Personally I don't get time to answer all my messages let alone messages from someone 200 miles away who I'm never going to meet...
I like to meet people socially and try and answer the messages I get from people I've met. |
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
so near and yet so far.... |
"Is it pointless winking or sending a message to someone miles away from your area?
Your views?
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I’d look and if of interest I’d send a wink back or heavens forbid a message but it does depend on distance x |
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I don’t even look at my winks. Unless someone who is from the forums messages me (and they’re miles away) I won’t reply to anyone who’s miles away. No point. I don’t travel and I don’t think I’d feel comfortable having someone travel miles and miles just to meet me. Feels too pressured. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t even look at my winks. Unless someone who is from the forums messages me (and they’re miles away) I won’t reply to anyone who’s miles away. No point. I don’t travel and I don’t think I’d feel comfortable having someone travel miles and miles just to meet me. Feels too pressured. "
if the connection is there might aswell go for it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t even look at my winks. Unless someone who is from the forums messages me (and they’re miles away) I won’t reply to anyone who’s miles away. No point. I don’t travel and I don’t think I’d feel comfortable having someone travel miles and miles just to meet me. Feels too pressured.
if the connection is there might aswell go for it "
Would still feel too pressured imo. I’m chatting to one person from England who I’m seriously considering meeting and he is willing to travel up. I’ve had a ‘connection’ with other people but I still wouldn’t feel comfortable at all |
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Yeah I don't understand people who randomly do it. I generally don't reply unless it's someone from the forums who I figure at least has seen me around and either thinks we'd get on to chat or would be worth making the effort for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Distance can be looked at as an adventure.
Depends on whether you like travelling and have a vehicle to get there, you are loaded and can splash out on train tickets or they are so gorgeous you'd break the bank just to meet them.
I came in the first option, I love driving my car any distance and love seeing new places |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Distance can be looked at as an adventure.
Depends on whether you like travelling and have a vehicle to get there, you are loaded and can splash out on train tickets or they are so gorgeous you'd break the bank just to meet them.
I came in the first option, I love driving my car any distance and love seeing new places "
I think someone quite liked their adventure down to London last September  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah I don't understand people who randomly do it. I generally don't reply unless it's someone from the forums who I figure at least has seen me around and either thinks we'd get on to chat or would be worth making the effort for. "
Yes that’s true I speak to people from the forums but otherwise I don’t. |
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