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when people say "i want a man with an athletic muscular body"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

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By *mp411Man over a year ago

chester

Or asking for a face pic when they won’t send you one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never say that..

Although it would be nice

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By *iss SJWoman over a year ago

Hull

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

How can you tell someone is stuck up by just looking?

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

So just need a man with that body who likes a size 22 gal and it's a perfect match.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman over a year ago

Tamworth

Anyone can say they'd like to play with whoever they want to - they either get what they ask for, or they don't.

I take it you've been turned down?

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Or they say friendly with good sense of humour and enjoy banter and their reply comes in the form of 'lol x'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

Women...and men...can ask for whatever the fuck they like on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

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you got a hard hat?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

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not sure what your point is tbh... ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So you're saying a size 22 lady should not be allowed to meet such people because she's a larger lady?

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By *an_LexaCouple over a year ago

Sunderland

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

Nothing wrong with that. Plenty match that criteria I would imagine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

not sure what your point is tbh... ?"

He got kb'd by the looks of things!

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

People are allowed to want what they want. Whether it suits you or will get them very far is another matter.

I'm not that big, but I am plus size. I don't specify body type, but I've had some athletic types appreciate my body very much. Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah you got turned down by a size 22 woman huh? aww poor you! haha.

Like others have said, anyone is free to seek whoever they like. Don't like it? Tough!!

Way to go by showing your true colours. Got yourself alot more blocks now I bet!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a lot of preferences on the guys/women I’ll meet, I’m not stuck up but will snap when someone obviously hasn’t read my profile, when you’re bombarded all day every day it’s hard not to, I will be sticking to what I want though, oh, and I’m a size 8 so there’s some holes in your theory

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

How can you tell someone is stuck up by just looking? "

Don’t you know arrogant a-holes are born with the gift of the all seeing eye

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surely anyone is allowed to fancy any size and shape they do? Bit harsh that like tbh

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

Women...and men...can ask for whatever the fuck they like on here. "

Well said.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ah you got turned down by a size 22 woman huh? aww poor you! haha.

Like others have said, anyone is free to seek whoever they like. Don't like it? Tough!!

Way to go by showing your true colours. Got yourself alot more blocks now I bet!"

Well, I've just turned him down but, as you can't tell what size I am from my photos, I'm assuming he's just getting a few rejections and he's hitting out!!

I think my decision to turn him down was right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

You saying big girls can't ask for their ideal man?

Personally you sound like a prick.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's because he has no muscles

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why do some guys think larger women don’t deserve a guy with a good body?! There are plenty of guys who love large ladies. Why do we need to go for someone like us? I’m short but love extremely tall men yet people never seem to think this is wrong, but some men think bigger women can’t request what they like!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I want a man with an athletic muscular body....

But those guys always seem to prefer size 22 or more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

You're better at guessing ladies sizes than me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's because he has no muscles

OP? He's athletic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So what? You said you fuck hot women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want a man with an athletic muscular body....

But those guys always seem to prefer size 22 or more

More of a workout for them.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

You've only been here 2wks.

You have a lot to learn about this site, the people on it, how they choose to use, and how it all works.

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By *adyx4Woman over a year ago

Durham

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

you got a hard hat? "

He can loan mine!

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By *wisted999Man over a year ago

North Bucks

You say you are athletic OP so what exactly are you complaining about?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

How can you tell someone is stuck up by just looking? "

What he means is, he doesn’t fit the type that the woman is asking for so he feels a little bit bitter and inadequate.

So automatically assumes a woman with a preference that isn’t him is stuck up. It’s a regular comment made by guys who can’t handle polite rejection.

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

Freedom of choice. Im 5ft 6 but dont want men the same height.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want a man with an athletic muscular body....

But those guys always seem to prefer size 22 or more

More of a workout for them."

I guess I’m to easy to throw around. Boring.

Cake anyone?

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

Ok Op! I’m not going to have a go at you - I’m going to tell you exactly how it is on Fab!

This is fab - it isn’t a dating site - and it doesn’t run like a dating site!

On fab there are a minimum of 10-15 times more men than women! Many of the women are also working single parents (myself included) - and so have a lot less free time than the many guys who are pursuing them - which skews the statistics even more!

Add to that - we’re offering (in the main) something that’s still rare in the real world - nsa sex without being in a relationship - and usually bloody good sex at that (after all - we’re here because we like sex!)

Now - put the boot on the other foot! Imagine YOU were in massive demand purely because you have a willy! Imagine hundreds of women were pretty much begging you to meet them every day! Are you, in all seriousness, telling me that you’d continually meet any and every type of woman? In all likelihood you’d do what many ladies do - you’d spell out what your preferred type is (in my case it’s a combination of pretty good looks, a well maintained body and a cracking personality) - and you’d stick to that because you COULD!! If hundreds of women are clamouring to meet you - you wouldn’t meet one you weren’t particularly attracted to - would you!

Now - is this all necessarily fair? Quite possibly not! I’ve met some guys who are so damned gorgeous I high five myself in the mirror at bedtime - and I KNOW I’m not all that!!

It’s the way it is though - and to do well on here op - you have to sell your product (yourself) far better than you’re currently doing op!

Peachy xx

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By *mazin port sportMan over a year ago

pontypool

The more annoying profiles are the ones generated by the site to keep (usually men) interested.

1) The single body part pic which isn't supported by anything else.

2)Absolute no knowledge of where they propose to live.

3) Verifications that frequently change

Its just a numbers thing, women out number men by a massive ratio... they need to keep men interested somehow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

Ok Op! I’m not going to have a go at you - I’m going to tell you exactly how it is on Fab!

This is fab - it isn’t a dating site - and it doesn’t run like a dating site!

Now - is this all necessarily fair? Quite possibly not! I’ve met some guys who are so damned gorgeous I high five myself in the mirror at bedtime - and I KNOW I’m not all that!!

It’s the way it is though - and to do well on here op - you have to sell your product (yourself) far better than you’re currently doing op!

Peachy xx"

I'm ok with what you just said.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

Whether she is a size 22 or not, whether she is stuck up or not, both mean fuck all.

What does matter is you didn't cut the mustard.

The fact you have taken to the forums about it says more you and your entitlement than it does about hers.

You come across as a slapped arse

Get over it

Get over yourself

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By *mazin port sportMan over a year ago

pontypool

Yes Peachy, I agree.

Is all about the product....the 'fuller' woman may well struggle on getting the 'athletic' fit man on a dating site... however he's quite willing to have them for NSA.

= both are happy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The more annoying profiles are the ones generated by the site to keep (usually men) interested.

1) The single body part pic which isn't supported by anything else.

2)Absolute no knowledge of where they propose to live.

3) Verifications that frequently change

Its just a numbers thing, women out number men by a massive ratio... they need to keep men interested somehow."

I don't really try to be Mr profile wanker.

What it is is:

I'm not really a swinger...I've been into bdsm mainly.

Although I'm "sub" I don't start playing that game with randomers.

I try to write non sexual nice inboxes.

My profile looks bad probably. I'm after something specific.

Comes across wrongly sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

Ok Op! I’m not going to have a go at you - I’m going to tell you exactly how it is on Fab!

This is fab - it isn’t a dating site - and it doesn’t run like a dating site!

Now - is this all necessarily fair? Quite possibly not! I’ve met some guys who are so damned gorgeous I high five myself in the mirror at bedtime - and I KNOW I’m not all that!!

It’s the way it is though - and to do well on here op - you have to sell your product (yourself) far better than you’re currently doing op!

Peachy xx

I'm ok with what you just said."

And you understand why these women ask for what they do?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes Peachy, I agree.

Is all about the product....the 'fuller' woman may well struggle on getting the 'athletic' fit man on a dating site... however he's quite willing to have them for NSA.

= both are happy. "

I'm not hear for nsa.

That's pointless when you like something kinky.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ppl can ask for whatever they like. Don’t mean there gonna get it lol.

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By *rkeb3Man over a year ago

east Lancashire road

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

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yes they have to look for fit guys otherwise 22 +22 would be belly button fucking hahaha lmao

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Isnt that a personal preference?

Im gym fit & muscular i prefer curvy woman... size 8 & 10's a no no.

Best experience ive had is with a size 16 woman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm ok with what you just said.

And you understand why these women ask for what they do?

Yah. They are ENTITLED to state a preference.

They have every right.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone has a preference

(Seems to be cropping up a lot recently

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd consoder myself in ok shape... could someone please clarify who I am allowed to meet, I dont want to break the size code

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes Peachy, I agree.

Is all about the product....the 'fuller' woman may well struggle on getting the 'athletic' fit man on a dating site... however he's quite willing to have them for NSA.

= both are happy.

I'm not hear for nsa.

That's pointless when you like something kinky."

I disagree, kink is a lot of fun and some (not all but some) can be done on one offs, just make sure you’re not stupid about it

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By *mazin port sportMan over a year ago

pontypool

Isnt that what it's all about, you're not going to be everyone's squirting orgasm.

Its a fuck site, we look for sex, not dates, not partners....surely a specialist site would be more your teabagging cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Isnt that what it's all about, you're not going to be everyone's squirting orgasm.

Its a fuck site, we look for sex, not dates, not partners....surely a specialist site would be more your teabagging cup of tea."

I'm a moderator on "the other websight"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And?...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

How do you know what size she is just by looking at a pic?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are fat girls not allowed to have choice too?

I'm fat and I will only play with someone who I'm attracted to, does being fat make me no longer allowed to have preferences?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

How do you know what size she is just by looking at a pic?

You must read through some of the profiles I've read through to get an idea what I'm talking about.

You try to read some profiles and they are just personal attacks against the reader.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is like the, I’m only seeking exceptional when there far from exceptional themselves.

Just scroll past and let them carry on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

How do you know what size she is just by looking at a pic?

You must read through some of the profiles I've read through to get an idea what I'm talking about.

You try to read some profiles and they are just personal attacks against the reader."

Good for the block list then. I wouldn’t waste my time worrying about them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

How do you know what size she is just by looking at a pic?

You must read through some of the profiles I've read through to get an idea what I'm talking about.

You try to read some profiles and they are just personal attacks against the reader."

Ahh well, I'm told my profile is honest and funny ... Pretty much like me (Oh, and I'm fat too!

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

How do you know what size she is just by looking at a pic?

You must read through some of the profiles I've read through to get an idea what I'm talking about.

You try to read some profiles and they are just personal attacks against the reader."

Most of us have read a profile or two. You need to take things less personally, and consider the perspective of women who are bombarded with messages. It's not aimed at you, necessarily.

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By *horehouseprincessWoman over a year ago

small town near Munich

Guess fat girls are not allowed to like fit guys?

The stuck up bit i can understand but the rest? Not so much.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

yes they have to look for fit guys otherwise 22 +22 would be belly button fucking hahaha lmao "

That's a very true statement.

I once had a fat man tell me I would gain 2 inches of cock if I lost a couple of stone.

He didn't seem to notice it was his stomach getting stuck on my inner thighs-thinner men don't have that problem.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She did the right thing turning you down!

You sound like god gifts when in fact you are not. You then come on the forums and Bitch about it.

1. Very narrowed minded!

2. Against forum rules!

If you were a moderator you’d know this sunshine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm ok with what you just said.

And you understand why these women ask for what they do?

Yah. They are ENTITLED to state a preference.

They have every right.

What's your problem then? You stated you only fuck hot women on another thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I still don’t get why this is a problem

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm ok with what you just said.

And you understand why these women ask for what they do?

Yah. They are ENTITLED to state a preference.

They have every right.

What's your problem then? You stated you only fuck hot women on another thread. "

Maybe those “hot” women he only fucks do not want him anymore and have moved onto hotter men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When you find a Domme OP do us a favour and ask her to teach you that size and attitude aren't related

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What's your problem then? You stated you only fuck hot women on another thread. "

On that basis. What's the problem with what I said???

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Maybe those “hot” women he only fucks do not want him anymore and have moved onto hotter men.

I've been working in Asia.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's your problem then? You stated you only fuck hot women on another thread.

On that basis. What's the problem with what I said???"

REAL hot men on here can fuck hot woman below average can’t!

Know your place in the pecking order and don’t go above your own expectations.

I class myself as pretty hot and no not in a million years!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The more annoying profiles are the ones generated by the site to keep (usually men) interested.

1) The single body part pic which isn't supported by anything else.

2)Absolute no knowledge of where they propose to live.

3) Verifications that frequently change

Its just a numbers thing, women out number men by a massive ratio... they need to keep men interested somehow.

I don't really try to be Mr profile wanker.

What it is is:

I'm not really a swinger...I've been into bdsm mainly.

Although I'm "sub" I don't start playing that game with randomers.

I try to write non sexual nice inboxes.

My profile looks bad probably. I'm after something specific.

Comes across wrongly sometimes."

OP I think your choice of profile name with limit the number of women who would be interested in you. Very few women like submissive men and if you are looking for a "Domme" who knows what she is doing then I am afraid you won't have a lot of luck on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

yes they have to look for fit guys otherwise 22 +22 would be belly button fucking hahaha lmao

That's a very true statement.

I once had a fat man tell me I would gain 2 inches of cock if I lost a couple of stone.

He didn't seem to notice it was his stomach getting stuck on my inner thighs-thinner men don't have that problem."

Don't they make you laugh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

REAL hot men on here can fuck hot woman below average can’t!

Know your place in the pecking order and don’t go above your own expectations.

I class myself as pretty hot and no not in a million years!!!!!!!"

That's your PRIVALIDGE

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

REAL hot men on here can fuck hot woman below average can’t!

Know your place in the pecking order and don’t go above your own expectations.

I class myself as pretty hot and no not in a million years!!!!!!!

That's your PRIVALIDGE "

And that’s the ladies privilege who turned you down!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Isnt that what it's all about, you're not going to be everyone's squirting orgasm.

Its a fuck site, we look for sex, not dates, not partners....surely a specialist site would be more your teabagging cup of tea.

I'm a moderator on "the other websight""

Then you will know that Dommes are Unicorns.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

And that’s the ladies privilege who turned you down!

Ofcourse.

It's equal footing. (Technicly)

Though I've never reacted bitterly to a woman im not into.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ooooooooooor because men find them attractive. Trust me, us women can tell if a man just wants a fuck and ‘any hole will do’ or if they’re genuinely attracted to us

Errr

Nahhh

Women often get it totally wrong

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

And that’s the ladies privilege who turned you down!

Ofcourse.

It's equal footing. (Technicly)

Though I've never reacted bitterly to a woman im not into."

Really? What's this thread about then?! I'm confused

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You clearly haven't seen some of the profiles us men do on here..... same as we don't get to see other mens unless our settings allow it. Don't get me wrong there are plenty of beautiful women on here. Patiently waiting for all the women to "gang up" now as you do because a guy has an opinion on this site."

I do agree. That's why it sometimes works to be bruitally honest.

Some will agree strongly while others block you.

But it tends to out people who you would be wasteing time with in terms of chemestry/personality.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP so this lass turned you down, it happens but why come on here and start a thread about it?

That is nasty as the person you turned down as seen it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do agree. That's why it sometimes works to be bruitally honest.

Some will agree strongly while others block you.

But it tends to out people who you would be wasteing time with in terms of chemestry/personality.

Its not just that.....as a man you can't have an opinion on here which is even slightly controversial without the women taking it personally ganging up on you like a bunch of Amazonian warriors protecting their tribe.

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By *horecruxCouple over a year ago

SE4

Aha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do agree. That's why it sometimes works to be bruitally honest.

Some will agree strongly while others block you.

But it tends to out people who you would be wasteing time with in terms of chemestry/personality.

I don't feel the need to protect anyone. When someone posts something that I feel is hypocritical I say something, sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP so this lass turned you down, it happens but why come on here and start a thread about it?

That is nasty as the person you turned down as seen it. "

I'm not making this personal against anyone who turned me down whatsoever.

I just thought it would be a fun devisive and relivant observation/topic.

This isnt personal vs anyone in particular.

It's something I've observed through being hear 1 week.

As you may notice I'm quite blunt and logical in every situation which triggers easily offended people..

It's a cross I bear offline and online.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Ooooooooooor because men find them attractive. Trust me, us women can tell if a man just wants a fuck and ‘any hole will do’ or if they’re genuinely attracted to us

Errr

Nahhh

Women often get it totally wrong

No, seriously.

We don't

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ooooooooooor because men find them attractive. Trust me, us women can tell if a man just wants a fuck and ‘any hole will do’ or if they’re genuinely attracted to us

Errr

Nahhh

Women often get it totally wrong

How do you know that? You don't know what the athletic, fit or whatever men on here think; or even those not on here.

Believe it or not, in the real world, fit people are attracted to overweight people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How do you know that? You don't know what the athletic, fit or whatever men on here think; or even those not on here.

Believe it or not, in the real world, fit people are attracted to overweight people.

I've seen old wrinkly 80 year olds being pushed around in weelchairs by young beautifull Asian women.

It's not my thing...

That's why I bear with this...

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By *annyboy2Man over a year ago

stuttgart

2018 and people still think that a certain body type should dictate what is and is not acceptable for you.

It really hasn't changed much huh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP so this lass turned you down, it happens but why come on here and start a thread about it?

That is nasty as the person you turned down as seen it.

I'm not making this personal against anyone who turned me down whatsoever.

I just thought it would be a fun devisive and relivant observation/topic.

This isnt personal vs anyone in particular.

It's something I've observed through being hear 1 week.

As you may notice I'm quite blunt and logical in every situation which triggers easily offended people..

It's a cross I bear offline and online.

Maybe tone it down then OP

Think before you type

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Your comment isn’t an “opinion” it’s you nastily describing people you have no interest in for no other reason than you’re not getting the attention you think you deserve, I assume. "

I think you have a very one sided view of things.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your comment isn’t an “opinion” it’s you nastily describing people you have no interest in for no other reason than you’re not getting the attention you think you deserve, I assume.

I think you have a very one sided view of things.

Says the guy having a fit because a woman of a size 22 wants an athletic man.

You are bitter. Own it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do agree. That's why it sometimes works to be bruitally honest.

Some will agree strongly while others block you.

But it tends to out people who you would be wasteing time with in terms of chemestry/personality.

The forums are very tribal, despite people trying to maintain it's all light hearted and just a bit of fun. Don't worry about it though bud, you might not have thought but some of them act this way because they've fucked and tasted each other's cum, so naturally is going to give them a special bond and seem biased, makes it quite unique from other forums I think. People assume a lot as well I guess to save time.

Might be bad advice if you want to get laid as much as possible but I try to stay honest, even if it makes a blemish on me.

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

What's your problem then? You stated you only fuck hot women on another thread.

On that basis. What's the problem with what I said???

REAL hot men on here can fuck hot woman below average can’t!

Know your place in the pecking order and don’t go above your own expectations.

I class myself as pretty hot and no not in a million years!!!!!!!"

Firstly, that's not true. I've met plenty of very hot women from here.

Secondly; pecking order? We aren't all queuing up to fuck anybody who wants to you know.

You can absolutely go "above expectations" on here if you so choose.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Maybe tone it down then OP

Think before you type

Believe me. I just wanted a nice heated and blunt debate.

I'm not trying to generate excessive trigger warnings.

I also see an inequality in privalidge but I'm not going to go protesting.

It's just a point.

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By *ommyxyzMan over a year ago

Harlow

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

Ok Op! I’m not going to have a go at you - I’m going to tell you exactly how it is on Fab!

This is fab - it isn’t a dating site - and it doesn’t run like a dating site!

Now - is this all necessarily fair? Quite possibly not! I’ve met some guys who are so damned gorgeous I high five myself in the mirror at bedtime - and I KNOW I’m not all that!!

It’s the way it is though - and to do well on here op - you have to sell your product (yourself) far better than you’re currently doing op!

Peachy xx"

Obviously right in every detail, but. If it were the other way round I bet some of us, (me) actually would try to meet every single women that messaged us, me, till I, we died a very happy death of whatever kills you when you have sex 10 times a day for as long as you can get it up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You are bitter. Own it. "

I've had my options to get my asphetic fixcations taken care of a long time ago in a life I left behind.

Now I'm back in this world I see how it was all "easy come easy go" with the careers I've had.

And looking now for something more and genuine.

So I'm not bitter because of any particular woman.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm ok with what you just said.

And you understand why these women ask for what they do?

Yah. They are ENTITLED to state a preference.

They have every right.

What's your problem then? You stated you only fuck hot women on another thread. "

Sounds like another single guy, messaging fat chicks thinking he is hedging his bets because... Thinking us fat birds are all desperate and will fuck anyone that offers... But I could be wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And that’s the ladies privilege who turned you down!

Ofcourse.

It's equal footing. (Technicly)

Though I've never reacted bitterly to a woman im not into.

Really? What's this thread about then?! I'm confused "

He only gets pissy if they aren't into him... Especially if he feels he is more attractive than they are

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Sounds like another single guy, messaging fat chicks thinking he is hedging his bets because... Thinking us fat birds are all desperate and will fuck anyone that offers... But I could be wrong

They would never really know either way.

Your talking asif everyone is atune to real adult conversations and topics.

I don't message the really fat ones because I cut off after a certain point (which seriously isn't shallow considering what I am dealing with).

I won't message people I don't have SOME attraction to.

Sometimes I hope a personality will take over and radiate more inner beauty....But heard to dreaming

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By *hyBoyLancsMan over a year ago

Lancs

"I’ve met some guys who are so damned gorgeous I high five myself in the mirror at bedtime - and I KNOW I’m not all that!!"

Slightly off-subject but from personal experience (we chatted at a club a couple of years ago), I can say that I KNOW you are all that, articulate, humorous and physically attractive! You probably don't realise that a fit and athletic young man should be high-fiving his reflection too, after meeting Peachy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"He only gets pissy if they aren't into him... Especially if he feels he is more attractive than they are

I don't live in a narcasistic princess bubble.

My nose is big and my face is abit worn.

But I do jog minimum 5 miles per morning.

My body is no athlete but I did become a blob working in Asia.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm ok with what you just said.

And you understand why these women ask for what they do?

Yah. They are ENTITLED to state a preference.

They have every right.

What's your problem then? You stated you only fuck hot women on another thread.

Sounds like another single guy, messaging fat chicks thinking he is hedging his bets because... Thinking us fat birds are all desperate and will fuck anyone that offers... But I could be wrong

In the real world I've met or known of many fat chicks who will fuck any bloke that shows interest, I've met a few skinny ones too, maybe even just as many, who are just the same.

But it isn't the real world so people tend to seem brazen about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why are you so bothered?

Attitude before everything I reckon.

I've not had any meets yet but I'm learning and making friends. Should be meeting a few when I'm back home.

People are here for sex and want their preference. They ain't gonna fuck you out of sympathy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or asking for a face pic when they won’t send you one

Women hold all the cards on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Fair play to the 6 pack men.

They train like fucking beasts for way more than me.

And their partner's might not equally make the effort.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds like another single guy, messaging fat chicks thinking he is hedging his bets because... Thinking us fat birds are all desperate and will fuck anyone that offers... But I could be wrong

They would never really know either way.

Your talking asif everyone is atune to real adult conversations and topics.

I don't message the really fat ones because I cut off after a certain point (which seriously isn't shallow considering what I am dealing with).

I won't message people I don't have SOME attraction to.

Sometimes I hope a personality will take over and radiate more inner beauty....But heard to dreaming

If that was the case then you would never have made your original statement, hence my assumption. Also, your idea of too fat to fuck will be different to others

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm ok with what you just said.

And you understand why these women ask for what they do?

Yah. They are ENTITLED to state a preference.

They have every right.

What's your problem then? You stated you only fuck hot women on another thread.

Sounds like another single guy, messaging fat chicks thinking he is hedging his bets because... Thinking us fat birds are all desperate and will fuck anyone that offers... But I could be wrong

In the real world I've met or known of many fat chicks who will fuck any bloke that shows interest, I've met a few skinny ones too, maybe even just as many, who are just the same.

But it isn't the real world so people tend to seem brazen about it."

So that means others must do the same?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If that was the case then you would never have made your original statement, hence my assumption. Also, your idea of too fat to fuck will be different to others

I justified the original statement by mentioning what's in a sizable number of women's profiles.

I justifyed my original statement by refering to "female privalidge/porogative" (in rejecting people) being much more extreme and blunt genrally than my original statement.

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By *rReyMan over a year ago

Fleet

"Ah you got turned down by a size 22 woman huh? aww poor you! haha.

Like others have said, anyone is free to seek whoever they like. Don't like it? Tough!!

Way to go by showing your true colours. Got yourself alot more blocks now I bet!"

I do so enjoy when people, normally blokes, throw themselves under the forum bus.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm ok with what you just said.

And you understand why these women ask for what they do?

Yah. They are ENTITLED to state a preference.

They have every right.

What's your problem then? You stated you only fuck hot women on another thread.

Sounds like another single guy, messaging fat chicks thinking he is hedging his bets because... Thinking us fat birds are all desperate and will fuck anyone that offers... But I could be wrong

In the real world I've met or known of many fat chicks who will fuck any bloke that shows interest, I've met a few skinny ones too, maybe even just as many, who are just the same.

But it isn't the real world so people tend to seem brazen about it."

Women like sex just as much as men, regardless of their body size.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's your problem then? You stated you only fuck hot women on another thread.

On that basis. What's the problem with what I said???"

You're flabbergasted that size 22 women want fit men, yet you yourself will only fuck hot women.

If it's ok for you to aim high, why can't they?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I don’t think size comes into it ....

confidence is a wonderful thing ...

I been a size ten was till I hit forty ...

now I’m a16 and I don’t give a flying toss

U either like it or walk on by no loss either way hAha ...

just because your bigger don’t mean you take anything offered !!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

I like a young athletic man....and OMG...I get them too, wonders will never cease

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

But she's got what you want

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ah you got turned down by a size 22 woman huh? aww poor you! haha.

Like others have said, anyone is free to seek whoever they like. Don't like it? Tough!!

Way to go by showing your true colours. Got yourself alot more blocks now I bet!

I do so enjoy when people, normally blokes, throw themselves under the forum bus.

I absolutely love it.

What a perfect filter!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's your problem then? You stated you only fuck hot women on another thread.

On that basis. What's the problem with what I said???

You're flabbergasted that size 22 women want fit men, yet you yourself will only fuck hot women.

If it's ok for you to aim high, why can't they?

Because he runs 5 miles per morning.

LOL.’

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes Peachy, I agree.

Is all about the product....the 'fuller' woman may well struggle on getting the 'athletic' fit man on a dating site... however he's quite willing to have them for NSA.

= both are happy. "

Might they?? I beg to differ

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

This whole argument does remind me when I was in high school.

A girl said something horrible to me about how I looked. So I did the exact same thing to her.

I want home thinking nothing of the situation because people were blunt with me and I had to "man up" etc...

Sadly the girl went home in pieces. She was traumatized. I had to explain before the hedmaster that she had been insulting me for acne or something silly.

You feel abit old fashion in these situations. Like you must "be the MAN/MAN UP" after a direct insult about how you look.

It's obviously one sided but I'm totally numb to insults/rejection mainly these days.

But holding one's tongue with narcasistic people is the best approach because they never see reason or you being the equal person.

As a man you just take it on the chin. (Clearly judging by what women get away with writing in profiles on fab)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Stupid post.

This OP sums up the mentality of so many on here... most of those soon become "no longer registered member"

Respect is everything on here, get over to tinder your attitude suits that app so much better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm ok with what you just said.

And you understand why these women ask for what they do?

Yah. They are ENTITLED to state a preference.

They have every right.

What's your problem then? You stated you only fuck hot women on another thread.

Sounds like another single guy, messaging fat chicks thinking he is hedging his bets because... Thinking us fat birds are all desperate and will fuck anyone that offers... But I could be wrong

In the real world I've met or known of many fat chicks who will fuck any bloke that shows interest, I've met a few skinny ones too, maybe even just as many, who are just the same.

But it isn't the real world so people tend to seem brazen about it.

Women like sex just as much as men, regardless of their body size."

Ay? Did my first sentence not just make that point?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Because he runs 5 miles per morning.

LOL.’"

I used to be a fatso but I lived in Asia.

Loads of blokes go on a family holiday and their wives go home and they stay in Asia.

They have their reasons...

But their eyes are opened when they are middle aged...

A swift divorce often follows...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And you look at her and she's size 22 and stuck up as hell!

I know bro, 3 are getting 7, 8 and even 9s.. it’s entirely men’s fault though

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I want this man..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This whole argument does remind me when I was in high school.

A girl said something horrible to me about how I looked. So I did the exact same thing to her.

I want home thinking nothing of the situation because people were blunt with me and I had to "man up" etc...

Sadly the girl went home in pieces. She was traumatized. I had to explain before the hedmaster that she had been insulting me for acne or something silly.

You feel abit old fashion in these situations. Like you must "be the MAN/MAN UP" after a direct insult about how you look.

It's obviously one sided but I'm totally numb to insults/rejection mainly these days.

But holding one's tongue with narcasistic people is the best approach because they never see reason or you being the equal person.

As a man you just take it on the chin. (Clearly judging by what women get away with writing in profiles on fab)

You sound a tab bitter from unresolved past trauma in your life