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By *ex mad lad OP   Man  over a year ago

Sussex

So what's everyone's opinion on the 64 different genders?...I'd assume everyone would think it's bullshit but I'm not sure as there is a tranny...gay and bisexual community on here as well as other liberal minded people so not sure what they think

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By *horecruxCouple  over a year ago

SE4

Just liberal things...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You can’t call gender fluid people ‘He or She’

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By *lenderfoxMan  over a year ago

Leeds


"So what's everyone's opinion on the 64 different genders?...I'd assume everyone would think it's bullshit but I'm not sure as there is a tranny...gay and bisexual community on here as well as other liberal minded people so not sure what they think "

What do you think OP?

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By *ex mad lad OP   Man  over a year ago

Sussex


"So what's everyone's opinion on the 64 different genders?...I'd assume everyone would think it's bullshit but I'm not sure as there is a tranny...gay and bisexual community on here as well as other liberal minded people so not sure what they think

What do you think OP?"

Well you are either born with a dick or a pussy in my opinion

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By *Cocksucker84Man  over a year ago

newcastle

I think it's nobody's business other than that person's. To you, it's use of a pronoun but to the person struggling with who they are it's a struggle with everything which has to be bloody hard. If it doesn't affect your life then so what? Use of the word 'tranny' is pretty poor form as well.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There can be as many genders as you like however there are only 2 sexes...m or f.

How someone identifies is their business but a species only needs 2 sexes to evolve (excluding the many million to one chance of abnormalities).

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By *ex mad lad OP   Man  over a year ago

Sussex


"I think it's nobody's business other than that person's. To you, it's use of a pronoun but to the person struggling with who they are it's a struggle with everything which has to be bloody hard. If it doesn't affect your life then so what? Use of the word 'tranny' is pretty poor form as well. "

It does affect everyone else though....cos you have to recognise all these pronouns or whatever otherwise you offend someone and get in trouble

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think it's nobody's business other than that person's. To you, it's use of a pronoun but to the person struggling with who they are it's a struggle with everything which has to be bloody hard. If it doesn't affect your life then so what? Use of the word 'tranny' is pretty poor form as well.

It does affect everyone else though....cos you have to recognise all these pronouns or

whatever otherwise you offend someone and get in trouble"

Yep...gonna be a 'hate crime' soon if you mis-gender someone...PC police will come for you is you say Sir to a bloke in a skirt...total FUBAR if you ask me

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By *Cocksucker84Man  over a year ago

newcastle


"I think it's nobody's business other than that person's. To you, it's use of a pronoun but to the person struggling with who they are it's a struggle with everything which has to be bloody hard. If it doesn't affect your life then so what? Use of the word 'tranny' is pretty poor form as well.

It does affect everyone else though....cos you have to recognise all these pronouns or whatever otherwise you offend someone and get in trouble"

You'd only get into trouble if you persisted in addressing someone differently to how they want to be addressed and if you were doing it with the intent to make someone uncomfortable. It's down to the simple case of pronouns to someone who doesn't experience what this must feel like. I don't know how it must be but I very much doubt someone who is trans would go through what must be several painful surgeries and a lot of abuse and possible isolation from their family and their peers to live how they want to live.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Whats a gender?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So what's everyone's opinion on the 64 different genders?...I'd assume everyone would think it's bullshit but I'm not sure as there is a tranny...gay and bisexual community on here as well as other liberal minded people so not sure what they think

What do you think OP?

Well you are either born with a dick or a pussy in my opinion"

Have you been present at many births?

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By *ex mad lad OP   Man  over a year ago

Sussex

No why?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No why?"

You seemed to be implying that you know, for a fact, that there are only two possible options.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Only two genders? Either you born with a cock or a pussy? So what about Hermaphrodites?

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple  over a year ago

London

There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan  over a year ago

London


"I think it's nobody's business other than that person's. To you, it's use of a pronoun but to the person struggling with who they are it's a struggle with everything which has to be bloody hard. If it doesn't affect your life then so what? Use of the word 'tranny' is pretty poor form as well.

It does affect everyone else though....cos you have to recognise all these pronouns or whatever otherwise you offend someone and get in trouble

You'd only get into trouble if you persisted in addressing someone differently to how they want to be addressed and if you were doing it with the intent to make someone uncomfortable. It's down to the simple case of pronouns to someone who doesn't experience what this must feel like. I don't know how it must be but I very much doubt someone who is trans would go through what must be several painful surgeries and a lot of abuse and possible isolation from their family and their peers to live how they want to live. "

Too many people are apparently desperate to believe they're going to be persecuted by the dreaded PC police.

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By *ex mad lad OP   Man  over a year ago

Sussex


"No why?

You seemed to be implying that you know, for a fact, that there are only two possible options."

So what are the other options then?

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By *horecruxCouple  over a year ago

SE4


"No why?

You seemed to be implying that you know, for a fact, that there are only two possible options.

So what are the other options then?"

Hit Google ?

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By *horecruxCouple  over a year ago

SE4

"Options"

Lol....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No why?

You seemed to be implying that you know, for a fact, that there are only two possible options.

So what are the other options then?"

Well,I've heard of people being born with (something resembling) both and I know at least one person who was born with neither.I don't know what other possibilities exist but,I didn't claim to know.You did.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


""Options"

Lol...."

Maybe 'possibilities' would have been a better choice of word....my apologies. (my brain is slow due to lack of coffee).

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By *horecruxCouple  over a year ago

SE4


""Options"

Lol....

Maybe 'possibilities' would have been a better choice of word....my apologies. (my brain is slow due to lack of coffee)."

None needed it just made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So what's everyone's opinion on the 64 different genders?...I'd assume everyone would think it's bullshit but I'm not sure as there is a tranny...gay and bisexual community on here as well as other liberal minded people so not sure what they think "

No there fucking isn't.

It's absolute liberal minded nonsense.

The sexualities like "sapiosexual" (means I only date left wing people)

"Polysexual" (I'm not married)

Not all LGBT people are into this bullshit.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people. "

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"So what's everyone's opinion on the 64 different genders?...I'd assume everyone would think it's bullshit but I'm not sure as there is a tranny...gay and bisexual community on here as well as other liberal minded people so not sure what they think

No there fucking isn't.

It's absolute liberal minded nonsense.

The sexualities like "sapiosexual" (means I only date left wing people)

"Polysexual" (I'm not married)

Not all LGBT people are into this bullshit.

"

It's leftist / post modernist nonsense, nothing to do with liberalism.

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By *lenderfoxMan  over a year ago

Leeds


"So what's everyone's opinion on the 64 different genders?...I'd assume everyone would think it's bullshit but I'm not sure as there is a tranny...gay and bisexual community on here as well as other liberal minded people so not sure what they think

No there fucking isn't.

It's absolute liberal minded nonsense.

The sexualities like "sapiosexual" (means I only date left wing people)

"Polysexual" (I'm not married)

Not all LGBT people are into this bullshit.

"

Has this triggered you?

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By *horecruxCouple  over a year ago

SE4


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%. "

It's just 64 not infinite

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%.

It's just 64 not infinite "

Facebook has more than 64 though, so it's not just 64

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So what's everyone's opinion on the 64 different genders?...I'd assume everyone would think it's bullshit but I'm not sure as there is a tranny...gay and bisexual community on here as well as other liberal minded people so not sure what they think

No there fucking isn't.

It's absolute liberal minded nonsense.

The sexualities like "sapiosexual" (means I only date left wing people)

"Polysexual" (I'm not married)

Not all LGBT people are into this bullshit.

"

Seriously?

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By *horecruxCouple  over a year ago

SE4


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%.

It's just 64 not infinite

Facebook has more than 64 though, so it's not just 64 "

Oh well let's be outraged then

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By *ex mad lad OP   Man  over a year ago

Sussex


"So what's everyone's opinion on the 64 different genders?...I'd assume everyone would think it's bullshit but I'm not sure as there is a tranny...gay and bisexual community on here as well as other liberal minded people so not sure what they think

No there fucking isn't.

It's absolute liberal minded nonsense.

The sexualities like "sapiosexual" (means I only date left wing people)

"Polysexual" (I'm not married)

Not all LGBT people are into this bullshit.

Seriously? "

Oh you deffinitly sound triggered

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%.

It's just 64 not infinite

Facebook has more than 64 though, so it's not just 64

Oh well let's be outraged then "

I'm triggered

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You just find people are super special snowflakes.

Some crossdresser has a special now existence as some bizzare new gender.

It's not "scientific my proven"

I've got other friends in LGBT.including right wing transgender people on "The other websight"

I've got a transgender friend who liked fishing/guns/pickup trucks and republicans

Anouther who's an exnavy officer/soldiers

The problem is the LGBT movements adopted a stupid liberal adgenda like every other movement and they now want to say

"Your not gay enough for us because you hold normal values"

They are wankers honestly.

The "only gay in the villeage" type people...

They want to ruin everyone else's opinion on LGBT

They want to politicize it and make it left wing...

Like the marxists do with racial minorities.

Some of my friends literally live as women/man.

You find these lot are "gender fluid" (crossdressers) who dont actually live as transgender people.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple  over a year ago

London


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%. "

Gender is a social construct regarding how one exhibits behaviour thought socially appropriate for one's sex. I suppose you can say "I generally conform to societal expectations regarding the behaviour of people of the male sex", but I find it difficult to see how it's possible to create meaningful social categories of gender entirely divorced from physical biology

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"

The sexualities like "sapiosexual" (means I only date left wing people)

"

So true

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By *horecruxCouple  over a year ago

SE4


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%.

It's just 64 not infinite

Facebook has more than 64 though, so it's not just 64

Oh well let's be outraged then

I'm triggered "

I knew it !!!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%.

Gender is a social construct regarding how one exhibits behaviour thought socially appropriate for one's sex. I suppose you can say "I generally conform to societal expectations regarding the behaviour of people of the male sex", but I find it difficult to see how it's possible to create meaningful social categories of gender entirely divorced from physical biology "

So do I. What are arguing about?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%.

It's just 64 not infinite

Facebook has more than 64 though, so it's not just 64

Oh well let's be outraged then

I'm triggered

I knew it !!! "

The day my son comes home from school and shows me a fucking gender unicorn is that day that you'll see the news showing a school in Reading getting burnt down.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple  over a year ago

London


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%.

Gender is a social construct regarding how one exhibits behaviour thought socially appropriate for one's sex. I suppose you can say "I generally conform to societal expectations regarding the behaviour of people of the male sex", but I find it difficult to see how it's possible to create meaningful social categories of gender entirely divorced from physical biology

So do I. What are arguing about? "

That there's only two genders. As gender is a subjective social category, there can be as many genders as people want there to be. As opposed to sex, which is based on objective facts that show 99.9% of the population as unambiguously male or female.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Jeez. Roll on the apocalypse

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So what's everyone's opinion on the 64 different genders?...I'd assume everyone would think it's bullshit but I'm not sure as there is a tranny...gay and bisexual community on here as well as other liberal minded people so not sure what they think

No there fucking isn't.

It's absolute liberal minded nonsense.

The sexualities like "sapiosexual" (means I only date left wing people)

"Polysexual" (I'm not married)

Not all LGBT people are into this bullshit.

"

Oh fuck, here we go again!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%.

Gender is a social construct regarding how one exhibits behaviour thought socially appropriate for one's sex. I suppose you can say "I generally conform to societal expectations regarding the behaviour of people of the male sex", but I find it difficult to see how it's possible to create meaningful social categories of gender entirely divorced from physical biology

So do I. What are arguing about?

That there's only two genders. As gender is a subjective social category, there can be as many genders as people want there to be. As opposed to sex, which is based on objective facts that show 99.9% of the population as unambiguously male or female. "

But since gender can't be entire seperate from biology then it is inherently bound, you said it yourself. It's not a 100% social construct.

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By *horecruxCouple  over a year ago

SE4


"Jeez. Roll on the apocalypse "

Got your boots ready ?

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By *horecruxCouple  over a year ago

SE4


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%.

It's just 64 not infinite

Facebook has more than 64 though, so it's not just 64

Oh well let's be outraged then

I'm triggered

I knew it !!!

The day my son comes home from school and shows me a fucking gender unicorn is that day that you'll see the news showing a school in Reading getting burnt down. "

But... what about the unicorns

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple  over a year ago

London


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%.

Gender is a social construct regarding how one exhibits behaviour thought socially appropriate for one's sex. I suppose you can say "I generally conform to societal expectations regarding the behaviour of people of the male sex", but I find it difficult to see how it's possible to create meaningful social categories of gender entirely divorced from physical biology

So do I. What are arguing about?

That there's only two genders. As gender is a subjective social category, there can be as many genders as people want there to be. As opposed to sex, which is based on objective facts that show 99.9% of the population as unambiguously male or female.

But since gender can't be entire seperate from biology then it is inherently bound, you said it yourself. It's not a 100% social construct. "

But you can make up particular categories and if they resonate with people they will gain traction

Say a biological female behaves 60% in a stereotypical female way and 40% in a particular male way and calls herself a demigirl. Lots of other people decide that they behave in a similar way and also call themselves demigirls. Before you know it, demigirls exist as a social category.

Obviously that category exists nowhere other than in the minds of people, but one can say the same of Christians, Marxists, Sheffield United supporters or any other social category bound together by common beliefs or allegiances.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Jeez. Roll on the apocalypse

Got your boots ready ?"

We'll all be off to re-education camps soon enough.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In reality...

There's a condition called "gender dysmorphia" and it's well accepted and writtern about and scientificly studied...

If some moron says "I'm sapiosexualpollydemiheminonbinaryzevoncucksexual"

Then any credible scientist will get annoyed with them.

Anyone with a 100iq can see how losely fitting these lables actually are...

Genuine transgender men want to be women. Not "plant based lifeforms"

This is what the left wing does.

Left wing is genrally privalidged white normal people trying to speak for other minorities.

I agree it's totally bizzare but non of my lgbt friends do this bizzare shit.

It's a modern phenomenon and they don't represent LGBT.

It's a movement within LGBT and loads of people want nothing to do with it.

You will find many gay/transgender who really can't stand politicly correct left wing morons and are happy in their own skin without causing trubble.

Society hasn't been helped by loads of Christian/muslim/jewish bigotry over the last few centuries.

But now LGBT get some power they have just abused it.

They try to speak as individuals for every LGBT person.

Turns out alot of us are quite conservative and don't want to be included in this.

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By *amanthajonestsTV/TS  over a year ago

Glasgow

I was worried I wouldn't be able to fulfill my quota for ignorant and ill informed views today. Thank God this thread was here. Crisis averted.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There are 2 genders. You are one or the other.

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By *horecruxCouple  over a year ago

SE4


"Jeez. Roll on the apocalypse

Got your boots ready ?

We'll all be off to re-education camps soon enough. "

Personality adjustment camps

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks

Call yourself a lamppost for all I care.

If a lady born as “Man” wants to be called Miss or Mrs it’s really no big deal to me. I will try to get it right.

I don’t see an issue at all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Anyone fancy starting a thread on anger management in the pre brexit post gender diversity area - just a thought!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%.

Gender is a social construct regarding how one exhibits behaviour thought socially appropriate for one's sex. I suppose you can say "I generally conform to societal expectations regarding the behaviour of people of the male sex", but I find it difficult to see how it's possible to create meaningful social categories of gender entirely divorced from physical biology

So do I. What are arguing about?

That there's only two genders. As gender is a subjective social category, there can be as many genders as people want there to be. As opposed to sex, which is based on objective facts that show 99.9% of the population as unambiguously male or female.

But since gender can't be entire seperate from biology then it is inherently bound, you said it yourself. It's not a 100% social construct.

But you can make up particular categories and if they resonate with people they will gain traction

Say a biological female behaves 60% in a stereotypical female way and 40% in a particular male way and calls herself a demigirl. Lots of other people decide that they behave in a similar way and also call themselves demigirls. Before you know it, demigirls exist as a social category.

Obviously that category exists nowhere other than in the minds of people, but one can say the same of Christians, Marxists, Sheffield United supporters or any other social category bound together by common beliefs or allegiances. "

Oh I forgot you've got one of those wierd beliefs about, if enough people agree an apple is an orange then it becomes an orange. What's it called again?

Demigirl isn't a gender. Just like when i call certain people here "beta males", that isn't a gender, it's an insult implying their behaviour is too far away from what it should be.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was worried I wouldn't be able to fulfill my quota for ignorant and ill informed views today. Thank God this thread was here. Crisis averted."

You certainly have

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By *irthandgirthMan  over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I get round this by refering to everyone as Dave.

Dave has no sex or gender..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Call yourself a lamppost for all I care.

If a lady born as “Man” wants to be called Miss or Mrs it’s really no big deal to me. I will try to get it right.

I don’t see an issue at all. "

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"In reality...

There's a condition called "gender dysmorphia" and it's well accepted and writtern about and scientificly studied...

If some moron says "I'm sapiosexualpollydemiheminonbinaryzevoncucksexual"

Then any credible scientist will get annoyed with them.

Anyone with a 100iq can see how losely fitting these lables actually are...

Genuine transgender men want to be women. Not "plant based lifeforms"

This is what the left wing does.

Left wing is genrally privalidged white normal people trying to speak for other minorities.

I agree it's totally bizzare but non of my lgbt friends do this bizzare shit.

It's a modern phenomenon and they don't represent LGBT.

It's a movement within LGBT and loads of people want nothing to do with it.

You will find many gay/transgender who really can't stand politicly correct left wing morons and are happy in their own skin without causing trubble.

Society hasn't been helped by loads of Christian/muslim/jewish bigotry over the last few centuries.

But now LGBT get some power they have just abused it.

They try to speak as individuals for every LGBT person.

Turns out alot of us are quite conservative and don't want to be included in this.

"

Because it's not an LGBT thing, it's a bunch of Marxists highjacking the LGBT movement. I've never met a transexual person who wanted to be referred to as anything other than their acquired gender, why the fuck would they!?

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By *ex mad lad OP   Man  over a year ago

Sussex


"In reality...

There's a condition called "gender dysmorphia" and it's well accepted and writtern about and scientificly studied...

If some moron says "I'm sapiosexualpollydemiheminonbinaryzevoncucksexual"

Then any credible scientist will get annoyed with them.

Anyone with a 100iq can see how losely fitting these lables actually are...

Genuine transgender men want to be women. Not "plant based lifeforms"

This is what the left wing does.

Left wing is genrally privalidged white normal people trying to speak for other minorities.

I agree it's totally bizzare but non of my lgbt friends do this bizzare shit.

It's a modern phenomenon and they don't represent LGBT.

It's a movement within LGBT and loads of people want nothing to do with it.

You will find many gay/transgender who really can't stand politicly correct left wing morons and are happy in their own skin without causing trubble.

Society hasn't been helped by loads of Christian/muslim/jewish bigotry over the last few centuries.

But now LGBT get some power they have just abused it.

They try to speak as individuals for every LGBT person.

Turns out alot of us are quite conservative and don't want to be included in this.

"

Oh why getting religion involved fuck sake no one was even talking about religion....let me guess religions responsible for all wars

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By *ex mad lad OP   Man  over a year ago

Sussex


"I get round this by refering to everyone as Dave.

Dave has no sex or gender.."

Even though it's a blokes name

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hmmm....alpha males....don’t you just love them (how do I find the ?? puking emoji again for you non apple folks?)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You just find people are super special snowflakes.

Some crossdresser has a special now existence as some bizzare new gender.

It's not "scientific my proven"

I've got other friends in LGBT.including right wing transgender people on "The other websight"

I've got a transgender friend who liked fishing/guns/pickup trucks and republicans

Anouther who's an exnavy officer/soldiers

The problem is the LGBT movements adopted a stupid liberal adgenda like every other movement and they now want to say

"Your not gay enough for us because you hold normal values"

They are wankers honestly.

The "only gay in the villeage" type people...

They want to ruin everyone else's opinion on LGBT

They want to politicize it and make it left wing...

Like the marxists do with racial minorities.

Some of my friends literally live as women/man.

You find these lot are "gender fluid" (crossdressers) who dont actually live as transgender people."

You sound triggered.

Are you triggered?

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By *horecruxCouple  over a year ago

SE4


"I get round this by refering to everyone as Dave.

Dave has no sex or gender.."

"Hello Dave... your my wife now,Dave"

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I get round this by refering to everyone as Dave.

Dave has no sex or gender..

"Hello Dave... your my wife now,Dave"

"

That's dark

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple  over a year ago

London


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%.

Gender is a social construct regarding how one exhibits behaviour thought socially appropriate for one's sex. I suppose you can say "I generally conform to societal expectations regarding the behaviour of people of the male sex", but I find it difficult to see how it's possible to create meaningful social categories of gender entirely divorced from physical biology

So do I. What are arguing about?

That there's only two genders. As gender is a subjective social category, there can be as many genders as people want there to be. As opposed to sex, which is based on objective facts that show 99.9% of the population as unambiguously male or female.

But since gender can't be entire seperate from biology then it is inherently bound, you said it yourself. It's not a 100% social construct.

But you can make up particular categories and if they resonate with people they will gain traction

Say a biological female behaves 60% in a stereotypical female way and 40% in a particular male way and calls herself a demigirl. Lots of other people decide that they behave in a similar way and also call themselves demigirls. Before you know it, demigirls exist as a social category.

Obviously that category exists nowhere other than in the minds of people, but one can say the same of Christians, Marxists, Sheffield United supporters or any other social category bound together by common beliefs or allegiances.

Oh I forgot you've got one of those wierd beliefs about, if enough people agree an apple is an orange then it becomes an orange. What's it called again?

Demigirl isn't a gender. Just like when i call certain people here "beta males", that isn't a gender, it's an insult implying their behaviour is too far away from what it should be. "

Way to go to completely misunderstand.

I am distinguishing between things that exist independently of human minds and things that only exist as concepts in human minds.

Objects called applies and oranges exist outside human minds and are different. Thus we attach terms to them to label those differences. The same with males and females.

Social categories exist when common human behaviours are overserved and terns applied to people exhibiting that behaviour. These categories are contingent and only exist in human minds. To give an obvious example, Marxists didn't exist before Karl marx was alive. Now it's a commonly known social category you often refer to. Hence "Marxists" as a category do not have a universal objective existence like oranges do.

At some point, someone had to say. "all those people who agree with what Marx wrote, let's call them Marxists" and lo and behold a hitherto unknown social category came into existence.

So, if lots of people start calling themselves demigirls and the category becomes generally accepted than the category exists. The fact we can have a meaningful discussion about them is in fact an admission of their existence as a social category.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I get round this by refering to everyone as Dave.

Dave has no sex or gender.."

Two of my gay friends call everyone sausage.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"You just find people are super special snowflakes.

Some crossdresser has a special now existence as some bizzare new gender.

It's not "scientific my proven"

I've got other friends in LGBT.including right wing transgender people on "The other websight"

I've got a transgender friend who liked fishing/guns/pickup trucks and republicans

Anouther who's an exnavy officer/soldiers

The problem is the LGBT movements adopted a stupid liberal adgenda like every other movement and they now want to say

"Your not gay enough for us because you hold normal values"

They are wankers honestly.

The "only gay in the villeage" type people...

They want to ruin everyone else's opinion on LGBT

They want to politicize it and make it left wing...

Like the marxists do with racial minorities.

Some of my friends literally live as women/man.

You find these lot are "gender fluid" (crossdressers) who dont actually live as transgender people.

You sound triggered.

Are you triggered? "

I don't appreciate them putting chemicals in the water that turn the figgin frogs gay

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By *horecruxCouple  over a year ago

SE4


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%.

Gender is a social construct regarding how one exhibits behaviour thought socially appropriate for one's sex. I suppose you can say "I generally conform to societal expectations regarding the behaviour of people of the male sex", but I find it difficult to see how it's possible to create meaningful social categories of gender entirely divorced from physical biology

So do I. What are arguing about?

That there's only two genders. As gender is a subjective social category, there can be as many genders as people want there to be. As opposed to sex, which is based on objective facts that show 99.9% of the population as unambiguously male or female.

But since gender can't be entire seperate from biology then it is inherently bound, you said it yourself. It's not a 100% social construct.

But you can make up particular categories and if they resonate with people they will gain traction

Say a biological female behaves 60% in a stereotypical female way and 40% in a particular male way and calls herself a demigirl. Lots of other people decide that they behave in a similar way and also call themselves demigirls. Before you know it, demigirls exist as a social category.

Obviously that category exists nowhere other than in the minds of people, but one can say the same of Christians, Marxists, Sheffield United supporters or any other social category bound together by common beliefs or allegiances.

Oh I forgot you've got one of those wierd beliefs about, if enough people agree an apple is an orange then it becomes an orange. What's it called again?

Demigirl isn't a gender. Just like when i call certain people here "beta males", that isn't a gender, it's an insult implying their behaviour is too far away from what it should be.

Way to go to completely misunderstand.

I am distinguishing between things that exist independently of human minds and things that only exist as concepts in human minds.

Objects called applies and oranges exist outside human minds and are different. Thus we attach terms to them to label those differences. The same with males and females.

Social categories exist when common human behaviours are overserved and terns applied to people exhibiting that behaviour. These categories are contingent and only exist in human minds. To give an obvious example, Marxists didn't exist before Karl marx was alive. Now it's a commonly known social category you often refer to. Hence "Marxists" as a category do not have a universal objective existence like oranges do.

At some point, someone had to say. "all those people who agree with what Marx wrote, let's call them Marxists" and lo and behold a hitherto unknown social category came into existence.

So, if lots of people start calling themselves demigirls and the category becomes generally accepted than the category exists. The fact we can have a meaningful discussion about them is in fact an admission of their existence as a social category.

"

So... there are 64 genders because...I say so and all I need is just a few people to agree and it exists

No need to thank me

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple  over a year ago

London


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%.

Gender is a social construct regarding how one exhibits behaviour thought socially appropriate for one's sex. I suppose you can say "I generally conform to societal expectations regarding the behaviour of people of the male sex", but I find it difficult to see how it's possible to create meaningful social categories of gender entirely divorced from physical biology

So do I. What are arguing about?

That there's only two genders. As gender is a subjective social category, there can be as many genders as people want there to be. As opposed to sex, which is based on objective facts that show 99.9% of the population as unambiguously male or female.

But since gender can't be entire seperate from biology then it is inherently bound, you said it yourself. It's not a 100% social construct.

But you can make up particular categories and if they resonate with people they will gain traction

Say a biological female behaves 60% in a stereotypical female way and 40% in a particular male way and calls herself a demigirl. Lots of other people decide that they behave in a similar way and also call themselves demigirls. Before you know it, demigirls exist as a social category.

Obviously that category exists nowhere other than in the minds of people, but one can say the same of Christians, Marxists, Sheffield United supporters or any other social category bound together by common beliefs or allegiances.

Oh I forgot you've got one of those wierd beliefs about, if enough people agree an apple is an orange then it becomes an orange. What's it called again?

Demigirl isn't a gender. Just like when i call certain people here "beta males", that isn't a gender, it's an insult implying their behaviour is too far away from what it should be.

Way to go to completely misunderstand.

I am distinguishing between things that exist independently of human minds and things that only exist as concepts in human minds.

Objects called applies and oranges exist outside human minds and are different. Thus we attach terms to them to label those differences. The same with males and females.

Social categories exist when common human behaviours are overserved and terns applied to people exhibiting that behaviour. These categories are contingent and only exist in human minds. To give an obvious example, Marxists didn't exist before Karl marx was alive. Now it's a commonly known social category you often refer to. Hence "Marxists" as a category do not have a universal objective existence like oranges do.

At some point, someone had to say. "all those people who agree with what Marx wrote, let's call them Marxists" and lo and behold a hitherto unknown social category came into existence.

So, if lots of people start calling themselves demigirls and the category becomes generally accepted than the category exists. The fact we can have a meaningful discussion about them is in fact an admission of their existence as a social category.

So... there are 64 genders because...I say so and all I need is just a few people to agree and it exists

No need to thank me"

Absolutely. Social categories only exist in human minds. . There were no such things as football supporters two hundred years ago, how we have people identifying with supporters of thousands of clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

You sound triggered.

Are you triggered? "

Yeh. I don't like left wing ideology or having it forced by social justice keyboard warriors.

It's hard to just close off my mind and act like it's all sane.

It's "far left"

We don't like nazis/bnp

But these people are drawn towards communism. They don't know they are....They would be "usefull idiots"

Some biology professor looking his job over this is insane!

Lgbt community bullying Christians then defending Islam is bizzare...

They don't represent LGBT! They are left wing people using anouther banner to push a political adgenda.

Ofcourse I get "triggered"

Some of them are nasty horrible bullies.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%.

Gender is a social construct regarding how one exhibits behaviour thought socially appropriate for one's sex. I suppose you can say "I generally conform to societal expectations regarding the behaviour of people of the male sex", but I find it difficult to see how it's possible to create meaningful social categories of gender entirely divorced from physical biology

So do I. What are arguing about?

That there's only two genders. As gender is a subjective social category, there can be as many genders as people want there to be. As opposed to sex, which is based on objective facts that show 99.9% of the population as unambiguously male or female.

But since gender can't be entire seperate from biology then it is inherently bound, you said it yourself. It's not a 100% social construct.

But you can make up particular categories and if they resonate with people they will gain traction

Say a biological female behaves 60% in a stereotypical female way and 40% in a particular male way and calls herself a demigirl. Lots of other people decide that they behave in a similar way and also call themselves demigirls. Before you know it, demigirls exist as a social category.

Obviously that category exists nowhere other than in the minds of people, but one can say the same of Christians, Marxists, Sheffield United supporters or any other social category bound together by common beliefs or allegiances.

Oh I forgot you've got one of those wierd beliefs about, if enough people agree an apple is an orange then it becomes an orange. What's it called again?

Demigirl isn't a gender. Just like when i call certain people here "beta males", that isn't a gender, it's an insult implying their behaviour is too far away from what it should be.

Way to go to completely misunderstand.

I am distinguishing between things that exist independently of human minds and things that only exist as concepts in human minds.

Objects called applies and oranges exist outside human minds and are different. Thus we attach terms to them to label those differences. The same with males and females.

Social categories exist when common human behaviours are overserved and terns applied to people exhibiting that behaviour. These categories are contingent and only exist in human minds. To give an obvious example, Marxists didn't exist before Karl marx was alive. Now it's a commonly known social category you often refer to. Hence "Marxists" as a category do not have a universal objective existence like oranges do.

At some point, someone had to say. "all those people who agree with what Marx wrote, let's call them Marxists" and lo and behold a hitherto unknown social category came into existence.

So, if lots of people start calling themselves demigirls and the category becomes generally accepted than the category exists. The fact we can have a meaningful discussion about them is in fact an admission of their existence as a social category.

So... there are 64 genders because...I say so and all I need is just a few people to agree and it exists

No need to thank me

Absolutely. Social categories only exist in human minds. . There were no such things as football supporters two hundred years ago, how we have people identifying with supporters of thousands of clubs. "

We've already got categories that 99.7% of people agree upon. So 0.3% is enough to make something meaningful?

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By *lenderfoxMan  over a year ago

Leeds


"I get round this by refering to everyone as Dave.

Dave has no sex or gender..

"Hello Dave... your my wife now,Dave"

"

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By *horecruxCouple  over a year ago

SE4


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%.

Gender is a social construct regarding how one exhibits behaviour thought socially appropriate for one's sex. I suppose you can say "I generally conform to societal expectations regarding the behaviour of people of the male sex", but I find it difficult to see how it's possible to create meaningful social categories of gender entirely divorced from physical biology

So do I. What are arguing about?

That there's only two genders. As gender is a subjective social category, there can be as many genders as people want there to be. As opposed to sex, which is based on objective facts that show 99.9% of the population as unambiguously male or female.

But since gender can't be entire seperate from biology then it is inherently bound, you said it yourself. It's not a 100% social construct.

But you can make up particular categories and if they resonate with people they will gain traction

Say a biological female behaves 60% in a stereotypical female way and 40% in a particular male way and calls herself a demigirl. Lots of other people decide that they behave in a similar way and also call themselves demigirls. Before you know it, demigirls exist as a social category.

Obviously that category exists nowhere other than in the minds of people, but one can say the same of Christians, Marxists, Sheffield United supporters or any other social category bound together by common beliefs or allegiances.

Oh I forgot you've got one of those wierd beliefs about, if enough people agree an apple is an orange then it becomes an orange. What's it called again?

Demigirl isn't a gender. Just like when i call certain people here "beta males", that isn't a gender, it's an insult implying their behaviour is too far away from what it should be.

Way to go to completely misunderstand.

I am distinguishing between things that exist independently of human minds and things that only exist as concepts in human minds.

Objects called applies and oranges exist outside human minds and are different. Thus we attach terms to them to label those differences. The same with males and females.

Social categories exist when common human behaviours are overserved and terns applied to people exhibiting that behaviour. These categories are contingent and only exist in human minds. To give an obvious example, Marxists didn't exist before Karl marx was alive. Now it's a commonly known social category you often refer to. Hence "Marxists" as a category do not have a universal objective existence like oranges do.

At some point, someone had to say. "all those people who agree with what Marx wrote, let's call them Marxists" and lo and behold a hitherto unknown social category came into existence.

So, if lots of people start calling themselves demigirls and the category becomes generally accepted than the category exists. The fact we can have a meaningful discussion about them is in fact an admission of their existence as a social category.

So... there are 64 genders because...I say so and all I need is just a few people to agree and it exists

No need to thank me

Absolutely. Social categories only exist in human minds. . There were no such things as football supporters two hundred years ago, how we have people identifying with supporters of thousands of clubs.

We've already got categories that 99.7% of people agree upon. So 0.3% is enough to make something meaningful? "

Meaningful too you ? Or to them

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan  over a year ago

Aylesbury


"So what's everyone's opinion on the 64 different genders?...I'd assume everyone would think it's bullshit but I'm not sure as there is a tranny...gay and bisexual community on here as well as other liberal minded people so not sure what they think

What do you think OP?

Well you are either born with a dick or a pussy in my opinion"

So hermaphrodites don't exist then?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%.

Gender is a social construct regarding how one exhibits behaviour thought socially appropriate for one's sex. I suppose you can say "I generally conform to societal expectations regarding the behaviour of people of the male sex", but I find it difficult to see how it's possible to create meaningful social categories of gender entirely divorced from physical biology

So do I. What are arguing about?

That there's only two genders. As gender is a subjective social category, there can be as many genders as people want there to be. As opposed to sex, which is based on objective facts that show 99.9% of the population as unambiguously male or female.

But since gender can't be entire seperate from biology then it is inherently bound, you said it yourself. It's not a 100% social construct.

But you can make up particular categories and if they resonate with people they will gain traction

Say a biological female behaves 60% in a stereotypical female way and 40% in a particular male way and calls herself a demigirl. Lots of other people decide that they behave in a similar way and also call themselves demigirls. Before you know it, demigirls exist as a social category.

Obviously that category exists nowhere other than in the minds of people, but one can say the same of Christians, Marxists, Sheffield United supporters or any other social category bound together by common beliefs or allegiances.

Oh I forgot you've got one of those wierd beliefs about, if enough people agree an apple is an orange then it becomes an orange. What's it called again?

Demigirl isn't a gender. Just like when i call certain people here "beta males", that isn't a gender, it's an insult implying their behaviour is too far away from what it should be.

Way to go to completely misunderstand.

I am distinguishing between things that exist independently of human minds and things that only exist as concepts in human minds.

Objects called applies and oranges exist outside human minds and are different. Thus we attach terms to them to label those differences. The same with males and females.

Social categories exist when common human behaviours are overserved and terns applied to people exhibiting that behaviour. These categories are contingent and only exist in human minds. To give an obvious example, Marxists didn't exist before Karl marx was alive. Now it's a commonly known social category you often refer to. Hence "Marxists" as a category do not have a universal objective existence like oranges do.

At some point, someone had to say. "all those people who agree with what Marx wrote, let's call them Marxists" and lo and behold a hitherto unknown social category came into existence.

So, if lots of people start calling themselves demigirls and the category becomes generally accepted than the category exists. The fact we can have a meaningful discussion about them is in fact an admission of their existence as a social category.

So... there are 64 genders because...I say so and all I need is just a few people to agree and it exists

No need to thank me

Absolutely. Social categories only exist in human minds. . There were no such things as football supporters two hundred years ago, how we have people identifying with supporters of thousands of clubs.

We've already got categories that 99.7% of people agree upon. So 0.3% is enough to make something meaningful?

Meaningful too you ? Or to them "

What a reasonable person would find meaningful

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hmmm....alpha males....don’t you just love them (how do I find the ?? puking emoji again for you non apple folks?)"

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple  over a year ago

London


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%.

Gender is a social construct regarding how one exhibits behaviour thought socially appropriate for one's sex. I suppose you can say "I generally conform to societal expectations regarding the behaviour of people of the male sex", but I find it difficult to see how it's possible to create meaningful social categories of gender entirely divorced from physical biology

So do I. What are arguing about?

That there's only two genders. As gender is a subjective social category, there can be as many genders as people want there to be. As opposed to sex, which is based on objective facts that show 99.9% of the population as unambiguously male or female.

But since gender can't be entire seperate from biology then it is inherently bound, you said it yourself. It's not a 100% social construct.

But you can make up particular categories and if they resonate with people they will gain traction

Say a biological female behaves 60% in a stereotypical female way and 40% in a particular male way and calls herself a demigirl. Lots of other people decide that they behave in a similar way and also call themselves demigirls. Before you know it, demigirls exist as a social category.

Obviously that category exists nowhere other than in the minds of people, but one can say the same of Christians, Marxists, Sheffield United supporters or any other social category bound together by common beliefs or allegiances.

Oh I forgot you've got one of those wierd beliefs about, if enough people agree an apple is an orange then it becomes an orange. What's it called again?

Demigirl isn't a gender. Just like when i call certain people here "beta males", that isn't a gender, it's an insult implying their behaviour is too far away from what it should be.

Way to go to completely misunderstand.

I am distinguishing between things that exist independently of human minds and things that only exist as concepts in human minds.

Objects called applies and oranges exist outside human minds and are different. Thus we attach terms to them to label those differences. The same with males and females.

Social categories exist when common human behaviours are overserved and terns applied to people exhibiting that behaviour. These categories are contingent and only exist in human minds. To give an obvious example, Marxists didn't exist before Karl marx was alive. Now it's a commonly known social category you often refer to. Hence "Marxists" as a category do not have a universal objective existence like oranges do.

At some point, someone had to say. "all those people who agree with what Marx wrote, let's call them Marxists" and lo and behold a hitherto unknown social category came into existence.

So, if lots of people start calling themselves demigirls and the category becomes generally accepted than the category exists. The fact we can have a meaningful discussion about them is in fact an admission of their existence as a social category.

So... there are 64 genders because...I say so and all I need is just a few people to agree and it exists

No need to thank me

Absolutely. Social categories only exist in human minds. . There were no such things as football supporters two hundred years ago, how we have people identifying with supporters of thousands of clubs.

We've already got categories that 99.7% of people agree upon. So 0.3% is enough to make something meaningful? "

Time will tell. Nothing is static. My point is that gender. (being categories about social behaviour as opposed to sex which is about objective reality) is subjective. The word "socialism" was invented in the 1820s and I am sure there were lots of people around then saying it was a made up word and socialists were not a real thing.

"demigirls"may become an accepted category or it may not. But there's no reason in principle why it shouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

"Beta males" = sitzspinklers

Don't get any piss on the toilet seat. Men need to be trained to do as they are told....

Real men can do what they want...

But spinklers need to be white knights and yes men. And they aren't allowed to pee standing up.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've read some of the list of the 64 and am wondering if some of them are made up or people have genuinely felt their gender is related to space.

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By *lenderfoxMan  over a year ago

Leeds


""Beta males" = sitzspinklers

Don't get any piss on the toilet seat. Men need to be trained to do as they are told....

Real men can do what they want...

But spinklers need to be white knights and yes men. And they aren't allowed to pee standing up."

Do you remember the days when men were real men?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


""Beta males" = sitzspinklers

Don't get any piss on the toilet seat. Men need to be trained to do as they are told....

Real men can do what they want...

But spinklers need to be white knights and yes men. And they aren't allowed to pee standing up."

So blokes are not blokes no more this shits far too confusing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


""Beta males" = sitzspinklers

Don't get any piss on the toilet seat. Men need to be trained to do as they are told....

Real men can do what they want...

But spinklers need to be white knights and yes men. And they aren't allowed to pee standing up."

I’m sorry mate but that’s just a bit fucking odd....

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple  over a year ago

London


"I've read some of the list of the 64 and am wondering if some of them are made up or people have genuinely felt their gender is related to space."

My view is that a lot of it is kids trying to annoy their parents. Like we did being punks and skins when we were young.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


""Beta males" = sitzspinklers

Don't get any piss on the toilet seat. Men need to be trained to do as they are told....

Real men can do what they want...

But spinklers need to be white knights and yes men. And they aren't allowed to pee standing up.

Do you remember the days when men were real men?"

What about us who top and wear heels? I'm a real man?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


""Beta males" = sitzspinklers

Don't get any piss on the toilet seat. Men need to be trained to do as they are told....

Real men can do what they want...

But spinklers need to be white knights and yes men. And they aren't allowed to pee standing up.

Do you remember the days when men were real men?

What about us who top and wear heels? I'm a real man?"

Have you changed your name? Just realised who you are

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've read some of the list of the 64 and am wondering if some of them are made up or people have genuinely felt their gender is related to space."

Can you post a link? I couldn't find a list for the full 64.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


""Beta males" = sitzspinklers

Don't get any piss on the toilet seat. Men need to be trained to do as they are told....

Real men can do what they want...

But spinklers need to be white knights and yes men. And they aren't allowed to pee standing up.

Do you remember the days when men were real men?

What about us who top and wear heels? I'm a real man?"

Exactly, a real man wears what he wants and doesn’t give a fuck about what others think.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


""Beta males" = sitzspinklers

Don't get any piss on the toilet seat. Men need to be trained to do as they are told....

Real men can do what they want...

But spinklers need to be white knights and yes men. And they aren't allowed to pee standing up.

Do you remember the days when men were real men?

What about us who top and wear heels? I'm a real man?

Exactly, a real man wears what he wants and doesn’t give a fuck about what others think. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


""Beta males" = sitzspinklers

Don't get any piss on the toilet seat. Men need to be trained to do as they are told....

Real men can do what they want...

But spinklers need to be white knights and yes men. And they aren't allowed to pee standing up.

Do you remember the days when men were real men?

What about us who top and wear heels? I'm a real man?

Have you changed your name? Just realised who you are "

Once Yearly Nearly was accurate. This name suits me better

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


""Beta males" = sitzspinklers

Don't get any piss on the toilet seat. Men need to be trained to do as they are told....

Real men can do what they want...

But spinklers need to be white knights and yes men. And they aren't allowed to pee standing up."

Are you doing this just to get abuse or do you believe it all? I’m just wondering if it’s part of your shtick as your name implies?

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By *lenderfoxMan  over a year ago

Leeds


""Beta males" = sitzspinklers

Don't get any piss on the toilet seat. Men need to be trained to do as they are told....

Real men can do what they want...

But spinklers need to be white knights and yes men. And they aren't allowed to pee standing up.

Do you remember the days when men were real men?

What about us who top and wear heels? I'm a real man?"

Depends if you sit down to pee apparently!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


""Beta males" = sitzspinklers

Don't get any piss on the toilet seat. Men need to be trained to do as they are told....

Real men can do what they want...

But spinklers need to be white knights and yes men. And they aren't allowed to pee standing up.

Do you remember the days when men were real men?

What about us who top and wear heels? I'm a real man?

Exactly, a real man wears what he wants and doesn’t give a fuck about what others think.

"

Oh and I would prefer a man to sit down and pee as they make less bloody mess!! Ha

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By *ex mad lad OP   Man  over a year ago

Sussex


"

You sound triggered.

Are you triggered?

Yeh. I don't like left wing ideology or having it forced by social justice keyboard warriors.

It's hard to just close off my mind and act like it's all sane.

It's "far left"

We don't like nazis/bnp

But these people are drawn towards communism. They don't know they are....They would be "usefull idiots"

Some biology professor looking his job over this is insane!

Lgbt community bullying Christians then defending Islam is bizzare...

They don't represent LGBT! They are left wing people using anouther banner to push a political adgenda.

Ofcourse I get "triggered"

Some of them are nasty horrible bullies."

Fuck yeah

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


""Beta males" = sitzspinklers

Don't get any piss on the toilet seat. Men need to be trained to do as they are told....

Real men can do what they want...

But spinklers need to be white knights and yes men. And they aren't allowed to pee standing up.

I’m sorry mate but that’s just a bit fucking odd...."

I know a man who sits down to pee. I demanded he return his man card to the elders.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The law passed in Germany to force men to pee sitting down.

It's not even part of a fettish.

It was actual implemented law.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


""Beta males" = sitzspinklers

Don't get any piss on the toilet seat. Men need to be trained to do as they are told....

Real men can do what they want...

But spinklers need to be white knights and yes men. And they aren't allowed to pee standing up.

Do you remember the days when men were real men?

What about us who top and wear heels? I'm a real man?

Have you changed your name? Just realised who you are

Once Yearly Nearly was accurate. This name suits me better "

Haha you do make me giggle. Glad you’re still here

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


""Beta males" = sitzspinklers

Don't get any piss on the toilet seat. Men need to be trained to do as they are told....

Real men can do what they want...

But spinklers need to be white knights and yes men. And they aren't allowed to pee standing up.

Do you remember the days when men were real men?

What about us who top and wear heels? I'm a real man?

Exactly, a real man wears what he wants and doesn’t give a fuck about what others think.

Oh and I would prefer a man to sit down and pee as they make less bloody mess!! Ha"

There are only two tragedies in life...

Oscar Wilde

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By *ex mad lad OP   Man  over a year ago

Sussex


"The law passed in Germany to force men to pee sitting down.

It's not even part of a fettish.

It was actual implemented law.

"

Fake news

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Only saddos want to label everyone and everything its just bores me to death.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Only saddos want to label everyone and everything its just bores me to death. "

Saddo is a label. Just saying.

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By *lenderfoxMan  over a year ago

Leeds


"The law passed in Germany to force men to pee sitting down.

It's not even part of a fettish.

It was actual implemented law.

"

Those Pesky Marxists!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Only saddos want to label everyone and everything its just bores me to death.

Saddo is a label. Just saying. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh and I would prefer a man to sit down and pee as they make less bloody mess!! Ha"

I can do that for you!

I can be your submissive if you were into that.

But my "hard limit" would be turning that into a real law and forcing other men to abide by it.

I think it's pretty cool to be dommed like that domestic my by a lady.

But I wouldn't have that passed as a law for other men.

I wouldn't seriously consider making all men into femdom slaves.

It's only abit of "fun"....

The world isn't a bdsm dungeon where female leaders just wear strapon and force subservient males to be "yes men"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It does affect everyone else though....cos you have to recognise all these pronouns or whatever otherwise you offend someone and get in trouble"

No you don't, just forget he and she call all people, person or people or by their name if it's known.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Haha you do make me giggle. Glad you’re still here "

Do you know me from "the other websight"?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Do people who don't like labels for sexuality, for example, feel the same about labels for gender?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Haha you do make me giggle. Glad you’re still here

Do you know me from "the other websight"?

"

Me? What other website. I don’t know you. That comment was to someone else.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"So what's everyone's opinion on the 64 different genders?...I'd assume everyone would think it's bullshit but I'm not sure as there is a tranny...gay and bisexual community on here as well as other liberal minded people so not sure what they think "

I think being liberal minded does not automatically make you correct.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh and I would prefer a man to sit down and pee as they make less bloody mess!! Ha

I can do that for you!

I can be your submissive if you were into that.

But my "hard limit" would be turning that into a real law and forcing other men to abide by it.

I think it's pretty cool to be dommed like that domestic my by a lady.

But I wouldn't have that passed as a law for other men.

I wouldn't seriously consider making all men into femdom slaves.

It's only abit of "fun"....

The world isn't a bdsm dungeon where female leaders just wear strapon and force subservient males to be "yes men"

"

Best get my strap on out and dusted then.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Haha you do make me giggle. Glad you’re still here

Do you know me from "the other websight"?

"

She was referring to my good self. Please feel free to find another lamp post to piss on.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do people who don't like labels for sexuality, for example, feel the same about labels for gender?"

I think gender and sexuality are a spectrum and hard to define by set lables.

Neurological study doesn't correlate with gender study.

The concept of gender in Thailand/japan wasn't the same as what it has become hear.

They accept a 3rd gender but don't push 64 genders.

Abrahamic religion did alot of damage.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Do people who don't like labels for sexuality, for example, feel the same about labels for gender?"

Probably. Fab forums are quite funny as there are a significant minority who panic at the idea of definitions. Fuck knows how they think science works or humans ever developed language, but I'd expect a correlation between the two.

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By *lenderfoxMan  over a year ago

Leeds

Which piece of German legislation is being referred to out of interest?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Oh and I would prefer a man to sit down and pee as they make less bloody mess!! Ha

I can do that for you!

I can be your submissive if you were into that.

But my "hard limit" would be turning that into a real law and forcing other men to abide by it.

I think it's pretty cool to be dommed like that domestic my by a lady.

But I wouldn't have that passed as a law for other men.

I wouldn't seriously consider making all men into femdom slaves.

It's only abit of "fun"....

The world isn't a bdsm dungeon where female leaders just wear strapon and force subservient males to be "yes men"

"

When women tell me what they think they want in a partner, they describe a friend. Some guys are dumb enough take their words literally and then baffled why the woman's sexual desire towards them evaporates. That's why beta males are so pathetic, they orchestrate their own misery.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do people who don't like labels for sexuality, for example, feel the same about labels for gender?

I think gender and sexuality are a spectrum and hard to define by set lables.

Neurological study doesn't correlate with gender study.

The concept of gender in Thailand/japan wasn't the same as what it has become hear.

They accept a 3rd gender but don't push 64 genders.

Abrahamic religion did alot of damage."

That's not what I asked.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Which piece of German legislation is being referred to out of interest?"

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-europe-30937492

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Which piece of German legislation is being referred to out of interest?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-europe-30937492"

"Despite growing domestication of men in this matter, urinating while standing up is still common practice".

There's no link to legislation in that article.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do people who don't like labels for sexuality, for example, feel the same about labels for gender?

Probably. Fab forums are quite funny as there are a significant minority who panic at the idea of definitions. Fuck knows how they think science works or humans ever developed language, but I'd expect a correlation between the two. "

Labeling has a vital function, it is an evolved cognitive ability which has historically aided survival and well-being.

When it comes to sexuality and gender though, (whilst not being panicked by them lol)I think that on the whole they often do more harm than good.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do people who don't like labels for sexuality, for example, feel the same about labels for gender?

I think gender and sexuality are a spectrum and hard to define by set lables.

Neurological study doesn't correlate with gender study.

The concept of gender in Thailand/japan wasn't the same as what it has become hear.

They accept a 3rd gender but don't push 64 genders.

Abrahamic religion did alot of damage.

That's not what I asked."

"He" and "she" is just fine.

Transgender is acceptable.

But some people don't see it that way.

They want to give everything a misdiagnosed psudo psychiatric lable.

And that's harmful.

If you watch chimpanzee (humans closest ancestor) that just fuck everything with no inhibitions.

It's all normal. Most of it changes like your bedsheets.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've read some of the list of the 64 and am wondering if some of them are made up or people have genuinely felt their gender is related to space.

My view is that a lot of it is kids trying to annoy their parents. Like we did being punks and skins when we were young. "

I think you could be right, there’s nowhere else for kids to rebel, cause it’s all been done before, In the same way they used to identify as mods, rockers, punks, teddy boys, goths etc

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So, as (stereotypes) a guy would normally offer to buy a drink for a lady, can I be the first to suggest a gender free person would/should always offer to buy the coffee....always. Just incase nobody knows the right way to do things. it’s only polite.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do people who don't like labels for sexuality, for example, feel the same about labels for gender?

Probably. Fab forums are quite funny as there are a significant minority who panic at the idea of definitions. Fuck knows how they think science works or humans ever developed language, but I'd expect a correlation between the two.

Labeling has a vital function, it is an evolved cognitive ability which has historically aided survival and well-being.

When it comes to sexuality and gender though, (whilst not being panicked by them lol)I think that on the whole they often do more harm than good."

Thanks for answering

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple  over a year ago

London


"I've read some of the list of the 64 and am wondering if some of them are made up or people have genuinely felt their gender is related to space.

My view is that a lot of it is kids trying to annoy their parents. Like we did being punks and skins when we were young.

I think you could be right, there’s nowhere else for kids to rebel, cause it’s all been done before, In the same way they used to identify as mods, rockers, punks, teddy boys, goths etc"

Clearly the kids want us to get hot under the collar and tell them it's all a load of nonsense. A better approach might be. "you're a demigirl dear? That's nice, what would you like for tea?"

They'd soon get fed up...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Part of the issue is that we confuse sex, sexuality and gender in Western discourse.

Sex is assigned at birth, and at a push there are four: male, female, hermaphrodite and neuter.

Sexuality is then how that person of whichever sex expresses themselves (or not). I've seen something to the order of 250 sexualities, unfortunately also called genders (they're not), and of those a small subset are simply antitheses of identified labels (if you're not asexual, you are allosexual, regardless of what other sexualities you may express).

Until we get over our Victorian ethics and start discussing sex and sexuality in a grown up way, we will continue to fudge the issue. Because gender is a linguistic construct, and there are three in most languages: male, female and thing (neuter).

Besides, until I can identify as attack helicopter, I see no reason to recognise anyone else's form of self-expression!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do people who don't like labels for sexuality, for example, feel the same about labels for gender?

Probably. Fab forums are quite funny as there are a significant minority who panic at the idea of definitions. Fuck knows how they think science works or humans ever developed language, but I'd expect a correlation between the two.

Labeling has a vital function, it is an evolved cognitive ability which has historically aided survival and well-being.

When it comes to sexuality and gender though, (whilst not being panicked by them lol)I think that on the whole they often do more harm than good.

Thanks for answering "

Every new label takes us away from raw vibrant living, turning us into robots. Labels act in the same way to life as they do in art galleries, with people spending more time and appreciation reading and studying the label than just rawly appreciating and taking in the art. Today too many of us are living our entire lives in that state.

Totally unrelated to the thread I know but what the heck... had to get it off my chest

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By *horecruxCouple  over a year ago

SE4


"Part of the issue is that we confuse sex, sexuality and gender in Western discourse.

Sex is assigned at birth, and at a push there are four: male, female, hermaphrodite and neuter.

Sexuality is then how that person of whichever sex expresses themselves (or not). I've seen something to the order of 250 sexualities, unfortunately also called genders (they're not), and of those a small subset are simply antitheses of identified labels (if you're not asexual, you are allosexual, regardless of what other sexualities you may express).

Until we get over our Victorian ethics and start discussing sex and sexuality in a grown up way, we will continue to fudge the issue. Because gender is a linguistic construct, and there are three in most languages: male, female and thing (neuter).

Besides, until I can identify as attack helicopter, I see no reason to recognise anyone else's form of self-expression!"

Hello fellow Apache o7

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do people who don't like labels for sexuality, for example, feel the same about labels for gender?

I think gender and sexuality are a spectrum and hard to define by set lables.

Neurological study doesn't correlate with gender study.

The concept of gender in Thailand/japan wasn't the same as what it has become hear.

They accept a 3rd gender but don't push 64 genders.

Abrahamic religion did alot of damage.

That's not what I asked.

"He" and "she" is just fine.

Transgender is acceptable.

But some people don't see it that way.

They want to give everything a misdiagnosed psudo psychiatric lable.

And that's harmful.

If you watch chimpanzee (humans closest ancestor) that just fuck everything with no inhibitions.

It's all normal. Most of it changes like your bedsheets.

"

FYI it’s only bonobo chimps that do this as their society is more dependent on touching as social interaction then the other chimpanzees and great apes

A little knowledge is a dangerous thing

I have a friend whose eldest son is a straight down the line military man and whose youngest son is transgender and has his own you tube channel giving make up tutorials.

For me that’s just modern life and there’s no need to stress about labels or discrimination

They are both nice kids, as are their sisters, and they are living the modern life as it is lived these days

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think it's nobody's business other than that person's. To you, it's use of a pronoun but to the person struggling with who they are it's a struggle with everything which has to be bloody hard. If it doesn't affect your life then so what? Use of the word 'tranny' is pretty poor form as well.

It does affect everyone else though....cos you have to recognise all these pronouns or whatever otherwise you offend someone and get in trouble

You'd only get into trouble if you persisted in addressing someone differently to how they want to be addressed and if you were doing it with the intent to make someone uncomfortable. It's down to the simple case of pronouns to someone who doesn't experience what this must feel like. I don't know how it must be but I very much doubt someone who is trans would go through what must be several painful surgeries and a lot of abuse and possible isolation from their family and their peers to live how they want to live.

Too many people are apparently desperate to believe they're going to be persecuted by the dreaded PC police. "

You don't understand the precedent that controlling speech creates.

I respect everybodies decisions and agree that they should be referred to respectfully...but making these law both under legal law and the ensueing Twitter mob rule is an unmitigated disaster.

I don't understand gender fluidity if I'm honest.

The other point I'll make is that these people shouldn't be so thin skinned. Everybody has a trigger that offends them but most develop coping strategies, appropriately thick skins and perspective on life.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do people who don't like labels for sexuality, for example, feel the same about labels for gender?

Probably. Fab forums are quite funny as there are a significant minority who panic at the idea of definitions. Fuck knows how they think science works or humans ever developed language, but I'd expect a correlation between the two.

Labeling has a vital function, it is an evolved cognitive ability which has historically aided survival and well-being.

When it comes to sexuality and gender though, (whilst not being panicked by them lol)I think that on the whole they often do more harm than good.

Thanks for answering

Every new label takes us away from raw vibrant living, turning us into robots. Labels act in the same way to life as they do in art galleries, with people spending more time and appreciation reading and studying the label than just rawly appreciating and taking in the art. Today too many of us are living our entire lives in that state.

Totally unrelated to the thread I know but what the heck... had to get it off my chest "

Your answer if very much related to the question asked.

I guess what I should have asked was, is an abundance of labels a help or a hindrance.

So many seem to hate sexuality being labelled, I was just curious to hear if they felt the same about gender labels.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do people who don't like labels for sexuality, for example, feel the same about labels for gender?

Probably. Fab forums are quite funny as there are a significant minority who panic at the idea of definitions. Fuck knows how they think science works or humans ever developed language, but I'd expect a correlation between the two.

Labeling has a vital function, it is an evolved cognitive ability which has historically aided survival and well-being.

When it comes to sexuality and gender though, (whilst not being panicked by them lol)I think that on the whole they often do more harm than good."

Evolutionary biology... the best vehicle to make virtually any theory sound plausible to the gullible if you wrap a nice story around it...preferably in the form of a good pop science beach read.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think it's nobody's business other than that person's. To you, it's use of a pronoun but to the person struggling with who they are it's a struggle with everything which has to be bloody hard. If it doesn't affect your life then so what? Use of the word 'tranny' is pretty poor form as well.

It does affect everyone else though....cos you have to recognise all these pronouns or whatever otherwise you offend someone and get in trouble

You'd only get into trouble if you persisted in addressing someone differently to how they want to be addressed and if you were doing it with the intent to make someone uncomfortable. It's down to the simple case of pronouns to someone who doesn't experience what this must feel like. I don't know how it must be but I very much doubt someone who is trans would go through what must be several painful surgeries and a lot of abuse and possible isolation from their family and their peers to live how they want to live.

Too many people are apparently desperate to believe they're going to be persecuted by the dreaded PC police.

You don't understand the precedent that controlling speech creates.

I respect everybodies decisions and agree that they should be referred to respectfully...but making these law both under legal law and the ensueing Twitter mob rule is an unmitigated disaster.

I don't understand gender fluidity if I'm honest.

The other point I'll make is that these people shouldn't be so thin skinned. Everybody has a trigger that offends them but most develop coping strategies, appropriately thick skins and perspective on life. "

But,who is being thin skinned? Is it the people who howl about being persecuted just because they are being asked to respect another persons feelings? Or appear to be upset that their former ability to abuse and attack minorities is being eroded a little more each day? Or those who say 'we didn't have this in my day and I don't understand it,so I'm going to belittle it'.?

I don't understand gender fluidity either,but it doesn't hurt me or cost me anything to respect a gender fluid persons desire to be addressed in the way that they like.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do people who don't like labels for sexuality, for example, feel the same about labels for gender?

Probably. Fab forums are quite funny as there are a significant minority who panic at the idea of definitions. Fuck knows how they think science works or humans ever developed language, but I'd expect a correlation between the two.

Labeling has a vital function, it is an evolved cognitive ability which has historically aided survival and well-being.

When it comes to sexuality and gender though, (whilst not being panicked by them lol)I think that on the whole they often do more harm than good.

Thanks for answering

Every new label takes us away from raw vibrant living, turning us into robots. Labels act in the same way to life as they do in art galleries, with people spending more time and appreciation reading and studying the label than just rawly appreciating and taking in the art. Today too many of us are living our entire lives in that state.

Totally unrelated to the thread I know but what the heck... had to get it off my chest "

Deep...I like it.

Am I the only one who is physically pained when I read album reviews in the weekend paper supplements. ....wankers!!

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By *Cocksucker84Man  over a year ago

newcastle


"I think it's nobody's business other than that person's. To you, it's use of a pronoun but to the person struggling with who they are it's a struggle with everything which has to be bloody hard. If it doesn't affect your life then so what? Use of the word 'tranny' is pretty poor form as well.

It does affect everyone else though....cos you have to recognise all these pronouns or whatever otherwise you offend someone and get in trouble

You'd only get into trouble if you persisted in addressing someone differently to how they want to be addressed and if you were doing it with the intent to make someone uncomfortable. It's down to the simple case of pronouns to someone who doesn't experience what this must feel like. I don't know how it must be but I very much doubt someone who is trans would go through what must be several painful surgeries and a lot of abuse and possible isolation from their family and their peers to live how they want to live.

Too many people are apparently desperate to believe they're going to be persecuted by the dreaded PC police.

You don't understand the precedent that controlling speech creates.

I respect everybodies decisions and agree that they should be referred to respectfully...but making these law both under legal law and the ensueing Twitter mob rule is an unmitigated disaster.

I don't understand gender fluidity if I'm honest.

The other point I'll make is that these people shouldn't be so thin skinned. Everybody has a trigger that offends them but most develop coping strategies, appropriately thick skins and perspective on life.

But,who is being thin skinned? Is it the people who howl about being persecuted just because they are being asked to respect another persons feelings? Or appear to be upset that their former ability to abuse and attack minorities is being eroded a little more each day? Or those who say 'we didn't have this in my day and I don't understand it,so I'm going to belittle it'.?

I don't understand gender fluidity either,but it doesn't hurt me or cost me anything to respect a gender fluid persons desire to be addressed in the way that they like."

This!!!! By saying people should be thicker skinned you're basically saying people should have to put up with being treated like shit rather than saying to the people doing the persecuting that they should mind their own business. It's because people have turned a blind eye towards the poor treatment of minorities that we're now seeing the pushback from it. Live and let live. We don't have to understand it and we don't have to put people down to the point where it means they consider taking their own lives.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think it's nobody's business other than that person's. To you, it's use of a pronoun but to the person struggling with who they are it's a struggle with everything which has to be bloody hard. If it doesn't affect your life then so what? Use of the word 'tranny' is pretty poor form as well.

It does affect everyone else though....cos you have to recognise all these pronouns or whatever otherwise you offend someone and get in trouble

You'd only get into trouble if you persisted in addressing someone differently to how they want to be addressed and if you were doing it with the intent to make someone uncomfortable. It's down to the simple case of pronouns to someone who doesn't experience what this must feel like. I don't know how it must be but I very much doubt someone who is trans would go through what must be several painful surgeries and a lot of abuse and possible isolation from their family and their peers to live how they want to live.

Too many people are apparently desperate to believe they're going to be persecuted by the dreaded PC police.

You don't understand the precedent that controlling speech creates.

I respect everybodies decisions and agree that they should be referred to respectfully...but making these law both under legal law and the ensueing Twitter mob rule is an unmitigated disaster.

I don't understand gender fluidity if I'm honest.

The other point I'll make is that these people shouldn't be so thin skinned. Everybody has a trigger that offends them but most develop coping strategies, appropriately thick skins and perspective on life.

But,who is being thin skinned? Is it the people who howl about being persecuted just because they are being asked to respect another persons feelings? Or appear to be upset that their former ability to abuse and attack minorities is being eroded a little more each day? Or those who say 'we didn't have this in my day and I don't understand it,so I'm going to belittle it'.?

I don't understand gender fluidity either,but it doesn't hurt me or cost me anything to respect a gender fluid persons desire to be addressed in the way that they like."

Exactly right - thank you for raising that beacon of sanity

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By *vilgasamWoman  over a year ago

The dot in the i

Ok, so I’ve been reading through here and never knew there were 64, apparently I’m a little behind the times here, does anyone have a list of this 64 at all?

Asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Evolutionary biology... the best vehicle to make virtually any theory sound plausible to the gullible if you wrap a nice story around it...preferably in the form of a good pop science beach read. "

At last!! Someone else sees it

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"So what's everyone's opinion on the 64 different genders?...I'd assume everyone would think it's bullshit but I'm not sure as there is a tranny...gay and bisexual community on here as well as other liberal minded people so not sure what they think "

My opinion is that it’s all a bit too much much for me to get my head around . I know I’m 57 and I guess I am way too old to understand all this new terminology , and it baffles me .

I don’t spend my life telling everyone I’m a man , a male identifying as a male , and the women I know do the same as females identifying as female but not shouting about it . So why do the other 62 varieties feel the need to do so ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've read some of the list of the 64 and am wondering if some of them are made up or people have genuinely felt their gender is related to space.

Can you post a link? I couldn't find a list for the full 64."

I don't think it's an allowed website. I just Googled what are the 64 genders?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've read some of the list of the 64 and am wondering if some of them are made up or people have genuinely felt their gender is related to space.

Can you post a link? I couldn't find a list for the full 64.

I don't think it's an allowed website. I just Googled what are the 64 genders?"

Thanks, I found it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do people who don't like labels for sexuality, for example, feel the same about labels for gender?

Probably. Fab forums are quite funny as there are a significant minority who panic at the idea of definitions. Fuck knows how they think science works or humans ever developed language, but I'd expect a correlation between the two.

Labeling has a vital function, it is an evolved cognitive ability which has historically aided survival and well-being.

When it comes to sexuality and gender though, (whilst not being panicked by them lol)I think that on the whole they often do more harm than good.

Thanks for answering

Every new label takes us away from raw vibrant living, turning us into robots. Labels act in the same way to life as they do in art galleries, with people spending more time and appreciation reading and studying the label than just rawly appreciating and taking in the art. Today too many of us are living our entire lives in that state.

Totally unrelated to the thread I know but what the heck... had to get it off my chest

Your answer if very much related to the question asked.

I guess what I should have asked was, is an abundance of labels a help or a hindrance.

So many seem to hate sexuality being labelled, I was just curious to hear if they felt the same about gender labels."

I can't see how labels help. There are people getting het up about being called madam or Sir by people who can't see what's going on in their heads. How are we supposed to know who wants to be called what?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I was introduced to a girl at a party once, nice girl wearing a flowery dress, boots with hair and makeup done, we all had a good few drinks and a good friendly night together all crashing out on sofas and chairs. Woke up the next morning to find her locked in the bathroom feeling ill, I turned to her friend and asked if "she" was ok, the girl then stormed out of the bathroom still in dress yelling in my face saying not to call her a "she" as today she feels like being male, and started crying in the corner which then made me to look the scumbag, I wasnt even told she was gender fluid. Im sorry but if it looks like a shit, smells like a shit then im gonna go ahead and say that its a shit.

Just because a small percentage of people cant figure out what they are it doesnt mean the rest of the world has to tip toe around everybody they meet for fear of the pronouns, we accept who you are and the way you live your lives but to give people shit for saying what they see is ridiculous.

My local library had to rerecord the closing time announcement because it began with "ladies and gentlemen" and one customer found it offensive and made several complaints til they changes it. Fucking ridiculous behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The world is getting stranger by the day is what I reckon. Soon be FUBAR. - him

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%. "

Where did you get those stats?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"There's two sexes defined by ones role in the reproduction process. Gender is a set of stereotypes setting out social expectations that are generally thought to apply to the two sexes.

As no one conforms one hundred per cent to either male or female stereotypes there are, in fact, as many genders as there are people.

There are two genders that operate on a spectrum, you can imagine it as 0-100 for ease with feminine at 100 and masculine at 0. A 30 masculine and 40 masculine are both masculine, just to different degrees. There are two genders, 99.7% have a sex that fits into 2 categories. There's really no need for an infinite number of categories to describe the remaining 0.3%.

Where did you get those stats?"

Williams Institute at UCLA 

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Do people who don't like labels for sexuality, for example, feel the same about labels for gender?

Probably. Fab forums are quite funny as there are a significant minority who panic at the idea of definitions. Fuck knows how they think science works or humans ever developed language, but I'd expect a correlation between the two.

Labeling has a vital function, it is an evolved cognitive ability which has historically aided survival and well-being.

When it comes to sexuality and gender though, (whilst not being panicked by them lol)I think that on the whole they often do more harm than good."

I honestly can't see any possible way that labels harm people. I can see how not having labels makes the world insanely complicated.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Williams Institute at UCLA "

Or professor Jordan Peterson.

I like prof Peterson.

He's alot better at being diplomatic than I am.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I honestly can't see any possible way that labels harm people. I can see how not having labels makes the world insanely complicated. "

life without labels is complicated. Which is the problem here, if someone wants to be referred to as a specific gender type that they are not outwardly displaying , they possibly need to wear a label

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I honestly can't see any possible way that labels harm people. I can see how not having labels makes the world insanely complicated.

life without labels is complicated. Which is the problem here, if someone wants to be referred to as a specific gender type that they are not outwardly displaying , they possibly need to wear a label"

Does 64 labels not make it more complicated?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I honestly can't see any possible way that labels harm people. I can see how not having labels makes the world insanely complicated.

life without labels is complicated. Which is the problem here, if someone wants to be referred to as a specific gender type that they are not outwardly displaying , they possibly need to wear a label"

I just don't remember this being a complicated area growing up. You had cross dressers, transvestites and transsexuals. If you were a man who liked sucking dicks and smashing puss then you were bi. What was the problem with those terms?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I honestly can't see any possible way that labels harm people. I can see how not having labels makes the world insanely complicated.

life without labels is complicated. Which is the problem here, if someone wants to be referred to as a specific gender type that they are not outwardly displaying , they possibly need to wear a label

Does 64 labels not make it more complicated?"

Yes, a policy of appeasement towards extremists does not work

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I honestly can't see any possible way that labels harm people. I can see how not having labels makes the world insanely complicated.

life without labels is complicated. Which is the problem here, if someone wants to be referred to as a specific gender type that they are not outwardly displaying , they possibly need to wear a label

Does 64 labels not make it more complicated?

Yes, a policy of appeasement towards extremists does not work "

I don't have a problem with labels if people are happy to have them. I just question the quantity in this instance.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I honestly can't see any possible way that labels harm people. I can see how not having labels makes the world insanely complicated. "

In this case labels promote conformity and tribalism. You are expected to fit with one of the 64 labels. If you don't you either need to conform to one of them or petition for yet another. Before the label exists people may be a bit vague about what they are. The label brings clarity and identity and, with that, military operations i.e defence, attack, entrenchment, fortification, etc

The single umbrella term "other" or "fluid" does away with this and infers the need to ask the individual precisely where they fit rather than pigeon holing them. As such, in this case less is definitely more... an improvement

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I honestly can't see any possible way that labels harm people. I can see how not having labels makes the world insanely complicated.

In this case labels promote conformity and tribalism. You are expected to fit with one of the 64 labels. If you don't you either need to conform to one of them or petition for yet another. Before the label exists people may be a bit vague about what they are. The label brings clarity and identity and, with that, military operations i.e defence, attack, entrenchment, fortification, etc

The single umbrella term "other" or "fluid" does away with this and infers the need to ask the individual precisely where they fit rather than pigeon holing them. As such, in this case less is definitely more... an improvement "

Do you know how many times in my 32 years of life I've ever needed to ask someone their gender? Literally never happened. Sex, yes. Gender, no.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you know how many times in my 32 years of life I've ever needed to ask someone their gender? Literally never happened. Sex, yes. Gender, no. "

In 59 years on this planet, I have never needed to know either, sex or gender makes no difference to me how people identify. They are people who fit somewhere on the scale of friend, through associate to complete cunt. Being an analogue scale there are more than 64 options and people's positions on the scale may be fluid.

Only those who insist on having a particular term used in reference to them need to wear a badge, I have the right to consider any who need to wear a badge to be at 'pretentious Pratt on my scale

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Do you know how many times in my 32 years of life I've ever needed to ask someone their gender? Literally never happened. Sex, yes. Gender, no.

In 59 years on this planet, I have never needed to know either, sex or gender makes no difference to me how people identify. They are people who fit somewhere on the scale of friend, through associate to complete cunt. Being an analogue scale there are more than 64 options and people's positions on the scale may be fluid.

Only those who insist on having a particular term used in reference to them need to wear a badge, I have the right to consider any who need to wear a badge to be at 'pretentious Pratt on my scale "

Whenever someone starts a sentence with "I identify as", I just want to complete it for them with "a cunt" or a "a self absorbed cunt".

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Do you think we will get 64 different typs of bathrooms to choose from to suit all?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you think we will get 64 different typs of bathrooms to choose from to suit all?"

Can anyone without Google name the 64 states referred to in this thread?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you think we will get 64 different typs of bathrooms to choose from to suit all?

Can anyone without Google name the 64 states referred to in this thread?"

I was wondering how many even read them.

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By *irthandgirthMan  over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


""Beta males" = sitzspinklers

Don't get any piss on the toilet seat. Men need to be trained to do as they are told....

Real men can do what they want...

But spinklers need to be white knights and yes men. And they aren't allowed to pee standing up."

I like a good sit down wee sometimes. Occasionally you get to have that poo you didn't know you needed. More time with a book having some peace and quiet is never a bad thing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you think we will get 64 different typs of bathrooms to choose from to suit all?

Can anyone without Google name the 64 states referred to in this thread?"

Sure

1) male

2) female

3)

...hmmm let me get back to you on that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Irony/hypocrisy - People who bang on about the "pc brigade", thought police, re-education centres and whatever other bollocks, yet happily and in the very same thread expound on how other people shouldn't be allowed to think and say what the fuck they like about themselves and their own lives

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By *irthandgirthMan  over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"Irony/hypocrisy - People who bang on about the "pc brigade", thought police, re-education centres and whatever other bollocks, yet happily and in the very same thread expound on how other people shouldn't be allowed to think and say what the fuck they like about themselves and their own lives "

I don't think for most it is about allowing people to think what they like about themselves. More like being told that it is more important to consider that person's feelings than have their own. Everyone's opinion should either be equally valid or noones is.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Irony/hypocrisy - People who bang on about the "pc brigade", thought police, re-education centres and whatever other bollocks, yet happily and in the very same thread expound on how other people shouldn't be allowed to think and say what the fuck they like about themselves and their own lives "

If you want to think you are a spoon then you can walk around all day with a bowl of soup for all I care. Forcing me to call you a spoon is what i have a problem with.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

At an all girls school I know they recently had to de-genderise everything for all the girls because one "girl" identified as a boy. Now the teachers are having to learn not to relate to the girls as girls and to be inclusive of the possibility that they aren't.

If that isn't an example of one person holding the rest to ransom I don't know what is.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At an all girls school I know they recently had to de-genderise everything for all the girls because one "girl" identified as a boy. Now the teachers are having to learn not to relate to the girls as girls and to be inclusive of the possibility that they aren't.

If that isn't an example of one person holding the rest to ransom I don't know what is. "

Why would an all girls school have gender separated toilets, changing rooms, etc. in the first place? But supposing they did, and it was a girls school one pupil deciding they are not a girl would disqualify that pupil from attending.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At an all girls school I know they recently had to de-genderise everything for all the girls because one "girl" identified as a boy. Now the teachers are having to learn not to relate to the girls as girls and to be inclusive of the possibility that they aren't.

If that isn't an example of one person holding the rest to ransom I don't know what is. "

Yes I saw that. They had to refer to them as students and not girls.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At an all girls school I know they recently had to de-genderise everything for all the girls because one "girl" identified as a boy. Now the teachers are having to learn not to relate to the girls as girls and to be inclusive of the possibility that they aren't.

If that isn't an example of one person holding the rest to ransom I don't know what is.

Why would an all girls school have gender separated toilets, changing rooms, etc. in the first place? But supposing they did, and it was a girls school one pupil deciding they are not a girl would disqualify that pupil from attending."

No. Apparently it's now sexist to call girls "girls". Gender neutral terms now need to be used so as to allow them the flexibility of not being girls

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By *horecruxCouple  over a year ago

SE4


"At an all girls school I know they recently had to de-genderise everything for all the girls because one "girl" identified as a boy. Now the teachers are having to learn not to relate to the girls as girls and to be inclusive of the possibility that they aren't.

If that isn't an example of one person holding the rest to ransom I don't know what is.

Why would an all girls school have gender separated toilets, changing rooms, etc. in the first place? But supposing they did, and it was a girls school one pupil deciding they are not a girl would disqualify that pupil from attending.

No. Apparently it's now sexist to call girls "girls". Gender neutral terms now need to be used so as to allow them the flexibility of not being girls "

Wimmin then

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At an all girls school I know they recently had to de-genderise everything for all the girls because one "girl" identified as a boy. Now the teachers are having to learn not to relate to the girls as girls and to be inclusive of the possibility that they aren't.

If that isn't an example of one person holding the rest to ransom I don't know what is.

Why would an all girls school have gender separated toilets, changing rooms, etc. in the first place? But supposing they did, and it was a girls school one pupil deciding they are not a girl would disqualify that pupil from attending.

No. Apparently it's now sexist to call girls "girls". Gender neutral terms now need to be used so as to allow them the flexibility of not being girls "

So are you saying that it is no longer allowed to be a girls school, and any gender can go? Or do they only admit young females still, but call them by a different name...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At an all girls school I know they recently had to de-genderise everything for all the girls because one "girl" identified as a boy. Now the teachers are having to learn not to relate to the girls as girls and to be inclusive of the possibility that they aren't.

If that isn't an example of one person holding the rest to ransom I don't know what is.

Why would an all girls school have gender separated toilets, changing rooms, etc. in the first place? But supposing they did, and it was a girls school one pupil deciding they are not a girl would disqualify that pupil from attending.

No. Apparently it's now sexist to call girls "girls". Gender neutral terms now need to be used so as to allow them the flexibility of not being girls

So are you saying that it is no longer allowed to be a girls school, and any gender can go? Or do they only admit young females still, but call them by a different name...

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The latter

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So are you saying that it is no longer allowed to be a girls school, and any gender can go? Or do they only admit young females still, but call them by a different name...

The latter "

So it is still called a girls school, and no facilities or signage have needed to be changed, they just call the class atendees students... no big deal really is it. If the girl who identified as a boy was demanding boys changing rooms, and boys only rugby team it may be something to complain about...

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"So are you saying that it is no longer allowed to be a girls school, and any gender can go? Or do they only admit young females still, but call them by a different name...

The latter

So it is still called a girls school, and no facilities or signage have needed to be changed, they just call the class atendees students... no big deal really is it. If the girl who identified as a boy was demanding boys changing rooms, and boys only rugby team it may be something to complain about... "

Teachers losing their jobs because they won't pander to the delusions of the juvenile and mentally ill, nothing to see here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So are you saying that it is no longer allowed to be a girls school, and any gender can go? Or do they only admit young females still, but call them by a different name...

The latter

So it is still called a girls school, and no facilities or signage have needed to be changed, they just call the class atendees students... no big deal really is it. If the girl who identified as a boy was demanding boys changing rooms, and boys only rugby team it may be something to complain about... "

The point I was making was that one student has weilded total control over the entire school, holding it to ransom over their identification. The change itself is minor and silly. But why should that student have had that power over everyone else? Now girls can't be girls any more

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The point I was making was that one student has weilded total control over the entire school, holding it to ransom over their identification. The change itself is minor and silly. But why should that student have had that power over everyone else? Now girls can't be girls any more "

The other girls if they want to be called girls could of course speak up and demand that they are...

one only rules if the thousand do nothing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The point I was making was that one student has weilded total control over the entire school, holding it to ransom over their identification. The change itself is minor and silly. But why should that student have had that power over everyone else? Now girls can't be girls any more

The other girls if they want to be called girls could of course speak up and demand that they are...

one only rules if the thousand do nothing"

So now the onus is on girls who identify as girls to petition to be called girls again?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan  over a year ago

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Be who you want to be. Everyone should be treated with common respect and humanity. I sure thats all most ask. You should not be discriminated against but also understand this world is for the many, not just the few. So it may not its not allways practical meet everyone's expectations with regards to their identity when balancing the needs and resourses of the wider community. And understanding and compassion goes both ways, so no need to just down shout hate crime if someone innocently assumes your pronoun based on a fairly normal perception template of the world.

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