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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve recently in the last couple of months had my first bi experience, had a bj of a guy.I’m a married guy btw. Please don’t judge!!!! I’m in love and happily married baring a bit of a vanilla sex life. Anyway, I sometimes crave sucking a cock or riding one, I have no other interest in guys, none whatsoever. Purely cock only, and once I’ve cum, the idea repulses me. I’ve never fancied a bloke, or never wanted to hug, kiss or anything like that. I don’t mind, and am certainly open to new things, just bit confused as I’ve never felt like this before. Do other people think like this? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do other people like riding cock? Yes it's a popular past time in Brighton. "
No way! No , that’s not what I’m getting at, I’ve gone all my life as wat I thought was straight and now I’m having thoughts of cock, why now at mid thirties? Never crossed my mind before. Am I now bi? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Do other people like riding cock? Yes it's a popular past time in Brighton.
No way! No , that’s not what I’m getting at, I’ve gone all my life as wat I thought was straight and now I’m having thoughts of cock, why now at mid thirties? Never crossed my mind before. Am I now bi? "
If you're wanting to do it again then yes I'd say that makes you bi or at least bi-curious and the fact you only "discovered" it recently is irrelevant really. |
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"Do other people like riding cock? Yes it's a popular past time in Brighton.
No way! No , that’s not what I’m getting at, I’ve gone all my life as wat I thought was straight and now I’m having thoughts of cock, why now at mid thirties? Never crossed my mind before. Am I now bi? "
Round here, we prefer to call it fab-straight |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"He likes cock... He, s gay
I like burgers... I'm not a vegetarian "
What a ridiculous and ill informed statement!!
If he liked cock and only cock then you would be right but that's not the case, so you're wrong. |
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"Do other people like riding cock? Yes it's a popular past time in Brighton.
No way! No , that’s not what I’m getting at, I’ve gone all my life as wat I thought was straight and now I’m having thoughts of cock, why now at mid thirties? Never crossed my mind before. Am I now bi? "
You can't be straight if you are now thinking of cock this ruins that perfect untarnished reputation you've been accumulating sorry
Can have you down as "fab straight" if you don't like people pointing ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do other people like riding cock? Yes it's a popular past time in Brighton.
No way! No , that’s not what I’m getting at, I’ve gone all my life as wat I thought was straight and now I’m having thoughts of cock, why now at mid thirties? Never crossed my mind before. Am I now bi?
You can't be straight if you are now thinking of cock this ruins that perfect untarnished reputation you've been accumulating sorry
Can have you down as "fab straight" if you don't like people pointing ?"
No “untarnished reputation” here, couldn’t give two fu*ks! Just curious to here peoples thoughts. |
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"Do other people like riding cock? Yes it's a popular past time in Brighton.
No way! No , that’s not what I’m getting at, I’ve gone all my life as wat I thought was straight and now I’m having thoughts of cock, why now at mid thirties? Never crossed my mind before. Am I now bi?
You can't be straight if you are now thinking of cock this ruins that perfect untarnished reputation you've been accumulating sorry
Can have you down as "fab straight" if you don't like people pointing ?
No “untarnished reputation” here, couldn’t give two fu*ks! Just curious to here peoples thoughts. "
My thoughts are that you are bi and you should be honest with your wife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you have internalised homophobia
if you didn't, it wouldn't repulse you
i don't say that lightly, but guilt is one thing, repulsion is another
learn to deal with who and what you are, a married bi man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you have internalised homophobia
if you didn't, it wouldn't repulse you
i don't say that lightly, but guilt is one thing, repulsion is another
learn to deal with who and what you are, a married bi man "
and before i sound like a total douche, it ain't easy
i'm 20 years in to bi life and there are still days when i wish i didn't dig cock
but you do have to come to terms with it - you will end up bullying yourself otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"you have internalised homophobia
if you didn't, it wouldn't repulse you
i don't say that lightly, but guilt is one thing, repulsion is another
learn to deal with who and what you are, a married bi man "
Cool, I can assure u Its not homophobia. My brother is gay and I love him to bits, and his fella. What I was trying to say, it’s when I get really horny, I get these thoughts. If I was to think of having a cock in my mouth after I’ve cum, it physically makes me feel sick, but I don’t think there is anything wrong with it. If that makes sense. Also, I’m been true to myself “dealing with who I am” as this as only been going on a month or so, and I’m happily trying to find myself!! |
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"My thoughts are that you are bi and you should be honest with your wife. "
When I met my ex, she said I meet other men as well you know (meaning that she used to be a streetwalker), but that she only met one regular Gentleman on a fortnightly basis. I replied, Yes, I meet other blokes too.
It's good if you are open, there is no closet to hide in these days matey, cum and enjoy the fun   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your gay... There's no 2 ways about it... Part time or not"
*you're
Clearly you snigger in the playground calling people gay all the time.
Whenever you actually mature, you might find there is a world of difference between bi, gay or straight and so many nuances* between. Wanting to suck cock isn't gay if you still want pussy.
*ask mummy to explain what that means. |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
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I wouldn't worry about what you fantasise over, think about or anything else. If you fancy sucking a cock then just do it and enjoy it. You will then think about it more and probably do it more.
You are you not anything or anybody else. Have fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you have internalised homophobia
if you didn't, it wouldn't repulse you
i don't say that lightly, but guilt is one thing, repulsion is another
learn to deal with who and what you are, a married bi man
Cool, I can assure u Its not homophobia. My brother is gay and I love him to bits, and his fella. What I was trying to say, it’s when I get really horny, I get these thoughts. If I was to think of having a cock in my mouth after I’ve cum, it physically makes me feel sick, but I don’t think there is anything wrong with it. If that makes sense. Also, I’m been true to myself “dealing with who I am” as this as only been going on a month or so, and I’m happily trying to find myself!! "
As you've asked I would say you are bi and in denial. You shouldn't be. It's nothing to do with labels, just be yourself, accept it and you won't guilt trip yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He likes cock... He, s gay
I like burgers... I'm not a vegetarian
What a ridiculous and ill informed statement!!
If he liked cock and only cock then you would be right but that's not the case, so you're wrong."
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
"He likes cock... He, s gay
I like burgers... I'm not a vegetarian
What a ridiculous and ill informed statement!!
If he liked cock and only cock then you would be right but that's not the case, so you're wrong. "
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"Labels arnt for people so just accept that you must be bi because if not then you wouldn't even think about sucking cock never mind actually doing it"
If you had a cock, I'd suck yours missus, as long as it was behind the bike sheds  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"you have internalised homophobia
if you didn't, it wouldn't repulse you
i don't say that lightly, but guilt is one thing, repulsion is another
learn to deal with who and what you are, a married bi man
Cool, I can assure u Its not homophobia. My brother is gay and I love him to bits, and his fella. What I was trying to say, it’s when I get really horny, I get these thoughts. If I was to think of having a cock in my mouth after I’ve cum, it physically makes me feel sick, but I don’t think there is anything wrong with it. If that makes sense. Also, I’m been true to myself “dealing with who I am” as this as only been going on a month or so, and I’m happily trying to find myself!! "
I'd still argue it was homophobia
It takes many forms
I love my gay friends, but I am still homophobic to a degree and, recently, I have slept with way more guys than I have girls
It's not a bad thing, I manage it at the same time as accepting it
It comes down to social conditioning in many cases, which is why a lot of guys lose their shit at the thought of being pinned with anything but the 'straight' badge
I understand my initial comment was a little brusque
I know all the feelings and 'turmoil' you feel right now because I have felt them all too
I came out the other side minus a missus, but a much happier man
Your 'journey' will take you wherever it takes you
Good Luck with it |
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