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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How long should you wait for someone to arrange a meet?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How longs a piece of string?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It depends on the person and your circumstances.

For me if they are nearby and our schedules matched I'd want to meet for a social ASAP to see if we click.

I'm currently counting down the days until I see someone from further afield. The wait is torture but I know it'll be worth it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think usually there's a pace to these things. You chat, you flirt, you decide to meet, you arrange dates. It should flow quite easily.

With me, however, I'm much more vanilla with how I'm chatting to people at the moment. For me it's all about whether I connect with the person and like them (as well as fancy them of course

). If so I'll definitely try my best to meet them at some point, even if only for a brew. So for me at the mo there may be a little lag between saying hi and bubbling up a meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

3 days 11 hours

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I waited a year once because the guy was not in my country, it was alright, bit better than average.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I waited a year once because the guy was not in my country, it was alright, bit better than average."

Worth the wait then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"3 days 11 hours"

Thats very precise

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

"How long should you wait for someone to arrange a meet? "

If you want to meet someone why don’t you suggest it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think usually there's a pace to these things. You chat, you flirt, you decide to meet, you arrange dates. It should flow quite easily.

With me, however, I'm much more vanilla with how I'm chatting to people at the moment. For me it's all about whether I connect with the person and like them (as well as fancy them of course

). If so I'll definitely try my best to meet them at some point, even if only for a brew. So for me at the mo there may be a little lag between saying hi and bubbling up a meet "

It sometimes takes a while to sync diaries and be able to meet. Its the ones that seem keen on meeting but never make the move to meet that confuse me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"How longs a piece of string?

A humongous ball at moment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wait til my patience runs out. Or interest. Or both.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It depends on the person and your circumstances.

For me if they are nearby and our schedules matched I'd want to meet for a social ASAP to see if we click.

I'm currently counting down the days until I see someone from further afield. The wait is torture but I know it'll be worth it. "

Yeah me too for trying to meet asap

Have an amazing time with your meet

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

"I waited a year once because the guy was not in my country, it was alright, bit better than average.

Worth the wait then? "

Meh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Wait til my patience runs out. Or interest. Or both."

Yeah I'm getting to that stage... I dont have any patience at the best of times

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I waited a year once because the guy was not in my country, it was alright, bit better than average.

Worth the wait then?

Meh."

You didnt repeat then

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

"I waited a year once because the guy was not in my country, it was alright, bit better than average.

Worth the wait then?

Meh.

You didnt repeat then "

Don't think i even verified him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I waited a year once because the guy was not in my country, it was alright, bit better than average.

Worth the wait then?

Meh.

You didnt repeat then

Don't think i even verified him.

Haha oh dear

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How long should you wait for someone to arrange a meet? "

Errrr you could ask them

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"How long should you wait for someone to arrange a meet?

Errrr you could ask them"

I have but they've been nonspecific

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How long should you wait for someone to arrange a meet? "
three weeks max

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I waited 3 yrs once but it was well worth it..

My last social was arranged for the day after we started chatting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Really depends who you're talking to, some people are just really interesting to chat to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as it takes. If they don't keep up contact though I could lose interest and won't always want to start again.

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Currently stringing it out for aaagggeeesss due to recent surgery. Luckily I know some lovely patient people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As long as it takes. If they don't keep up contact though I could lose interest and won't always want to start again."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think usually there's a pace to these things. You chat, you flirt, you decide to meet, you arrange dates. It should flow quite easily.

With me, however, I'm much more vanilla with how I'm chatting to people at the moment. For me it's all about whether I connect with the person and like them (as well as fancy them of course

). If so I'll definitely try my best to meet them at some point, even if only for a brew. So for me at the mo there may be a little lag between saying hi and bubbling up a meet

It sometimes takes a while to sync diaries and be able to meet. Its the ones that seem keen on meeting but never make the move to meet that confuse me"

I'm confused why you don't arrange the meet yourself. Especially as single guys are so petrified if making the tiniest mistake and getting blocked, quite reasonably at times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will."

Yeah thinking along those lines

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think usually there's a pace to these things. You chat, you flirt, you decide to meet, you arrange dates. It should flow quite easily.

With me, however, I'm much more vanilla with how I'm chatting to people at the moment. For me it's all about whether I connect with the person and like them (as well as fancy them of course

). If so I'll definitely try my best to meet them at some point, even if only for a brew. So for me at the mo there may be a little lag between saying hi and bubbling up a meet

It sometimes takes a while to sync diaries and be able to meet. Its the ones that seem keen on meeting but never make the move to meet that confuse me

I'm confused why you don't arrange the meet yourself. Especially as single guys are so petrified if making the tiniest mistake and getting blocked, quite reasonably at times. "

I have asked but they say they do want to meet but not meeting anyone right now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will."

I usually take weeks or more than a month to get to know someone better to meet. I would never meet quickly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Currently stringing it out for aaagggeeesss due to recent surgery. Luckily I know some lovely patient people

Thats reasonable though

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"How long should you wait for someone to arrange a meet? three weeks max "

How about for 2nd meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I waited 3 yrs once but it was well worth it..

My last social was arranged for the day after we started chatting

3 years? Oh dont say that lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Really depends who you're talking to, some people are just really interesting to chat to "

I dont mind chatting but its nice to chat in person too

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"As long as it takes. If they don't keep up contact though I could lose interest and won't always want to start again."

Yeah thats not happened for me yet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

I usually take weeks or more than a month to get to know someone better to meet. I would never meet quickly. "

Been there tried that after 3 months still making excuses of why they can't meet.

I'm not looking for a relationship there are other sites for that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

I usually take weeks or more than a month to get to know someone better to meet. I would never meet quickly.

Been there tried that after 3 months still making excuses of why they can't meet.

I'm not looking for a relationship there are other sites for that."

I do want to meet someone but I want to meet a swinger so I will take all the time I like. There are others on here that want the same. Can you suggest other sites where I can find a guy who wants a swinging relationship?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

I usually take weeks or more than a month to get to know someone better to meet. I would never meet quickly. "

I do that too but sometimes its about timing and when i have free time to meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

I usually take weeks or more than a month to get to know someone better to meet. I would never meet quickly.

I do that too but sometimes its about timing and when i have free time to meet"

Exactly. I travel around the world every week with work so sometimes it can take ages to sync. I also need to build up a connection off fab texting wise first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

I usually take weeks or more than a month to get to know someone better to meet. I would never meet quickly.

Been there tried that after 3 months still making excuses of why they can't meet.

I'm not looking for a relationship there are other sites for that."

Me either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's an impossible question to answer- until you give up and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

I usually take weeks or more than a month to get to know someone better to meet. I would never meet quickly.

Been there tried that after 3 months still making excuses of why they can't meet.

I'm not looking for a relationship there are other sites for that.

I'm sure there are more than a few on here that would be up for that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as it takes if I think he's worth it

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By *ickawitchCouple over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"I have asked but they say they do want to meet but not meeting anyone right now"

This would bother me...big difference between I want to meet but I am snowed under with work and I am not meeting anyone right now - that sounds quite dismissive

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That's an impossible question to answer- until you give up and move on."

Even if you like the person?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will."

If someone was pushing to meet within a week then I would find them a little impatient and desperate. That i am not, so would find it off putting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have asked but they say they do want to meet but not meeting anyone right now

This would bother me...big difference between I want to meet but I am snowed under with work and I am not meeting anyone right now - that sounds quite dismissive

Yeah thats what i'm thinking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

I usually take weeks or more than a month to get to know someone better to meet. I would never meet quickly.

I do that too but sometimes its about timing and when i have free time to meet"

I agree we all have to accept that we can't meet instantly we have real life's to live and need to plan our free time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

If someone was pushing to meet within a week then I would find them a little impatient and desperate. That i am not, so would find it off putting. "

Yeah no time for the pushy ones

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"As long as it takes if I think he's worth it

I think so but not so sure its reciprocated

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By *tirluvMan over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

4 minutes and 37 seconds -no longer

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By *uuLuuWoman over a year ago

Watford

"As long as it takes if I think he's worth it

I think so but not so sure its reciprocated "

Be proactive just say " are we meeting or not? And if we are when are you free?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

If someone was pushing to meet within a week then I would find them a little impatient and desperate. That i am not, so would find it off putting. "

I think you misunderstand I'm not desperate and would not be pushing to meet within a week for sex but I would like to meet in public ASAP to verify the person is real, matches pic and wishes to continue chatting with option to meet again in the future.

I have had to many LONG, LONG chats and never meet or they never turn up (timewasters) or they are not who they claim to be.

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

I usually take weeks or more than a month to get to know someone better to meet. I would never meet quickly.

Been there tried that after 3 months still making excuses of why they can't meet.

I'm not looking for a relationship there are other sites for that.

Following

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

I usually take weeks or more than a month to get to know someone better to meet. I would never meet quickly.

Been there tried that after 3 months still making excuses of why they can't meet.

I'm not looking for a relationship there are other sites for that.

Following

Oh we have a stalker

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

I usually take weeks or more than a month to get to know someone better to meet. I would never meet quickly.

Been there tried that after 3 months still making excuses of why they can't meet.

I'm not looking for a relationship there are other sites for that.

Following

Oh we have a stalker

Absolutely...hah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as you want

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

I usually take weeks or more than a month to get to know someone better to meet. I would never meet quickly.

Been there tried that after 3 months still making excuses of why they can't meet.

I'm not looking for a relationship there are other sites for that.

Following

Oh we have a stalker

Absolutely...hah

Us janners need to stick together.

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

I usually take weeks or more than a month to get to know someone better to meet. I would never meet quickly.

Been there tried that after 3 months still making excuses of why they can't meet.

I'm not looking for a relationship there are other sites for that.

Following

Oh we have a stalker

Absolutely...hah

Us janners need to stick together.

Let me know when you're coming down to Pmymouth would be great to go out for a drink.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

I usually take weeks or more than a month to get to know someone better to meet. I would never meet quickly.

Been there tried that after 3 months still making excuses of why they can't meet.

I'm not looking for a relationship there are other sites for that.

Following

Oh we have a stalker

Absolutely...hah

Us janners need to stick together.

Let me know when you're coming down to Pmymouth would be great to go out for a drink. "

I will be down in the next week but will be a quick visit but will be down lots in the coming months to look after my Mum. Will need a drink or two. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

14 mins. Any time before that is much too soon. I think this is in the faqs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think if you’re just looking to meet for a social and he's stalling it could be time to move on. If he’s not willing to commit to a quick coffee, is he really going to commit to anything more? And if there’s no sex in prospect, are you really happy to have just another pen pal?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

I usually take weeks or more than a month to get to know someone better to meet. I would never meet quickly.

Been there tried that after 3 months still making excuses of why they can't meet.

I'm not looking for a relationship there are other sites for that.

Following

Oh we have a stalker

Absolutely...hah

Us janners need to stick together.

Let me know when you're coming down to Pmymouth would be great to go out for a drink. "

who me!

May be within 30 miles of Plymouth next month

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

I usually take weeks or more than a month to get to know someone better to meet. I would never meet quickly.

Been there tried that after 3 months still making excuses of why they can't meet.

I'm not looking for a relationship there are other sites for that.

Following

Oh we have a stalker

Absolutely...hah

Us janners need to stick together.

Let me know when you're coming down to Pmymouth would be great to go out for a drink.

I will be down in the next week but will be a quick visit but will be down lots in the coming months to look after my Mum. Will need a drink or two. x"

Well I'll pop you over a message.

You can always come over to mine for time out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

I usually take weeks or more than a month to get to know someone better to meet. I would never meet quickly.

Been there tried that after 3 months still making excuses of why they can't meet.

I'm not looking for a relationship there are other sites for that.

Following

Oh we have a stalker

Absolutely...hah

Us janners need to stick together.

Let me know when you're coming down to Pmymouth would be great to go out for a drink.

I will be down in the next week but will be a quick visit but will be down lots in the coming months to look after my Mum. Will need a drink or two. x

Well I'll pop you over a message.

You can always come over to mine for time out.

Thank you. That would be nice. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

I usually take weeks or more than a month to get to know someone better to meet. I would never meet quickly.

Been there tried that after 3 months still making excuses of why they can't meet.

I'm not looking for a relationship there are other sites for that.

Following

Oh we have a stalker

Absolutely...hah

Us janners need to stick together.

Let me know when you're coming down to Pmymouth would be great to go out for a drink.

I will be down in the next week but will be a quick visit but will be down lots in the coming months to look after my Mum. Will need a drink or two. x

Well I'll pop you over a message.

You can always come over to mine for time out.

Thank you. That would be nice. x"

Hmm after all that you have just agreed to meet someone in less than a week

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As long as it takes if I think he's worth it

I think so but not so sure its reciprocated "

I try to make sure it is, and, touch wood, haven't been wrong ... yet. Fingers crossed it stays that way x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

I usually take weeks or more than a month to get to know someone better to meet. I would never meet quickly.

Been there tried that after 3 months still making excuses of why they can't meet.

I'm not looking for a relationship there are other sites for that.

Following

Oh we have a stalker

Absolutely...hah

Us janners need to stick together.

Let me know when you're coming down to Pmymouth would be great to go out for a drink.

I will be down in the next week but will be a quick visit but will be down lots in the coming months to look after my Mum. Will need a drink or two. x

Well I'll pop you over a message.

You can always come over to mine for time out.

Thank you. That would be nice. x

Hmm after all that you have just agreed to meet someone in less than a week

We’ve spoken on here before. A social was going to be organised in Plymouth and I was up for going.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

On here if you're chatting to someone and you're getting a good vibe I like to arrange a social as soon as is possible. If you get on over coffee, again, as soon as you both have the opportunity.

If he told me he wasn't meeting or was being vague I'd lose interest and move on ***next***

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"On here if you're chatting to someone and you're getting a good vibe I like to arrange a social as soon as is possible. If you get on over coffee, again, as soon as you both have the opportunity.

If he told me he wasn't meeting or was being vague I'd lose interest and move on ***next***

"
agree strike while the irons hot then they or you dont go cold

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By *rivateparts!Man over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Could also just be shyness.

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I prefer to meet asap for a coffee so I can see who I'm chatting with and see if we click. Have found in the past that if they are not looking to meet after a week then they never will.

I usually take weeks or more than a month to get to know someone better to meet. I would never meet quickly.

Been there tried that after 3 months still making excuses of why they can't meet.

I'm not looking for a relationship there are other sites for that.

Following

Oh we have a stalker

Absolutely...hah

Us janners need to stick together.

Let me know when you're coming down to Pmymouth would be great to go out for a drink.

I will be down in the next week but will be a quick visit but will be down lots in the coming months to look after my Mum. Will need a drink or two. x

Well I'll pop you over a message.

You can always come over to mine for time out.

Thank you. That would be nice. x

Hmm after all that you have just agreed to meet someone in less than a week

We’ve spoken on here before. A social was going to be organised in Plymouth and I was up for going. "

Im still on that. Just real life is somewhat stressful right now.

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By *anana JoeMan over a year ago

Sheffield

"How long should you wait for someone to arrange a meet? "

I treat it like the January sales and will camp put for up to 4 days.

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