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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Why are newbies avoided, surely everyone was one once.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Are you new? I don't recognise the name tbh so you haven't been active in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Are they?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I am new yes.

Been on fab for a little while but first time here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because they smell usually

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are newbies avoided, surely everyone was one once."

Pretty much all single men get avoided. This site isn't the heaving orgy that people often think.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When does someone stop being a newbie?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are newbies avoided, surely everyone was one once.

Pretty much all single men get avoided. This site isn't the heaving orgy that people often think. "

Damn

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By *haron7540Woman  over a year ago

Hayle, Cornwall

That’s quite a generalisation.

I don’t necessarily avoid, depends what they say to me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When does someone stop being a newbie?"

When the clique decides it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They're not ignored,you just have to work a little harder!....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They aren’t always avoided. Just try to improve your profile. I’d write more if I was you. Im always trying to improve my profile, im currently just looking around and seeing what works for other men and what kind of pictures they have etc.

Also you might not be what some people are looking for and that’s okay, you just have to be patient (I think)

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I’ve spoken to a few people who are happy to chat then when they find out you’ve no experience they disappear

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Newbie here hello everyone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Are they?"

You're fortune to be of the right gender!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Newbie too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because they smell usually"

Trust you

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I’ve spoken to a few people who are happy to chat then when they find out you’ve no experience they disappear "

Maybe that's just the excuse they're using. I'm not saying that to be mean but if they lose interest it's an easy reason to give.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Lol, not looking for a heaving orgy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are newbies avoided, surely everyone was one once."
it might be your cock intimidating them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have my message filters set to block new people (not just men) while they are 'new'. I've had people send nasty messages, delete their profile & create a new one, send a nasty msg & so on. Blocking newbies avoids that.

It also means I avoid the eagerness of newbies, gives them time to settle in & calm the feck down.

Though saying that, I have everyone blocked atm. I'd rather find someone myself than try & filter through 'wanna fuck' msgs... rarely even a ? in sight too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Newbie here hello everyone "

Hello dad

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Are they?

You're fortune to be of the right gender!"

I count my blessings everyday

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Newbie here hello everyone

Hello dad"

Hello Sugar Dumpling

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

After 13 years on here, I'm still a newbie

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Newbie here hello everyone

Hello dad

Hello Sugar Dumpling "

Is that a fat joke?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Are they?"

They are by some people

Its kinda hard to get ya foot in the door on here ..... still trying tbh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because they smell usually"

Shame on you lol. Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because they smell usually

Trust you "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Newbie here hello everyone

Hello dad

Hello Sugar Dumpling

Is that a fat joke?"

Noooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Are they?

They are by some people

Its kinda hard to get ya foot in the door on here ..... still trying tbh "

It can be. But we found going to clubs and socialising more got us over that hurdle. Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Newbie here hello everyone

Hello dad

Hello Sugar Dumpling

Is that a fat joke?"

Was a sweet compliment

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Are they?

They are by some people

Its kinda hard to get ya foot in the door on here ..... still trying tbh "

Wouldn’t have thought you’d have any trouble being a couple

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Going to my first social in a few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm new here too. Only been posting a few days. Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Newbie here hello everyone

Hello dad

Hello Sugar Dumpling

Is that a fat joke?

Was a sweet compliment "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It could be as a newbie you need to be shown the ropes,and while this may be exciting for some,others it's not. Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Are they?

They are by some people

Its kinda hard to get ya foot in the door on here ..... still trying tbh

Wouldn’t have thought you’d have any trouble being a couple "

I dnt mean meets we get plenty of offers for that I mean just chit chat on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Newbie here hello everyone

Hello dad

Hello Sugar Dumpling

Is that a fat joke?

Was a sweet compliment

"

Dad says Put that arse avatar back up right now!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Dont care new or old a div is a div a chiller a chiller il still have a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Are they?

They are by some people

Its kinda hard to get ya foot in the door on here ..... still trying tbh

Wouldn’t have thought you’d have any trouble being a couple "

It's harder than you think being a couple. Lexi

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Newbie here hello everyone

Hello dad

Hello Sugar Dumpling

Is that a fat joke?

Noooooooooo "

The Diversions - Hey Fattie Bum Bum

wqzYww.youtube.com/watch?v=5tYF_vJI

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m new, generally ignored. No fucks given

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Newbie here hello everyone

Hello dad

Hello Sugar Dumpling

Is that a fat joke?

Noooooooooo

The Diversions - Hey Fattie Bum Bum

wqzYww.youtube.com/watch?v=5tYF_vJI"

Thank you again Ace, for the insult and confidence boost

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm also new to posting, only been doing so for the last few days

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m new, generally ignored. No fucks given "

Hellooooo *waves at newbie

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Newbie here hello everyone

Hello dad

Hello Sugar Dumpling

Is that a fat joke?

Was a sweet compliment

Dad says Put that arse avatar back up right now! "

Make me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm also new to posting, only been doing so for the last few days "

Let me be the first to welcome u x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Newbie here hello everyone

Hello dad

Hello Sugar Dumpling

Is that a fat joke?

Was a sweet compliment

Dad says Put that arse avatar back up right now!

Make me"

Don't make me come there and spank it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m new, generally ignored. No fucks given "

Who said that?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When does someone stop being a newbie?"

Ive been here a year and still feel new. I dont think I am though, just swept into a cupboard to make room for fresh ladies

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

[Removed by poster at 05/09/18 20:40:11]

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are newbies avoided, surely everyone was one once."

and some of us have been a newbie more than once

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman  over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Sorry to say, but I now avoid newbies totaly.

In my experience they've all turned out to be the biggest time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm also new to posting, only been doing so for the last few days "
like i said your funny and will do fine

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Newbie here hello everyone

Hello dad

Hello Sugar Dumpling

Is that a fat joke?

Noooooooooo

The Diversions - Hey Fattie Bum Bum

wqzYww.youtube.com/watch?v=5tYF_vJI

Thank you again Ace, for the insult and confidence boost "

Yeah, but the second line is Sweet Sugar Dumpling. Now you've got me listening to Reggae all night!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m new, generally ignored. No fucks given

Hellooooo *waves at newbie "

Hellooo *waves back

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are newbies avoided, surely everyone was one once."

In the forums or on the site?

Generally you only get ignored for two or three reasons.

1)Crap profile.

2)Owner of a penis.

3)Complete cock.

Hope this helps

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By *ot-AshMan  over a year ago

London

welcome OP.

I've been here for about 1 week now

and am still enjoying it and been

made to feel very welcome.

It just takes time for people to

get to know you so have fun in the

mean time and join in the banter.

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Why are newbies avoided, surely everyone was one once.

In the forums or on the site?

Generally you only get ignored for two or three reasons.

1)Crap profile.

2)Owner of a penis.

3)Complete cock.

Hope this helps"

I'm a complete tool, but it's never hindered me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hello new people.

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Hello new people."

This is Lib's attempt st being friendly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hello new people.

This is Lib's attempt st being friendly "

I'm always friendly.

Mostly.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm new and I'm not being avoided. Just communicate with people. Like in real life it'll be hit n' miss.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman  over a year ago

Tamworth

I don't avoid newbies. I do need a half decent profile and some decent chat but just being new isn't a no for me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Been on fab a long time..but just started to come in here..more exciting than reading the mails..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm also new to posting, only been doing so for the last few days like i said your funny and will do fine"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

And I look at them every day

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are newbies avoided, surely everyone was one once."

This site ain’t really that good for single men it’s for couples and females so don’t take it personally plus you have to remember a lot of women on here have been fucked thousands of times so need huge cocks so they can feel it touch the side so I quite specific in their choices

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 06/09/18 09:33:28]"

Lovely- I saw your comment and was touched by just how highly you value the ladies on here.

For those that missed it, he said this site is mainly for women and couples and the women are only interested in monster cocks because they have been fucked by thousands of men and consequently can't feel anything else!

To respond-

I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for the single men, but I do prefer the swinger types rather than the one-off/nsa types.

I have no idea how many men I have slept with- the men I fuck rarely sleep over.

And my pelvic floor is complimented by everyone who has come across it! (Pun intended)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 06/09/18 09:33:28]

Lovely- I saw your comment and was touched by just how highly you value the ladies on here.

For those that missed it, he said this site is mainly for women and couples and the women are only interested in monster cocks because they have been fucked by thousands of men and consequently can't feel anything else!

To respond-

I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for the single men, but I do prefer the swinger types rather than the one-off/nsa types.

I have no idea how many men I have slept with- the men I fuck rarely sleep over.

And my pelvic floor is complimented by everyone who has come across it! (Pun intended)

"

no need to repeat it the post is as clear as day

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 06/09/18 09:45:31]

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" you have to remember a lot of women on here have been fucked thousands of times so need huge cocks so they can feel it touch the side so I quite specific in their choices "

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By *eliciousladyWoman  over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


" This site ain’t really that good for single men it’s for couples and females so don’t take it personally, plus you have to remember a lot of women on here have been fucked thousands of times so need huge cocks, so they can feel it touch the side.. "

An enormous and incorrect generalisation Mr.Top-cat.

On what proof do you base your assumptions I wonder?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

He’s from Norwich, they are a little odd up there

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"He’s from Norwich, they are a little odd up there"
says the man from Bristol ffs lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 06/09/18 09:33:28]

Lovely- I saw your comment and was touched by just how highly you value the ladies on here.

For those that missed it, he said this site is mainly for women and couples and the women are only interested in monster cocks because they have been fucked by thousands of men and consequently can't feel anything else!

To respond-

I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for the single men, but I do prefer the swinger types rather than the one-off/nsa types.

I have no idea how many men I have slept with- the men I fuck rarely sleep over.

And my pelvic floor is complimented by everyone who has come across it! (Pun intended)

no need to repeat it the post is as clear as day "

When I posted, you had merely removed your comment- I was hoping you had thought better of it.

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

To answer the OP and also the person that says (somewhat rudely!!) the site is not so good for single men - I don't think newbies and the inexperienced are avoided as such, but they do have to help themselves by getting involved or making themselves stand out a little, but in the right way , and that means having a positive attitude, the right approach and expectations of what the site is about and can offer.

Sign up expecting it to be a shagfest and you're going to be severely disappointed!!

There are plenty of single guys on here who do very well, and they tend to be the ones that go quietly about their Fab business with a positive attitude, accept that they're not for everyone, don't expect meets at the drop of a hat and are respectful etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Not really got round to using the forums yet

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By *rsSBWoman  over a year ago

toy town

I'm a newbie

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS  over a year ago

Leeds

I avoid, the same as anyone who isn't verified by meeting in person. I'd prefer someone else take the risk rather than arrange a meet only to find out they are not genuine. And I know we all have to start somewhere but too much effort goes in to be let down and left feeling like a lemon

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lots of newbies here! *waves

Hello all! We happily meet newbies for socials but I think getting along to organised socials are a great way to find your feet (and other body parts)

Peach x

Ps i don't want monster cocks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm a newbie "

Oh hello

You know you look very similar to a sassy Spanish lady that used to frequent the forums.....

Peach x

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple  over a year ago

Planet Ork

Some people avoid newbies probably because of potential drama or complications, some people actively pursue newbies seeing them as a challenge or a conquest. Everyone has their own ideas and reasons. We will gladly meet newbies as we still class ourselves as relatively new here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For me it depends what the newbie has said. On many occasions I've replied to them and I get a private message wanting a sexual conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I avoid newbies cause they get bombarded with messages and i don’t see the point in adding to that.

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By *inkyman1964Man  over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Newbies are welcome at Swingers Clubs! They even hold special nights to welcome those new to swinging.

;-)

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman  over a year ago

all loved up


"Why are newbies avoided, surely everyone was one once."
I love newbies.. ask any of the hosts at the townhouse.. I dragged at least 3 off the last time I was there.

No also meet local newbies for socials if there profile has something decent on it. Or they take profile advice.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are newbies avoided, surely everyone was one once."

I've not been Actually, that's probably not strictly true, sure I've scared a few off, but not because I'm new

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London

Every single person on this site that has met another swinger was new.

Being new probably isn't the reason.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm new... So I've no feedback... I must be avoided like the plague

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are newbies avoided, surely everyone was one once."

Because there are a lot of fakes that only exist for a day or two.

Ite shocking how many people have signed up and within 5 miniutes of joining have messaged me i get rhe feeling they may be aome of.the people ive blocked lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’ve spoken to a few people who are happy to chat then when they find out you’ve no experience they disappear "

Are you saying your a virgin op

Not surprised no one's interested tbh

Have you actually seen a live vagina

Mum's don't count btw

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why are newbies avoided, surely everyone was one once.

Because there are a lot of fakes that only exist for a day or two.

Ite shocking how many people have signed up and within 5 miniutes of joining have messaged me i get rhe feeling they may be aome of.the people ive blocked lol"

Could your head get any bigger my friend

I don't think your phallus can

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple  over a year ago

Planet Ork


"Why are newbies avoided, surely everyone was one once. I love newbies.. ask any of the hosts at the townhouse.. I dragged at least 3 off the last time I was there.

No also meet local newbies for socials if there profile has something decent on it. Or they take profile advice. "

We might try the townhouse later this year.

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