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By *urvilicious48 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Lowestoft

How long do you wait for your meet to show up??

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By *he Mac LassWoman  over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway


"How long do you wait for your meet to show up?? "

10 minutes. If they haven’t said they’re running late get outta there.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Until I’ve finished my drink

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How long do you wait for your meet to show up?? "

15 minutes

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)  over a year ago

nr Letterkenny


"How long do you wait for your meet to show up?? "

not very long

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

Id drink my drink then leave

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It depends on if they tell me they're running late. If they dont let me know, 15 mins tops

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How long do you wait for your meet to show up?? "

Long enough to check they have blocked you on here or deleted profile

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By *owdyboy 890Man  over a year ago

Country West

No point waiting too long if they can't be contacted to see where they are...

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By *oTouchPleaseAndTeaseMan  over a year ago

Harlow

Never arranged a meet myself, but people I've chatted to and met on visits have arranged to meet in clubs.

If the meet doesn't show, happy days, they can decide to move on elsewhere.

Occasionally to my benefit

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By *horecruxCouple  over a year ago

SE4

Until plan B turns up

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By *urvilicious48 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Lowestoft

Well it’s been 30 mins lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm normally an optermist

Give it half an hour to 45 then I'm offsy

There loss

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By *mumaWoman  over a year ago

Livingston

15 mins unless I have been told running late...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Well it’s been 30 mins lol"
and your still there?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well it’s been 30 mins lol"

Time to hit up the who's local and see if there near.

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Well it’s been 30 mins lol"

If he's not been in touch, he's not coming.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well it’s been 30 mins lol"

Have they told you they may be running late OP? Is there a way to communicate with them?

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By *urvilicious48 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Lowestoft

No I am at home...was meeting at mine

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By *urvilicious48 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Lowestoft


"Well it’s been 30 mins lol

Have they told you they may be running late OP? Is there a way to communicate with them? "

Not heard a thing x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How long do you wait for your meet to show up?? "
hour max

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If I'm waiting outside and haven't heard from them 10 mins, if I'm in and got a drink until I've finished it.

I'd be back home if I were you!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well it’s been 30 mins lol"

That's really rotten! I'm sorry you had to experience that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well it’s been 30 mins lol

Have they told you they may be running late OP? Is there a way to communicate with them?

Not heard a thing x"

he got your number? Are you in good signal area these things have caught me out in past?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well it’s been 30 mins lol

Have they told you they may be running late OP? Is there a way to communicate with them?

Not heard a thing x"

That's just plain rude. I likely would leave. You deserve more than that. They should have communicated with You by now lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

10 mins max if they hadn't told me they're running late

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet

20mins max unless I'd had a text to say running late, but even then I wouldn't be overly impressed.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I always worry about how long people wait. What if my car breaks down in a no signal area or Im still desperatly whizzing up the motorway and cant call

Id probably wait about 30 mins though.

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By *urvilicious48 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Lowestoft

Oh well his loss

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always worry about how long people wait. What if my car breaks down in a no signal area or Im still desperatly whizzing up the motorway and cant call

Id probably wait about 30 mins though.

"

an hours fair for same reason

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No I am at home...was meeting at mine "

Coming a long way. And I guess you have to factor in the hotness.

If he's on his profile it will tell you distance to phone.

Least give you an idea if he's moving.

I'm proper foxy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

1 hour if iv nawt on committed

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I had almost finished my coffee once when the guy turned up, he didn't apologise for being late (must of been half an hour by then) and I'd already decided he wasn't for me. He asked if I wanted another drink I just said no thanks I've just finished mine and I'm going now, and flounced out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I had almost finished my coffee once when the guy turned up, he didn't apologise for being late (must of been half an hour by then) and I'd already decided he wasn't for me. He asked if I wanted another drink I just said no thanks I've just finished mine and I'm going now, and flounced out "

Lol harsh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No I am at home...was meeting at mine "

Meh, crack open the wine then

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I had almost finished my coffee once when the guy turned up, he didn't apologise for being late (must of been half an hour by then) and I'd already decided he wasn't for me. He asked if I wanted another drink I just said no thanks I've just finished mine and I'm going now, and flounced out "

Oww go girl...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

Usually they text me when they leave home to say eta if meeting at mine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OK parralel idea. Relly on fab for communication or use Kik or WhatsApp.

Least Kik you can face time and not give your number and still block if there a big.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK parralel idea. Relly on fab for communication or use Kik or WhatsApp.

Least Kik you can face time and not give your number and still block if there a big. "

Oww I killed the room. Wops.

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By *pider-WomanWoman  over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I treat people how I would in real life. I would have spoken to them a lot over the phone over a period of time.

So they would have called me or me them if this had happened and I would wait for as long as I needed to. Why because they have probably travelled a long way and sometimes real life doesn't always go to plan.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i always arrive after the time we were supposed to meet...if they aren't there and haven't messaged to say they are running late then i walk on by

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Is everyone's timekeeping perfect

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm always late.

Never leave enough time for a shower and a shave and it..

'I'm on my way be there sooon'

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

Quarter of an hour but I'd make and expect contact - particularly before someone is late.

Problems happen in life, we just need to be reasonable and respectful of others.

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Quarter of an hour but I'd make and expect contact - particularly before someone is late.

Problems happen in life, we just need to be reasonable and respectful of others."

I'm nearly always a touch late, but I keep in touch

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Im always early to a socail and try to be on time for other meets

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The time it takes to finish my drink

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Usually 15min.

If they are messaging me then I’ll wait.

As for myself I prefer to be slightly early and relax with a drink before they arrive.

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By *ll That Ass 67Woman  over a year ago

Kettering


"How long do you wait for your meet to show up??

Long enough to check they have blocked you on here or deleted profile"

Ain't that the truth

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

20 mins then I’m gone!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I treat people how I would in real life. I would have spoken to them a lot over the phone over a period of time.

So they would have called me or me them if this had happened and I would wait for as long as I needed to. Why because they have probably travelled a long way and sometimes real life doesn't always go to plan. "

Well said I agree

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By *lsieWoman  over a year ago

where ever


"I had almost finished my coffee once when the guy turned up, he didn't apologise for being late (must of been half an hour by then) and I'd already decided he wasn't for me. He asked if I wanted another drink I just said no thanks I've just finished mine and I'm going now, and flounced out "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wow. You lot are tough. I always let the lady choose a venue she feels safe. One lady told me I was 5 minutes from a Premier Inn and she would meet me in the pub next door. I set the satnav for the nearest Premier Inn and it turned out to have it's own restaurant, so I checked and there were two. Great, heavy traffic made me late at the correct venue. I apologised and explained what had happened and she was fine with it, but shit happens. I'd give it an hour if there had been no contact explaining. Take a book, jeez...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Ten min's.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Guessing he didn’t turn up her status says it all

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