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Could you date a stupid person..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Intellectual intelligence isn't the be all and end all for me. Emotional and spiritual intelligence makes up for a lot.
But I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where my voice was too dominant. I want a bit of push and pull |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they had good banter and great personality and other traits it would be no problem because their is more to a person intelligence is only one thing and stupid people can still have normal conversations too depending on how stupid they were and sometimes they can be really funny which is a good thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they were caring, considerate, empathetic, sensual and other endearing qualities.
If they were the stupid that walked out in front of traffic or were duped by scammers I'd be inclined to run their life for them though.
I'm too old to have children so no worries about having stupid children. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many times have you heard an intelligent person say "That was stupid of me".
Often. I find stupid people rarely realise it, I don't  "
In recent years my common senses has been going down the drain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could only date them for as long as it took me to realise they were stupid. Does that answer your question? "
That could be a long time if you were as stupid as them.
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"How many times have you heard an intelligent person say "That was stupid of me".
Often. I find stupid people rarely realise it, I don't
In recent years my common senses has been going down the drain."
I think I just got to the point where my head was so full some of it fell out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How many times have you heard an intelligent person say "That was stupid of me".
Often. I find stupid people rarely realise it, I don't
In recent years my common senses has been going down the drain."
Some of the brightest people have zero common sense, I’ve worked with people on building sites who had degrees and some of the shit theyve done you wouldn’t believe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had a few dates with a stunning Colombian who worked as a maid in a hotel. It didn't seem like she had much education. But she seemed to be a deeply lovely person. Unfortunately, however, the language barrier became a problem as I came to wonder if she actually was a nice person. Some of the things she said just started to make me feel uncomfortable. It's difficult to come back from doubts like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many times have you heard an intelligent person say "That was stupid of me".
Often. I find stupid people rarely realise it, I don't
In recent years my common senses has been going down the drain.
Some of the brightest people have zero common sense, I’ve worked with people on building sites who had degrees and some of the shit theyve done you wouldn’t believe. "
Like hanging over a parapet with no safety harness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a few dates with a stunning Colombian who worked as a maid in a hotel. It didn't seem like she had much education. But she seemed to be a deeply lovely person. Unfortunately, however, the language barrier became a problem as I came to wonder if she actually was a nice person. Some of the things she said just started to make me feel uncomfortable. It's difficult to come back from doubts like that "
Couldn't you have learned Spanish? |
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"....if they were fit ?
Is this a stupid question? Are you bored Mr Impala?
I thought it a rather intriguing question myself."
Needs to be equalling intelligent levels as it could be quite challenging if not. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I had a few dates with a stunning Colombian who worked as a maid in a hotel. It didn't seem like she had much education. But she seemed to be a deeply lovely person. Unfortunately, however, the language barrier became a problem as I came to wonder if she actually was a nice person. Some of the things she said just started to make me feel uncomfortable. It's difficult to come back from doubts like that
Couldn't you have learned Spanish?"
El podria, pero el no lo hizo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a few dates with a stunning Colombian who worked as a maid in a hotel. It didn't seem like she had much education. But she seemed to be a deeply lovely person. Unfortunately, however, the language barrier became a problem as I came to wonder if she actually was a nice person. Some of the things she said just started to make me feel uncomfortable. It's difficult to come back from doubts like that
Couldn't you have learned Spanish?"
Yes. But if it had helped me discern that I didn't actually like her as a person after dating her for a few months I think her brother might have broken both my legs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I lived with a guy who had no common sense or logic and he drove me insane.
He was great when it came to facts and had an outstanding general knowledge but his inability to tackle anything at all practical or problem solve without making issues so much worse caused a fair few arguments. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Stupid is not particularly to do with intellectual ability but I don't understand how some people manage to make it to adulthood without knowing some things, it baffles me. Emotional intelligence and common sense are needed too or I can't even hack a conversation sometimes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a few dates with a stunning Colombian who worked as a maid in a hotel. It didn't seem like she had much education. But she seemed to be a deeply lovely person. Unfortunately, however, the language barrier became a problem as I came to wonder if she actually was a nice person. Some of the things she said just started to make me feel uncomfortable. It's difficult to come back from doubts like that
Couldn't you have learned Spanish?
Yes. But if it had helped me discern that I didn't actually like her as a person after dating her for a few months I think her brother might have broken both my legs "
You made the right decision in running away.
How fast did you run exactly? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I lived with a guy who had no common sense or logic and he drove me insane.
He was great when it came to facts and had an outstanding general knowledge but his inability to tackle anything at all practical or problem solve without making issues so much worse caused a fair few arguments. "
That would make him incapable I think, not stupid.
Some of us have practical abilities, some are thinkers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I once dated a guy back in my school days who was about as bright as a plank. He was the school hottie at the time and I was delighted to be in his arm especially as I was fairly curvy in school. I wasn't his usual type. We lasted about a month because I couldn't listen to him. All he ever talked about was himself. To this day he is still the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many dates are we talking? It sometimes takes a while to find out. Where are they taking me on these dates? If it's Wetherspoons, no. If it's Rome for the weekend I could wear headphones."
I like your thinking.. |
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"I once dated a guy back in my school days who was about as bright as a plank. He was the school hottie at the time and I was delighted to be in his arm especially as I was fairly curvy in school. I wasn't his usual type. We lasted about a month because I couldn't listen to him. All he ever talked about was himself. To this day he is still the same."
...like Gaston from "Beauty and the Beast"? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I once dated a guy back in my school days who was about as bright as a plank. He was the school hottie at the time and I was delighted to be in his arm especially as I was fairly curvy in school. I wasn't his usual type. We lasted about a month because I couldn't listen to him. All he ever talked about was himself. To this day he is still the same.
...like Gaston from "Beauty and the Beast"? "
Ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id rather a kind dummy than an intelligent miser.
Saying that, the sterotype dumb pretty girls are usually intelligent."
Why does it have to be those two options?
What about a kind "dummy" or a kind intellectual? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope! Had to be a connection. If they say ‘should of’ I’m out !"
I’m like if she says;
‘Fact’ ‘
End of’
‘Simples’
‘Jog on’
They’re all deal breakers and I’m out of there. Also if her ‘jam’ is ‘Shape of you’ by Ed Sheeran. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a few dates with a stunning Colombian who worked as a maid in a hotel. It didn't seem like she had much education. But she seemed to be a deeply lovely person. Unfortunately, however, the language barrier became a problem as I came to wonder if she actually was a nice person. Some of the things she said just started to make me feel uncomfortable. It's difficult to come back from doubts like that
Couldn't you have learned Spanish?
Yes. But if it had helped me discern that I didn't actually like her as a person after dating her for a few months I think her brother might have broken both my legs
You made the right decision in running away.
How fast did you run exactly?"
Let's just say afterwards Usain Bolt decided to give up and try his hand at football instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did. It didn't work. Some of the things that came out of his mouth used to frustrate me. After one particular annoying time I did end up saying are you stupid what arnt you understanding  . And I'm usually a patient person |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh the profound silence. The gaping chasm between linguistic content and meaning in a post information age. To make a markless mark upon the hem of history. To be so gagged by beard hairs in the name of hipsterdom so as to fall mute. To be a man's man and simply stab a fox and eat its foot whilst sitting silently upon the chiselled stump of a once mighty tree.
What more can be said? |
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Everyone has some levels of stupid about themselves, so it would depend how compatible we are. If they were significantly less able to function in the world than me, it's probably likely that we'd not be a good match, from my perspective. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you’re both stupid how do you know?
One of you gets a tshirt with a finger pointing to the other one with “I’m with stupid” on it "
Both could get them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you’re both stupid how do you know?
I’m guessing they will just cancel each other out, If theyre both happy, guess it doesn’t matter."
Who makes sure the children stay alive though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"....if they were fit ?"
Depends how stupid. Like average or slightly low IQ and normal social ability yes, retarded or a complete embarrassment no. Not even if they were really fit. I would have to meet them at home for sex but never be out with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"....if they were fit ?
Depends how stupid. Like average or slightly low IQ and normal social ability yes, retarded or a complete embarrassment no. Not even if they were really fit. I would have to meet them at home for sex but never be out with them. "
Having said that, I would rather date somebody less intelligent than ugly, so there is a switch point somewhere, thank god I'm unlikely to need to find it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"....if they were fit ?
No...been there, just doesn't work. I'd also add broke..."having" to pay for somesome not your child is off putting. "
That's an interesting one, I wouldn't let a woman pay for anything on a swinging date, but would hate to be expected to pay so can see that being a big put off yes. |
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"....if they were fit ?
No...been there, just doesn't work. I'd also add broke..."having" to pay for somesome not your child is off putting.
That's an interesting one, I wouldn't let a woman pay for anything on a swinging date, but would hate to be expected to pay so can see that being a big put off yes. "
The question was "date".
Dating someone unable to pay their way let alone go halves on a fish supper say, is off putting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"....if they were fit ?
No...been there, just doesn't work. I'd also add broke..."having" to pay for somesome not your child is off putting.
That's an interesting one, I wouldn't let a woman pay for anything on a swinging date, but would hate to be expected to pay so can see that being a big put off yes.
The question was "date".
Dating someone unable to pay their way let alone go halves on a fish supper say, is off putting. "
I'm aware what the question was, I was just putting into context for the, site we're on.
If you want a more literal answer, it isn't the slightest bit off putting. If I can afford it and she can't I have no issue at all. Nobody I have ever dated, in its purest sense OR swinging sense has ever paid a penny towards anything at any point of my life. And nor will that ever change. If it became expected then I wouldn't like it, but as a principle I'm afraid I'm not even slightly into equality over stuff like that.
Don't care what other people do at all, but its what I do.
I don't date people for money, I date them because I'm planning on building a relationship and a life with them, and what I want out of that is a lot, but money doesn't feature. |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"....if they were fit ?
No...been there, just doesn't work. I'd also add broke..."having" to pay for somesome not your child is off putting.
That's an interesting one, I wouldn't let a woman pay for anything on a swinging date, but would hate to be expected to pay so can see that being a big put off yes.
The question was "date".
Dating someone unable to pay their way let alone go halves on a fish supper say, is off putting. "
If it was actual "dating", I wouldn't give a shit about that, I'm not materialistic.
I would, on the other hand always expect a fabs date to go halves. |
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"....if they were fit ?
No...been there, just doesn't work. I'd also add broke..."having" to pay for somesome not your child is off putting.
That's an interesting one, I wouldn't let a woman pay for anything on a swinging date, but would hate to be expected to pay so can see that being a big put off yes.
The question was "date".
Dating someone unable to pay their way let alone go halves on a fish supper say, is off putting.
I'm aware what the question was, I was just putting into context for the, site we're on.
If you want a more literal answer, it isn't the slightest bit off putting. If I can afford it and she can't I have no issue at all. Nobody I have ever dated, in its purest sense OR swinging sense has ever paid a penny towards anything at any point of my life. And nor will that ever change. If it became expected then I wouldn't like it, but as a principle I'm afraid I'm not even slightly into equality over stuff like that.
Don't care what other people do at all, but its what I do.
I don't date people for money, I date them because I'm planning on building a relationship and a life with them, and what I want out of that is a lot, but money doesn't feature. "
Aw that's very true! 
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Hmm x
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In answer to the question, no I couldn’t date them
and I’ve been fapping to your arse for weeks! 
MrsK x