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Are most swingers fat /overweight?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Not to cause any offence to anyone, but purely as an observation, is it widely observed by the swinging community that a majority of swingers are overweight ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Popcorn moment this!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well in 2014 62% of the UK population were classified as overweight, so transposing that into the swinging community it’s probably fair to assume that it is probably the case.

It’s all the cake! Anyone for cake?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im not...

But you did say most

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

Size is relative. Took me a long time to embrace my shape. Now I just see it as there's more of me to get hold of. Besides, I really like cake x

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By *hatterbox 2Couple over a year ago

Wakefield

Im a bbw is that a problem i dont think your question is going to go down well

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By *ymaleMan over a year ago

nr Bradford

No! It's just a coincidence that I ate all the pies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well in 2014 62% of the UK population were classified as overweight, so transposing that into the swinging community it’s probably fair to assume that it is probably the case.

It’s all the cake! Anyone for cake?

Im eating it now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did someone mention cake?

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"Well in 2014 62% of the UK population were classified as overweight, so transposing that into the swinging community it’s probably fair to assume that it is probably the case.

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By *rwolfMan over a year ago

bristol

CAKE????? OK who has it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well in 2014 62% of the UK population were classified as overweight, so transposing that into the swinging community it’s probably fair to assume that it is probably the case.

It’s all the cake! Anyone for cake?

This.

It would of course be representative in everything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well in 2014 62% of the UK population were classified as overweight, so transposing that into the swinging community it’s probably fair to assume that it is probably the case.

It’s all the cake! Anyone for cake?

This.

It would of course be representative in everything.

But which cake are we talking about cake or cake?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well in 2014 62% of the UK population were classified as overweight, so transposing that into the swinging community it’s probably fair to assume that it is probably the case.

It’s all the cake! Anyone for cake?

PS if the cake is carrot, cream or chocolate i’ll have a small bite.

Overweight me is dieting!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ya mum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pulling up a chair ...this is going to get interesting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My fab friend isn’t a skinny Minnie and I a prefer women who aren’t stick think or have a gym body I’m sure she’d really appreciate me to telling her I think she’s overweight and not the sexy curvy lady I think she is.

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Ill pull over a chair

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Soz OP.

*rolls fat out of thread*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ill pull pull my finger over a chair

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By *itty Kat ABWoman over a year ago

North Somerset

Oh my... really..

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By *tonMessCouple over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I suspect the ratio is similar to that nationally... However, as a general observation, Swingers tend not to be quite so judgemental.

Ok so let's assume the majority are over the recognised 'normal weight', is that going to pose any problem to anyone? How about if the majority were under weight? Who would the fatties fuck then?

Bottom line... Look for whatever suits you and don't worry about those that don't meet your requirement, they sure as hell won't be worrying about you.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

I'm unsure, but I do question how many with "dom" in their username have any real clue about the dynamic.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Not to cause any offence to anyone, but purely as an observation, is it widely observed by the swinging community that a majority of swingers are overweight ?"

Is it widely assumed that many doms are in fact dim doms re 50 shades of shite?

Is it widely assumed that many don't meet, who knows.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm unsure, but I do question how many with "dom" in their username have any real clue about the dynamic. "

I do like you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've already had cake today, but I could take another for the team...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm unsure, but I do question how many with "dom" in their username have any real clue about the dynamic. "

Oh I couldn’t agree more.

So many plastic doms on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

“Scoffs another biscuit in gob while reading the thread” I’m your typical average size for a British woman yet according to the doctors at 27, 5’5, size 12 and 11stone, I’m overweight! Phaha pass a slice of cake this way

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By *orningtonCroissantMan over a year ago

notts and humberside

Some are some aren’t

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm unsure, but I do question how many with "dom" in their username have any real clue about the dynamic. "

That’s their actual name, Dom

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By *ottie_84Woman over a year ago

Nottingham

"Size is relative. Took me a long time to embrace my shape. Now I just see it as there's more of me to get hold of. Besides, I really like cake x"

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm unsure, but I do question how many with "dom" in their username have any real clue about the dynamic.

Oh I couldn’t agree more.

So many plastic doms on here.

What if thats there name poor guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

*waves chubby fingers unapologetically*

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By *eliciousladyWoman over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Reading this as I’m sat with my beer and fries..kind of ironic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*waves chubby fingers unapologetically*

The middle one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm unsure, but I do question how many with "dom" in their username have any real clue about the dynamic.

Oh I couldn’t agree more.

So many plastic doms on here.

What if thats there name poor guys"

That’s true.

I apologise to all the guys out there who I have mistakes for plastic doms when in fact they are actually called Dom.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not to cause any offence to anyone, but purely as an observation, is it widely observed by the swinging community that a majority of swingers are overweight ?"
I'm offended sorry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am but I don’t count because I’m not a proper swinger anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Reading this as I’m sat with my beer and fries..kind of ironic

I’m lying in bed having just eaten half a big back of magic stars and some Milky Way crispy rolls

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

Wouldn’t work.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*waves chubby fingers unapologetically*

The middle one

Yep, I'm too fat to manage more than one at a time!

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"No! It's just a coincidence that I ate all the pies

Ya greedy fucker, I did wonder where that had gone!

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By *oeofsussexMan over a year ago

Eastbourne

I’m on a diet myself! I’m not allowed anything except cake.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

And what about people who are tall/shorter than average?

I'm 6ft 5.

If I had a 34in waist I'd look like a lanky streak of piss.

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By *oeofsussexMan over a year ago

Eastbourne

And yes I weigh well over a ton - when I’m driving!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not to cause any offence to anyone, but purely as an observation, is it widely observed by the swinging community that a majority of swingers are overweight ?"

A bit of a crap observation really, define overweight, in what context, as in do you think swingers are on average more overweight than the general populace or are you taking it in complete isolation in which case make your own mind up.

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

I’m a big girl on Fab but I’m not a swinger.....

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple over a year ago

London

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

The average male waist size is 38 inches

The average female dress size is. 14.

You are actually looking for the unusually slim...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m a big girl on Fab but I’m not a swinger.....

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

Wouldn’t work. "

Definitely wouldn’t work as a size 10 is well below the British average of the female form.

BUT if that’s your preference then that’s your choice and what works for you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

The average male waist size is 38 inches

The average female dress size is. 14.

You are actually looking for the unusually slim... "

Yup suppose we are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im not...

But you did say most

Oh hang on..

I'm not a swinger...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

Well as they say down under “she’s a bit air fridge” but then so am I, except in one area of course, and I love cake

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

Wouldn’t work.

Definitely wouldn’t work as a size 10 is well below the British average of the female form.

BUT if that’s your preference then that’s your choice and what works for you.

Average female size 10?! Noooooo that can’t be true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not to cause any offence to anyone, but purely as an observation, is it widely observed by the swinging community that a majority of swingers are overweight ?"

Not all but mainly yes.

Large older,baby boomers,with little regard for health sexually or otherwise.

Choose wisely Luke.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

Wouldn’t work.

Definitely wouldn’t work as a size 10 is well below the British average of the female form.

BUT if that’s your preference then that’s your choice and what works for you.

Average female size 10?! Noooooo that can’t be true "

It's not.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Not to cause any offence to anyone, but purely as an observation, is it widely observed by the swinging community that a majority of swingers are overweight ?

Not all but mainly yes.

Large older,baby boomers,with little regard for health sexually or otherwise.

Choose wisely Luke."

Wow, just wow.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol triggered

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not to cause any offence to anyone, but purely as an observation, is it widely observed by the swinging community that a majority of swingers are overweight ?

Not all but mainly yes.

Large older,baby boomers,with little regard for health sexually or otherwise.

Choose wisely Luke."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol triggered

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

Wouldn’t work.

Definitely wouldn’t work as a size 10 is well below the British average of the female form.

BUT if that’s your preference then that’s your choice and what works for you.

Average female size 10?! Noooooo that can’t be true

It's not. "

In our opinion we see that as average.

The average in the UK is medically proven to be unhealthy or how can we put it .....fat.

Fact.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol triggered "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not to cause any offence to anyone, but purely as an observation, is it widely observed by the swinging community that a majority of swingers are overweight ?

Not all but mainly yes.

Large older,baby boomers,with little regard for health sexually or otherwise.

Choose wisely Luke."

41 would be considered older to some people, like myself. So are you included in that sentence then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So the Op is correct the average swinger and also person in the UK is fat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Embrace it...with both hands...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

Wouldn’t work.

Definitely wouldn’t work as a size 10 is well below the British average of the female form.

BUT if that’s your preference then that’s your choice and what works for you.

Average female size 10?! Noooooo that can’t be true

It's not.

In our opinion we see that as average.

The average in the UK is medically proven to be unhealthy or how can we put it .....fat.

Fact."

Exactly - ‘in [your] opinion’. Other people won’t see that as ‘average’ so having filters for body types just wouldn’t work. Someone made a thread about this and told me I shouldn’t say I’m curvy, but fat. But I think I’m curvy. So it’s all a matter of opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not to cause any offence to anyone, but purely as an observation, is it widely observed by the swinging community that a majority of swingers are overweight ?

Not all but mainly yes.

Large older,baby boomers,with little regard for health sexually or otherwise.

Choose wisely Luke.

41 would be considered older to some people, like myself. So are you included in that sentence then?

And to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

Wouldn’t work.

Definitely wouldn’t work as a size 10 is well below the British average of the female form.

BUT if that’s your preference then that’s your choice and what works for you.

Average female size 10?! Noooooo that can’t be true

It's not.

In our opinion we see that as average.

The average in the UK is medically proven to be unhealthy or how can we put it .....fat.

Fact."

What a loada bollocks!! What about height? I’d be stick thin at a size 10. I’d look ill. Sorry but that’s crap

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

Wouldn’t work.

Definitely wouldn’t work as a size 10 is well below the British average of the female form.

BUT if that’s your preference then that’s your choice and what works for you.

Average female size 10?! Noooooo that can’t be true

It's not.

In our opinion we see that as average.

The average in the UK is medically proven to be unhealthy or how can we put it .....fat.

Fact."

If you practice safe sex why are you insisting on knowing the sexual health status of others?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's ok...you have the choice to filter age but not size.

Lucky you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you practice safe sex why are you insisting on knowing the sexual health status of others? "

OOOoooOOOoooooooo! Zing. LOVE IT.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Not to cause any offence to anyone, but purely as an observation, is it widely observed by the swinging community that a majority of swingers are overweight ?

Is it widely assumed that many doms are in fact dim doms re 50 shades of shite?

Is it widely assumed that many don't meet, who knows. "

"Dim doms"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That's ok...you have the choice to filter age but not size.

Lucky you"

I know! Lucky us!

I’m sure this thread and the posts on here will be a real good filter for some so your job of finding an “average size 10” on here after a week of joining may just get easier!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We shall wait for the 5pm cull when the wives come home and the site traffic die to minimal numbers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

Wouldn’t work.

Definitely wouldn’t work as a size 10 is well below the British average of the female form.

BUT if that’s your preference then that’s your choice and what works for you.

Average female size 10?! Noooooo that can’t be true

It's not.

In our opinion we see that as average.

The average in the UK is medically proven to be unhealthy or how can we put it .....fat.

Fact."

It depends how you define ‘average’ I guess. As a statistical average (mean, median or mode) I guess the poster above is right, 10 isn’t the UK population statistical average (as most are onerweight)

But in terms of being somewhere on a scale between ‘fat’ and ‘skinny’ then a size 10 is probably about right (maybe on the thin side possibly 10-12 might be my estimate on that criteria)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

Wouldn’t work.

Definitely wouldn’t work as a size 10 is well below the British average of the female form.

BUT if that’s your preference then that’s your choice and what works for you.

Average female size 10?! Noooooo that can’t be true

It's not.

In our opinion we see that as average.

The average in the UK is medically proven to be unhealthy or how can we put it .....fat.

Fact.

If you practice safe sex why are you insisting on knowing the sexual health status of others? "

Patiently waits for the reply....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

Wouldn’t work. "

Its like de ja vu all over again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

Wouldn’t work.

Its like de ja vu all over again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not to cause any offence to anyone, but purely as an observation, is it widely observed by the swinging community that a majority of swingers are overweight ?"

I think it's the opposite. What do you think?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm culling as we speak

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

Wouldn’t work.

Definitely wouldn’t work as a size 10 is well below the British average of the female form.

BUT if that’s your preference then that’s your choice and what works for you.

Average female size 10?! Noooooo that can’t be true

It's not.

In our opinion we see that as average.

The average in the UK is medically proven to be unhealthy or how can we put it .....fat.

Fact.

If you practice safe sex why are you insisting on knowing the sexual health status of others?

Patiently waits for the reply....

Yup.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

Wouldn’t work.

Definitely wouldn’t work as a size 10 is well below the British average of the female form.

BUT if that’s your preference then that’s your choice and what works for you.

Average female size 10?! Noooooo that can’t be true

It's not.

In our opinion we see that as average.

The average in the UK is medically proven to be unhealthy or how can we put it .....fat.

Fact.

If you practice safe sex why are you insisting on knowing the sexual health status of others?

Patiently waits for the reply....

We been in the lifestyle many years we ask the question as it let's us know where we stand.

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By *tonMessCouple over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

If size 10 were average that would make the filter scale from size -6 to size 26

YOUR perception of "average" is wildly below what is, in reality, the national average, size 16.

So a filter would be to change the slim, athletic, curvy, fabulous etc to show a dress size... And again it's a little naive to believe all will be completely truthful there. And then there is the hazy arguement that dress sizes vary from manufacturer to manufacturer. My size 18 Next jeans fit a treat but like hell am I anywhere near that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

Wouldn’t work.

Definitely wouldn’t work as a size 10 is well below the British average of the female form.

BUT if that’s your preference then that’s your choice and what works for you.

Average female size 10?! Noooooo that can’t be true

It's not.

In our opinion we see that as average.

The average in the UK is medically proven to be unhealthy or how can we put it .....fat.

Fact.

If you practice safe sex why are you insisting on knowing the sexual health status of others?

Patiently waits for the reply....

We been in the lifestyle many years we ask the question as it let's us know where we stand."

We did this

To death, in fact.

It doesnt let anyone know where they stand.

Or lie

Not one bit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry the op is about size of the average swinger.

Troll away elsewhere.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

It depends on what you are classifying as overweight op - for example, are you considering swingers weights, compared to the national average? I'm inclined to perceive swingers as typical of the population or lighter. How many swingers have you met - do you tend to prefer people with a few extra pounds?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

Wouldn’t work.

Definitely wouldn’t work as a size 10 is well below the British average of the female form.

BUT if that’s your preference then that’s your choice and what works for you.

Average female size 10?! Noooooo that can’t be true

It's not.

In our opinion we see that as average.

The average in the UK is medically proven to be unhealthy or how can we put it .....fat.

Fact.

If you practice safe sex why are you insisting on knowing the sexual health status of others?

Patiently waits for the reply....

We been in the lifestyle many years we ask the question as it let's us know where we stand."

Why does it matter if you are practising safe sex?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No.

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By *atcherwankerMan over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm fat, but I'm not a swinger.

WILDCARD, BITCHES!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

The average male waist size is 38 inches

The average female dress size is. 14.

You are actually looking for the unusually slim... "

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"It depends on what you are classifying as overweight op - for example, are you considering swingers weights, compared to the national average? I'm inclined to perceive swingers as typical of the population or lighter. How many swingers have you met - do you tend to prefer people with a few extra pounds?"

Personally, it doesn't matter to me, I've met people of all shapes and sizes, it's their personality that counts, not their size.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We been in the lifestyle many years we ask the question as it let's us know where we stand.

Why does it matter if you are practising safe sex? "

It matters because it's a cool thing for an 'average' (sic), self-claimed attractive couple to have on their profile!

A bit like Sydney University, but even more pointless, if that's possible!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally, it doesn't matter to me, I've met people of all shapes and sizes, it's their personality that counts, not their size. "
yes exactly this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally, it doesn't matter to me, I've met people of all shapes and sizes, it's their personality that counts, not their size. "

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By *otwifeHunter808Man over a year ago

Bury

Oh boy this is good ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally, it doesn't matter to me, I've met people of all shapes and sizes, it's their personality that counts, not their size.

"
love your legs mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

Wouldn’t work.

Definitely wouldn’t work as a size 10 is well below the British average of the female form.

BUT if that’s your preference then that’s your choice and what works for you.

Average female size 10?! Noooooo that can’t be true

It's not.

In our opinion we see that as average.

The average in the UK is medically proven to be unhealthy or how can we put it .....fat.

Fact."

I’ve been a size 10 but I looked ill and painfully thin because of my large frame. It’s not a healthy size for me at all.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

We been in the lifestyle many years we ask the question as it let's us know where we stand.

Why does it matter if you are practising safe sex?

It matters because it's a cool thing for an 'average' (sic), self-claimed attractive couple to have on their profile!

A bit like Sydney University, but even more pointless, if that's possible!"

Oi, I have a Sydney University thing above my pussy

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By *otwifeHunter808Man over a year ago

Bury

Most clubs have there fair share of fat cunts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We been in the lifestyle many years we ask the question as it let's us know where we stand.

Why does it matter if you are practising safe sex?

It matters because it's a cool thing for an 'average' (sic), self-claimed attractive couple to have on their profile!

A bit like Sydney University, but even more pointless, if that's possible!"

So true!

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By *tonMessCouple over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

We been in the lifestyle many years we ask the question as it let's us know where we stand."

Yet it doesn't, it really does not.

All it tells you is that the person is literate enough to type "tested clear".

If you are using this as a means of filtration you have to accept that the only thing you know for absolute certain is that they are literate.

Pointless. You want to have sex with them not read poetry.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Sorry the op is about size of the average swinger.

Troll away elsewhere.

Indeed.

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

I would say swingers represent a broad cross section of the general public . With regard to couples if you took 50 non swinging couples , and 50 swinger couples , I would say there would be no difference in the size ratio . With single women I would say that swingers were larger , and I just base that on our experience . With single guys as with couples I would say no difference .

Swinging certainly embraces all sizes , and fab certainly seems to love the BBW more than anywhere else . As do many of the swinging clubs up and down the country . And that’s a great thing for the larger women and lovers of them . Perhaps that’s why we have found the single woman swingers have been bigger than the average woman ?

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple over a year ago

Falkirk

"Not to cause any offence to anyone, but purely as an observation, is it widely observed by the swinging community that a majority of swingers are overweight ?

Is it widely assumed that many doms are in fact dim doms re 50 shades of shite?

Is it widely assumed that many don't meet, who knows.

"Dim doms"

brilliant

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We been in the lifestyle many years we ask the question as it let's us know where we stand.

Yet it doesn't, it really does not.

All it tells you is that the person is literate enough to type "tested clear".

If you are using this as a means of filtration you have to accept that the only thing you know for absolute certain is that they are literate.

Pointless. You want to have sex with them not read poetry."

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By *wisted999Man over a year ago

North Bucks

Attack the post not the poster surely?

What’s his user name got to do with it?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

If size 10 were average that would make the filter scale from size -6 to size 26

YOUR perception of "average" is wildly below what is, in reality, the national average, size 16.

Actually diffent manufacturers do have different sizes. Compare Asda and Next jeans of the same size for example, the Asda ones will be bigger.

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By *otwifeHunter808Man over a year ago

Bury

There are a lot of fat cunts that love a gang bang that is true it's always the fat bird getting banged by about ten guys ..I'm just being honest ..nothing wrong with that just saying

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

No mention of where ma bloody pie went to though is there. Bastards the lot of ya!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We been in the lifestyle many years we ask the question as it let's us know where we stand.

Yet it doesn't, it really does not.

All it tells you is that the person is literate enough to type "tested clear".

If you are using this as a means of filtration you have to accept that the only thing you know for absolute certain is that they are literate.

Pointless. You want to have sex with them not read poetry."
I don't necessarily want to have sex with them either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

If size 10 were average that would make the filter scale from size -6 to size 26

YOUR perception of "average" is wildly below what is, in reality, the national average, size 16.

Actually diffent manufacturers do have different sizes. Compare Asda and Next jeans of the same size for example, the Asda ones will be bigger. "

H&M are awful with sizes. I’m a 14 and I wanted to buy a top from there, a size 18 didn’t fit me and they didn’t have anything above! Went into newlook and bought a similar top in a 12. Sizes vary everywhere

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are a lot of fat cunts that love a gang bang that is true it's always the fat bird getting banged by about ten guys ..I'm just being honest ..nothing wrong with that just saying "

I’m jealous of her then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No mention of where ma bloody pie went to though is there. Bastards the lot of ya!

"
pukka

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By *tonMessCouple over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

If size 10 were average that would make the filter scale from size -6 to size 26

YOUR perception of "average" is wildly below what is, in reality, the national average, size 16.

Actually diffent manufacturers do have different sizes. Compare Asda and Next jeans of the same size for example, the Asda ones will be bigger. "

Ooh, you mean I might only be a 16 in Asda?!

*Is off to Asda to investigate jeans*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Popcorn moment this! "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We been in the lifestyle many years we ask the question as it let's us know where we stand.

Yet it doesn't, it really does not.

All it tells you is that the person is literate enough to type "tested clear".

If you are using this as a means of filtration you have to accept that the only thing you know for absolute certain is that they are literate.

Pointless. You want to have sex with them not read poetry."

Oh I don’t know, sex and poetry are my thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

If size 10 were average that would make the filter scale from size -6 to size 26

YOUR perception of "average" is wildly below what is, in reality, the national average, size 16.

Actually diffent manufacturers do have different sizes. Compare Asda and Next jeans of the same size for example, the Asda ones will be bigger.

Very true. I’m a 14 in next and a 16 in river island. A bloody 18 in love honey!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

If size 10 were average that would make the filter scale from size -6 to size 26

YOUR perception of "average" is wildly below what is, in reality, the national average, size 16.

Actually diffent manufacturers do have different sizes. Compare Asda and Next jeans of the same size for example, the Asda ones will be bigger.

Very true. I’m a 14 in next and a 16 in river island. A bloody 18 in love honey! "
and a 60 in Taiwan

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Am I overweight? Yes, by quite a bit, am I fat? No, they are not one and the same thing.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Personally, it doesn't matter to me, I've met people of all shapes and sizes, it's their personality that counts, not their size. "

The op's strangely quiet, maybe scared off?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"There are a lot of fat cunts that love a gang bang that is true it's always the fat bird getting banged by about ten guys ..I'm just being honest ..nothing wrong with that just saying

I’m jealous of her then "

Yup me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are a lot of fat cunts that love a gang bang that is true it's always the fat bird getting banged by about ten guys ..I'm just being honest ..nothing wrong with that just saying "

Go girl!

I hope she had fun. Bet the guys did.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A bit like Sydney University, but even more pointless, if that's possible!

Oi, I have a Sydney University thing above my pussy"

Ah but yours is humourous, as is mine, which moves them from the 'I believe anything I read in the Daily Mail' category to the 'I don't take myself too seriously. Anyone for a bit of cake?' cateogry!

And it's such a lovely little pussy

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

If size 10 were average that would make the filter scale from size -6 to size 26

YOUR perception of "average" is wildly below what is, in reality, the national average, size 16.

Actually diffent manufacturers do have different sizes. Compare Asda and Next jeans of the same size for example, the Asda ones will be bigger.

Ooh, you mean I might only be a 16 in Asda?!

*Is off to Asda to investigate jeans*

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Am I overweight? Yes, by quite a bit, am I fat? No, they are not one and the same thing."

I want to pinch your cheeks...

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

A bit like Sydney University, but even more pointless, if that's possible!

Oi, I have a Sydney University thing above my pussy

Ah but yours is humourous, as is mine, which moves them from the 'I believe anything I read in the Daily Mail' category to the 'I don't take myself too seriously. Anyone for a bit of cake?' cateogry!

And it's such a lovely little pussy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

If size 10 were average that would make the filter scale from size -6 to size 26

YOUR perception of "average" is wildly below what is, in reality, the national average, size 16.

Actually diffent manufacturers do have different sizes. Compare Asda and Next jeans of the same size for example, the Asda ones will be bigger.

Very true. I’m a 14 in next and a 16 in river island. A bloody 18 in love honey! and a 60 in Taiwan "

I must be a size zero somewhere!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

If size 10 were average that would make the filter scale from size -6 to size 26

YOUR perception of "average" is wildly below what is, in reality, the national average, size 16.

Actually diffent manufacturers do have different sizes. Compare Asda and Next jeans of the same size for example, the Asda ones will be bigger.

Very true. I’m a 14 in next and a 16 in river island. A bloody 18 in love honey! and a 60 in Taiwan

I must be a size zero somewhere!"
only when they double stitch the first digit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Am I overweight? Yes, by quite a bit, am I fat? No, they are not one and the same thing.

I want to pinch your cheeks...

Cheeky

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By *otwifeHunter808Man over a year ago

Bury

Oh who ever you out there across seas and rivers there's always one fat cunt getting more then us ...big up the fat cunts ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No mention of where ma bloody pie went to though is there. Bastards the lot of ya!

Sorry Ace... forget the cake, I ate all the pies!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Am I overweight? Yes, by quite a bit, am I fat? No, they are not one and the same thing."

Oh but your profile says Athletic?

You look good for an overweight Athletic person.

But body builders are athletes so you right to be under Athletic.

Everyone is lovely.

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By *tonMessCouple over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"There are a lot of fat cunts that love a gang bang that is true it's always the fat bird getting banged by about ten guys ..I'm just being honest ..nothing wrong with that just saying "

This is actually a fairly accurate observation, however crudely put.

There is never a shortage of men wanting, indeed actively seeking, sex with larger ladies.

Another startling observation... The larger ladies tend to have way more confidence in themselves. They know it all jiggles and the boobs and belly give a round of applause when being fucked doggy style and they embrace it.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF) over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

"I'm unsure, but I do question how many with "dom" in their username have any real clue about the dynamic.

Oh I couldn’t agree more.

So many plastic doms on here.

I can assure you my partner is not plastic or even inflatable, but very tasty. She can be very dominant in the most delicious way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are a lot of fat cunts that love a gang bang that is true it's always the fat bird getting banged by about ten guys ..I'm just being honest ..nothing wrong with that just saying

This is actually a fairly accurate observation, however crudely put.

There is never a shortage of men wanting, indeed actively seeking, sex with larger ladies.

I love people like that. I’d love to be like that. Good on them!

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By *urveLurverMan over a year ago

Skyview

I honestly do not know what I weigh.

I do not know what my partner weighs.

Nor do I care.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Could it not just be that every profile he clicks on have pictures of curvy women, hence that's why the swingers population to him seem to be so called over weight??

Perhaps he has just found his calling for a liking of curvy girls!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Am I overweight? Yes, by quite a bit, am I fat? No, they are not one and the same thing.

I want to pinch your cheeks...

Cheeky

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple over a year ago

Planet Ork

"Well in 2014 62% of the UK population were classified as overweight, so transposing that into the swinging community it’s probably fair to assume that it is probably the case.

It’s all the cake! Anyone for cake?

Did you say that on purpose

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not to cause any offence to anyone, but purely as an observation, is it widely observed by the swinging community that a majority of swingers are overweight ?"

CHARMING .. I think the majority are very slim and have stunning bodies to be fair.

I dont often see any overweight swingers unless im looking in my own mirror

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just check out all the bbw appreciation threads and bbw nights big business to be had and yes I am a fat bird not offended in the slightest now where is that piece of cake x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a big girl,but I'm no swinger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well in 2014 62% of the UK population were classified as overweight, so transposing that into the swinging community it’s probably fair to assume that it is probably the case.

It’s all the cake! Anyone for cake?

Did you say that on purpose

I’ve got a craving now! Big sumptuous Banoffee pie!

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple over a year ago

Chester

No - like anything in life a mix of all shapes & sizes. Perceptions of shape, I class myself as curvy but have seen very slim & very large women on here using same. One size doesn't fit all.

Not cake for me its more a fruit diet, ok wine, I love lots of wine xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And this bothers you op how? If your preference is for the slimmer person then fine only meet those. Leave the rest of us alone to have fun with people that don’t judge and like us as we are. But this is a great filter x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And this bothers you op how? If your preference is for the slimmer person then fine only meet those. Leave the rest of us alone to have fun with people that don’t judge and like us as we are. But this is a great filter x "

Well said Angie x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im a bbw is that a problem i dont think your question is going to go down well"

Wow. Great body. Love the smile x

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By *anana JoeMan over a year ago

Sheffield

A lot are a but many are not I guess the greedy girl thin can extend from cocks to cream cakes for some.

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By *ottie_84Woman over a year ago

Nottingham

I class myself as a bbw if people don’t like that then tough shit no one is making them meet me, but those that do aren’t left disappointed

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By *otwifeHunter808Man over a year ago

Bury

Oh who ever you out there across seas and rivers there's always one fat cunt getting more then us ...big up the fat cunts ??

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By *horecruxCouple over a year ago

SE4

Too much cake and not enough cock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh who ever you out there across seas and rivers there's always one fat cunt getting more then us ...big up the fat cunts ??"

You’ve said that twice now!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh who ever you out there across seas and rivers there's always one fat cunt getting more then us ...big up the fat cunts ??"

Such a charmer with your words.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would say swingers represent a broad cross section of the general public . With regard to couples if you took 50 non swinging couples , and 50 swinger couples , I would say there would be no difference in the size ratio . With single women I would say that swingers were larger , and I just base that on our experience . With single guys as with couples I would say no difference .

It's because us big girls can't get any in the real world and so have to come on fab... Sure I read that in the forum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My fab friend isn’t a skinny Minnie and I a prefer women who aren’t stick think or have a gym body I’m sure she’d really appreciate me to telling her I think she’s overweight and not the sexy curvy lady I think she is.

A bit mean this. If you wouldn't want to upset your sexy curvy lady by calling her overweight, why would you think it's okay to call slim women skinny Minnie's or stick thin?? Not everyone can find all body types and sizes attractive, but we could all try being respectful at least

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By *tonMessCouple over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"Oh who ever you out there across seas and rivers there's always one fat cunt getting more then us ...big up the fat cunts ??

You’ve said that twice now!

Hmmm .. think he's just trolling... His status says it all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Should be at least a size filter on the site or a size guide.

Average female to us is no bigger than size 10.

Average male size is no bigger than 34" waste.

We have found that an average cock is too small

Fuck me, I'm an elephant then ... Woohoo, they're amazing creatures.

By the way, you obviously don't do your BJ's properly if there is 34" of waste

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"Im a bbw is that a problem i dont think your question is going to go down well"

This

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

Just ordered a Chinese and there's gonna be way too much, anyone wanna share?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh who ever you out there across seas and rivers there's always one fat cunt getting more then us ...big up the fat cunts ??

Such a charmer with your words.

I'm a "fat cunt" as he so eloquently puts it but he winked me 8 months ago so he obviously doesn't mind them that much

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well in 2014 62% of the UK population were classified as overweight, so transposing that into the swinging community it’s probably fair to assume that it is probably the case.

It’s all the cake! Anyone for cake?

Did you say that on purpose

"
No he's just generous and has some birthday cake left over

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh who ever you out there across seas and rivers there's always one fat cunt getting more then us ...big up the fat cunts ??

Such a charmer with your words.

I'm a "fat cunt" as he so eloquently puts it but he winked me 8 months ago so he obviously doesn't mind them that much

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only a thought but from what I have seen most swingers are 30 years old or over so at this age the chunks can come on a little part of getting older ( for most not all ) and for us females if we have had kiddies then that also adds a lump and bump in places ? But think most have been through life a bit before feeling comfortable enough to embrace themselves without the self consciousness of youth. So maybe we aren't all picture perfect at 30 plus but liberated sexy people. As for average size 10 lol that's stupid Im a size 8 and still have a bit of a belly (due to 4 kids) and age, it's all relative and down to personality just as much as looks. Only my opinion lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Smiles indulgently and walks away....

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By *haron7540Woman over a year ago

Hayle, Cornwall

"Only a thought but from what I have seen most swingers are 30 years old or over so at this age the chunks can come on a little part of getting older ( for most not all ) and for us females if we have had kiddies then that also adds a lump and bump in places ? But think most have been through life a bit before feeling comfortable enough to embrace themselves without the self consciousness of youth. So maybe we aren't all picture perfect at 30 plus but liberated sexy

people. As for average size 10 lol that's stupid Im a size 8 and still have a bit of a belly (due to 4 kids) and age, it's all relative and down to personality just as much as looks. Only my opinion lol"

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

Touchy subject, Not sure if most swingers are overweight but as a very high percentage of the UK do carry more weight then they should its very probable that most swingers do as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Attack the post not the poster surely?

What’s his user name got to do with it? "

I agree about his username.

There's nothing wrong with the OP. He hasn't slated overweight people. People are assuming.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Attack the post not the poster surely?

What’s his user name got to do with it?

I agree about his username.

There's nothing wrong with the OP. He hasn't slated overweight people. People are assuming. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not to cause any offence to anyone, but purely as an observation, is it widely observed by the swinging community that a majority of swingers are overweight ?"

fraid so

you need to ditch the lettuce and get some pies down your neck

soz x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not to cause any offence to anyone, but purely as an observation, is it widely observed by the swinging community that a majority of swingers are overweight ?"
so in answer to what you knew would be a controversial question yes we agree they probably are

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not to cause any offence to anyone, but purely as an observation, is it widely observed by the swinging community that a majority of swingers are overweight ?"
popcorn moment averted

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Attack the post not the poster surely?

What’s his user name got to do with it?

I agree about his username.

There's nothing wrong with the OP. He hasn't slated overweight people. People are assuming. "

Really? This is yet another one of those passive aggressive posts that pretend to "just be asking a question" when really it's a pass agg way of making snide comments.

Seems to be pretty common behaviour on the forums unfortunately by the holier than thou brigade.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

I am not sure why everyone has to spoil a debate thread by being on the defensive. The question is allowed on the forum. If it upsets you in any way please avoid the thread rather than spoil it for others or discuss the mans profile as both are against forum rules

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