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It’s common unfortunately. It’s not personal (well, it is a bit) but it generally means you aren’t for them and instead of them saying it and then receiving either the “why??” Message or a barrage of abuse (which you likely won’t do but many can’t help themselves) they just nip it in the bud.
Don’t take it to heart |
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"It’s common unfortunately. It’s not personal (well, it is a bit) but it generally means you aren’t for them and instead of them saying it and then receiving either the “why??” Message or a barrage of abuse (which you likely won’t do but many can’t help themselves) they just nip it in the bud.
Don’t take it to heart "
This 
Plus it happens to women too |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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Yes, it’s frustrating but if there’s not spark then she’s saving your time by not leading you on.
I prefer a thanks but no thanks response but either way move on.
Also check your opening message, don’t be crude. |
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Right. Spelling it out for all the disheartened men.
If she initiates a conversation, it is reasonable to ask her to send a photo first.
If you initiate a conversation, you will be asked for a photo.
Simple, really. Whether the other party has a public photo is beyond discussion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, it’s frustrating but if there’s not spark then she’s saving your time by not leading you on.
I prefer a thanks but no thanks response but either way move on.
Also check your opening message, don’t be crude. "
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I dont sent them pics anymore i do not ask any more for pics of theirs either as its a waste of time simple reasons 1 you dont know who you talking to weather is a man or women 2 there are so meny picture collectors simply i use my profile to book my self into the clubs then what happened in the clubs stays in the clubs and meet people i met before |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am often asked to send a pic before the lady shows hers. I do and then I'm blocked. Does this often happen? xx"
Yes, she didn't like yoir picture, so what's the point in sending hers, or she has got her wank material and is really a guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just seems very heavily weighted towards women. No wonder men get fed up here"
Do you think they should be forced to have sex with at least one in 10 applicants or something, 
Of course it's biased towards women, it's called supply and demand. |
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