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Why guys dont let there Mrs play with BBC

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why do some guys stop there wife from playing with Black men when its clear to she that they have a soft spot for Black men. Ive never got this, can someone fill me in please. Hopefully someone has a wife who like Black men and they dont allow her to play with them. Id like to hear a man Point of views...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do some guys stop there wife from playing with Black men when its clear to she that they have a soft spot for Black men. Ive never got this, can someone fill me in please. Hopefully someone has a wife who like Black men and they dont allow her to play with them. Id like to hear a man Point of views..."

Personal choice?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone knows you never give the wife the tv remote

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

People sort out what they are comfortable with between the two of them.

Some men will actively encourage their partner to play with men regardless of the race.

Some people will prefer their partner to play with one race or another, some people find different things visually enticing and others don't.

I don't know anything about not letting somebody else do something, I think it's more about communicating what works between the two or more people involved, and sticking to an agreement.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 22/09/18 12:03:59]"

I read that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I do get it when it a personal choice on both be half. What i dont get is when the women like Black men but then the hubby doesnt want to see her play with a Black man

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By *rsSBWoman over a year ago

toy town

"I do get it when it a personal choice on both be half. What i dont get is when the women like Black men but then the hubby doesnt want to see her play with a Black man "

Because he doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do get it when it a personal choice on both be half. What i dont get is when the women like Black men but then the hubby doesnt want to see her play with a Black man "

Respect for each other's wishes then I suppose?...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do get it when it a personal choice on both be half. What i dont get is when the women like Black men but then the hubby doesnt want to see her play with a Black man "

And what would you like us do about this black and white matter?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do get it when it a personal choice on both be half. What i dont get is when the women like Black men but then the hubby doesnt want to see her play with a Black man "

Because he's a controlling knob.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I do get it when it a personal choice on both be half. What i dont get is when the women like Black men but then the hubby doesnt want to see her play with a Black man

Because he's a controlling knob."

Exactly lol

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By *rsSBWoman over a year ago

toy town

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you love BBC, raise your glass! If you don't, then raise your standards!!!

Quoting from your profile you obviously don't understand people have preference and have a paddy over rejection.... You need thick skin

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person.."

I think for couples it's about communicating and compromising so both feel happy with anything they do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do get it when it a personal choice on both be half. What i dont get is when the women like Black men but then the hubby doesnt want to see her play with a Black man

Because he's a controlling knob.

Exactly lol"

What a crock of shite surely they both get a say same as anyone they choose to meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do get it when it a personal choice on both be half. What i dont get is when the women like Black men but then the hubby doesnt want to see her play with a Black man

Because he's a controlling knob.

Exactly lol"

She says what men want to hear

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By *rsSBWoman over a year ago

toy town

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person.."

If you don't get that their marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do get it when it a personal choice on both be half. What i dont get is when the women like Black men but then the hubby doesnt want to see her play with a Black man

Because he's a controlling knob.

Exactly lol"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do get it when it a personal choice on both be half. What i dont get is when the women like Black men but then the hubby doesnt want to see her play with a Black man

Because he's a controlling knob.

Exactly lol"

Which is why I am single. I don't want someone dictating to me who I can have sex with or what I can do with them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

I think for couples it's about communicating and compromising so both feel happy with anything they do. "

A bit like brexit. Isn’t it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that their marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you"

Why does it matter to the man that she wants black men is what I'd have to ask.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that their marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you"

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it the same as women not wanting their men to have sex with women they think are better looking than them?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction.."

They have issues, leave them to it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction.."

Not if it leave him unhappy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it the same as women not wanting their men to have sex with women they think are better looking than them?"

Yes precisely Or have bigger boobs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction.."

So you are saying that as long as one person is happy it doesn’t matter how miserable the other is?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction..

So you are saying that as long as one person is happy it doesn’t matter how miserable the other is?"

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person.."

And if you're swinging in a relationship the relationship comes first. Couples set their boundaries together. If it's a no, it's a no. Just the way it goes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction.."

I wouldn't play with someone my partner wasn't happy about, it's never been because of skin colour but the fact if my hubby thinks someone's a cock then it wouldn't happen, even if he had a huge asset.

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

What makes you think she’s in to BBC?

It’s nit my thing and I’m single. It’s my choice it may also be the wife’s decision.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction..

So you are saying that as long as one person is happy it doesn’t matter how miserable the other is?"

No not at all but if you know that your partner likes cake when it comes to ordering dessert are you going to say no cake. So why do guys so it with men

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

"People sort out what they are comfortable with between the two of them.

Some men will actively encourage their partner to play with men regardless of the race.

Some people will prefer their partner to play with one race or another, some people find different things visually enticing and others don't.

I don't know anything about not letting somebody else do something, I think it's more about communicating what works between the two or more people involved, and sticking to an agreement."

There's the answer, end of thread!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Me thinks the OP has a one sided slant on things

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What makes you think she’s in to BBC?

It’s nit my thing and I’m single. It’s my choice it may also be the wife’s decision. "

How about Brown Average Cock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surely if the woman like to play with black men then she should. If she's allowing her husband to dictate who she can or can't play with then that's just ridiculous.

Isn't swinging meant to be about both people in a couple having their wants and needs satisfied?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never LET my wife do anything, she does what she wants and not what she doesn't.

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

"..

No not at all but if you know that your partner likes cake when it comes to ordering dessert are you going to say no cake. So why do guys so it with men"

Because this lifestyle for couples is a joint enterprise, it's a 'cake' both parties need to enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What makes you think she’s in to BBC?

It’s nit my thing and I’m single. It’s my choice it may also be the wife’s decision. "

If your not into BBC then thats your personal choice.im talking about when they are and there partner dont want to see them have what they like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personal preference maybe

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I never LET my wife do anything, she does what she wants and not what she doesn't. "

Thank you this is how guys are suppossed to approach this situation

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"..

No not at all but if you know that your partner likes cake when it comes to ordering dessert are you going to say no cake. So why do guys so it with men

Because this lifestyle for couples is a joint enterprise, it's a 'cake' both parties need to enjoy."

Yeah, dessert is a lousy analogy. It's more like, what colour to paint the living room. He has to live with it too.

But a no is non negotiable regardless of the reason OP.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Has it occurred to everyone that OP might be trolling

Hey

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I never LET my wife do anything, she does what she wants and not what she doesn't. "

Generally all women not just wives

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You know ... It may even not be the truth.

It could be because ur more well endowed than him and he doesnt want to say that.

It could be because ur taller, or shorter , etc etc.

Dont believe everything people tell you if its not what you want to hear.

Its a shame and can be hurtfull to be rejected but a place like this? Well you do need to try and grow a thicker skin and just not care if your rejected for whatever reason.

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By *opman1111Man over a year ago

belfast

What is this statement based on?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also, if the woman is talking to you without the man knowing you should block her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Also, if the woman is talking to you without the man knowing you should block her."

NO NO NO Noooooooo

Block her

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You know ... It may even not be the truth.

It could be because ur more well endowed than him and he doesnt want to say that.

It could be because ur taller, or shorter , etc etc.

Dont believe everything people tell you if its not what you want to hear.

Its a shame and can be hurtfull to be rejected but a place like this? Well you do need to try and grow a thicker skin and just not care if your rejected for whatever reason."

Oh Babe i dont care about regection thats just a part of life. I can handle that well i know im not everyone cup of tea but ive been to a few clubs and sorry to blow my own trumpet but im a good looking guy. And its not hard to tell when a women is interested. What i dont get is when the partner gets into a him because of what i look like. But Aint that what your partner is attracted too. I dont get it

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

"I never LET my wife do anything, she does what she wants and not what she doesn't.

Thank you this is how guys are suppossed to approach this situation "

You'll find each individual will approach a situation in a way that suits their interests.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Meh personal choice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thinking about it, there are times when she gets me to get rid of persistent pests in clubs, especially if her eye is on someone else. Which may be perceived as me stopping their fun, but is only at her request.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I never LET my wife do anything, she does what she wants and not what she doesn't.

Thank you this is how guys are suppossed to approach this situation

You'll find each individual will approach a situation in a way that suits their interests."

Their or his?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thinking about it, there are times when she gets me to get rid of persistent pests in clubs, especially if her eye is on someone else. Which may be perceived as me stopping their fun, but is only at her request."

Is she not capable of doing it herself?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you are a white or Asian man with a wife who prefers black cock, then you married the wrong woman. How the fuck did that happen? I dunno, but the divorce papers should be on their way soon methinks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You know ... It may even not be the truth.

It could be because ur more well endowed than him and he doesnt want to say that.

It could be because ur taller, or shorter , etc etc.

Dont believe everything people tell you if its not what you want to hear.

Its a shame and can be hurtfull to be rejected but a place like this? Well you do need to try and grow a thicker skin and just not care if your rejected for whatever reason.

Youd think so wouldnt you.

Its most odd.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everyone knows you never give the wife the tv remote"

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you are a white or Asian man with a wife who prefers black cock, then you married the wrong woman. How the fuck did that happen? I dunno, but the divorce papers should be on their way soon methinks."

I’ve thought this before that if a woman loves black men so much that she only meets black men then why not marry a black man

#justwondering

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By *G CoupleCouple over a year ago

kent

"I never LET my wife do anything, she does what she wants and not what she doesn't.

Thank you this is how guys are suppossed to approach this situation "

If 1 of us isn’t happy about a situation, it won’t happen, doesn’t matter how much 1 of us wants it. If we both aren’t happy then it won’t be happening.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No one said prefers but you can still love someone and prefer a different cock to his. Cocks are just a body part, they aren't the person.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anyone feel likes this is going in circles?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why is that...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Anyone feel likes this is going in circles?

Well feel free to go comment on another forum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No one said prefers but you can still love someone and prefer a different cock to his. Cocks are just a body part, they aren't the person. "

So do you have sex with a cock or a person?

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By * and BCouple over a year ago

Durham

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction.."

Never ever take one for the team, we are a team

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everyone knows you never give the wife the tv remote"

this haha

no but on a serious note to each his own i guess

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone feel likes this is going in circles?

Well feel free to go comment on another forum"

So why ask for people's opinions and then stonewall those whose views don't fall in line with yours?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone feel likes this is going in circles?

Well feel free to go comment on another forum

So why ask for people's opinions and then stonewall those whose views don't fall in line with yours?

Feel free to post this on another thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No one said prefers but you can still love someone and prefer a different cock to his. Cocks are just a body part, they aren't the person.

So do you have sex with a cock or a person? "

The person and he uses his whole body. If I just wanted a cock I would buy one.

Why do married women buy big black dildos? Or dildos that are bigger than their partner's?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No one said prefers but you can still love someone and prefer a different cock to his. Cocks are just a body part, they aren't the person.

So do you have sex with a cock or a person?

The person and he uses his whole body. If I just wanted a cock I would buy one.

Why do married women buy big black dildos? Or dildos that are bigger than their partner's?"

Because pussies stretch and cocks shrink

That’s just physics

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

for me i wouldnt her play with you because the smiley yellow face. I prefer the meh look. we all like different things

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By *ain n MableWoman over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Maybe it's got nothing to do with the colour of skin but the personality? I'll let my wife play with any guy as long as he's not a twat.

And when I say "Let" it's not because I control but because we have an agreement that we both have to be happy with a play partner. That works for both of us.

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By *illyjohnyCouple over a year ago

brighton

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person.."

Not if the husband is not comfortable with it , They have to live together so it's a compromise that has to be accepted by the women , a lot of couples the women isn't comfortable seeing her guy play with another woman so they don't and he has to accept that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We only do what we are both happy with, this is our adventure,our pleasure,so if 1 of us isn't happy then it's a no go, it really is as simple as that!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

That's a very harah and unfair compromise to expect someone to make if his wife is having fun with other guys. Which guy would happily do that, not many men I know would accept that.

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

I don't stop Jayne playing with anyone.... I don't own her, I cant dictate who she plays with.

We discuss potential playmates, and if we are playing together we obviously take each others preferences into account.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No one said prefers but you can still love someone and prefer a different cock to his. Cocks are just a body part, they aren't the person. "

So why does it matter what colour it is?

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By *horecruxCouple over a year ago

SE4

Why don't BBCs ever have they own misses

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By *rsSBWoman over a year ago

toy town

If you don't get that their marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why don't BBCs ever have they own misses

Good question.. you should post a thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction..

So you are saying that as long as one person is happy it doesn’t matter how miserable the other is?

No not at all but if you know that your partner likes cake when it comes to ordering dessert are you going to say no cake. So why do guys so it with men"

Eating some cake and letting someone penetrate your partner are worlds apart.

If you equate the two then you need to have a little think about things.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you don't get that their marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you"

Shall I change my username to random dude?

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By *rsSBWoman over a year ago

toy town

If you don't get that their marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

Shall I change my username to random dude? "

Tots

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you don't get that their marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

Shall I change my username to random dude?

Tots

What?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction..

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction.."

Says the man that used the word 'let'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you don't get that their marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

Shall I change my username to random dude?

Tots

What? "

I think it’s Spanish for ‘go ahead’

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you don't get that their marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

Shall I change my username to random dude?

Tots

What?

I think it’s Spanish for ‘go ahead’

Jolly good then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person.."

Not necessarily

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction..

Says the man that used the word 'let'"

Or even 'allow'

Lol

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By *horecruxCouple over a year ago

SE4

"Why don't BBCs ever have they own misses

Good question.. you should post a thread

I cnt spell

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By *rsSBWoman over a year ago

toy town

If you don't get that their marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

Shall I change my username to random dude?

Tots

What?

I think it’s Spanish for ‘go ahead’

Jolly good then

Correcto

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why don't BBCs ever have they own misses

Good question.. you should post a thread

I cnt spell"

Somebody will correct you

Can’t**

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"Why don't BBCs ever have they own misses

Maybe they take their marriage vows more seriously!

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By *rsSBWoman over a year ago

toy town

"Why don't BBCs ever have they own misses

Maybe they take their marriage vows more seriously!

That's what I said.

About time you show up.

Piss head

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why don't BBCs ever have they own misses

Maybe they take their marriage vows more seriously!

my tea is on the floor

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction..

So you are saying that as long as one person is happy it doesn’t matter how miserable the other is?

No not at all but if you know that your partner likes cake when it comes to ordering dessert are you going to say no cake. So why do guys so it with men

Eating some cake and letting someone penetrate your partner are worlds apart.

If you equate the two then you need to have a little think about things."

There u go you just sound like then typical selfish men on here. Its got nothing to do with the object ie cake Or BBC its all to do with what a particular person like and another person not wanting then to enjoy what they like

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By *eah BabyCouple over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"What makes you think she’s in to BBC?

It’s nit my thing and I’m single. It’s my choice it may also be the wife’s decision.

If your not into BBC then thats your personal choice.im talking about when they are and there partner dont want to see them have what they like."

In our experience as a couple it's usually the female who calls the shots on here so maybe she's just spinning you a line

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By *horecruxCouple over a year ago

SE4

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction..

So you are saying that as long as one person is happy it doesn’t matter how miserable the other is?

No not at all but if you know that your partner likes cake when it comes to ordering dessert are you going to say no cake. So why do guys so it with men

Eating some cake and letting someone penetrate your partner are worlds apart.

If you equate the two then you need to have a little think about things.

Buuuuut if they liked it that much why get married to a vanilla chap

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone feel likes this is going in circles?

No. I haven't seen a man explain why he doesn't want his wife to fuck a black man, when she wants to.

Give reasons. Explain and don't just say it's preferences.

It's been said that women don't allow their men to meet certain women our of jealousy. Is that the case for the men too?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Anyone feel likes this is going in circles?

No. I haven't seen a man explain why he doesn't want his wife to fuck a black man, when she wants to.

Give reasons. Explain and don't just say it's preferences.

It's been said that women don't allow their men to meet certain women our of jealousy. Is that the case for the men too?"

I think so i just think no guys are man enough to admit that

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By *horecruxCouple over a year ago

SE4

Let's face it maybe it's not husband... maybe you are just a toy and she doesn't need to play with you that often because she has "the real" thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone feel likes this is going in circles?

No. I haven't seen a man explain why he doesn't want his wife to fuck a black man, when she wants to.

Give reasons. Explain and don't just say it's preferences.

It's been said that women don't allow their men to meet certain women our of jealousy. Is that the case for the men too?"

What else could it be?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction..

So you are saying that as long as one person is happy it doesn’t matter how miserable the other is?

No not at all but if you know that your partner likes cake when it comes to ordering dessert are you going to say no cake. So why do guys so it with men

Eating some cake and letting someone penetrate your partner are worlds apart.

If you equate the two then you need to have a little think about things.

Yep - exactly that

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple over a year ago

Maidstone

"Why don't BBCs ever have they own misses

Haha... probably because their only asset is their BBC! Some of them seem obsessed with boasting about it. I’ve got nothing against a black man but if the only decent thing about him is his cock then he’s not likely to attract anyone long term. And I don’t get how a big black cock feels or performs any differently to a big white cock.

I’d guess the real reason the husband wasn’t keen for his wife to play with the OP was more to do with arrogance and entitlement than skin colour.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Lmfao good one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No one said prefers but you can still love someone and prefer a different cock to his. Cocks are just a body part, they aren't the person.

So why does it matter what colour it is?"

A change from what they get all day every day maybe?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone feel likes this is going in circles?

No. I haven't seen a man explain why he doesn't want his wife to fuck a black man, when she wants to.

Give reasons. Explain and don't just say it's preferences.

It's been said that women don't allow their men to meet certain women our of jealousy. Is that the case for the men too?"

Maybe because his wife has diabetes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What makes you think she’s in to BBC?

It’s nit my thing and I’m single. It’s my choice it may also be the wife’s decision.

How about Brown Average Cock

Haha - shouldn’t that be ABC ???...

Average Brown/Black Cock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What makes you think she’s in to BBC?

It’s nit my thing and I’m single. It’s my choice it may also be the wife’s decision.

How about Brown Average Cock

Haha - shouldn’t that be ABC ???...

Average Brown/Black Cock

Brown is not black

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone feel likes this is going in circles?

No. I haven't seen a man explain why he doesn't want his wife to fuck a black man, when she wants to.

Give reasons. Explain and don't just say it's preferences.

It's been said that women don't allow their men to meet certain women our of jealousy. Is that the case for the men too?

Maybe because his wife has diabetes

I have no idea what you're on about Narnaman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why don't BBCs ever have they own misses

I’d guess the real reason the husband wasn’t keen for his wife to play with the OP was more to do with arrogance and entitlement than skin colour.

Lou x "

Mate im far from arrogant if you dont want to play that fine by me. never have struggle to find women and i dont think i will and thats not arrogance that confidence. And just for the record i have alot more to offer than my BBC to offer. My BBC is just a bonus

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple over a year ago

Chester

Who stops them!

We make our own choices, hot irrespective of race, variety is the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone feel likes this is going in circles?

No. I haven't seen a man explain why he doesn't want his wife to fuck a black man, when she wants to.

Give reasons. Explain and don't just say it's preferences.

It's been said that women don't allow their men to meet certain women our of jealousy. Is that the case for the men too?

Maybe because his wife has diabetes

I have no idea what you're on about Narnaman."

Can let her have chocolate if she has diabetes.. see?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I;d be fucking furious if my partner shagged someone that I clearly wasn;t comfortable with. And I;d expect exactly the same if I fucked someone she wasn;t 100% comfortable with me playing with.

And that has fuck all to do with someone being a BBC or not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone feel likes this is going in circles?

No. I haven't seen a man explain why he doesn't want his wife to fuck a black man, when she wants to.

Give reasons. Explain and don't just say it's preferences.

It's been said that women don't allow their men to meet certain women our of jealousy. Is that the case for the men too?

Maybe because his wife has diabetes

I have no idea what you're on about Narnaman.

Can let her have chocolate if she has diabetes.. see?! "

Cant**

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What makes you think she’s in to BBC?

It’s nit my thing and I’m single. It’s my choice it may also be the wife’s decision.

How about Brown Average Cock

Haha - shouldn’t that be ABC ???...

Average Brown/Black Cock

Brown is not black "

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

really.... we still having these BBC conversations....

I do despair on both sides....

same shit different day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"really.... we still having these BBC conversations....

I do despair on both sides....

same shit different day"

I’m sorry you had to see this Fabio

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"really.... we still having these BBC conversations....

I do despair on both sides....

same shit different day"
Well what you know doesn't hurt you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"really.... we still having these BBC conversations....

I do despair on both sides....

same shit different day"

I know i hate paying tv license too

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction..

So you are saying that as long as one person is happy it doesn’t matter how miserable the other is?

No not at all but if you know that your partner likes cake when it comes to ordering dessert are you going to say no cake. So why do guys so it with men

Eating some cake and letting someone penetrate your partner are worlds apart.

If you equate the two then you need to have a little think about things.

Yep - exactly that

I enjoy your tinky winky sweetheart, you aren’t going to deny me are you?

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By * and BCouple over a year ago

Durham

Another point to note. We don't like people who love themselves

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"really.... we still having these BBC conversations....

I do despair on both sides....

same shit different day

Well what you know doesn't hurt you "

its never going away...

I feel sorry for those who feel the need to play it up for some advantage

I feel sorry for those who look at it as some of niche...

i feel sorry for those who use it like a chip on the shoulder... or use it to use the race card....

does that about cover it all....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction..

So you are saying that as long as one person is happy it doesn’t matter how miserable the other is?

No not at all but if you know that your partner likes cake when it comes to ordering dessert are you going to say no cake. So why do guys so it with men

Eating some cake and letting someone penetrate your partner are worlds apart.

If you equate the two then you need to have a little think about things.

Yep - exactly that

I enjoy your tinky winky sweetheart, you aren’t going to deny me are you?

Never, my darling

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction..

So you are saying that as long as one person is happy it doesn’t matter how miserable the other is?

No not at all but if you know that your partner likes cake when it comes to ordering dessert are you going to say no cake. So why do guys so it with men

Eating some cake and letting someone penetrate your partner are worlds apart.

If you equate the two then you need to have a little think about things.

Man not letting you fuck his partner is selfish.

But obviously you wanting to fuck his partner even though he's npt keen, that;s not at all selfish is it?

Probably the easiest way to guarantee a MMF fails to happen is to show a lack of respect for a couple's relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"really.... we still having these BBC conversations....

I do despair on both sides....

same shit different day

Well what you know doesn't hurt you

its never going away...

I feel sorry for those who feel the need to play it up for some advantage

I feel sorry for those who look at it as some of niche...

i feel sorry for those who use it like a chip on the shoulder... or use it to use the race card....

does that about cover it all...."

If a woman showed an interest in you, at a club say, and her husband came over and said sorry, I don't allow her to have sex with black men, would you not wonder why?

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction..

So you are saying that as long as one person is happy it doesn’t matter how miserable the other is?

No not at all but if you know that your partner likes cake when it comes to ordering dessert are you going to say no cake. So why do guys so it with men

Eating some cake and letting someone penetrate your partner are worlds apart.

If you equate the two then you need to have a little think about things.

Yep - exactly that

I enjoy your tinky winky sweetheart, you aren’t going to deny me are you?

Never, my darling

*Swoon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does she have to fuck a BBC or can it be an ABC too?

Asking for a friend

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By *bonynivoryCouple over a year ago

market harborough

"I do get it when it a personal choice on both be half. What i dont get is when the women like Black men but then the hubby doesnt want to see her play with a Black man "

Do you like your girlfriend to play with white men?

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"really.... we still having these BBC conversations....

I do despair on both sides....

same shit different day

Well what you know doesn't hurt you

its never going away...

I feel sorry for those who feel the need to play it up for some advantage

I feel sorry for those who look at it as some of niche...

i feel sorry for those who use it like a chip on the shoulder... or use it to use the race card....

does that about cover it all....

If a woman showed an interest in you, at a club say, and her husband came over and said sorry, I don't allow her to have sex with black men, would you not wonder why? "

if i am talking to a couple in a club

a) id be talking to them both at the same time.....

b) at that point if one of them wasn't feeling it..... i'd already know!!

i tell people in clubs all the time "don't take one for the team"..... if one of them aint feeling it for any reason....i wouldn't want them to just go thru the motions....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction..

So you are saying that as long as one person is happy it doesn’t matter how miserable the other is?

No not at all but if you know that your partner likes cake when it comes to ordering dessert are you going to say no cake. So why do guys so it with men

Eating some cake and letting someone penetrate your partner are worlds apart.

If you equate the two then you need to have a little think about things.

Man not letting you fuck his partner is selfish.

But obviously you wanting to fuck his partner even though he's npt keen, that;s not at all selfish is it?

Probably the easiest way to guarantee a MMF fails to happen is to show a lack of respect for a couple's relationship."

Mate before you comment on the post read the question properly. For example if you seen another female that YOU want to engage with BUT YOUR PARTNER doesn’t purley because she has bigger titts than your partner is that not selfish on your partner behalf

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does she have to fuck a BBC or can it be an ABC too?

Asking for a friend "

What’s ABC? Average brown cock?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"really.... we still having these BBC conversations....

I do despair on both sides....

same shit different day

Well what you know doesn't hurt you

its never going away...

I feel sorry for those who feel the need to play it up for some advantage

I feel sorry for those who look at it as some of niche...

i feel sorry for those who use it like a chip on the shoulder... or use it to use the race card....

does that about cover it all...."
It's just about antagonism just ignore it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"really.... we still having these BBC conversations....

I do despair on both sides....

same shit different day

Well what you know doesn't hurt you

its never going away...

I feel sorry for those who feel the need to play it up for some advantage

I feel sorry for those who look at it as some of niche...

i feel sorry for those who use it like a chip on the shoulder... or use it to use the race card....

does that about cover it all...."

I think so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction..

So you are saying that as long as one person is happy it doesn’t matter how miserable the other is?

No not at all but if you know that your partner likes cake when it comes to ordering dessert are you going to say no cake. So why do guys so it with men

Eating some cake and letting someone penetrate your partner are worlds apart.

If you equate the two then you need to have a little think about things.

Man not letting you fuck his partner is selfish.

But obviously you wanting to fuck his partner even though he's npt keen, that;s not at all selfish is it?

Probably the easiest way to guarantee a MMF fails to happen is to show a lack of respect for a couple's relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does she have to fuck a BBC or can it be an ABC too?

Asking for a friend

What’s ABC? Average brown cock?"

Jackson cock.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction..

Pmsl direct as ever

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does she have to fuck a BBC or can it be an ABC too?

Asking for a friend

What’s ABC? Average brown cock?

Jackson cock."

Michael Jackson?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction..

So you are saying that as long as one person is happy it doesn’t matter how miserable the other is?

No not at all but if you know that your partner likes cake when it comes to ordering dessert are you going to say no cake. So why do guys so it with men

Eating some cake and letting someone penetrate your partner are worlds apart.

If you equate the two then you need to have a little think about things.

Man not letting you fuck his partner is selfish.

But obviously you wanting to fuck his partner even though he's npt keen, that;s not at all selfish is it?

Probably the easiest way to guarantee a MMF fails to happen is to show a lack of respect for a couple's relationship.

Read back a few posts I;ve already answered that.

I would expect her to be fucking furious that I wanted to fuck someone who she didn't want me to and that I was failing to respect her wishes

End of conversation.

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I do get it when it a personal choice on both be half. What i dont get is when the women like Black men but then the hubby doesnt want to see her play with a Black man "

I'm no expert, but I'd hazard a guess that when a husband and wife play with anyone, regardless of creed or colour, they BOTH have to be happy about the situation.

Is it that hard to comprehend, or do you think everyone should let you fuck them purely based on what you want and your colour?

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By *MP3Man over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

"Does she have to fuck a BBC or can it be an ABC too?

Asking for a friend

What’s ABC? Average brown cock?

Jackson cock.

Michael Jackson? "

No, Tito

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does she have to fuck a BBC or can it be an ABC too?

Asking for a friend

What’s ABC? Average brown cock?

Jackson cock.

Michael Jackson? "

That might prove tricky. Any Jackson.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M-aSjHnbw18

JACKSON 5 "ABC" on The Ed Sullivan Show - YouTube

Any Jackson that is still with us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As an aside OP have you ever swung with a partner? And if not would you? Just curious...

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By *hingy2Woman over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Is it the same as women not wanting their men to have sex with women they think are better looking than them?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You guys have totally miss read the question im basically saying if a women wants to play why is it okay for her partner to say no. I understand if you have spoke to a guy and he is a cock. But if there is a attraction between the male and the female why do SOME hubby stop it before they even speak to each other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"As an aside OP have you ever swung with a partner? And if not would you? Just curious..."

Yeah of course i would

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it the same as women not wanting their men to have sex with women they think are better looking than them?"

Love my man having sex with a sexier better looking woman. A real turn on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Perhaps the husband may feel intimidated by the BBC if he is not well hung, who knows. They could be new to the game and still testing the waters. It's really up to them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As an aside OP have you ever swung with a partner? And if not would you? Just curious...

Yeah of course i would "

And if she didn't want you to play with someone you'd ignore that and fuck them anyway?

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Because for swinging to work both members of the couple have to be happy with the additional person.

If one is unhappy or uncomfortable

it shows lack of respect between the couple and the other person that they would still go ahead.

Nita

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By *rsSBWoman over a year ago

toy town

If you don't get that their marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you don't get that their marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you"

You said this before

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm really beginning to think that you have no idea how relationships work. Or consent for that matter

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By *rsSBWoman over a year ago

toy town

If you don't get that their marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You said this before

He's not getting it so

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If you don't get that their marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you"

I think you nailed it Mrs SB..

Nita

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By *pice of life 79Man over a year ago

lincoln, sleaford , grantham , nottingham

"I do get it when it a personal choice on both be half. What i dont get is when the women like Black men but then the hubby doesnt want to see her play with a Black man "

If he doesn’t want her too she should respect that if she loves him

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By *rsSBWoman over a year ago

toy town

If you don't get that their marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

I think you nailed it Mrs SB..

Nita"

Thanks I told him a few times in this thread. Still not sink in

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

If you don't get that their marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you"

I like that the OP thinks we're the ones missing the point.

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By * and BCouple over a year ago

Durham

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"As an aside OP have you ever swung with a partner? And if not would you? Just curious...

Yeah of course i would

And if she didn't want you to play with someone you'd ignore that and fuck them anyway?"

No i wouldnt ignore it but if she new i liked blond women with big tits, if she didnt want me to play with another women because she is blond with big tits and really attractive then maybe we should not be swinging vise versa

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If you don't get that their marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

I think you nailed it Mrs SB..

Nita

Thanks I told him a few times in this thread. Still not sink in

Maybe it needs nailing to his forehead...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How did you figure out she was attracted to you and wanted to fuck you but her husband was reluctant. Just so you know not everyone is gagging for BBC, I know I am not a fan of massive cocks whatever colour they are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You guys have totally miss read the question im basically saying if a women wants to play why is it okay for her partner to say no. I understand if you have spoke to a guy and he is a cock. But if there is a attraction between the male and the female why do SOME hubby stop it before they even speak to each other."
are you married Op because the easiest way to describe this situation is by saying the hubby loves his wife and has entered into this world as a joint partnership with rules that govern how they play who they play with and what they do when they are playing, so say for example the husband sees some gorgeous amazing beautiful woman and his cock points to ceiling and the wife says no way he can't play, well the same applies visa versa, what you don't hear because they are home when they do it is all the shouting and arguing that results from the choices made....... Does that help?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman over a year ago

Tamworth

"Maybe it's got nothing to do with the colour of skin but the personality? I'll let my wife play with any guy as long as he's not a twat.

And when I say "Let" it's not because I control but because we have an agreement that we both have to be happy with a play partner. That works for both of us. "

I was thinking exactly this...

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By *aeBabeWoman over a year ago

London

"But isnt the scene about everyone having a good time not just one person..

If you don't get that they marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

You guys are missing the Point im saying if someone is interested in playing wouldnt you like to see your partner happy. Isnt that what swinging is about Or is it about self satisfaction..

So you are saying that as long as one person is happy it doesn’t matter how miserable the other is?

No not at all but if you know that your partner likes cake when it comes to ordering dessert are you going to say no cake. So why do guys so it with men

Eating some cake and letting someone penetrate your partner are worlds apart.

If you equate the two then you need to have a little think about things.

Man not letting you fuck his partner is selfish.

But obviously you wanting to fuck his partner even though he's npt keen, that;s not at all selfish is it?

Probably the easiest way to guarantee a MMF fails to happen is to show a lack of respect for a couple's relationship.

I think what you don't understand is that they are a couple. BOTH have to be comfortable with the situation. You fail to understand this as you seem to have a selfish standpoint and can't respect the couple dynamic. After they leave the club or party they go home with each other.

You can fuck anyone you like, so I don't understand you concern with couples (both the man and woman) who don't want you to play with them.

Lots more couples who will welcome you with open arms.

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By *bonynivoryCouple over a year ago

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Can posters please remember that flooding a forum to make the thread close is against forum rules.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"really.... we still having these BBC conversations....

I do despair on both sides....

same shit different day

Well what you know doesn't hurt you

its never going away...

I feel sorry for those who feel the need to play it up for some advantage

I feel sorry for those who look at it as some of niche...

i feel sorry for those who use it like a chip on the shoulder... or use it to use the race card....

does that about cover it all....

If a woman showed an interest in you, at a club say, and her husband came over and said sorry, I don't allow her to have sex with black men, would you not wonder why?

if i am talking to a couple in a club

a) id be talking to them both at the same time.....

b) at that point if one of them wasn't feeling it..... i'd already know!!

i tell people in clubs all the time "don't take one for the team"..... if one of them aint feeling it for any reason....i wouldn't want them to just go thru the motions.... "

Assuming what I wrote happened, would you wonder why he said it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well it is what it is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you don't get that their marriage comes before shagging some random dude, I can't help you

I like that the OP thinks we're the ones missing the point.

His question was his point. No man has answered his question.

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