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I find sex unwinds and de-stresses me. But my ex never wanted to have sex when she was stressed. Where are you on this? Sex the ultimate release? Or can't fuck unless you're relaxed? |
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"I find sex unwinds and de-stresses me. But my ex never wanted to have sex when she was stressed. Where are you on this? Sex the ultimate release? Or can't fuck unless you're relaxed? "
Depends on the reason but generally sex de-stresses me and I want it more when I'm stressed. |
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"I find sex unwinds and de-stresses me. But my ex never wanted to have sex when she was stressed. Where are you on this? Sex the ultimate release? Or can't fuck unless you're relaxed?
Depends on the reason but generally sex de-stresses me and I want it more when I'm stressed. "
Totally agree, Frisky. |
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I can’t say I’ve ever been stressed enough to turn down sex so I don’t think it’s something that stops me from being in the mood.
Now. Angry sex. That’s something that really helps make a bad situation better. I’ve had lots of fantastic shouty, raging, you’re an absolute bellend sex. A reason my marriage lasted so long perhaps? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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How fascinating that people are so divided on this. It shows it really is an issue. I found it quite frustrating being with someone who withheld sex when life was a bit stressful. But I know she found it odd that I suggested it at these times. I guess it's yet another possible point of tension in a relationship |
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"I find sex unwinds and de-stresses me. But my ex never wanted to have sex when she was stressed. Where are you on this? Sex the ultimate release? Or can't fuck unless you're relaxed? "
Depends who the sex is with , If someone knows me well they will know just how to distract me and relax me .
So yes and no  |
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"Sex is the last thing I can think about when I’m stressed. I just need to be left alone. "
This for me too.
Stress is a mojo killer - I have to be relaxed and happy to enjoy sex. |
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It's a painkiller and sweet relief. But one has to be able to switch from the preoccupation with the stressors and allow oneself to enjoy the moment, otherwise it can be yet another goal. |
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