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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok i know there has been a hundred threads like this
My body confidence took a bit of a kicking so how do i get it back i used to love my body
I want to get back to that me not the one i am
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well looking at your pics you look ok to me, but obviously you don’t think so. What caused you to lose confidence, was it a throwaway comment by someone or something that happened. It can make a difference in how you deal with it x |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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You look ok to me.
But it’s your opinion that counts. You’re a relatively young guy, you can still do things to help improve your body (diet and exercise) or you can just learn to accept it as it is and stuff what anyone else thinks.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you have to love yourself to begin with. Your body is part of you and is what it is. Your personality and sociability are other parts of you.
What you'll find is that people will often look beyond the obvious and be attracted by other aspects of you.
From the few pics you have you seem fine to me. And you've had meets too. Just do moderate exercise, eat healthily and enjoy being you ... then everyone else will enjoy you too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Silly thing iv been told it so small it cant be seen but i know it's there
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I have a scar on my cheek. I was embarassed of it at first, but it seems like quite a few women actually like it. Now I wish I had more  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all have scars, they’re a sign of survival. Try some bio oil on it and it will fade a lot and be less noticeable. But if someone is put off by it, then it’s their issue and not yours. No ones body is perfect, I’ve lots of scars some more noticeable than others and it’s never been a problem x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a stab wound on my side that im very self conscious of so i do understand "
Looking at your pics I don’t think anyone will be looking at that so I wouldn’t worry too much! Lots of people have scars, stretchmarks etc. Part of life x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a stab wound on my side that im very self conscious of so i do understand
Looking at your pics I don’t think anyone will be looking at that so I wouldn’t worry too much! Lots of people have scars, stretchmarks etc. Part of life x"
I have this habit of telling the person before i take my top off about it as im paranoid theyll hate it haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a stab wound on my side that im very self conscious of so i do understand
Looking at your pics I don’t think anyone will be looking at that so I wouldn’t worry too much! Lots of people have scars, stretchmarks etc. Part of life x
I have this habit of telling the person before i take my top off about it as im paranoid theyll hate it haha"
Some find scars sexy to be fair. Not sure stretch marks have the same effect though! I wouldn’t worry x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Now i like stretch marks
With me as some one said its in my head
Its barely visible but i know its their so in my head its being stared at
It also dont help when exs kick every ounce of confidence out of you
But on the plus side i had someone checking me out as i walked out of the petrol station today massive ego trip for me as it wasnt the store detective  |
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