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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm trying to do a jigsaw with my 4 year old and I'm pretty sure it's taking much longer than it should! I'm just so bad at jigsaws!! I'm also bad at things like DIY, I'd struggle to change a plug 
What things are you bad at?? Help me from feeling completely useless please  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Small talk. "
I find myself working so hard trying to start conversations with people I don't know too well, or end up talking about things I have no practical interest in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Eye contact
Small talk
Being tactfull in social situations
Empathy
On the flipside I'm morral, non narcasistic I'm not crule like some people.
I can't tell white lies or use pretty euphemisms.
My bluntness could be taken that way but that's lack of tolerance on behalf of someone else.
I tend to offend the easily offended yet my intentions are rarely to cause harm.
Your dealing with a person like spok from star trek. I'm from "the wrong plannet"
In my world things are blunt and logical.
There's no other way for me.
It's an anxious depressing cross to bear. I get mixed receptions like marmite.
I would choose to have less neurones and more synapses like a normal person. But I will settle for being a loner with a decent iq.
The way I look at the world is different. I'm not typical.
With this there are advantages and disadvantaged.
I was shit at football but good at swimming.
My focus and abilities alone outweigh my tallent in teams.
Meyers Briggs and "how have you felt in the last 2 weeks" don't cover this.
It's a gift and a curse..
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"Relationships. Impossible things
I thought you were going to say not breaking things
Back in hospital as I type
What have you done now?... "
Having a new cast it's not right. Been here 3 hours now and still no signs of getting out. |
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"Eye contact
Small talk
Being tactfull in social situations
Empathy
On the flipside I'm morral, non narcasistic I'm not crule like some people.
I can't tell white lies or use pretty euphemisms.
My bluntness could be taken that way but that's lack of tolerance on behalf of someone else.
I tend to offend the easily offended yet my intentions are rarely to cause harm.
Your dealing with a person like spok from star trek. I'm from "the wrong plannet"
In my world things are blunt and logical.
There's no other way for me.
It's an anxious depressing cross to bear. I get mixed receptions like marmite.
I would choose to have less neurones and more synapses like a normal person. But I will settle for being a loner with a decent iq.
The way I look at the world is different. I'm not typical.
With this there are advantages and disadvantaged.
I was shit at football but good at swimming.
My focus and abilities alone outweigh my tallent in teams.
Meyers Briggs and "how have you felt in the last 2 weeks" don't cover this.
It's a gift and a curse..
Do you have Aspergers Syndrome? Being neuro atypical is an important % of society
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Adulting"
I’m starting a petition to get that added to the dictionary! I thought only I used it
As for things I’m bad at? Dates. Specifically remembering them. Hopeless! I don’t know peoples birthdays, I’d forget anniversary’s. Total plank! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm trying to do a jigsaw with my 4 year old and I'm pretty sure it's taking much longer than it should! I'm just so bad at jigsaws!! I'm also bad at things like DIY, I'd struggle to change a plug
What things are you bad at?? Help me from feeling completely useless please "
Bad at remembering where i put things |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Adulting
I’m starting a petition to get that added to the dictionary! I thought only I used it
As for things I’m bad at? Dates. Specifically remembering them. Hopeless! I don’t know peoples birthdays, I’d forget anniversary’s. Total plank! "
Definitely needs adding to the dictionary, I've been using this for years, so much so my son now uses it and he's 20 and hates adulting
I'm crap at taking advice, I always do the opposite and that's why my life is a mess |
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"Adulting
I’m starting a petition to get that added to the dictionary! I thought only I used it
As for things I’m bad at? Dates. Specifically remembering them. Hopeless! I don’t know peoples birthdays, I’d forget anniversary’s. Total plank!
Definitely needs adding to the dictionary, I've been using this for years, so much so my son now uses it and he's 20 and hates adulting
I'm crap at taking advice, I always do the opposite and that's why my life is a mess "
Adulting, love this term, don't think I'll ever be good at this, feel far to immature. Daughter deffo took on this role xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Planning. I have much more confidence in my ability to ‘wing it’ or improvise when needed than spending lots of time on something, where afterwards I say to myself. I could have done that better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get lost! Everywhere! I’d get lost in a walk in wardrobe my sense of direction is that bad.. if Ride ever left me in the middle of a strange town I’d for sure be on the side of a milk carton within a few days
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Driving within speed limits
Tell me about it! "
I drove on a road last night pavement on one side street lamps on one side a long straight Road adjacent to a motorway I got to 40 maybe 45 no speed signs anywhere but was reliably informed by person in back it was a 30 mph and space between lampposts designated speed just thought this was a little naughty as the road leant itself to a higher speed but was told it's a common area to get caught, literally no speed limit signs |
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By *i1971Man
over a year ago
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Not great at ball sports - presume something to do with coordination 
Wish my swimming skills were good, especially as I like beaches & would love to swim more.
In the real world, useless at reading the signs if someone's interested in me & lack in confidence to ask.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Finding a man to Fuck Sasha whilst I'm down the pub and wipe his cock on the curtains. That and sarcasm."
Where do you hold the curtains when you close them of an evening? Near the top or the middle?...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being confident in myself, years of being told no one wants you is a hard habit to break x
Oo I have the same problem, then when you are told good things I find it hard to believe them xx"
It’s a shame that ‘self’ confidence can be knocked from other people and how they are with you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being confident in myself, years of being told no one wants you is a hard habit to break x
Oo I have the same problem, then when you are told good things I find it hard to believe them xx"
Yes, I’m the same x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being confident in myself, years of being told no one wants you is a hard habit to break x
Oo I have the same problem, then when you are told good things I find it hard to believe them xx
It’s a shame that ‘self’ confidence can be knocked from other people and how they are with you. "
Yes, says more about the person doing that than the recipient x |
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