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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
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Fabsteroos
After a discussion with a friend today ‘this is a sex site’ subject arose.
I don’t think it is. Its a Swingers site and no one has the right to demand or expect sex.
So pray tell, for you, what is this site about?
Answers in the forum only please.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dunno what a swinger really is so il say sex site
Also a place to chat with friends new and old
Also a swingers site
Also a total rollercoater of fantastic days and total let downs
Most of all its what u make it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As much as i did join to meet people and have sex. The site, especially the forums helps keep me sane of an evening when i'm parked up in my truck. The chat, sarcasm, banter and flirting is brilliant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn't a swingers site and a sex site kinda the same thing. It's no different just because you stick a bit of social time in there as well is it,the end result is still the same...sex."
Very true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its more of a sex site now than it used to be
When i first joined the likes of us singletons were derided for not being 'real swingers' and married folk playing away were hounded off the forums
Now no one gives a toss lol
Its all about the sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Given that this discussion was with me and lady who has raised this question has loaded the question in her favour before blocking me .
I think the question is without any substance.
All the facts pertaining to the original discussion arnt to hand so that people on the forum can make up their own mind without prejudice."
The op can load it however she wants but people have their own opinion on what this site is for them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabsteroos
After a discussion with a friend today ‘this is a sex site’ subject arose.
I don’t think it is. Its a Swingers site and no one has the right to demand or expect sex.
So pray tell, for you, what is this site about?
Answers in the forum only please.
" It's a swingers site sex is not a prerequisite |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Fabsteroos
After a discussion with a friend today ‘this is a sex site’ subject arose.
I don’t think it is. Its a Swingers site and no one has the right to demand or expect sex.
So pray tell, for you, what is this site about?
Answers in the forum only please.
It's a swingers site sex is not a prerequisite "
Thanks. Problem is some people expect sex. ‘It’s a sex site ffs’! When people lose that I’ll have respect for them! |
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"Fabsteroos
After a discussion with a friend today ‘this is a sex site’ subject arose.
I don’t think it is. Its a Swingers site and no one has the right to demand or expect sex.
So pray tell, for you, what is this site about?
Answers in the forum only please.
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I don't think it's about demand or expectation of sex but if is a place where people predominantly look for sex or sexual gratification. Therefore it is a sex site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabsteroos
After a discussion with a friend today ‘this is a sex site’ subject arose.
I don’t think it is. Its a Swingers site and no one has the right to demand or expect sex.
So pray tell, for you, what is this site about?
Answers in the forum only please.
I don't think it's about demand or expectation of sex but if is a place where people predominantly look for sex or sexual gratification. Therefore it is a sex site.
People use the site for all kinds of reasons. I’m here for the forums and don’t appreciate being reminded by entitled men that it is a sex site "
Bend over love I'll fuck your rectum in a jiffy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabsteroos
After a discussion with a friend today ‘this is a sex site’ subject arose.
I don’t think it is. Its a Swingers site and no one has the right to demand or expect sex.
So pray tell, for you, what is this site about?
Answers in the forum only please.
I don't think it's about demand or expectation of sex but if is a place where people predominantly look for sex or sexual gratification. Therefore it is a sex site.
People use the site for all kinds of reasons. I’m here for the forums and don’t appreciate being reminded by entitled men that it is a sex site "
Is it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn't a swingers site and a sex site kinda the same thing. It's no different just because you stick a bit of social time in there as well is it,the end result is still the same...sex."
Good point but....
'Swinging' is classier. |
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"Fabsteroos
After a discussion with a friend today ‘this is a sex site’ subject arose.
I don’t think it is. Its a Swingers site and no one has the right to demand or expect sex.
So pray tell, for you, what is this site about?
Answers in the forum only please.
I don't think it's about demand or expectation of sex but if is a place where people predominantly look for sex or sexual gratification. Therefore it is a sex site.
People use the site for all kinds of reasons. I’m here for the forums and don’t appreciate being reminded by entitled men that it is a sex site "
So you agree it is a sex site then, just that you use it differently? |
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"Isn't a swingers site and a sex site kinda the same thing. It's no different just because you stick a bit of social time in there as well is it,the end result is still the same...sex.
Good point but....
'Swinging' is classier. "
They like to think so,unfortunately for them they're just dirty buggers like the rest. Sorry darlings... |
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"Fabsteroos
After a discussion with a friend today ‘this is a sex site’ subject arose.
I don’t think it is. Its a Swingers site and no one has the right to demand or expect sex.
So pray tell, for you, what is this site about?
Answers in the forum only please.
I don't think it's about demand or expectation of sex but if is a place where people predominantly look for sex or sexual gratification. Therefore it is a sex site.
People use the site for all kinds of reasons. I’m here for the forums and don’t appreciate being reminded by entitled men that it is a sex site
Bend over love I'll fuck your rectum in a jiffy "
You are funny. |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Fabsteroos
After a discussion with a friend today ‘this is a sex site’ subject arose.
I don’t think it is. Its a Swingers site and no one has the right to demand or expect sex.
So pray tell, for you, what is this site about?
Answers in the forum only please.
I don't think it's about demand or expectation of sex but if is a place where people predominantly look for sex or sexual gratification. Therefore it is a sex site.
People use the site for all kinds of reasons. I’m here for the forums and don’t appreciate being reminded by entitled men that it is a sex site
So you agree it is a sex site then, just that you use it differently? "
It’s not a sex site. Sex is not guaranteed but some men think it is...! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn't a swingers site and a sex site kinda the same thing. It's no different just because you stick a bit of social time in there as well is it,the end result is still the same...sex.
Good point but....
'Swinging' is classier.
They like to think so,unfortunately for them they're just dirty buggers like the rest. Sorry darlings..."
Even if they are drinking wine from a glass |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Fabsteroos
After a discussion with a friend today ‘this is a sex site’ subject arose.
I don’t think it is. Its a Swingers site and no one has the right to demand or expect sex.
So pray tell, for you, what is this site about?
Answers in the forum only please.
I don't think it's about demand or expectation of sex but if is a place where people predominantly look for sex or sexual gratification. Therefore it is a sex site.
People use the site for all kinds of reasons. I’m here for the forums and don’t appreciate being reminded by entitled men that it is a sex site
Bend over love I'll fuck your rectum in a jiffy
You are funny."
He’s even funnier in person..... |
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"Isn't a swingers site and a sex site kinda the same thing. It's no different just because you stick a bit of social time in there as well is it,the end result is still the same...sex.
Good point but....
'Swinging' is classier.
They like to think so,unfortunately for them they're just dirty buggers like the rest. Sorry darlings...
Even if they are drinking wine from a glass"
Oh no that definitely makes them classier I take it back. |
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"Fabsteroos
After a discussion with a friend today ‘this is a sex site’ subject arose.
I don’t think it is. Its a Swingers site and no one has the right to demand or expect sex.
So pray tell, for you, what is this site about?
Answers in the forum only please.
I don't think it's about demand or expectation of sex but if is a place where people predominantly look for sex or sexual gratification. Therefore it is a sex site.
People use the site for all kinds of reasons. I’m here for the forums and don’t appreciate being reminded by entitled men that it is a sex site
Bend over love I'll fuck your rectum in a jiffy
You are funny.
He’s even funnier in person..... "
What's your nearest supermarket Waitrose or Morrisons? |
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"Fabsteroos
After a discussion with a friend today ‘this is a sex site’ subject arose.
I don’t think it is. Its a Swingers site and no one has the right to demand or expect sex.
So pray tell, for you, what is this site about?
Answers in the forum only please.
I don't think it's about demand or expectation of sex but if is a place where people predominantly look for sex or sexual gratification. Therefore it is a sex site.
People use the site for all kinds of reasons. I’m here for the forums and don’t appreciate being reminded by entitled men that it is a sex site
So you agree it is a sex site then, just that you use it differently?
It’s not a sex site. Sex is not guaranteed but some men think it is...! "
Who said it being a sex site meant sex is guaranteed? It's still a site where people look for sex. That fact is unavoidable.
Is it just men that think it's guaranteed? In what way are they acting 'entitled'? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabsteroos
After a discussion with a friend today ‘this is a sex site’ subject arose.
I don’t think it is. Its a Swingers site and no one has the right to demand or expect sex.
So pray tell, for you, what is this site about?
Answers in the forum only please.
I don't think it's about demand or expectation of sex but if is a place where people predominantly look for sex or sexual gratification. Therefore it is a sex site.
People use the site for all kinds of reasons. I’m here for the forums and don’t appreciate being reminded by entitled men that it is a sex site
Bend over love I'll fuck your rectum in a jiffy
You are funny.
He’s even funnier in person..... "
That's not true ! |
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I think for many of all sexes this is used as a hook up site. I have encountered many in my time on here who do not want to swing or sex with more than one other. It's also often sign posted by other single parents on a popular parenting website as a good place to go for a post break up hook up or when someone has stated a need for a casual hook up to blow away the cobwebs. |
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By *ools47Woman
over a year ago
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I think it all depends on how the individual uses the site rather than the bare bones of what the site is by description.
So for me it is both a swingers site and a sex site as I end to use it for 2 different purposes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabsteroos
After a discussion with a friend today ‘this is a sex site’ subject arose.
I don’t think it is. Its a Swingers site and no one has the right to demand or expect sex.
So pray tell, for you, what is this site about?
Answers in the forum only please.
I don't think it's about demand or expectation of sex but if is a place where people predominantly look for sex or sexual gratification. Therefore it is a sex site.
People use the site for all kinds of reasons. I’m here for the forums and don’t appreciate being reminded by entitled men that it is a sex site
So you agree it is a sex site then, just that you use it differently?
It’s not a sex site. Sex is not guaranteed but some men think it is...! "
Sex isn't guaranteed on any site that isn't an escort site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do people have to have sex on hook up sex sites?
Do people have to play football on football sites?"
I was referring to her staying that sex isn't guaranteed on here as it's not a sex site.
It's not guaranteed on any site involving sex unless you're paying for it, is my point of view.
If this wasn't a place where people look for sex it wouldn't be called a swinging site. Even if people only use it to network and only meet at clubs, they're still using it to find sex.
There are, of course, people who just like the attention and don't want to participate in the sexual activity; the same as people who like talking about football but don't play. Every one is welcome here, which is why I like it so much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabsteroos
After a discussion with a friend today ‘this is a sex site’ subject arose.
I don’t think it is. Its a Swingers site and no one has the right to demand or expect sex.
So pray tell, for you, what is this site about?
Answers in the forum only please.
I don't think it's about demand or expectation of sex but if is a place where people predominantly look for sex or sexual gratification. Therefore it is a sex site.
People use the site for all kinds of reasons. I’m here for the forums and don’t appreciate being reminded by entitled men that it is a sex site "
If you delete everything off your 'Looking for' list it takes you off the searches. It reduces the mail.
People are searching for women that are looking to meet men/ couples etc - if you have them on your 'looking for' list, you will be coming up on their search. You can't be mad at them for asking. |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Fabsteroos
After a discussion with a friend today ‘this is a sex site’ subject arose.
I don’t think it is. Its a Swingers site and no one has the right to demand or expect sex.
So pray tell, for you, what is this site about?
Answers in the forum only please.
I don't think it's about demand or expectation of sex but if is a place where people predominantly look for sex or sexual gratification. Therefore it is a sex site.
People use the site for all kinds of reasons. I’m here for the forums and don’t appreciate being reminded by entitled men that it is a sex site
If you delete everything off your 'Looking for' list it takes you off the searches. It reduces the mail.
People are searching for women that are looking to meet men/ couples etc - if you have them on your 'looking for' list, you will be coming up on their search. You can't be mad at them for asking. "
Would they ask a lady in a bar for sex though? They wouldn’t but my profile says I don’t meet so why ask? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabsteroos
After a discussion with a friend today ‘this is a sex site’ subject arose.
I don’t think it is. Its a Swingers site and no one has the right to demand or expect sex.
So pray tell, for you, what is this site about?
Answers in the forum only please.
I don't think it's about demand or expectation of sex but if is a place where people predominantly look for sex or sexual gratification. Therefore it is a sex site.
People use the site for all kinds of reasons. I’m here for the forums and don’t appreciate being reminded by entitled men that it is a sex site
If you delete everything off your 'Looking for' list it takes you off the searches. It reduces the mail.
People are searching for women that are looking to meet men/ couples etc - if you have them on your 'looking for' list, you will be coming up on their search. You can't be mad at them for asking.
Would they ask a lady in a bar for sex though? They wouldn’t but my profile says I don’t meet so why ask? "
This site isn't the equivalent of a bar though is it. It's similar to a swinging club. So yes they'd ask.
"No thank you". |
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"Fabsteroos
After a discussion with a friend today ‘this is a sex site’ subject arose.
I don’t think it is. Its a Swingers site and no one has the right to demand or expect sex.
So pray tell, for you, what is this site about?
Answers in the forum only please.
I don't think it's about demand or expectation of sex but if is a place where people predominantly look for sex or sexual gratification. Therefore it is a sex site.
People use the site for all kinds of reasons. I’m here for the forums and don’t appreciate being reminded by entitled men that it is a sex site
If you delete everything off your 'Looking for' list it takes you off the searches. It reduces the mail.
People are searching for women that are looking to meet men/ couples etc - if you have them on your 'looking for' list, you will be coming up on their search. You can't be mad at them for asking.
Would they ask a lady in a bar for sex though? They wouldn’t but my profile says I don’t meet so why ask?
This site isn't the equivalent of a bar though is it. It's similar to a swinging club. So yes they'd ask.
"No thank you". "
And whilst the op may not have revealing pics on show I'd wager half of us wouldn't walk round town with our tits and genitals on display as they do here or in a swingers club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is supposed to be a sex site. Swinging is about sex with multiple partners, originally couples only, but that's changed, good
But it was never about chatting and socialising without sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is supposed to be a sex site. Swinging is about sex with multiple partners, originally couples only, but that's changed, good
But it was never about chatting and socialising without sex. "
That's what I say too.
It would be a social club if there was no sex involved.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is supposed to be a sex site. Swinging is about sex with multiple partners, originally couples only, but that's changed, good
But it was never about chatting and socialising without sex.
That's what I say too.
It would be a social club if there was no sex involved.
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Exactly, which is also fine, but then a more appropriate name would be needed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's a site for sexually liberated people to come together
This, and a place to keep in touch with people I've met at clubs.
So you don't arrange sex via this site then? Just pen pals? "
I state where I'm going to go in my status. Ask if anyone else is going. Meet people at the club and swap profile names, complete verifications and next time I go to a club I ask if they want to join me.
Certainly not penpals, just a space to help get the ball rolling. It tends not to work on it's own which is why so many meets don't happen. But mix this site with clubs and it will work out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it's a site with people, ordinary people, of all shapes and sizes and thoughts and wishes, some are swingers, some are addicted to sex, some are addicted to wasting their time but all this is is a meeting point |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I haven't sent an off the cuff random message to anyone for a few years now, I just enjoy the chit chat on the forums now, some threads have me in stitches " stitch in time saves nine |
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"I haven't sent an off the cuff random message to anyone for a few years now, I just enjoy the chit chat on the forums now, some threads have me in stitches stitch in time saves nine"
Yeah, but 9 what? |
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"I haven't sent an off the cuff random message to anyone for a few years now, I just enjoy the chit chat on the forums now, some threads have me in stitches stitch in time saves nine
Yeah, but 9 what?" more stitches or a hole |
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"I haven't sent an off the cuff random message to anyone for a few years now, I just enjoy the chit chat on the forums now, some threads have me in stitches stitch in time saves nine
Yeah, but 9 what?"
Is that why cats have 9 lives? |
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By *hitevanMan
over a year ago
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Il just not bother talking to people in the future I think.
Comments made in a private conversation get used against you on a forum after youv been blocked.
As it happens most people think it’s a sex site but hey like I said it’s all about opinions . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fabsteroos
After a discussion with a friend today ‘this is a sex site’ subject arose.
I don’t think it is. Its a Swingers site and no one has the right to demand or expect sex.
So pray tell, for you, what is this site about?
Answers in the forum only please.
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It's a sex site.
I don't really understand your comment about people not having the right to demand or expect sex.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
It's whatever the individual people want it to be - sex site, swingers site, NSA meets site etc - we each have our own view of what it represents to us.
To be really pedantic though OP - in it's most basic form swinging is about sex therefore the site is ostensibly by definition a sex site |
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"Fabsteroos
After a discussion with a friend today ‘this is a sex site’ subject arose.
I don’t think it is. Its a Swingers site and no one has the right to demand or expect sex.
So pray tell, for you, what is this site about?
Answers in the forum only please.
" so if I say I expect sex and don't get it should I be disappointed? |
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