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"When is it reasonable to expect them to leave home these days?
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I’ll probably be dead by then  "
Awww they're not that bad surely. Hide the knives. 
I don't know how kids today will afford to buy houses.  |
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"When is it reasonable to expect them to leave home these days?
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I’ll probably be dead by then
Awww they're not that bad surely. Hide the knives.
I don't know how kids today will afford to buy houses. "
God isn't that the truth. It's a scary thought... |
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"When is it reasonable to expect them to leave home these days?
It might be easier if you go "
Oh God I've done that a few time's,for all of 30 min's. Grabbed my car key's and sat on the next street whilst I calmed down. |
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"Take them walking with a borrowed dog- clearing up after it themselves. I promise they will get over wanting a dog then."
Not this child, definitely mine that’s for sure. We are getting a dog but not the breed or colour wanted by the child thank god  |
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"When is it reasonable to expect them to leave home these days?
It might be easier if you go
Now that I’m also liking, now where shall I go........."
Anywhere it doesn't matter. If you disappear for a bit they don't half get mad but they're a bit easier to deal with for a week .
My brother's used to come home with goats, geese and Shetland ponies. My mum would have been grateful for a donkey |
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"When is it reasonable to expect them to leave home these days?
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I like you, the one in question can leave first thing, I’ll even do the packing "
Well I think it's a good number to send them out into the big wide world to fend for themselves. Obviously move straight away so they can't find you. |
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"When is it reasonable to expect them to leave home these days?
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I’ll probably be dead by then
Awww they're not that bad surely. Hide the knives.
I don't know how kids today will afford to buy houses. "
Easy answer - they won't |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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2/3 of mine were desperate for a dog. I told them they would have to take it for a walk before school and pick it's poo up. Also that I'd have to give up work to look after it and so therefore wouldn't be able to afford things for them anymore!
It seems to have worked ~ for now. |
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"When is it reasonable to expect them to leave home these days?
It might be easier if you go
Now that I’m also liking, now where shall I go.........
Anywhere it doesn't matter. If you disappear for a bit they don't half get mad but they're a bit easier to deal with for a week .
My brother's used to come home with goats, geese and Shetland ponies. My mum would have been grateful for a donkey "
I mean grateful if they'd come home with a dog  |
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Kids are bloomin' awesome, one of ours informed me, Mr, that Tears for Fears with Alison Moyet in Support are playing the O2, so I got some tickets- Mrs Shady will be happy when she hears this news after work later this evening. |
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It might be easier if you go
Now that I’m also liking, now where shall I go.........
Anywhere it doesn't matter. If you disappear for a bit they don't half get mad but they're a bit easier to deal with for a week .
My brother's used to come home with goats, geese and Shetland ponies. My mum would have been grateful for a donkey "
Omg to be fair at least we’ve only had guinea pigs (recently deceased), they were delightful I couldn’t go in fridge without them going nuts for food |
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"Kids are bloomin' awesome, one of ours informed me, Mr, that Tears for Fears with Alison Moyet in Support are playing the O2, so I got some tickets- Mrs Shady will be happy when she hears this news after work later this evening."
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"When is it reasonable to expect them to leave home these days?
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I like you, the one in question can leave first thing, I’ll even do the packing
Well I think it's a good number to send them out into the big wide world to fend for themselves. Obviously move straight away so they can't find you."
I have a passport........ |
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"I'm not being funny but you are lucky to be blessed with kids. I've lost two and would give anything to have had the chance to be a mum."
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"I'm not being funny but you are lucky to be blessed with kids. I've lost two and would give anything to have had the chance to be a mum."
I am joking and I’m well aware of the struggle ppl have when it comes to having children. Helping parents arrange a funeral for a still birth is heartbreaking and seeing the anguish of parents in NICU are just 2 examples  |
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"It's weird these days...I fucked off the second I got the chance
Did you ever go back? "
Nope, the way I see it is that my mum sacrificed enough of her time to raise me so it's only fair to take care of myself |
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"I'm not being funny but you are lucky to be blessed with kids. I've lost two and would give anything to have had the chance to be a mum.
I am joking and I’m well aware of the struggle ppl have when it comes to having children. Helping parents arrange a funeral for a still birth is heartbreaking and seeing the anguish of parents in NICU are just 2 examples "
That's admirable BUT if you have not been through it, you will never understand (and that's not having a go, just heartbreak talking) |
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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago
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Mines been a terror today hormones are kicking in and its like maria carey has moved in lol. Im tempted to just lock her in a room with a tv and a tub of ice cream haha worked when my sis was in a mood hehe. |
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"It's weird these days...I fucked off the second I got the chance
Did you ever go back?
Nope, the way I see it is that my mum sacrificed enough of her time to raise me so it's only fair to take care of myself"
Awwwww that’s lovely, your mum obviously did a good job  |
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"I'm not being funny but you are lucky to be blessed with kids. I've lost two and would give anything to have had the chance to be a mum.
That's horrible, sorry to hear that"
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"It's weird these days...I fucked off the second I got the chance
Did you ever go back?
Nope, the way I see it is that my mum sacrificed enough of her time to raise me so it's only fair to take care of myself
Awwwww that’s lovely, your mum obviously did a good job "
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"I'm not being funny but you are lucky to be blessed with kids. I've lost two and would give anything to have had the chance to be a mum.
I am joking and I’m well aware of the struggle ppl have when it comes to having children. Helping parents arrange a funeral for a still birth is heartbreaking and seeing the anguish of parents in NICU are just 2 examples
That's admirable BUT if you have not been through it, you will never understand (and that's not having a go, just heartbreak talking) "
I never said I understand, but I empathise and I hope I’m fortunate enough to never understand. I know you’re heartbroken I’ve seen your posts previously  |
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"Mines been a terror today hormones are kicking in and its like maria carey has moved in lol. Im tempted to just lock her in a room with a tv and a tub of ice cream haha worked when my sis was in a mood hehe."
Oh hormones, I know all about them, I issue warnings when PMT takes hold |
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"I'm not being funny but you are lucky to be blessed with kids. I've lost two and would give anything to have had the chance to be a mum.
I am joking and I’m well aware of the struggle ppl have when it comes to having children. Helping parents arrange a funeral for a still birth is heartbreaking and seeing the anguish of parents in NICU are just 2 examples
That's admirable BUT if you have not been through it, you will never understand (and that's not having a go, just heartbreak talking)
I never said I understand, but I empathise and I hope I’m fortunate enough to never understand. I know you’re heartbroken I’ve seen your posts previously "
I hope you're not, and apologies, I didn't realise I had posted that much before  |
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"I'm not being funny but you are lucky to be blessed with kids. I've lost two and would give anything to have had the chance to be a mum.
I am joking and I’m well aware of the struggle ppl have when it comes to having children. Helping parents arrange a funeral for a still birth is heartbreaking and seeing the anguish of parents in NICU are just 2 examples
That's admirable BUT if you have not been through it, you will never understand (and that's not having a go, just heartbreak talking)
I never said I understand, but I empathise and I hope I’m fortunate enough to never understand. I know you’re heartbroken I’ve seen your posts previously
I hope you're not, and apologies, I didn't realise I had posted that much before "
You haven’t but I remember, things like that stay with me xxx |
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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago
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"Mines been a terror today hormones are kicking in and its like maria carey has moved in lol. Im tempted to just lock her in a room with a tv and a tub of ice cream haha worked when my sis was in a mood hehe.
Oh hormones, I know all about them, I issue warnings when PMT takes hold "
tell me about it pmt hasnt started yet but the signs say its gonna hit soon shes like a walking time bomb haha. Dread it when we both pmt mode one of us will have to move out haha. |
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"Actually I’ve changed my mind, how do ppl have a number of kids the run into double figures?
*That run
See I’m that traumatised I can’t type "
We get divorced and send them to their Dad’s house some nights  |
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"Mines been a terror today hormones are kicking in and its like maria carey has moved in lol. Im tempted to just lock her in a room with a tv and a tub of ice cream haha worked when my sis was in a mood hehe.
Oh hormones, I know all about them, I issue warnings when PMT takes hold tell me about it pmt hasnt started yet but the signs say its gonna hit soon shes like a walking time bomb haha. Dread it when we both pmt mode one of us will have to move out haha."
At least I’m edging ever closer to the menopause, fingers crossed that will pass without incident |
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"Actually I’ve changed my mind, how do ppl have a number of kids the run into double figures?
*That run
See I’m that traumatised I can’t type
We get divorced and send them to their Dad’s house some nights "
Hmmmm it’s being with Dad today that’s caused the problem funnily enough. The child is normally no trouble so it’s a bit of a shocker when I get the opposite |
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"You should have one like mine..
He lives in his room and only comes out for school and food
Does he grunt too, Kevin the teenager style? "
No he is quite eloquent and polite.. |
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"You should have one like mine..
He lives in his room and only comes out for school and food
Does he grunt too, Kevin the teenager style?
No he is quite eloquent and polite.."
Oh now that I like that. I remember showing the kids Kevin the teenager on YouTube one day when I was particularly unimpressed with the responses I was getting. Message received and understood |
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"Actually I’ve changed my mind, how do ppl have a number of kids the run into double figures?
*That run
See I’m that traumatised I can’t type
We get divorced and send them to their Dad’s house some nights
Hmmmm it’s being with Dad today that’s caused the problem funnily enough. The child is normally no trouble so it’s a bit of a shocker when I get the opposite "
Maybe because you offer safety, so if something has happened or bothering them when they see you they let it all out, aka you get it in the neck |
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"You should have one like mine..
He lives in his room and only comes out for school and food
Does he grunt too, Kevin the teenager style?
No he is quite eloquent and polite..
Oh now that I like that. I remember showing the kids Kevin the teenager on YouTube one day when I was particularly unimpressed with the responses I was getting. Message received and understood "
Ha! I did the same and all he said was 'well thats not me as i don't like long hair' |
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"Actually I’ve changed my mind, how do ppl have a number of kids the run into double figures?
*That run
See I’m that traumatised I can’t type
We get divorced and send them to their Dad’s house some nights
Hmmmm it’s being with Dad today that’s caused the problem funnily enough. The child is normally no trouble so it’s a bit of a shocker when I get the opposite
Maybe because you offer safety, so if something has happened or bothering them when they see you they let it all out, aka you get it in the neck "
I sincerely hope not, I think we have first week back at school tiredness included in mix, so probably an isolated incident |
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"You should have one like mine..
He lives in his room and only comes out for school and food
Does he grunt too, Kevin the teenager style?
No he is quite eloquent and polite..
Oh now that I like that. I remember showing the kids Kevin the teenager on YouTube one day when I was particularly unimpressed with the responses I was getting. Message received and understood
Ha! I did the same and all he said was 'well thats not me as i don't like long hair' "
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"Actually I’ve changed my mind, how do ppl have a number of kids the run into double figures?
*That run
See I’m that traumatised I can’t type
We get divorced and send them to their Dad’s house some nights
Hmmmm it’s being with Dad today that’s caused the problem funnily enough. The child is normally no trouble so it’s a bit of a shocker when I get the opposite
Maybe because you offer safety, so if something has happened or bothering them when they see you they let it all out, aka you get it in the neck
I sincerely hope not, I think we have first week back at school tiredness included in mix, so probably an isolated incident "
Same here, mixed with nerves and anxiety. Like a fire-cracker in my hand!  |
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"My mum was 1 of 9 love having a big family x
Awwwww that’s lovely, we have family get togethers with all the extended family regularly. They’re always a lot of fun for the kids especially "
Spoke to someone last week whose father was one of 66. More than one wife, but even so.. |
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"My mum was 1 of 9 love having a big family x
Awwwww that’s lovely, we have family get togethers with all the extended family regularly. They’re always a lot of fun for the kids especially
Spoke to someone last week whose father was one of 66. More than one wife, but even so.."
Does he know about the last fertile man thread |
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"Actually I’ve changed my mind, how do ppl have a number of kids the run into double figures?
*That run
See I’m that traumatised I can’t type
We get divorced and send them to their Dad’s house some nights
Hmmmm it’s being with Dad today that’s caused the problem funnily enough. The child is normally no trouble so it’s a bit of a shocker when I get the opposite
Maybe because you offer safety, so if something has happened or bothering them when they see you they let it all out, aka you get it in the neck
I sincerely hope not, I think we have first week back at school tiredness included in mix, so probably an isolated incident
Same here, mixed with nerves and anxiety. Like a fire-cracker in my hand! "
Awwwwww there’s so much pressure on them no wonder depression in children is such a huge problem |
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"My mum was 1 of 9 love having a big family x
Awwwww that’s lovely, we have family get togethers with all the extended family regularly. They’re always a lot of fun for the kids especially
Spoke to someone last week whose father was one of 66. More than one wife, but even so..
Does he know about the last fertile man thread "
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"Actually I’ve changed my mind, how do ppl have a number of kids the run into double figures?
*That run
See I’m that traumatised I can’t type
We get divorced and send them to their Dad’s house some nights
Hmmmm it’s being with Dad today that’s caused the problem funnily enough. The child is normally no trouble so it’s a bit of a shocker when I get the opposite
Maybe because you offer safety, so if something has happened or bothering them when they see you they let it all out, aka you get it in the neck
I sincerely hope not, I think we have first week back at school tiredness included in mix, so probably an isolated incident "
My daughter is pooped this week and she was only in for 4 days as she didn't start back til Tuesday,I've just picked her up from her first ever job in a restaurant as well so now looks completely dead. They grow up fast. |
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Awwwww that’s lovely, we have family get togethers with all the extended family regularly. They’re always a lot of fun for the kids especially
Spoke to someone last week whose father was one of 66. More than one wife, but even so.."
There is no way I would allow any male related to him anywhere near me |
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"Actually I’ve changed my mind, how do ppl have a number of kids the run into double figures?
*That run
See I’m that traumatised I can’t type
We get divorced and send them to their Dad’s house some nights
Hmmmm it’s being with Dad today that’s caused the problem funnily enough. The child is normally no trouble so it’s a bit of a shocker when I get the opposite
Maybe because you offer safety, so if something has happened or bothering them when they see you they let it all out, aka you get it in the neck
I sincerely hope not, I think we have first week back at school tiredness included in mix, so probably an isolated incident
My daughter is pooped this week and she was only in for 4 days as she didn't start back til Tuesday,I've just picked her up from her first ever job in a restaurant as well so now looks completely dead. They grow up fast."
Awwwwww bless her, did she enjoy work? |
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"Mines been a terror today hormones are kicking in and its like maria carey has moved in lol. Im tempted to just lock her in a room with a tv and a tub of ice cream haha worked when my sis was in a mood hehe.
Oh hormones, I know all about them, I issue warnings when PMT takes hold tell me about it pmt hasnt started yet but the signs say its gonna hit soon shes like a walking time bomb haha. Dread it when we both pmt mode one of us will have to move out haha."
Your lucky its just 1 I got twins and feel like I'm fighting the hormone monster every day!!!
To make things worse they don't go back to school till next week!!
Might have to find somewhere to run away too... |
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"Actually I’ve changed my mind, how do ppl have a number of kids the run into double figures?
*That run
See I’m that traumatised I can’t type
We get divorced and send them to their Dad’s house some nights
Hmmmm it’s being with Dad today that’s caused the problem funnily enough. The child is normally no trouble so it’s a bit of a shocker when I get the opposite
Maybe because you offer safety, so if something has happened or bothering them when they see you they let it all out, aka you get it in the neck
I sincerely hope not, I think we have first week back at school tiredness included in mix, so probably an isolated incident
My daughter is pooped this week and she was only in for 4 days as she didn't start back til Tuesday,I've just picked her up from her first ever job in a restaurant as well so now looks completely dead. They grow up fast.
Awwwwww bless her, did she enjoy work? "
She did thankfully and was told she did well on her first day,her feet are battered though as she wore some new shoes and they rubbed her. She feels all grown up now,it's good for her to earn some pennies of her own.
She wasn't impressed when I told her we need to come to some financial arrangement when I take and pick her up as it's costing me to take her to work. |
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"Actually I’ve changed my mind, how do ppl have a number of kids the run into double figures?
*That run
See I’m that traumatised I can’t type
We get divorced and send them to their Dad’s house some nights
Hmmmm it’s being with Dad today that’s caused the problem funnily enough. The child is normally no trouble so it’s a bit of a shocker when I get the opposite
Maybe because you offer safety, so if something has happened or bothering them when they see you they let it all out, aka you get it in the neck
I sincerely hope not, I think we have first week back at school tiredness included in mix, so probably an isolated incident
My daughter is pooped this week and she was only in for 4 days as she didn't start back til Tuesday,I've just picked her up from her first ever job in a restaurant as well so now looks completely dead. They grow up fast.
Awwwwww bless her, did she enjoy work?
She did thankfully and was told she did well on her first day,her feet are battered though as she wore some new shoes and they rubbed her. She feels all grown up now,it's good for her to earn some pennies of her own.
She wasn't impressed when I told her we need to come to some financial arrangement when I take and pick her up as it's costing me to take her to work."
Yes I can imagine they don’t like parting with money |
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"Actually I’ve changed my mind, how do ppl have a number of kids the run into double figures? "
Cos every time someone pops them out they can claim more benefits then spend their day posting on arsebook, while said brats run round screaming and bellowing like feral animals from the look of it |
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Cos every time someone pops them out they can claim more benefits then spend their day posting on arsebook, while said brats run round screaming and bellowing like feral animals from the look of it "
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"We're all allowed an off day. They're trying little things, especially when they know which buttons to press "
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"Actually I’ve changed my mind, how do ppl have a number of kids the run into double figures?
*That run
See I’m that traumatised I can’t type
We get divorced and send them to their Dad’s house some nights
Hmmmm it’s being with Dad today that’s caused the problem funnily enough. The child is normally no trouble so it’s a bit of a shocker when I get the opposite
Maybe because you offer safety, so if something has happened or bothering them when they see you they let it all out, aka you get it in the neck
I sincerely hope not, I think we have first week back at school tiredness included in mix, so probably an isolated incident
My daughter is pooped this week and she was only in for 4 days as she didn't start back til Tuesday,I've just picked her up from her first ever job in a restaurant as well so now looks completely dead. They grow up fast.
Awwwwww bless her, did she enjoy work?
She did thankfully and was told she did well on her first day,her feet are battered though as she wore some new shoes and they rubbed her. She feels all grown up now,it's good for her to earn some pennies of her own.
She wasn't impressed when I told her we need to come to some financial arrangement when I take and pick her up as it's costing me to take her to work.
Yes I can imagine they don’t like parting with money "
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"Actually I’ve changed my mind, how do ppl have a number of kids the run into double figures?
*That run
See I’m that traumatised I can’t type
We get divorced and send them to their Dad’s house some nights
Hmmmm it’s being with Dad today that’s caused the problem funnily enough. The child is normally no trouble so it’s a bit of a shocker when I get the opposite
Maybe because you offer safety, so if something has happened or bothering them when they see you they let it all out, aka you get it in the neck
I sincerely hope not, I think we have first week back at school tiredness included in mix, so probably an isolated incident
My daughter is pooped this week and she was only in for 4 days as she didn't start back til Tuesday,I've just picked her up from her first ever job in a restaurant as well so now looks completely dead. They grow up fast.
Awwwwww bless her, did she enjoy work?
She did thankfully and was told she did well on her first day,her feet are battered though as she wore some new shoes and they rubbed her. She feels all grown up now,it's good for her to earn some pennies of her own.
She wasn't impressed when I told her we need to come to some financial arrangement when I take and pick her up as it's costing me to take her to work.
Yes I can imagine they don’t like parting with money
Never send a child into a shop with a note to buy something for pennies. You'll never see the change, unless you crowbar it from them "
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"When is it reasonable to expect them to leave home these days?
It might be easier if you go
Now that I’m also liking, now where shall I go........."
Essex?
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