i'm open to it again and move into my fellas house with kids whenever possible lol. We joke he is holding us against our will us but really i love being there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

im here 3 years alone

previous house 10 years alone

previous flat 6 years alone

i do accomodate and book hotels though

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By *izzy RascallMan over a year ago

Cardiff

10 years.

My Daughter lives with me instead. Never mind the 'when you coming over my house'. This is our house.

Have no ambitions to ever have another partner. I thought that would change after the first year but nope.

I ain't changing for nobody. My family have finally given in nagging me and not only that My Daughter would only interview them first anyway.

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By *uciyassMan over a year ago

sheffield

9 years for me after 28 together. And I’m starting to settle in nicely although my daughter is never far and I’ve one son living with me so not a lot has changed except less sex

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By *alking DisasterWoman over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"14 years for me. I feel I’m too set in my ways to live with anyone again. I like starfishing in the bed too much. "

15 years.

Never going to happen for me again. I don't really like sharing a bed overnight.

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By *VBethTV/TS over a year ago

Chester

18 years. It's a little difficult finding someone who'd want both sides of me....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

40 years and counting. I'm not sure I'd be much fun to live with, though I'm happy doing the washing up. Terrible cook, on thw other hand.

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By *iss SJWoman over a year ago

Hull

Just under two years. It was not my best idea to let him move in. You live and learn though

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By *eenherebeforeMan over a year ago

LONDON

4 years now

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By *ara JTV/TS over a year ago

Bristol East

17 years

I love the freedom, and miss the company

On balance, I like it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"14 years for me. I feel I’m too set in my ways to live with anyone again. I like starfishing in the bed too much. "

It's been the majority of my life that I have. Last time I was alone I was 19, and not really alone as I was at home

Hate the thought of it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m 47 and never ever lived with a partner

I don’t think I could live with a man

I’m too set in my ways and like my own space

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

2 years. I kinda miss the companionship but not the person.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

5 years ish

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Gosh erm 10 years or so,how time flies. I can't imagine ever living with anyone again. Apart from the kids of course.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

3 years and now in a shared house. I miss it so much. I love living with a partner.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

8 and a half years, but we were living mostly separate lives for years before that.

I say separate, but I mean he was doing what he wanted and I was doing what he wanted and we slept in different parts of the house.

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

12 years

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

6 years.

A weekend sometimes now can be too much. But then others times not enough and miss the company in my bed for snuggles (and of course the obvious

)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never lived with a partner.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

20 years. I couldn't do it again, I enjoy my freedom too much.

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

"3 years and now in a shared house. I miss it so much. I love living with a partner. "

I hate them thought of living on my own .

Even in between marriages I’ve had one or more of my kids living with me .

I’ve never lived on my own .

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

Have never lived alone. Moved out of parents at 18 in with my ex, threw him out 10 months ago but my kids still live with x

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

12 years, I miss having someone tidying up behind me

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By *ve 66Woman over a year ago

Blackwood

6 years but miss his DiY skills

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

9 months...i love my freedom but I miss the cuddles on the sofa now and again, shared baths, cooking for someone.

Where’s that FWB thread...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

11 years and never again

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Just over a year...lost my partner to cancer last August and miss her like crazy."

Hugs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"9 months...i love my freedom but I miss the cuddles on the sofa now and again, shared baths, cooking for someone.

Where’s that FWB thread..."

Haha you can still have that.... but enjoy your space the rest of the time #bestofbothworlds

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"3 years and now in a shared house. I miss it so much. I love living with a partner. "

Me too

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By *tonMessCouple over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I'd been single for almost 14 years when Cheffy moved in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"9 months...i love my freedom but I miss the cuddles on the sofa now and again, shared baths, cooking for someone.

Where’s that FWB thread...

Haha you can still have that.... but enjoy your space the rest of the time #bestofbothworlds

I know, I need that now....I’m not sure in what order I want it though

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

8 years and bloody love single girl lifestyle/independence

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

8 years! Don’t think I could again tbh.

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"9 months...i love my freedom but I miss the cuddles on the sofa now and again, shared baths, cooking for someone.

Where’s that FWB thread...

Haha you can still have that.... but enjoy your space the rest of the time #bestofbothworlds

I know, I need that now....I’m not sure in what order I want it though

Want to start in my bath with me right now?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just over a year...lost my partner to cancer last August and miss her like crazy."

I lost my partner to cancer to,big hugs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

6 years and a month, I miss certain things but on the whole I like it. I don’t miss the ex wife mind.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"6 years and a month, I miss certain things but on the whole I like it. I don’t miss the ex wife mind. "

Yes I miss certain things it has its pros and cons I suppose. I’m that set in my ways now I wouldn’t expect anyone to put up with my singular ways

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

About 6 years, and although we keep in touch, I like living on my own. It costs me less in bogroll

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have been together for 28 years ..we have never fully lived with each other ..our kids did not get on a the start of our relationship ..I worked nights, so needed sleep in the day..we had our own homes and still have. It's worked fine..kids are grown up and gone now, but we are now too set in our ways to move in with each other..it been just like having a girlfriend for 28 years..she comes to my home I go to hers..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

3 and a half years, I love my own space, but miss sharing my bed - but only sometimes

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By *rank n BettyCouple over a year ago

Not meeting

It was over 6 years before Frank moved in. Takes a bit of getting used to

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By *osie xWoman over a year ago

wolverhampton

9 years now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ten years,had my heart and soul ripped out of me.

Do miss being with someone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love my own place and space and I’m not changing it for the world!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

28 years since I lived without a partner

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By *an_LexaCouple over a year ago

Sunderland

We’ve lived together 29 years come January. I can’t imagine living alone, for the little things, those almost forgettable moments to everyone else, as much as the big things.

Lex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

8 years, half the time I’m happy on my own but the other half is love someone to share stuff with and put the bins out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

6 years near enough never thought I'd admit this - but I miss having someone to come home to

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Just over 13yrs... Unlucky for some, not me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

8 years for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"9 months...i love my freedom but I miss the cuddles on the sofa now and again, shared baths, cooking for someone.

Where’s that FWB thread...

Haha you can still have that.... but enjoy your space the rest of the time #bestofbothworlds

I know, I need that now....I’m not sure in what order I want it though

Want to start in my bath with me right now?

Are you still in??

...sorry I’ll be over ASAP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never have.

Often think i never bloody will.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Almost 18 years

When my nest is empty I think I could only cope with a part time live-in lover...I don't think I do compromise very well

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By *ullpa72Man over a year ago

Isle of Arran

"3 and a half years and I miss him

"
nearly ten for me and miss her too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

10 years. It wasn't a happy home before that, so I'm much more content now.

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By *astings SocialWoman over a year ago

Hastings

3 years and we were together five too many.

Dont miss him at all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"14 years for me. I feel I’m too set in my ways to live with anyone again. I like chocolate starfishing in the bed too much. "

Well I never!!!!

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By *ullpa72Man over a year ago

Isle of Arran

"12 years, I miss having someone tidying up behind me

"
now that does remind me of my late wife , terrible cook hated housework ,but she did have other skills and a great joy of life.

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By *iReyWoman over a year ago

Cheshire East

4 weeks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Widowed 10 years now....but have kids and grand kid at home

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By *s_macWoman over a year ago

Traffic land

Three and a half years and I can’t imagine living with a partner again. I love my space and think I might resent anyone else (other than my kids) in it!

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS over a year ago

Leeds

11 and a half years. But I'm okay with that

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By *eejay2015Woman over a year ago

somewhere in Buckinghamshire

Twenty months since he cheated & moved out again.

I miss the good bits about our relationship but glad to not have the worry of his cheating any more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Met my now wife when we 15 so ive not been single for a very long time would hate living on my own. Even got a cat and two parrots can't stand being alone

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By *ig1gaz1Man over a year ago

bradford

14 years ago

Always hated the cold feet stuck on me to warm them.

Theres days I miss that person sharing the bed.

I dont take up much bed space but pinch that duvet, and its been dragged off you when I wake up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never have

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

6 years for me and never thought I would ever want to live with anyone again .That was until my met my boyfriend and now I look forward to the day I get to sleep with him every night

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

13 years since we broke up and he moved away.. Well since he cheated on me and moved away to live with her that is lol she had to get divorced first and then marry him.. All lived happily ever after

I haven't lived with anyone since then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

6 years and I don’t miss all her hair everywhere in the apartment....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wish some times that i was single just to have freedom in and around the home.

Ive allways had my son living with me does that count?

Only ever had a few months peace and quiet to myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

9 years, I miss the company and the conversation.

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By *p4fun1000Man over a year ago

Manchester

Nearly 3 yrs widowed.. Miss her every day but it was out of my hands. Due to meds she lost her libido a good number of years ago. That's why I'm here. At least it's fairly straight forward. The fun can be elusive though.. Haha

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By *entleman JayMan over a year ago

Wakefield

Three years. Do I miss it. No!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm free ladies lol

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

"It's been about 10 years

I can't imagine living with a partner again.

I love my own space and wouldn't want a relationship to turn into the humdrum routine my last one did.

Totally agree...had the kids with me until 4 yrs ago, they are grown . A man about 14yrs ago. I love my own house, its mine and no fucker its getting half of it.

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

"Nearly 3 yrs widowed.. Miss her every day but it was out of my hands. Due to meds she lost her libido a good number of years ago. That's why I'm here. At least it's fairly straight forward. The fun can be elusive though.. Haha

Its important to live it to the max xx

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By *p4fun1000Man over a year ago

Manchester

Its important to live it to the max xx"
Trying to catch up on the fun as we speak.lol xx thanks for the encouragement.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds sexist but

4 months ish and I don't know how anything bloody works

What happened to me I used to be so self surfishant.

Know I have to traid disal to get my fb to do my washing.

Freely but true.

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By *ab_SparklesWoman over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

20yrs I was young when I lived with someone for 3/4yrs 16/20 I walked out with few bin bags and a bed I decided on that day everything was to be mine and it just carried on and with it never married dated but insured had own place or no intention of moving in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

2 months ... never gave the girl a penny but she was in it for the easy life. Now just enjoying single life.

New to this and I don’t really know what I’m doing though ??

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By *ll That Ass 67Woman over a year ago

Kettering

Unfortunately, I still live with my most recent ex due to financial reasons...

It can be the loneliest place when you live with someone you no longer share a life with ..not to mention the inability to be able to "move forward" in any practical way ...

I cannot wait until I can move out and live on my own again...til then I bite my tongue and walk on tiptoes...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Four years

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

"Unfortunately, I still live with my most recent ex due to financial reasons...

It can be the loneliest place when you live with someone you no longer share a life with ..not to mention the inability to be able to "move forward" in any practical way ...

I cannot wait until I can move out and live on my own again...til then I bite my tongue and walk on tiptoes..."

Same thing happened for me and it does make me wary about living with someone else again, like i'd be trapped by that.

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