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Can you be friends with an ex?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It’s a long time since I divorced and my ex husband and I have mellowed too. We are friends nowadays, he even visited when I was in hospital last year.
Are you friends with yours or would there be no chance in hell? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd love to be friendly or civil at least with my ex but 10 years on he still can't accept I left him.
Glad to hear you have managed to work it through with yours.
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Yes, I left mine as well. You never know one day you might. Never say never. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a long time since I divorced and my ex husband and I have mellowed too. We are friends nowadays, he even visited when I was in hospital last year.
Are you friends with yours or would there be no chance in hell? "
yes but 3 i cant as we keep ending back in bed  |
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"It’s a long time since I divorced and my ex husband and I have mellowed too. We are friends nowadays, he even visited when I was in hospital last year.
Are you friends with yours or would there be no chance in hell? "
No, 20 years of a delusional narcissist is quite enough!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a chance in hell...
Yesterday was the 8th anniversary of when our marriage ended and i haven't seen him for 7 yrs..
Even though we had a child together he wanted nothing to do him with which is fine with me....
i recently heard that he had motor neurone disease and didnt have long to live so there will be no chance of building bridges now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been with some and tried to and just can’t with others, I think it depends on too many other circumstances to be a straight yes or no answer, I can think of 3 ex’s at the moment as an example, one I get on with well and speak to most days, one thinks I’m the wicked witch of the east and another who is currently only kept away via the police  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One would wish me dead for reasons I don't fully understand. But generally, I'm friendly enough with my exes, certainly to the extent of having a chat and a catch up if/when I see them rather than being in close or regular contact. I;m not really one for animosity |
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Depends on the ex, and why you split.
My eldests dad is still one of my best friends, we split just befure I found out I was pregnant.
I'm still on very good terms with ex boyfriends, but can think of one person I'd try to avoid.
My other kids dad, total waste of space.
I only communicate with him via text, just being in his presence makes me cringe.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah we have a child together so will always have that bonding us. We are much better friends than partners and we have found a good place where everyone is happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a long time since I divorced and my ex husband and I have mellowed too. We are friends nowadays, he even visited when I was in hospital last year.
Are you friends with yours or would there be no chance in hell? "
I love mine to bits, we just couldn't live together and because of issues it became toxic. We had the most harmonious divorce and we're happy chatting. He's a lovely man. |
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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago
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"It’s a long time since I divorced and my ex husband and I have mellowed too. We are friends nowadays, he even visited when I was in hospital last year.
Are you friends with yours or would there be no chance in hell? "
I am amicable with my ex now but it wasn't that way when we split arguing over everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know if me and the ex would have ever got along, especially with divergent views on the kids but unfortunately she passed away a long time ago. I am sure know matter how we got along the kids wish she was still here. |
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