomach earlier this year (after being stretchmark free my whole life) and although the redness has faded no one's seen me naked since they appeared so I'm pretty self conscious about them still. |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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Scars on other people don’t bother me and I have a large one running right down my middle. Since being on fab, I’m no longer embarrassed for people to see it. I’d be dead without it so if anyone doesn’t like it, that’s their problem not mine  |
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"Would someone having scars put you off
I used to have very pale skin which I was told was soft, (they could have been lying)
I've had gall bladder surgery and now have scars which I hate with a passion
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No. There are loads of reasons why someone can get hung up over their appearance. I think what trumps all of those is how a person feels about them self. If a person is confident, self confident, interesting, engaging, fun etc. then the attraction is to their sexiness as a person. Sex is mostly in the mind, isn't it?
So if you feel lacking in self confidence then act like those issues are invisible. Fake it until you make it.
Get out there and have some fun.
Might be more easily said then done, but you will inevitably get compliments along the way and they help boost your self esteem.
Least ways that's what I think.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a rather big scar across my gut just below my rib cage and it doesn't bother me one bit and i don't care if anyone else is bothered.
You should think the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not at all, I have lots of scars across my stomach, but without a few of them I wouldn’t be here. Nobody has ever said anything about any of them, not even the big one on my left boob so they mustn’t be very noticeable or put anyone off x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not a turn off at all, i have a long scar from an abdominal incision as well s large round scar near it which are slightly herniated in 3 places to boot and people don’t even notice it or at least pretend they don’t haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bio oil is good, rub it in quite hard as it breaks down the scar tissue. So my doc told me and it seemed to work.
Some things put me off meeting people but it's because I have a tendency to say stupid things and I'd probably offend the person.
People don't see the things that we see. That scar or stretch marks that you think is obvious- other people probably just see your amazing tits or cheerful smile. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Scars are the tattoos of life, I had quite a few good scars but recently acquired another which is 10” long right down the middle, it has gone keloid and looks very prominent, using bio oil daily as fairly self conscious of it, but without it, I wouldn’t be here. Each scar tells a story the story of our lives, early days for me but I am not hiding it from anyone, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would someone having scars put you off
I used to have very pale skin which I was told was soft, (they could have been lying)
I've had gall bladder surgery and now have scars which I hate with a passion
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I have scars not from any surgery but they are part of who I am I'm not ashamed of them. Mind there not visible
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"Would someone having scars put you off
I used to have very pale skin which I was told was soft, (they could have been lying)
I've had gall bladder surgery and now have scars which I hate with a passion
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Oooh! No! I love scars - I think they’re very sexy! |
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