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To scared to talk on the phone!!!
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By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
A few days ago I was texting back and forth with someone and I decided to call them as something in my mind was telling me somthing wasn't right.
The person told me they were single and lived alone and would like to get to know me better and the minute I call they refused to answer the phone.
Has anyone else experienced this? His excuse was I caught him of guard hence him refusing to answer the call. |
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Some people just dont like talking on phone.
I probably wouldnt have answered either.
Even if its friends or family i cant get off the phone fast enough.
I wouldnt jump to the conclusion just yet that hs hiding anything.
Some people are just uncomfortable when it comes to phone talks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't have answered either
I hate talking on the phone with someone who is effectively a stranger..
If you don't think i am who i say i am fair enough but don't try and catch me out.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate talking on the phone to people I don't know. If I do talk it has to be on my terms when I'm ready. If someone rings me without permission I will tell them no. Of they do it again I block the - I don't live fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate talking on the phone and avoid at as much as possible unless I'm driving.
If I was texting someone new on Fab and they decided to call me I wouldn't answer it either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't have answered either
I hate talking on the phone with someone who is effectively a stranger..
If you don't think i am who i say i am fair enough but don't try and catch me out.. "
This for me too. Perhaps have the decency to ask them if it's convenient time for you to call them too before doing so. There could be a million and one reasons why they couldn't/wouldn't talk to you. |
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By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"He's married the next time you speak on the phone don't be surprised if he's standing next to the M25"
Tee hee I hear you hun. Yeah I don't get why texting is fine but the minute you say you would like to hear my voice so I call you don't answer puzzled me. Oh well his loss tee hee |
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"He's married the next time you speak on the phone don't be surprised if he's standing next to the M25
Tee hee I hear you hun. Yeah I don't get why texting is fine but the minute you say you would like to hear my voice so I call you don't answer puzzled me. Oh well his loss tee hee"
Should of teased him out with voice notes then hit him with the phone call about 10pm when the wife's going to bed |
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I regularly don't answer the phone, even with friends. I prefer to text and email.
Yesterday a friend of mine actually sent me a text (after I'd ignored her call) and said - "phone me, it's important!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm happy chatting on the phone in general but prefer texting those of here. Not sure how I'd feel if a fabber called me without agreement.
That said - never ignore that gut feeling |
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I find talking to people I don't know on the phone, quiet hard.
If someone I was texting from here was yo suddenly call me without warning, I wouldn't answer either.
Consider the possibility also of being with one of my children, a friend or being somewhere totaly impractical for a first time chat.
If someone wants yo talk yo me, it has to be when I say it's OK.
Doesn't mean I'm hiding anything.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think being on fab automatically makes some people suspicious of the slightest thing anyway..
I would wonder why a grown woman was saying 'tee hee' tbh as that sounds a bit creepy but what would i know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate talking on the phone too - for some reason, I just don't understand what the caller is saying, no matter how clear their speech is. I dislike phones in general, they always seem to ring when I don't want to talk to anyone or I'm busy, and the ringing just sounds like "TALK TO ME NOW, TALK TO ME NOW". Maybe I need a new ringtone  |
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By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"I think being on fab automatically makes some people suspicious of the slightest thing anyway..
I would wonder why a grown woman was saying 'tee hee' tbh as that sounds a bit creepy but what would i know"
So my laugh is different so what!!!! |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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We have had calls on what was on our play phone before now without warning, we ignored them. People have a life outside of Fab and are not always available to answer phones or even just don't want to. |
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By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"We have had calls on what was on our play phone before now without warning, we ignored them. People have a life outside of Fab and are not always available to answer phones or even just don't want to."
I'm confused....He asked to hear my voice and when I called he never answered, I didn't realise he meant schedule an appointment for the following week.
He clearly said "Can I hear your voice" maybe I misunderstood oh well such is life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't answer a call from someone I hadn't met without arranging a time to talk.
If they ring when I'm in a public place or with my family I'm not going to have a conversation with them in earshot of others, or have to disappear into my room to talk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have had calls on what was on our play phone before now without warning, we ignored them. People have a life outside of Fab and are not always available to answer phones or even just don't want to.
I'm confused....He asked to hear my voice and when I called he never answered, I didn't realise he meant schedule an appointment for the following week.
He clearly said "Can I hear your voice" maybe I misunderstood oh well such is life."
In your OP you said you called because "something in my mind was telling me somthing wasn't right", not because he asked you to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have had calls on what was on our play phone before now without warning, we ignored them. People have a life outside of Fab and are not always available to answer phones or even just don't want to.
I'm confused....He asked to hear my voice and when I called he never answered, I didn't realise he meant schedule an appointment for the following week.
He clearly said "Can I hear your voice" maybe I misunderstood oh well such is life."
Maybe he was expecting a "yes you may, is now a convenient time for me to ring you?" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A few days ago I was texting back and forth with someone and I decided to call them as something in my mind was telling me somthing wasn't right.
The person told me they were single and lived alone and would like to get to know me better and the minute I call they refused to answer the phone.
Has anyone else experienced this? His excuse was I caught him of guard hence him refusing to answer the call. "
I barely answer calls from my friends let alone a stranger I've only txt etc.
A whole load of reasons why he might have ignored you. Maybe got a Better offer.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have had calls on what was on our play phone before now without warning, we ignored them. People have a life outside of Fab and are not always available to answer phones or even just don't want to.
I'm confused....He asked to hear my voice and when I called he never answered, I didn't realise he meant schedule an appointment for the following week.
He clearly said "Can I hear your voice" maybe I misunderstood oh well such is life."
Sounds like he already cum and you was too late to call  |
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By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"We have had calls on what was on our play phone before now without warning, we ignored them. People have a life outside of Fab and are not always available to answer phones or even just don't want to.
I'm confused....He asked to hear my voice and when I called he never answered, I didn't realise he meant schedule an appointment for the following week.
He clearly said "Can I hear your voice" maybe I misunderstood oh well such is life.
Sounds like he already cum and you was too late to call "
~You're probably right as hes messaged me quite abit after. |
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"Some people just dont like talking on phone.
I probably wouldnt have answered either.
Even if its friends or family i cant get off the phone fast enough.
I wouldnt jump to the conclusion just yet that hs hiding anything.
Some people are just uncomfortable when it comes to phone talks"
This. I can talk on phone all day at work. Hate idle chit chat on the phone |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"A few days ago I was texting back and forth with someone and I decided to call them as something in my mind was telling me somthing wasn't right.
The person told me they were single and lived alone and would like to get to know me better and the minute I call they refused to answer the phone.
Has anyone else experienced this? His excuse was I caught him of guard hence him refusing to answer the call. "
What other things were telling you something wasn't right?
You might as well give the full story you've changed tack once already on the thread  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A few days ago I was texting back and forth with someone and I decided to call them as something in my mind was telling me somthing wasn't right.
The person told me they were single and lived alone and would like to get to know me better and the minute I call they refused to answer the phone.
Has anyone else experienced this? His excuse was I caught him of guard hence him refusing to answer the call. "
But he's "Fab single and living alone".
I saw a guy for a while who was genuinely single but he used a separate phone for swinging and when he had a real girlfriend he used to take the sim out of it and hide it in the loft to stop him being tempted.
It takes all kinds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A few days ago I was texting back and forth with someone and I decided to call them as something in my mind was telling me somthing wasn't right.
The person told me they were single and lived alone and would like to get to know me better and the minute I call they refused to answer the phone.
Has anyone else experienced this? His excuse was I caught him of guard hence him refusing to answer the call. "
could he have been at work or in dentist chair or with a meet or with his kids or bank manager or at a job interview |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are very few people I answer the phone to and even they get don't get answered sometimes. I'm normally doing 3 or 4 things at once, so talking on the phone wouldn't help. A text you can reply when you get a few seconds and then go back to doing other stuff. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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An unscheduled phone call would not have been answered by us either. We do sometimes if unsure about a profile as for a chat over the phone but always ask them to tell us when is convenient. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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There's only ever one side to a story on these threads .. though the story changed..like some have said they'd not answer as well.. and any reason a lady gives for not doing or won't do something I can pretty much say the same reason will apply to other genders as well
Single guy had posted a similar tale that he'd rung a lady unannounced there'd be a different reaction from some on this thread.
Single lady posts the same tale ..the guys obviously got lots to hide.. cheating already got his rocks off .. amazing how some folk think having a vagina makes you an angel and having a penis the devil.
Whatever the reason, he chose not to answer. He's given you a reason why he didn't .. you either believe him or not. |
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"I find talking to people I don't know on the phone, quiet hard.
If someone I was texting from here was yo suddenly call me without warning, I wouldn't answer either.
Consider the possibility also of being with one of my children, a friend or being somewhere totaly impractical for a first time chat.
If someone wants yo talk yo me, it has to be when I say it's OK.
Doesn't mean I'm hiding anything.
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This for me too!
I’m with my kids a lot of the time - or at work! In either case there’s no way on earth I’m going to pick up a call from someone from fab unless they’re one of my genuine friends - not just a potential shag!
It’s only manners to arrange a mutually convenient time to chat! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wont do phone calls ever. Ive got nothing to hide i just dont like talking to people if i cant see their facial expressions"
Ha hey talking on phone is a good way to judge character it's something I like doing
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wont do phone calls ever. Ive got nothing to hide i just dont like talking to people if i cant see their facial expressions"
Ha hey talking on phone is a good way to judge character it's something I like doing
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wont do phone calls ever. Ive got nothing to hide i just dont like talking to people if i cant see their facial expressions"
Ha hey talking on phone is a good way to judge character it's something I like doing
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's only ever one side to a story on these threads .. though the story changed..like some have said they'd not answer as well.. and any reason a lady gives for not doing or won't do something I can pretty much say the same reason will apply to other genders as well
Single guy had posted a similar tale that he'd rung a lady unannounced there'd be a different reaction from some on this thread.
Single lady posts the same tale ..the guys obviously got lots to hide.. cheating already got his rocks off .. amazing how some folk think having a vagina makes you an angel and having a penis the devil.
Whatever the reason, he chose not to answer. He's given you a reason why he didn't .. you either believe him or not."
hit the nail on the head there. It's all the white knights |
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He could have been somewhere that he couldn't speak openly, yes it's possible that he is up to no good, but if I had given someone my number to text me and they then called, I probably wouldn't have answered either. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Shitable is my new favorite word. 
Mine too
I'm going to try and use it in as many sentences as possible
I've been waiting for the opportunity today but it hasn't presented itself yet.  "
Not for me either! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A few days ago I was texting back and forth with someone and I decided to call them as something in my mind was telling me somthing wasn't right.
The person told me they were single and lived alone and would like to get to know me better and the minute I call they refused to answer the phone.
Has anyone else experienced this? His excuse was I caught him of guard hence him refusing to answer the call. "
Off guard. What is that even ment to mean?. I smell bs here 100%. Lexi |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"We have had calls on what was on our play phone before now without warning, we ignored them. People have a life outside of Fab and are not always available to answer phones or even just don't want to.
I'm confused....He asked to hear my voice and when I called he never answered, I didn't realise he meant schedule an appointment for the following week.
He clearly said "Can I hear your voice" maybe I misunderstood oh well such is life."
That isn't what you said in your OP |
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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago
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I wouldn't have answered my phone
either if I hadn't been expecting a call
but do like to have a little chat at
some point before going on a date or meet
as it helps to put both sides a bit more
at ease and can help to tell if you're
going to get on or not. |
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