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over a year ago
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In all my time on here I (and many others) have never successfully found a friend with benefits. But I dated a woman off tinder for a couple of months during summer and we agreed that we weren't really relationship material. The sex was great though. So good that she asked if I could still fuck her every now and then. I've decided that I don't really want that from her. But it shows that it's definitely possible off a dating site if the sex is good |
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over a year ago
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"In all my time on here I (and many others) have never successfully found a friend with benefits. But I dated a woman off tinder for a couple of months during summer and we agreed that we weren't really relationship material. The sex was great though. So good that she asked if I could still fuck her every now and then. I've decided that I don't really want that from her. But it shows that it's definitely possible off a dating site if the sex is good "
That's not what the OP asked lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is Fab any use for finding a (singular? friend with benefits? "
Just remember OP..
You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince... thats as good as an analogy as any  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In all my time on here I (and many others) have never successfully found a friend with benefits. But I dated a woman off tinder for a couple of months during summer and we agreed that we weren't really relationship material. The sex was great though. So good that she asked if I could still fuck her every now and then. I've decided that I don't really want that from her. But it shows that it's definitely possible off a dating site if the sex is good
That's not what the OP asked lol
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Haha it's all I've got  I guess what I was trying to say is that, in looking for it (fwb), I and many others don't have much success. But that when I wasn't looking for it I found it. So maybe a more circuitous approach is better than the direct approach here. Dunno if that reply is any better haha. But it's what I was trying to say  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In all my time on here I (and many others) have never successfully found a friend with benefits. But I dated a woman off tinder for a couple of months during summer and we agreed that we weren't really relationship material. The sex was great though. So good that she asked if I could still fuck her every now and then. I've decided that I don't really want that from her. But it shows that it's definitely possible off a dating site if the sex is good
That's not what the OP asked lol
Haha it's all I've got I guess what I was trying to say is that, in looking for it (fwb), I and many others don't have much success. But that when I wasn't looking for it I found it. So maybe a more circuitous approach is better than the direct approach here. Dunno if that reply is any better haha. But it's what I was trying to say "
I don't know why you don't just date a swingler and get the best of both worlds |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is Fab any use for finding a (singular? friend with benefits?
A lot of guys try to be self sufficient but I'm sure there will be some on benefits"
Funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In all my time on here I (and many others) have never successfully found a friend with benefits. But I dated a woman off tinder for a couple of months during summer and we agreed that we weren't really relationship material. The sex was great though. So good that she asked if I could still fuck her every now and then. I've decided that I don't really want that from her. But it shows that it's definitely possible off a dating site if the sex is good
That's not what the OP asked lol
Haha it's all I've got I guess what I was trying to say is that, in looking for it (fwb), I and many others don't have much success. But that when I wasn't looking for it I found it. So maybe a more circuitous approach is better than the direct approach here. Dunno if that reply is any better haha. But it's what I was trying to say
I don't know why you don't just date a swingler and get the best of both worlds "
I could be tempted. Why? Are you asking?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends on your needs and requirements? "
That varies... Just need a mutual spark and someone who is willing to provide some physical attention as and when both can |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I reckon most fellas would bite your hand off for repeat meets.
Those that aren’t ‘swingers’ are looking for exactly that xx"
I'm finding there are some who say thats what they're looking for but their actions dont tally up with it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In all my time on here I (and many others) have never successfully found a friend with benefits. But I dated a woman off tinder for a couple of months during summer and we agreed that we weren't really relationship material. The sex was great though. So good that she asked if I could still fuck her every now and then. I've decided that I don't really want that from her. But it shows that it's definitely possible off a dating site if the sex is good "
Yeah though i dont want to go on dates... Just initial social meet to check each other out then if all good follow on with sex meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s what I’m looking for too. I too found it and it worked great for a long time, but all good things must come to an end, so looking again.
Good luck with the search x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is Fab any use for finding a (singular? friend with benefits?
A lot of guys try to be self sufficient but I'm sure there will be some on benefits"
Haha took me a while to get it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"From what I’ve seen people have found love , FWB’s, marriage, enemies and friends
What a ‘fab’ site eh ? "
Haha terrific.. Guess its all about timing and meeting a likeminded person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is Fab any use for finding a (singular? friend with benefits?
Yes it is..
Whats the secret to finding one? "
Patience and perseverance..
And a bit of tenacity thrown in |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is Fab any use for finding a (singular? friend with benefits?
Just remember OP..
You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince... thats as good as an analogy as any "
Yeah true... Sounds better than try before you buy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In all my time on here I (and many others) have never successfully found a friend with benefits. But I dated a woman off tinder for a couple of months during summer and we agreed that we weren't really relationship material. The sex was great though. So good that she asked if I could still fuck her every now and then. I've decided that I don't really want that from her. But it shows that it's definitely possible off a dating site if the sex is good
That's not what the OP asked lol
Haha it's all I've got I guess what I was trying to say is that, in looking for it (fwb), I and many others don't have much success. But that when I wasn't looking for it I found it. So maybe a more circuitous approach is better than the direct approach here. Dunno if that reply is any better haha. But it's what I was trying to say "
So maybe i should stop trying to find one and one might just appear when i least expect it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In all my time on here I (and many others) have never successfully found a friend with benefits. But I dated a woman off tinder for a couple of months during summer and we agreed that we weren't really relationship material. The sex was great though. So good that she asked if I could still fuck her every now and then. I've decided that I don't really want that from her. But it shows that it's definitely possible off a dating site if the sex is good
That's not what the OP asked lol
Haha it's all I've got I guess what I was trying to say is that, in looking for it (fwb), I and many others don't have much success. But that when I wasn't looking for it I found it. So maybe a more circuitous approach is better than the direct approach here. Dunno if that reply is any better haha. But it's what I was trying to say
I don't know why you don't just date a swingler and get the best of both worlds "
I'm not very good at sharing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In all my time on here I (and many others) have never successfully found a friend with benefits. But I dated a woman off tinder for a couple of months during summer and we agreed that we weren't really relationship material. The sex was great though. So good that she asked if I could still fuck her every now and then. I've decided that I don't really want that from her. But it shows that it's definitely possible off a dating site if the sex is good
That's not what the OP asked lol
Haha it's all I've got I guess what I was trying to say is that, in looking for it (fwb), I and many others don't have much success. But that when I wasn't looking for it I found it. So maybe a more circuitous approach is better than the direct approach here. Dunno if that reply is any better haha. But it's what I was trying to say
I don't know why you don't just date a swingler and get the best of both worlds
I could be tempted. Why? Are you asking? "
You look far too much like lee mac for my liking |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is Fab any use for finding a (singular? friend with benefits?
A lot of guys try to be self sufficient but I'm sure there will be some on benefits
Funny"
I was slow on the uptake took me a minute or 2 to get it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In all my time on here I (and many others) have never successfully found a friend with benefits. But I dated a woman off tinder for a couple of months during summer and we agreed that we weren't really relationship material. The sex was great though. So good that she asked if I could still fuck her every now and then. I've decided that I don't really want that from her. But it shows that it's definitely possible off a dating site if the sex is good
That's not what the OP asked lol
Haha it's all I've got I guess what I was trying to say is that, in looking for it (fwb), I and many others don't have much success. But that when I wasn't looking for it I found it. So maybe a more circuitous approach is better than the direct approach here. Dunno if that reply is any better haha. But it's what I was trying to say
I don't know why you don't just date a swingler and get the best of both worlds
I could be tempted. Why? Are you asking? "
You dont ask you dont get  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you look at all the FWB threads I think the general view is that they're pretty hard to find - though obviously some are lucky "
Guess it just depends on preferences.. Some are happy just to be having sex regularly with one person and others happy to be having sex with different people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s what I’m looking for too. I too found it and it worked great for a long time, but all good things must come to an end, so looking again.
Good luck with the search x"
You too... You look amazing so it shouldnt take you too long |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is Fab any use for finding a (singular? friend with benefits?
Yes it is..
Whats the secret to finding one?
Patience and perseverance..
And a bit of tenacity thrown in "
I better stock up on them all... And batteries in the meantime |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In all my time on here I (and many others) have never successfully found a friend with benefits. But I dated a woman off tinder for a couple of months during summer and we agreed that we weren't really relationship material. The sex was great though. So good that she asked if I could still fuck her every now and then. I've decided that I don't really want that from her. But it shows that it's definitely possible off a dating site if the sex is good
That's not what the OP asked lol
Haha it's all I've got I guess what I was trying to say is that, in looking for it (fwb), I and many others don't have much success. But that when I wasn't looking for it I found it. So maybe a more circuitous approach is better than the direct approach here. Dunno if that reply is any better haha. But it's what I was trying to say
So maybe i should stop trying to find one and one might just appear when i least expect it? "
Personally I think people on here and often too keen to get onto the next person on their list. And that's why it's perhaps not the best place to look for repeat meets. Although, having said that, I haven't experienced that myself since joining as a single.
I think if you joined tinder and stated you weren't looking for anything serious you'd probably find it quicker than you could on here. I think people on here are maybe looking for something evasive; a truly miraculous fuck. Whilst people on the dating apps are just looking to connect with attractive members of the opposite sex and maybe make friends or more... and have sex. The latter is much more conducive imo for finding fwbs
Just my opinion of course. Maybe try both and report back about which is best |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In all my time on here I (and many others) have never successfully found a friend with benefits. But I dated a woman off tinder for a couple of months during summer and we agreed that we weren't really relationship material. The sex was great though. So good that she asked if I could still fuck her every now and then. I've decided that I don't really want that from her. But it shows that it's definitely possible off a dating site if the sex is good
That's not what the OP asked lol
Haha it's all I've got I guess what I was trying to say is that, in looking for it (fwb), I and many others don't have much success. But that when I wasn't looking for it I found it. So maybe a more circuitous approach is better than the direct approach here. Dunno if that reply is any better haha. But it's what I was trying to say
So maybe i should stop trying to find one and one might just appear when i least expect it?
Personally I think people on here and often too keen to get onto the next person on their list. And that's why it's perhaps not the best place to look for repeat meets. Although, having said that, I haven't experienced that myself since joining as a single.
I think if you joined tinder and stated you weren't looking for anything serious you'd probably find it quicker than you could on here. I think people on here are maybe looking for something evasive; a truly miraculous fuck. Whilst people on the dating apps are just looking to connect with attractive members of the opposite sex and maybe make friends or more... and have sex. The latter is much more conducive imo for finding fwbs
Just my opinion of course. Maybe try both and report back about which is best "
Thanks for your input and take on it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I only look for fwbs on here. I've been lucky in the past and also currently I have a great fwb. It is possible but agree with the earlier post of "kissing a few frogs" too. "
Thank you i'll try and persevere... Kissing is an important part of the selection process |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I only look for fwbs on here. I've been lucky in the past and also currently I have a great fwb. It is possible but agree with the earlier post of "kissing a few frogs" too.
Thank you i'll try and persevere... Kissing is an important part of the selection process "
watch out though....some actually kiss like frogs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"From what I’ve seen people have found love , FWB’s, marriage, enemies and friends
What a ‘fab’ site eh ?
From some of the forums some find a shit load of emptiness too  "
Explain?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I only look for fwbs on here. I've been lucky in the past and also currently I have a great fwb. It is possible but agree with the earlier post of "kissing a few frogs" too.
Thank you i'll try and persevere... Kissing is an important part of the selection process
watch out though....some actually kiss like frogs "
Yeah I had noticed that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s how we met. We became “fuck buddies” and it went from there.
Go you 2 
I met a single bloke on here and we got married so made a couples profile "
Thats cool |
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