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By *eavensScent OP   Couple  over a year ago

Southend

Why do people not put more photos of their faces on?

If you're worried someone will see you on here... well, they're here themselves anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do people not put more photos of their faces on?

If you're worried someone will see you on here... well, they're here themselves anyway... "

It's a fair point, I'm just not comfortable having my face public

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By *eavensScent OP   Couple  over a year ago

Southend


"Why do people not put more photos of their faces on?

If you're worried someone will see you on here... well, they're here themselves anyway...

It's a fair point, I'm just not comfortable having my face public "

Specific reasons? Nearly all of my pictures have my face on them... and I'm not ashamed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Family, friends, partners, jobs. Sooooo many reasons I would think!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because i did once before and my full nude pics went round my kids school so not a chance il stay as i am

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because i did once before and my full nude pics went round my kids school so not a chance il stay as i am "

On an old account

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Family, friends, partners, jobs. Sooooo many reasons I would think!"

Exactly. And as we saw in another thread earlier today, some people on here are only too happy to share others pictures with people who aren't on the site, so anyone could potentially see them.

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By *eavensScent OP   Couple  over a year ago

Southend


"Family, friends, partners, jobs. Sooooo many reasons I would think!

Exactly. And as we saw in another thread earlier today, some people on here are only too happy to share others pictures with people who aren't on the site, so anyone could potentially see them. "

I see how that could be an issue... but I don't think anyone I know would be surprised if someone showed them a picture of me on here... I'm very open with people.

On another note, I decide not to show any particularly graphic pictures unless they're to friends. Therefore I keep it somewhat page 3 rated unless I've had a better interaction and there's a little more trust...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The fact that they're on here too is no consolation to me if they tell my family members that I'm on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sometimes i do

Sometimes i don't

Mainly i just show bits of it and swap it on FPF

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I prefer to keep my Fab life totally seperate from my 'real' life so I value my discretion

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By *eavensScent OP   Couple  over a year ago

Southend


"The fact that they're on here too is no consolation to me if they tell my family members that I'm on here."

Are you ashamed to be on here then?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do people not put more photos of their faces on?

If you're worried someone will see you on here... well, they're here themselves anyway... "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The fact that they're on here too is no consolation to me if they tell my family members that I'm on here.

Are you ashamed to be on here then?"

Its nothing to do with being ashamed ... its about discretion

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By *olgateMan  over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Why no pics of your partner OP?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The fact that they're on here too is no consolation to me if they tell my family members that I'm on here.

Are you ashamed to be on here then?"

No, why do you think that?

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By *tonMessCouple  over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"The fact that they're on here too is no consolation to me if they tell my family members that I'm on here.

Are you ashamed to be on here then?

Its nothing to do with being ashamed ... its about discretion "

I'd have to agree, I'm not ashamed but still would prefer my kids and parents didn't know.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Family, friends, partners, jobs. Sooooo many reasons I would think!

Exactly. And as we saw in another thread earlier today, some people on here are only too happy to share others pictures with people who aren't on the site, so anyone could potentially see them. "

Theres sites with video pic compilations screen shot from fab... if we wanted our images out and about we'd use a certain cam site and make money. obviously we don't want that so we send them when we need to! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's abit foolish to post nude pictures with your face included, It's not about being ashamed of being here but I'd rather people don't know my buisness

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By *ischiefmanagedWoman  over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk border

High profile, responsible job (yeah, big yawn, I know).

I'd have no issue showing my face on a dating site, but my profile here shows bits of my body that don't get seen in the office - and (when I'm actually swinging) info about what I like, don't like, verifications etc. Call me a prude but I wouldn't want my colleagues to see any of that.

Blindingly obvious really?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do people not put more photos of their faces on?

If you're worried someone will see you on here... well, they're here themselves anyway...

It's a fair point, I'm just not comfortable having my face public

Specific reasons? Nearly all of my pictures have my face on them... and I'm not ashamed "

No specific reason I guess just prefer to keep friend my pics to friends only

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The fact that they're on here too is no consolation to me if they tell my family members that I'm on here.

Are you ashamed to be on here then?

Its nothing to do with being ashamed ... its about discretion "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The fact that they're on here too is no consolation to me if they tell my family members that I'm on here.

Are you ashamed to be on here then?

Its nothing to do with being ashamed ... its about discretion

V

I'd have to agree, I'm not ashamed but still would prefer my kids and parents didn't know. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because I don't like to tell random people about my sex life at the best of times nevermind when there's a chance I won't know who's looking.

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By *alking DisasterWoman  over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

I don't want to put potential meets off

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Op how would you feel if your sons friends older brother recognised you in your pics and showed others! Then your son found out? Your on a swingers site with your tits out!

Some people aren’t as understanding or on the same wavelength

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We would never show our face pics on here , as someone else said especially with our naked bodies attached they could end up anywhere and totally out of our control ...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Op how would you feel if your sons friends older brother recognised you in your pics and showed others! Then your son found out? Your on a swingers site with your tits out!

Some people aren’t as understanding or on the same wavelength "

The probably don't care some people live for this shit

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My face isn’t allowed to be shown before the 9pm watershed as it’s too disturbing for sensitive types

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"High profile, responsible job (yeah, big yawn, I know).

I'd have no issue showing my face on a dating site, but my profile here shows bits of my body that don't get seen in the office - and (when I'm actually swinging) info about what I like, don't like, verifications etc. Call me a prude but I wouldn't want my colleagues to see any of that.

Blindingly obvious really? "

I thought so too!

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Op how would you feel if your sons friends older brother recognised you in your pics and showed others! Then your son found out? Your on a swingers site with your tits out!

Some people aren’t as understanding or on the same wavelength

The probably don't care some people live for this shit "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Op how would you feel if your sons friends older brother recognised you in your pics and showed others! Then your son found out? Your on a swingers site with your tits out!

Some people aren’t as understanding or on the same wavelength

The probably don't care some people live for this shit "

There’s lots of stigmas attached to “this site” and many a reason why people don’t show face pics. I’d say infidelity, privacy, and stigma being in the top 3! It’s easy to say “I’m not ashamed “ it’s not about that. It’s about if someone takes screen shots and then passes them on to someone else and then someone else enevitably ending up on a work colleagues or family members phone or ex’s or similar. It’s just something i personally don’t want to risk and not because I’m embarrassed, me personally it’s because I have respect for my children’s feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have a psycho ex who i met on here, dont want him to be able to confirm my profile is me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Family, jobs. Sooooo many reasons I would think!"

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By *amlee7986Couple  over a year ago

nottingham

It's not about being ashamed. If we were to use a regular dating site we wouldn't combine face pics with body pics there either. I wouldn't want my neighbour to recognise me and see pictures of me naked as I know that person in a social context, where it's not socially acceptable to share details of that nature (or have them stumbled upon!)

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By *irthandgirthMan  over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"Why do people not put more photos of their faces on?

If you're worried someone will see you on here... well, they're here themselves anyway... "

Is it not obvious? Anyone can get a profile on here. Including reporters. There have been a few cases where reporters have created profiles on here for stories about swingers. People have families, I certainly wouldn't want my parents or children knowing what i get up to in private.

Many people arent nice. Can you imagine living in a small community and being recognised..especially if you have spurned someone's advances and they don't like it.

People have jobs where being in this lifestyle could put a career at risk, even if not directly but could make things awkward.

Fab is a public forum, same as Facebook. Pretty sure 99.9% of people don't put naked pictures of themselves or lost sexual preferences or glowing reviews of their sexual prowess on any other public social media.

This site is about respect and privacy. People show what they are comfortable with.

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By *eavensScent OP   Couple  over a year ago

Southend

Some very good points made, didn't mean to offend anyone. Obviously opinions differ and respect to all.

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By *irthandgirthMan  over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"Some very good points made, didn't mean to offend anyone. Obviously opinions differ and respect to all."

Don't think anyone has been offended. You didn't disrespect anyone, you asked a question...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some very good points made, didn't mean to offend anyone. Obviously opinions differ and respect to all."

I'm not that easily offended!

Curious to know why you'd think I'd be ashamed to be on here though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some very good points made, didn't mean to offend anyone. Obviously opinions differ and respect to all."

Nope its a fair question

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kids, job, family etc etc

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple  over a year ago

Planet Ork

Our bodies are enough to put people off. We would get no attention if we put our face pictures on!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

How strange, I’ve just within 5 mins received a text from my kids dad saying someone sent him a pic of me from a “swingers” site and he’s mortified that someone showed him that.

I’ve just asked him to send me the pics as I don’t show my face very often, occasionally I do but not often.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How strange, I’ve just within 5 mins received a text from my kids dad saying someone sent him a pic of me from a “swingers” site and he’s mortified that someone showed him that.

I’ve just asked him to send me the pics as I don’t show my face very often, occasionally I do but not often. "

Hope it all goes well x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We have some in our friends pictures or for people we're talking to about meeting but that's about as public as we'll get. It's far too easy for randoms to abuse one's trust in them on here

C

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do people not put more photos of their faces on?

If you're worried someone will see you on here... well, they're here themselves anyway...

Is it not obvious? Anyone can get a profile on here. Including reporters. There have been a few cases where reporters have created profiles on here for stories about swingers. People have families, I certainly wouldn't want my parents or children knowing what i get up to in private.

Many people arent nice. Can you imagine living in a small community and being recognised..especially if you have spurned someone's advances and they don't like it.

People have jobs where being in this lifestyle could put a career at risk, even if not directly but could make things awkward.

Fab is a public forum, same as Facebook. Pretty sure 99.9% of people don't put naked pictures of themselves or lost sexual preferences or glowing reviews of their sexual prowess on any other public social media.

This site is about respect and privacy. People show what they are comfortable with."

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By *uxom redCouple  over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Unfortunately some people abuse the fact your face is on here public or private and try to black mail,out you ect.

It's happened to us my face all over Facebook.

Luckily most know

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster

I show my face

I take the reverse psychology approach I appear to have nothing to hide so I don’t therefore there’s nothing seedy worth exposing for the people that get a kick out of doing it

(I don’t have anything to hide I don’t care who knows I’m on here but that’s the way I’ve always looked at it)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How strange, I’ve just within 5 mins received a text from my kids dad saying someone sent him a pic of me from a “swingers” site and he’s mortified that someone showed him that.

I’ve just asked him to send me the pics as I don’t show my face very often, occasionally I do but not often.

Hope it all goes well x"

He sent me the pics and yes they were from here and of me. He just said it’s none of his business but doesn’t appreciate others sending him pictures of his mums kids and imagine if our sons friends seen them and showed him. Feel pretty bad right now.

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"How strange, I’ve just within 5 mins received a text from my kids dad saying someone sent him a pic of me from a “swingers” site and he’s mortified that someone showed him that.

I’ve just asked him to send me the pics as I don’t show my face very often, occasionally I do but not often.

Hope it all goes well x

He sent me the pics and yes they were from here and of me. He just said it’s none of his business but doesn’t appreciate others sending him pictures of his mums kids and imagine if our sons friends seen them and showed him. Feel pretty bad right now. "

That's a shitty thing for someone to do, and exactly why I don't have face pics in public. I hope it works out OK for you x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How strange, I’ve just within 5 mins received a text from my kids dad saying someone sent him a pic of me from a “swingers” site and he’s mortified that someone showed him that.

I’ve just asked him to send me the pics as I don’t show my face very often, occasionally I do but not often.

Hope it all goes well x

He sent me the pics and yes they were from here and of me. He just said it’s none of his business but doesn’t appreciate others sending him pictures of his mums kids and imagine if our sons friends seen them and showed him. Feel pretty bad right now.

That's a shitty thing for someone to do, and exactly why I don't have face pics in public. I hope it works out OK for you x"

I didn’t deny I was on here I just feel crap and a bit daft now. Put my account on lock down. People look down their noses at you and assume your a sl*t or cheap, they don’t look beyond that sadly.

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By *eavensScent OP   Couple  over a year ago

Southend


"How strange, I’ve just within 5 mins received a text from my kids dad saying someone sent him a pic of me from a “swingers” site and he’s mortified that someone showed him that.

I’ve just asked him to send me the pics as I don’t show my face very often, occasionally I do but not often.

Hope it all goes well x

He sent me the pics and yes they were from here and of me. He just said it’s none of his business but doesn’t appreciate others sending him pictures of his mums kids and imagine if our sons friends seen them and showed him. Feel pretty bad right now.

That's a shitty thing for someone to do, and exactly why I don't have face pics in public. I hope it works out OK for you x

I didn’t deny I was on here I just feel crap and a bit daft now. Put my account on lock down. People look down their noses at you and assume your a sl*t or cheap, they don’t look beyond that sadly. "

I'm sorry that's happened to you, not good at all. People should respect others privacy. And just shows that sexism is still prevalent too as you're right. A guy might get a high five but a woman gets called a sl*t. Not always but it is still there. I hope you're ok x

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford


"Why do people not put more photos of their faces on?

If you're worried someone will see you on here... well, they're here themselves anyway... "

They are, but some people don't care that others know they are swingers, we do. We got outed in our village, not pleasant.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do people not put more photos of their faces on?

If you're worried someone will see you on here... well, they're here themselves anyway...

It's a fair point, I'm just not comfortable having my face public "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Unfortunately some people abuse the fact your face is on here public or private and try to black mail,out you ect.

It's happened to us my face all over Facebook.

Luckily most know "

Someone tried to black mail me too last year, it's really not worth showing your faces publicly.

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford

We're not ashamed, but don't think it would be fair if our grandchildren were teased because their grandparents were swingers. Playground gossip is rife, unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I dont mind the odd face pic, i usually do it for a limited time only...like now!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do people not put more photos of their faces on?

If you're worried someone will see you on here... well, they're here themselves anyway... "

It's not about being seen on here..it's about being seen across the whole internet..we have grown up children ..it would only take one of their friends to be on here or anyother site we are on to recognise Diane..download the picture and say post it on facebook or send it to one of our grown up boys via a PM, or maybe use it against them or us.We do have a responsibility for others not just ourselves..like family and friends..it's OK being free and easy with your pics if you have no kids or young kids. But the pictures you post now, especially naked ones with face..could come back and haunt you years down the line..there really is no need to have public face pics on sites like this. Show them privately..

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford


"Why do people not put more photos of their faces on?

If you're worried someone will see you on here... well, they're here themselves anyway...

It's not about being seen on here..it's about being seen across the whole internet..we have grown up children ..it would only take one of their friends to be on here or anyother site we are on to recognise Diane..download the picture and say post it on facebook or send it to one of our grown up boys via a PM, or maybe use it against them or us.We do have a responsibility for others not just ourselves..like family and friends..it's OK being free and easy with your pics if you have no kids or young kids. But the pictures you post now, especially naked ones with face..could come back and haunt you years down the line..there really is no need to have public face pics on sites like this. Show them privately.."

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How strange, I’ve just within 5 mins received a text from my kids dad saying someone sent him a pic of me from a “swingers” site and he’s mortified that someone showed him that.

I’ve just asked him to send me the pics as I don’t show my face very often, occasionally I do but not often. "

It must be someone he knows for them to have his phone number. Can you find out who it is? Or take the texts and phone number details to the police. It's revenge porn.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How strange, I’ve just within 5 mins received a text from my kids dad saying someone sent him a pic of me from a “swingers” site and he’s mortified that someone showed him that.

I’ve just asked him to send me the pics as I don’t show my face very often, occasionally I do but not often.

It must be someone he knows for them to have his phone number. Can you find out who it is? Or take the texts and phone number details to the police. It's revenge porn. "

Yes he has a very prolific job, we’ve not been together for yrs though. Obviously on the one time I’ve been online and had my face pic open someone has linked us and I’m assuming it’s been sent to his older son then to him (I’m guessing) but he wasn’t funny just said it’s my life etc but people associate me with him as we’ve kids and imagine if kids seen pics. Which I fully agree. Just feeling a bit ! at the min

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do people not put more photos of their faces on?

If you're worried someone will see you on here... well, they're here themselves anyway...

It's not about being seen on here..it's about being seen across the whole internet..we have grown up children ..it would only take one of their friends to be on here or anyother site we are on to recognise Diane..download the picture and say post it on facebook or send it to one of our grown up boys via a PM, or maybe use it against them or us.We do have a responsibility for others not just ourselves..like family and friends..it's OK being free and easy with your pics if you have no kids or young kids. But the pictures you post now, especially naked ones with face..could come back and haunt you years down the line..there really is no need to have public face pics on sites like this. Show them privately.."

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How strange, I’ve just within 5 mins received a text from my kids dad saying someone sent him a pic of me from a “swingers” site and he’s mortified that someone showed him that.

I’ve just asked him to send me the pics as I don’t show my face very often, occasionally I do but not often.

It must be someone he knows for them to have his phone number. Can you find out who it is? Or take the texts and phone number details to the police. It's revenge porn.

Yes he has a very prolific job, we’ve not been together for yrs though. Obviously on the one time I’ve been online and had my face pic open someone has linked us and I’m assuming it’s been sent to his older son then to him (I’m guessing) but he wasn’t funny just said it’s my life etc but people associate me with him as we’ve kids and imagine if kids seen pics. Which I fully agree. Just feeling a bit ! at the min "

Sorry to explain, what’s happened I’m assuming is, I’ve been online and had my face pic on “public” but someone has recognised me as being linked to my ex. I’m assuming he’s screen shot my pics (as my ex sent them to me and I could clearly see they were sent to him from someone else. ) and then sent them to my ex’s son ( big age gap between myself and my ex so his sons 33) and they’ve said isn’t this **** your dads ex! Plus we’ve 2 kids together,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do people not put more photos of their faces on?

If you're worried someone will see you on here... well, they're here themselves anyway... "

Lots of reasons I’m sure. Out of interest; why no pics at all, let alone face pics, of the male half of your couple?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You should confront the person you sent them to...or if you haven't met them ask your ex who sent them. Fight fire with fire. I foolishly gave my number to the first meet I had and told him a bit about myself. He kept phoning me and phoned my work one day. So I made a different profile. I Hid my number and sent a few anonymous texts saying I'd throw a brick through his window if he kept bullying women on line AND I would call to the the house when his wife was in if he didn't stop pestering women on fab. (I wouldn't have done any of those things. But he shit himself because he didn't know who it was)and I blocked his number and learned my lesson. I never received either a call or a text from him since. Hope you're ok. I know what that knot in the stomach feels like.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You should confront the person you sent them to...or if you haven't met them ask your ex who sent them. Fight fire with fire. I foolishly gave my number to the first meet I had and told him a bit about myself. He kept phoning me and phoned my work one day. So I made a different profile. I Hid my number and sent a few anonymous texts saying I'd throw a brick through his window if he kept bullying women on line AND I would call to the the house when his wife was in if he didn't stop pestering women on fab. (I wouldn't have done any of those things. But he shit himself because he didn't know who it was)and I blocked his number and learned my lesson. I never received either a call or a text from him since. Hope you're ok. I know what that knot in the stomach feels like."

It’s not as easy as that. They weren’t sent directly to him! They were sent through someone via someone who knows someone who recognised me who knows his son!! See it’s easily done.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You should confront the person you sent them to...or if you haven't met them ask your ex who sent them. Fight fire with fire. I foolishly gave my number to the first meet I had and told him a bit about myself. He kept phoning me and phoned my work one day. So I made a different profile. I Hid my number and sent a few anonymous texts saying I'd throw a brick through his window if he kept bullying women on line AND I would call to the the house when his wife was in if he didn't stop pestering women on fab. (I wouldn't have done any of those things. But he shit himself because he didn't know who it was)and I blocked his number and learned my lesson. I never received either a call or a text from him since. Hope you're ok. I know what that knot in the stomach feels like."

It’s partly my fault! I had face pics on my profile previously when I was online. Obviously someone has recognised me. And screen shot them, along with my other pics. I’ve never had explicit pics anyway put they were proagitive.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do people not put more photos of their faces on?

If you're worried someone will see you on here... well, they're here themselves anyway...

Lots of reasons I’m sure. Out of interest; why no pics at all, let alone face pics, of the male half of your couple? "

They did have many the other day of both of them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Personally..I think they have do the right thing now, by keeping none nude face pics as their public photos..

The photos that are now on show are very sexy anyway without any nudeness ..

Of course its upto each account holder how they run theirs..but glad to see they have taken the advice and suggestions on board that was given by others.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do people not put more photos of their faces on?

If you're worried someone will see you on here... well, they're here themselves anyway...

It's not about being seen on here..it's about being seen across the whole internet..we have grown up children ..it would only take one of their friends to be on here or anyother site we are on to recognise Diane..download the picture and say post it on facebook or send it to one of our grown up boys via a PM, or maybe use it against them or us.We do have a responsibility for others not just ourselves..like family and friends..it's OK being free and easy with your pics if you have no kids or young kids. But the pictures you post now, especially naked ones with face..could come back and haunt you years down the line..there really is no need to have public face pics on sites like this. Show them privately.."

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By *izzy RascallMan  over a year ago

Cardiff


"Why do people not put more photos of their faces on?

If you're worried someone will see you on here... well, they're here themselves anyway... "

It's alright for you, your pretty.

I'm a bit of a 6 pinter

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They definitely had more pics when they first posted this thread..

Perhaps they heeded some of the rationale given as to why not...

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By *oiluvfunMan  over a year ago

Penrith


"Some very good points made, didn't mean to offend anyone. Obviously opinions differ and respect to all."

I went to an organised social in my home town a couple of years ago. When I got there, ordered a drink, then sat at the bar as a text message came in. The message was warning me NOT to go to the social, from a couple I know, as they were warned by other friends, that their kids knew about the social, were chattering in Facebook about it, and were planning on going down to ‘see what swingers look like’. Imagine just one of your face pics, taken as a screenshot, then posted on Facebook

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have no issue in showing my face

I do draw the line at sharing naked pics or cock shots though

I'd never post anything here (photo wise) that I wouldn't be happy to share on social media

That hasn't always been the case, but it is now

People should be allowed to determine their own comfort levels

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By *heEpicureanMan  over a year ago

Warminster

Some lizard decided to send my pictures to a family friend who, in her wisdom, showed other women in a social group my mothers a part of. My mother didn’t give a shit about the nature of the pictures but was more bothered that her friends had seen them. Having none up for public saves any more awkward situations like that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have no problems showing my face as family and friends already know what I’m into. I don’t show naked pics, they would be kept in a private folder. I don’t have children and my niece and nephew are older and think it’s funny anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't mind showing my face, no one notices it anyway, they're to busy looking at The Hair.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some very good points made, didn't mean to offend anyone. Obviously opinions differ and respect to all.

I went to an organised social in my home town a couple of years ago. When I got there, ordered a drink, then sat at the bar as a text message came in. The message was warning me NOT to go to the social, from a couple I know, as they were warned by other friends, that their kids knew about the social, were chattering in Facebook about it, and were planning on going down to ‘see what swingers look like’. Imagine just one of your face pics, taken as a screenshot, then posted on Facebook "

I don’t think anyone on my Facebook would be surprised. I understand for many that would be awful.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't mind showing my face, no one notices it anyway, they're to busy looking at The Hair. "

And what beautiful hair it is. I can’t even remember your face from the social as your hair had all of my attention.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do people not put more photos of their faces on?

If you're worried someone will see you on here... well, they're here themselves anyway... "

You obviously haven not encountered the crazy stalkers yet OP?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't mind showing my face, no one notices it anyway, they're to busy looking at The Hair.

And what beautiful hair it is. I can’t even remember your face from the social as your hair had all of my attention. "

That happens. People forget that there is a person under The Hair. A person with feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't mind showing my face, no one notices it anyway, they're to busy looking at The Hair.

And what beautiful hair it is. I can’t even remember your face from the social as your hair had all of my attention.

That happens. People forget that there is a person under The Hair. A person with feelings. "

Alright bab, I will take more notice next time. Promise.

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