As a single guy I get other single guys asking me. Meet me now and we can share my gf/wife
To me I think this is a hoax because in my eyes if you want to share your gf/wife wouldn’t you put yourself both as a couple. Not just the guy, surely get more responses and people actually thinking this is just a hoax
Have any of you guys experienced this and it’s 100% legit or are you a guy who genuinely does this and gets success. I’d want to see if this is genuine or bullocks. |
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I'm the same as you. My gut tells me it's a hoax and I'll treat it as such.
If a couple wants to invite me to play, they can at least start with a couples profile |
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It could be either a hoax or a clever way for a couple to keep their message load down (though they could always block all genders and just make contact with those that they like).
Many couples have their own separate profiles too - a guy could be tasked with finding someone he'd potentially be comfortable sharing his partner with, as he'll know her requirements.
Always in these situations ask to - as a minimum - have a phone chat with all parties that you'll be meeting.
Some guys are bi curious and a lot of straight listed guys do have fun with other guys: nothing wrong with that but it does mean that some go fishing, never really knowing who's listed as straight but may be situationally bi. Perhaps when you guys get the male who's purporting to be a couple, you could fish if they're really up for some man on man action, even if you're not open to it. (It could help to reveal if they're just trying it on). It seems incredibly stupid - not to mention extremely dishonest and disrespectful - to have anyone travel/arrange a meet, only to find that the other attendees are not the actual people you'd expect to meet, nor wanting what you are). |
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"As a single guy I get other single guys asking me. Meet me now and we can share my gf/wife
To me I think this is a hoax because in my eyes if you want to share your gf/wife wouldn’t you put yourself both as a couple. Not just the guy, surely get more responses and people actually thinking this is just a hoax
Have any of you guys experienced this and it’s 100% legit or are you a guy who genuinely does this and gets success. I’d want to see if this is genuine or bullocks. "
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"It could be either a hoax or a clever way for a couple to keep their message load down (though they could always block all genders and just make contact with those that they like).
Many couples have their own separate profiles too - a guy could be tasked with finding someone he'd potentially be comfortable sharing his partner with, as he'll know her requirements.
Always in these situations ask to - as a minimum - have a phone chat with all parties that you'll be meeting.
Some guys are bi curious and a lot of straight listed guys do have fun with other guys: nothing wrong with that but it does mean that some go fishing, never really knowing who's listed as straight but may be situationally bi. Perhaps when you guys get the male who's purporting to be a couple, you could fish if they're really up for some man on man action, even if you're not open to it. (It could help to reveal if they're just trying it on). It seems incredibly stupid - not to mention extremely dishonest and disrespectful - to have anyone travel/arrange a meet, only to find that the other attendees are not the actual people you'd expect to meet, nor wanting what you are)."
But majority of the time these guys are listed as “straight males” if there were a description in the profile as to say there in a relationship (which I know 80% of guys will never admit) then I’d be like okay maybe. But know we have a lovely feature of direct picture message, if they’re trying to hide their woman and want to fish more efficiently. Wouldn’t you want to be believable and I think just sending a pic of the female would be more believable (doesn’t have to even be a pic of her face) just to let you know she exists |
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"It could be either a hoax or a clever way for a couple to keep their message load down (though they could always block all genders and just make contact with those that they like).
Many couples have their own separate profiles too - a guy could be tasked with finding someone he'd potentially be comfortable sharing his partner with, as he'll know her requirements.
Always in these situations ask to - as a minimum - have a phone chat with all parties that you'll be meeting.
Some guys are bi curious and a lot of straight listed guys do have fun with other guys: nothing wrong with that but it does mean that some go fishing, never really knowing who's listed as straight but may be situationally bi. Perhaps when you guys get the male who's purporting to be a couple, you could fish if they're really up for some man on man action, even if you're not open to it. (It could help to reveal if they're just trying it on). It seems incredibly stupid - not to mention extremely dishonest and disrespectful - to have anyone travel/arrange a meet, only to find that the other attendees are not the actual people you'd expect to meet, nor wanting what you are).
But majority of the time these guys are listed as “straight males” if there were a description in the profile as to say there in a relationship (which I know 80% of guys will never admit) then I’d be like okay maybe. But know we have a lovely feature of direct picture message, if they’re trying to hide their woman and want to fish more efficiently. Wouldn’t you want to be believable and I think just sending a pic of the female would be more believable (doesn’t have to even be a pic of her face) just to let you know she exists "
Not just a pic of the female as it is easy to find one but a pick of both together that's harder to fabricate. |
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"It could be either a hoax or a clever way for a couple to keep their message load down (though they could always block all genders and just make contact with those that they like).
Many couples have their own separate profiles too - a guy could be tasked with finding someone he'd potentially be comfortable sharing his partner with, as he'll know her requirements.
Always in these situations ask to - as a minimum - have a phone chat with all parties that you'll be meeting.
Some guys are bi curious and a lot of straight listed guys do have fun with other guys: nothing wrong with that but it does mean that some go fishing, never really knowing who's listed as straight but may be situationally bi. Perhaps when you guys get the male who's purporting to be a couple, you could fish if they're really up for some man on man action, even if you're not open to it. (It could help to reveal if they're just trying it on). It seems incredibly stupid - not to mention extremely dishonest and disrespectful - to have anyone travel/arrange a meet, only to find that the other attendees are not the actual people you'd expect to meet, nor wanting what you are).
But majority of the time these guys are listed as “straight males” if there were a description in the profile as to say there in a relationship (which I know 80% of guys will never admit) then I’d be like okay maybe. But know we have a lovely feature of direct picture message, if they’re trying to hide their woman and want to fish more efficiently. Wouldn’t you want to be believable and I think just sending a pic of the female would be more believable (doesn’t have to even be a pic of her face) just to let you know she exists
Not just a pic of the female as it is easy to find one but a pick of both together that's harder to fabricate."
yeah and this aswell |
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99.9% of the time yeah, it’s a hoax. However, sometimes if I’m with a girl and it’s a spur of the moment thing, I’d use my own account to find a third. No point setting up a couples account for a one off and I’m not interested in single guys for just me anyway. |
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It's like the men who message me from a couples profile saying their 'wife is no longer playing and he has permission play alone' ..
I often wonder if its not just a single man trying his luck..
Either way i never respond |
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"It could be either a hoax or a clever way for a couple to keep their message load down (though they could always block all genders and just make contact with those that they like).
Many couples have their own separate profiles too - a guy could be tasked with finding someone he'd potentially be comfortable sharing his partner with, as he'll know her requirements.
Always in these situations ask to - as a minimum - have a phone chat with all parties that you'll be meeting.
Some guys are bi curious and a lot of straight listed guys do have fun with other guys: nothing wrong with that but it does mean that some go fishing, never really knowing who's listed as straight but may be situationally bi. Perhaps when you guys get the male who's purporting to be a couple, you could fish if they're really up for some man on man action, even if you're not open to it. (It could help to reveal if they're just trying it on). It seems incredibly stupid - not to mention extremely dishonest and disrespectful - to have anyone travel/arrange a meet, only to find that the other attendees are not the actual people you'd expect to meet, nor wanting what you are).
But majority of the time these guys are listed as “straight males” if there were a description in the profile as to say there in a relationship (which I know 80% of guys will never admit) then I’d be like okay maybe. But know we have a lovely feature of direct picture message, if they’re trying to hide their woman and want to fish more efficiently. Wouldn’t you want to be believable and I think just sending a pic of the female would be more believable (doesn’t have to even be a pic of her face) just to let you know she exists
Not just a pic of the female as it is easy to find one but a pick of both together that's harder to fabricate."
It's a great way to suss them out. |
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