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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone,
Just looking for abit of advice really. Im 23 and just split with a long term partner and I heard about this website. I have a high sex drive but I am completely new to this whole world. Am I best just jumping in the deep end and going to clubs or shall I speak to people on here and see where it goes?
Any help or tips for starting out would be greatly appreciated!
P.s il be adding to my profile soon! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I found when I was starting out that the forums were the best way to show people what you are about.
Just messaging people randomly doesn't help as some get a lot of messages. |
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"I found when I was starting out that the forums were the best way to show people what you are about.
Just messaging people randomly doesn't help as some get a lot of messages."
I’ve notice you get to know people better in forums too as you usually have a chat in public before you have any private messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Welcome buddy, I’m Bananaman. They all know me.. you need more cock pics and direct messages in order to get some meets on fab 
Feel free to contact me if you require further assistance.
Hugs and kisses x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello, welcome to fab and the forums.
You say you don't know what to expect and that's good. Keep your mind open and your expectations realistic.
Clubs would be best for you I think  "
(In order words.. you ain’t getting any pussy on fab) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I found when I was starting out that the forums were the best way to show people what you are about.
Just messaging people randomly doesn't help as some get a lot of messages.
I’ve notice you get to know people better in forums too as you usually have a chat in public before you have any private messages"
Absolutely! There are so many that I would most likely overlook had I not spoken to them in a prolonged conversation here in the Lounge |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Put more pictures up, if you're comfortable showing your face publicly that will help massively, if you don't have a public face picture send one with your first message. I suggest a full body picture, face picture, one full body picture standing slightly sideways with hands by your sides and penis dangling free, one picture arse hole picture, to do so have your phone propped in a trainer, on your knees holding bum cheeks open. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I found when I was starting out that the forums were the best way to show people what you are about.
Just messaging people randomly doesn't help as some get a lot of messages.
I’ve notice you get to know people better in forums too as you usually have a chat in public before you have any private messages
Absolutely! There are so many that I would most likely overlook had I not spoken to them in a prolonged conversation here in the Lounge"
Don’t think we have said Hello?
Hello there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Put more pictures up, if you're comfortable showing your face publicly that will help massively, if you don't have a public face picture send one with your first message. I suggest a full body picture, face picture, one full body picture standing slightly sideways with hands by your sides and penis dangling free, one picture arse hole picture, to do so have your phone propped in a trainer, on your knees holding bum cheeks open. "
Or get a Vagina fitted  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I found when I was starting out that the forums were the best way to show people what you are about.
Just messaging people randomly doesn't help as some get a lot of messages.
I’ve notice you get to know people better in forums too as you usually have a chat in public before you have any private messages
Absolutely! There are so many that I would most likely overlook had I not spoken to them in a prolonged conversation here in the Lounge
Don’t think we have said Hello?
Hello there "
Why hello there  |
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"I found when I was starting out that the forums were the best way to show people what you are about.
Just messaging people randomly doesn't help as some get a lot of messages.
I’ve notice you get to know people better in forums too as you usually have a chat in public before you have any private messages
Absolutely! There are so many that I would most likely overlook had I not spoken to them in a prolonged conversation here in the Lounge"
I find it’s the best way to find people to actually connect with properly, makes any meets better, social or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I found when I was starting out that the forums were the best way to show people what you are about.
Just messaging people randomly doesn't help as some get a lot of messages.
I’ve notice you get to know people better in forums too as you usually have a chat in public before you have any private messages
Absolutely! There are so many that I would most likely overlook had I not spoken to them in a prolonged conversation here in the Lounge
Don’t think we have said Hello?
Hello there
Why hello there "
I’m Bananaman. They all know me.. if you ask around they will tell you that Bananaman is a DICK  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I found when I was starting out that the forums were the best way to show people what you are about.
Just messaging people randomly doesn't help as some get a lot of messages.
I’ve notice you get to know people better in forums too as you usually have a chat in public before you have any private messages
Absolutely! There are so many that I would most likely overlook had I not spoken to them in a prolonged conversation here in the Lounge
Don’t think we have said Hello?
Hello there
Why hello there
I’m Bananaman. They all know me.. if you ask around they will tell you that Bananaman is a DICK "
There's nothing wrong with a bit of dick |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Put more pictures up, if you're comfortable showing your face publicly that will help massively, if you don't have a public face picture send one with your first message. I suggest a full body picture, face picture, one full body picture standing slightly sideways with hands by your sides and penis dangling free, one picture arse hole picture, to do so have your phone propped in a trainer, on your knees holding bum cheeks open. "
Thankyou! Il try get some more photos up later but may give the last one a miss haha  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I found when I was starting out that the forums were the best way to show people what you are about.
Just messaging people randomly doesn't help as some get a lot of messages.
I’ve notice you get to know people better in forums too as you usually have a chat in public before you have any private messages
Absolutely! There are so many that I would most likely overlook had I not spoken to them in a prolonged conversation here in the Lounge
I find it’s the best way to find people to actually connect with properly, makes any meets better, social or not "
Thankyou! Il get chatting in some forums haha |
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"Hi everyone,
Just looking for abit of advice really. Im 23 and just split with a long term partner and I heard about this website. I have a high sex drive but I am completely new to this whole world. Am I best just jumping in the deep end and going to clubs or shall I speak to people on here and see where it goes?
Any help or tips for starting out would be greatly appreciated!
P.s il be adding to my profile soon!"
I'm pretty much aligned with some of the responses on here. It's hard work. Get used to rejection, neutralise your expectations but carry on and persevere.
It took me a while for various reasons but I'm finally getting there... slowly... |
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"Put more pictures up, if you're comfortable showing your face publicly that will help massively, if you don't have a public face picture send one with your first message. I suggest a full body picture, face picture, one full body picture standing slightly sideways with hands by your sides and penis dangling free, one picture arse hole picture, to do so have your phone propped in a trainer, on your knees holding bum cheeks open.
Thankyou! Il try get some more photos up later but may give the last one a miss haha "
Just don’t be too crude lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Welcome buddy, I’m Bananaman. They all know me.. you need more cock pics and direct messages in order to get some meets on fab
Feel free to contact me if you require further assistance.
Hugs and kisses x"
Thankyou mate, il keep that in mind! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I found when I was starting out that the forums were the best way to show people what you are about.
Just messaging people randomly doesn't help as some get a lot of messages."
Thankyou! Il get chatting to people and get involved with forums  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I found when I was starting out that the forums were the best way to show people what you are about.
Just messaging people randomly doesn't help as some get a lot of messages.
I’ve notice you get to know people better in forums too as you usually have a chat in public before you have any private messages
Absolutely! There are so many that I would most likely overlook had I not spoken to them in a prolonged conversation here in the Lounge
Don’t think we have said Hello?
Hello there
Why hello there
I’m Bananaman. They all know me.. if you ask around they will tell you that Bananaman is a DICK
There's nothing wrong with a bit of dick"
So you like me?   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Put more pictures up, if you're comfortable showing your face publicly that will help massively, if you don't have a public face picture send one with your first message. I suggest a full body picture, face picture, one full body picture standing slightly sideways with hands by your sides and penis dangling free, one picture arse hole picture, to do so have your phone propped in a trainer, on your knees holding bum cheeks open.
Thankyou! Il try get some more photos up later but may give the last one a miss haha
Just don’t be too crude lol "
Haha yeah il try keep that to a minimum and stick to the comfort zones |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I found when I was starting out that the forums were the best way to show people what you are about.
Just messaging people randomly doesn't help as some get a lot of messages.
I’ve notice you get to know people better in forums too as you usually have a chat in public before you have any private messages
Absolutely! There are so many that I would most likely overlook had I not spoken to them in a prolonged conversation here in the Lounge
Don’t think we have said Hello?
Hello there
Why hello there
I’m Bananaman. They all know me.. if you ask around they will tell you that Bananaman is a DICK
There's nothing wrong with a bit of dick
So you like me? "
That is yet to be determined  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I found when I was starting out that the forums were the best way to show people what you are about.
Just messaging people randomly doesn't help as some get a lot of messages.
I’ve notice you get to know people better in forums too as you usually have a chat in public before you have any private messages
Absolutely! There are so many that I would most likely overlook had I not spoken to them in a prolonged conversation here in the Lounge
Don’t think we have said Hello?
Hello there
Why hello there
I’m Bananaman. They all know me.. if you ask around they will tell you that Bananaman is a DICK
There's nothing wrong with a bit of dick
So you like me?
That is yet to be determined "
I thought it was pre-determined based on the fact that ‘women love DICKS’  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Us young ones have to try extra hard cause of age but you'll do fine.
Just don't expect to much to quick and have fun "
Don’t play the age card now.. it’s not like other men on fan are swimming in pussies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I found when I was starting out that the forums were the best way to show people what you are about.
Just messaging people randomly doesn't help as some get a lot of messages.
I’ve notice you get to know people better in forums too as you usually have a chat in public before you have any private messages
Absolutely! There are so many that I would most likely overlook had I not spoken to them in a prolonged conversation here in the Lounge
Don’t think we have said Hello?
Hello there
Why hello there
I’m Bananaman. They all know me.. if you ask around they will tell you that Bananaman is a DICK
There's nothing wrong with a bit of dick
So you like me?
That is yet to be determined
I thought it was pre-determined based on the fact that ‘women love DICKS’ "
We love some dicks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I found when I was starting out that the forums were the best way to show people what you are about.
Just messaging people randomly doesn't help as some get a lot of messages.
I’ve notice you get to know people better in forums too as you usually have a chat in public before you have any private messages
Absolutely! There are so many that I would most likely overlook had I not spoken to them in a prolonged conversation here in the Lounge
Don’t think we have said Hello?
Hello there
Why hello there
I’m Bananaman. They all know me.. if you ask around they will tell you that Bananaman is a DICK
There's nothing wrong with a bit of dick
So you like me?
That is yet to be determined
I thought it was pre-determined based on the fact that ‘women love DICKS’
We love some dicks"
That’s good enough for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I found when I was starting out that the forums were the best way to show people what you are about.
Just messaging people randomly doesn't help as some get a lot of messages.
I’ve notice you get to know people better in forums too as you usually have a chat in public before you have any private messages
Absolutely! There are so many that I would most likely overlook had I not spoken to them in a prolonged conversation here in the Lounge
Don’t think we have said Hello?
Hello there
Why hello there
I’m Bananaman. They all know me.. if you ask around they will tell you that Bananaman is a DICK
There's nothing wrong with a bit of dick
So you like me?
That is yet to be determined
I thought it was pre-determined based on the fact that ‘women love DICKS’
We love some dicks
That’s good enough for me "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just treat the people in here as you would treat them if you met them in the real world....be respectful be polite and take rejection with a pinch of salt.
Look at other profiles to see what works but above all else, be yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just treat the people in here as you would treat them if you met them in the real world....be respectful be polite and take rejection with a pinch of salt.
Look at other profiles to see what works but above all else, be yourself. "
Just like to add that be a bit of a dick too.. it helps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a new guy in the exact same boat, I’ve found this thread really helpful! Cheers guys! Bananaman, you are jokes! Haha!"
Glad to be of any help and provide mentoring |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Us young ones have to try extra hard cause of age but you'll do fine.
Just don't expect to much to quick and have fun
Don’t play the age card now.. it’s not like other men on fan are swimming in pussies "
Already played it and from what i see 30-45 is the most popular age. I can't provide a fab stat on that tho. |
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