Lube lol, if it gets uncomfortable she can always pop to a bathroom to remove it, maybe carry a small bag to put it in, that way you can both relax and enjoy

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By *orney hun OP Couple over a year ago

galway

Good advice rhanks

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By *rwolfMan over a year ago

bristol

There are different sizes and weights for steel ones.

Ideally start with a silicone one, you can get them quite small.

If she enjoys anal sex then look at something closer to your size.

Time, patience, lube, lube, lube.

Clitoral stimulation can help with relaxing. Also turns it into a joint play

And dont forget to talk as you are doing it

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By *tirluvMan over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"Lube lol, if it gets uncomfortable she can always pop to a bathroom to remove it, maybe carry a small bag to put it in, that way you can both relax and enjoy "

Nope -you're going to need at least a duffel bag to hide a bollard in.

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By *unboy007Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

Buy a vibrating one then you have the choice to have it vibrating or not

My Mrs loves to incert her vibrating one whilst getting fucked

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"wife getting a but plug she wants to wear it going out any advice please"
take wipes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"wife getting a but plug she wants to wear it going out any advice please"

Probably best not to cycle anywhere with a cobbled surface...

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