In the last 2 weeks I've had 4 EX FB/boyfriends get in touch with me, speaking as though nothing had happened. All of them 'ghosted' me, i.e. faded off on here, social media and texts. Now they are back with no apology or explanation. I know 3 were seeing others, so presumably they've been dumped, so they think I'm an easy touch. I've told them all I'm not interested but they keep coming back. FFS! I'm just not answering them any more, because otherwise I look like even more of a challenge. |
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over a year ago
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"In the last 2 weeks I've had 4 EX FB/boyfriends get in touch with me, speaking as though nothing had happened. All of them 'ghosted' me, i.e. faded off on here, social media and texts. Now they are back with no apology or explanation. I know 3 were seeing others, so presumably they've been dumped, so they think I'm an easy touch. I've told them all I'm not interested but they keep coming back. FFS! I'm just not answering them any more, because otherwise I look like even more of a challenge."
I've got my crampons on and my spike and rope can I attempt to get to your summit  |
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"In the last 2 weeks I've had 4 EX FB/boyfriends get in touch with me, speaking as though nothing had happened. All of them 'ghosted' me, i.e. faded off on here, social media and texts. Now they are back with no apology or explanation. I know 3 were seeing others, so presumably they've been dumped, so they think I'm an easy touch. I've told them all I'm not interested but they keep coming back. FFS! I'm just not answering them any more, because otherwise I look like even more of a challenge."
They see it as you playing hard to get, not inaccessible. Need to spell it out to them, tell them they're history if that's what you want. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"In the last 2 weeks I've had 4 EX FB/boyfriends get in touch with me, speaking as though nothing had happened. All of them 'ghosted' me, i.e. faded off on here, social media and texts. Now they are back with no apology or explanation. I know 3 were seeing others, so presumably they've been dumped, so they think I'm an easy touch. I've told them all I'm not interested but they keep coming back. FFS! I'm just not answering them any more, because otherwise I look like even more of a challenge.
They see it as you playing hard to get, not inaccessible. Need to spell it out to them, tell them they're history if that's what you want. "
Exactly, you're replying saying you're not interested, but still... you're replying. So I think it's a good idea that you've decided not to from now on. And block them as well. |
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If you want nothing to do with them, don’t respond, or block their numbers.
A response, especially a friendly one can be misconstrued as being interested |
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