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Delete your profile, don't go in to this being dishonest. Work on your emotional communication with your wife then move on to your sexual communication. Once you've sorted that discussing swinging will be easy.
A lot of men think there's a magic set of words that make it possible to bring swinging up in such a way that it won't surprise or shock their partner. There isn't. |
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over a year ago
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"Delete your profile, don't go in to this being dishonest. Work on your emotional communication with your wife then move on to your sexual communication. Once you've sorted that discussing swinging will be easy.
A lot of men think there's a magic set of words that make it possible to bring swinging up in such a way that it won't surprise or shock their partner. There isn't."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Delete your profile, don't go in to this being dishonest. Work on your emotional communication with your wife then move on to your sexual communication. Once you've sorted that discussing swinging will be easy.
A lot of men think there's a magic set of words that make it possible to bring swinging up in such a way that it won't surprise or shock their partner. There isn't."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If she doesn't know about it your basically fucked if she doesn't know your playing away like!
No shit Sherlock  "
He needs to be more thinking about where he's going to be living not getting her to join in lmfao |
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over a year ago
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"I've been on fab a while the wife has no idea, looking for suggestions mainly from the ladies on here on how would be best tackle the subject."
Wow over a year it's going to be difficult introducing her now surely
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Tbh I'd get rid of this outright delete your account and just sit down and have a chat with her saying it's being talked about in work or something and it's something you'd like to give a try at and you'd like her to do it with you. just see what she says really but don't expect it to go down well if she's not that type the.
But good luck either way.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tbh I'd get rid of this outright delete your account and just sit down and have a chat with her saying it's being talked about in work or something and it's something you'd like to give a try at and you'd like her to do it with you. just see what she says really but don't expect it to go down well if she's not that type the.
But good luck either way.
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Thats a much more informed and grown up approach.. well done |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thank you excellent reply think you are bang on,am sure someone will make something of that last remark lol
Use reply and quote, we know who you're talking to then  "
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over a year ago
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Think about why you want her to swing. Is it because you want to shag other women without having to be deceitful?
Is it because you want shared experiences where her pleasure is as important if not more so than yours?
Then think about the questions. What would you ask if it was sprung on you? Will she think she’s not enough for you, or don’t you love her anymore or whatever. Her thoughts may well be that there’s something wrong with her.
Once you have those honest answers and can overcome them, then you’ve got a start.
As soon as it all starts to go wrong though, back away and never mention it again! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ask her outright and accept her answer.
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think that might shock her to much ,am thinking of sowing the seed ( as in dropping a hint) and working up to it slowly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Delete your profile, don't go in to this being dishonest. Work on your emotional communication with your wife then move on to your sexual communication. Once you've sorted that discussing swinging will be easy.
A lot of men think there's a magic set of words that make it possible to bring swinging up in such a way that it won't surprise or shock their partner. There isn't."
I tried that a long time ago nearly ended up sleeping in spare room. |
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"Delete your profile, don't go in to this being dishonest. Work on your emotional communication with your wife then move on to your sexual communication. Once you've sorted that discussing swinging will be easy.
A lot of men think there's a magic set of words that make it possible to bring swinging up in such a way that it won't surprise or shock their partner. There isn't.
I tried that a long time ago nearly ended up sleeping in spare room. "
But on that note we had another talk a few days later and she did agree that I could play on my own just not to bring it home, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Think about why you want her to swing. Is it because you want to shag other women without having to be deceitful?
Is it because you want shared experiences where her pleasure is as important if not more so than yours?
Then think about the questions. What would you ask if it was sprung on you? Will she think she’s not enough for you, or don’t you love her anymore or whatever. Her thoughts may well be that there’s something wrong with her.
Once you have those honest answers and can overcome them, then you’ve got a start.
As soon as it all starts to go wrong though, back away and never mention it again!"
Yes am with you on that, just want to enjoy it as a couple |
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"I've been on fab a while the wife has no idea, looking for suggestions mainly from the ladies on here on how would be best tackle the subject."
Assuming she’s not already on here herself and having the time of her life. |
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"I've been on fab a while the wife has no idea, looking for suggestions mainly from the ladies on here on how would be best tackle the subject.
Assuming she’s not already on here herself and having the time of her life."
I Just Know she isn't LOL |
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"Delete your profile, don't go in to this being dishonest. Work on your emotional communication with your wife then move on to your sexual communication. Once you've sorted that discussing swinging will be easy.
A lot of men think there's a magic set of words that make it possible to bring swinging up in such a way that it won't surprise or shock their partner. There isn't."
These are wise words.
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Why do you want her to join you? Be honest, at least to yourself if you can't be to her. If you are well verified and known in clubs then whether it comes you that you have been playing behind her back is out of your control. Think about that before you risk your relationship. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Delete your profile, don't go in to this being dishonest. Work on your emotional communication with your wife then move on to your sexual communication. Once you've sorted that discussing swinging will be easy.
A lot of men think there's a magic set of words that make it possible to bring swinging up in such a way that it won't surprise or shock their partner. There isn't."
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