FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > husbands
husbands
Jump to: Newest in thread
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"id do free for collection
"tie them up togeather and leave them for the dustmen to collect...good riddance to bad rubbish springs to mind | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
 | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
 | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"hes useful just not in bed "in bed out of bed....he is just useless i so want him to be abducted by aliens .. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"hes useful just not in bed "that made me laugh  you women all sat down drinking coffee talking about us men is not always good  | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"why not get a divorce then? if you really hate him that much, your obviously not at all invested in the relationship anymore, just leave and be happy on your own or with someone else. Wouldn't that be best for both of you ? or if you don't believe in divorce just separate." no i still need him unfortunately,as i have to protect my assets | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"why not get a divorce then? if you really hate him that much, your obviously not at all invested in the relationship anymore, just leave and be happy on your own or with someone else. Wouldn't that be best for both of you ? or if you don't believe in divorce just separate." but disliking from a distance is never as much fun you need them at close quarters to really be in touch with your feelings for them
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"There is noway on gods earth id be with someone i didnt like. Fuck that for a game of soldiers" I totally agree with you there! | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"why not get a divorce then? if you really hate him that much, your obviously not at all invested in the relationship anymore, just leaveand be happy on your own or with someone else. Wouldn't that be best for bothof you ? or if you don't believe in divorce just separate. no i still need him unfortunately,as i have to protect my assets "Should of been a wise girl and sorted them out seperately  .
Such a shame someone has to live in misery purely for financial reasons | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"why not get a divorce then? if you really hate him that much, your obviously not at all invested in the relationship anymore, just leaveand be happy on your own or with someone else. Wouldn't that be best for bothof you ? or if you don't believe in divorce just separate. no i still need him unfortunately,as i have to protect my assets
oh i dont live in misery ...he does
Should of been a wise girl and sorted them out seperately .
Such a shame someone has to live in misery purely for financial reasons" | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"why not get a divorce then? if you really hate him that much, your obviously not at all invested in the relationship anymore, just leave and be happy on your own or with someone else. Wouldn't that be best for both of you ? or if you don't believe in divorce just separate. no i still need him unfortunately,as i have to protect my assets "fuck assets.. if i was that unhappy i would leave.. your entitled to half according to the law if he isn't performing his husbandly duties, unless you signed a prenup and its actually his money.. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"why not get a divorce then? if you really hate him that much, your obviously not at all invested in the relationship anymore, just leave and be happy on your own or with someone else. Wouldn't that be best for both of you ? or if you don't believe in divorce just separate. no i still need him unfortunately,as i have to protect my assets "Now see that statement has just made me think a totally different way about some cheating people as that is just a horrible thing to say IMO , you could walk away but choose to stay because of assets that need protecting well I hope you are very happy and get what you want | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"why not get a divorce then? if you really hate him that much, your obviously not at all invested in the relationship anymore, just leaveand be happy on your own or with someone else. Wouldn't that be best for bothof you ? or if you don't believe in divorce just separate. no i still need him unfortunately,as i have to protect my assets
oh i dont live in misery ...he does
Should of been a wise girl and sorted them out seperately .
Such a shame someone has to live in misery purely for financial reasons "yes you have to feel bad for the hubby in this case.... does he like to watch you with other men? | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"why not get a divorce then? if you really hate him that much, your obviously not at all invested in the relationship anymore, just leave and be happy on your own or with someone else. Wouldn't that be best for both of you ? or if you don't believe in divorce just separate. no i still need him unfortunately,as i have to protect my assets
Now see that statement has just made me think a totally different way about some cheating people as that is just a horrible thing to say IMO , you could walk away but choose to stay because of assets that need protecting well I hope you are very happy and get what you want "of course i get what i want | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"why not get a divorce then? if you really hate him that much, your obviously not at all invested in the relationship anymore, just leaveand be happy on your own or with someone else. Wouldn't that be best for bothof you ? or if you don't believe in divorce just separate. no i still need him unfortunately,as i have to protect my assets
oh i dont live in misery ...he does
Should of been a wise girl and sorted them out seperately .
Such a shame someone has to live in misery purely for financial reasons
yes you have to feel bad for the hubby in this case.... does he like to watch you with other men?"no thats my private life.. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"why not get a divorce then? if you really hate him that much, your obviously not at all invested in the relationship anymore, just leaveand be happy on your own or with someone else. Wouldn't that be best for bothof you ? or if you don't believe in divorce just separate. no i still need him unfortunately,as i have to protect my assets Now see that statement has just made me think a totally different way about some cheating people as that is just a horrible thing to say IMO , you could walk awaybut choose to stay becauseof assets that need protecting well I hope you are very happyand get what you want of course i get what i want "Such a shame your not just happy cheating on him you have to also slag him off to everyone. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"why not get a divorce then? if you really hate him that much, your obviously not at all invested in the relationship anymore, just leaveand be happy on your own or with someone else. Wouldn't that be best for bothof you ? or if you don't believe in divorce just separate. no i still need him unfortunately,as i have to protect my assets Now see that statement has just made me think a totally different way about some cheating people as that is just a horrible thing to say IMO , you could walk awaybut choose to stay becauseof assets that need protecting well I hope you are very happyand get what you want of course i get what i want
Such a shame your not just happy cheating on him you have to also slag him off to everyone. "oh do you actually know him ? | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"What a strange thing to boast about.... " Couldnt agree more | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"why not get a divorce then? if you really hate him that much, your obviously not at all invested in the relationship anymore, just leaveand be happy on your own or with someone else. Wouldn't that be best for bothof you ? or if you don't believe in divorce just separate. no i still need him unfortunately,as i have to protect my assets
oh i dont live in misery ...he does
Should of been a wise girl and sorted them out seperately .
Such a shame someone has to live in misery purely for financial reasons
yes you have to feel bad for the hubby in this case.... does he like to watch you with other men?
no thats my private life.."Lets just hope he has a private life too | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"were they your assets or you gold digger..show him your profile on here, he may just realise what he,s clinging on to." thats really of no concern to you... | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"were they your assets or you gold digger..show him your profile on here, he may just realise what he,s clinging on to. thats really of no concern to you..." I really hope he finds out what you are doing and takes you to the cleaners see how many of your assets you can hold on to then | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"why not get a divorce then? if you really hate him that much, your obviously not at all invested in the relationship anymore, just leaveand be happy on your own or with someone else. Wouldn't that be best for bothof you ? or if you don't believe in divorce just separate. no i still need him unfortunately,as i have to protect my assets Now see that statement has just made me think a totally different way about some cheating people as that is just a horrible thing to say IMO , you could walk awaybut choose to stay becauseof assets that need protecting well I hope you are very happyand get what you want of course i get what i want
Such a shame your not just happy cheating on him you have to also slag him off to everyone.
oh do you actually know him ?"i wish, i'd take the poor guy out and buy him a bottle of whiskey he's gonna need it when he finds out about you.. which is pretty inevitable with the way you like to boast. it probably reads across your whole body when you come home from a meet.  poor guy.. why not talk to him. u never know u might be able to work it out.. or keep your assets... | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"why not get a divorce then? if you really hate him that much, your obviously not at all invested in the relationship anymore, just leaveand be happy on your own or with someone else. Wouldn't that be best for bothof you ? or if you don't believe in divorce just separate. no i still need him unfortunately,as i have to protect my assets Now see that statement has just made me think a totally different way about some cheating people as that is just a horrible thing to say IMO , you could walk awaybut choose to stay becauseof assets that need protecting well I hope you are very happyand get what you want of course i get what i want
Such a shame your not just happy cheating on him you have to also slag him off to everyone.
oh do you actually know him ?
i wish, i'd take the poor guy out and buy him a bottle of whiskey he's gonna need it when he finds out about you.. which is pretty inevitable with the way you like to boast. it probably reads across your whole body when you come home from a meet. poor guy.. why not talk to him. u never know u might be able to work it out.. or keep your assets..."prefer to keep my assets thankyou.. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"were they your assets or you gold digger..show him your profile on here, he may just realise what he,s clinging on to. thats really of no concern to you..." Much as I admire your candour, if you post your private life in a public forum, it allows people to comment. Now admittedly I spoke about my ex-wifes snoring, but well she did snore like a drain (or she could have done it to avoid sleeping with me...... blimey, minds in overdrive now). Its your choice how you behave, both on here and in life in general, but the thing about a site like this, is that many users have been cheated on, especially the guys, and well, that wrenches the old heart strings a little, so perhaps thats why they are not applauding | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"were they your assets or you gold digger..show him your profile on here, he may just realise what he,s clinging on to. thats really of no concern to you... Much as I admire your candour, if you post your private life in a public forum, it allows people to comment. Now admittedly I spoke about my ex-wifes snoring, but well she did snore like a drain (or she could have done it to avoid sleeping with me...... blimey, minds in overdrive now). Its your choice how you behave, both on here and in life in general, but the thing about a site like this, is that many users have been cheated on, especially the guys, and well, that wrenches the old heart strings a little, so perhaps thats why they are not applauding" i dont expect applause.. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
" Now see that statement has just made me think a totally different way about some cheating people as that is just a horrible thing to say IMO , you could walk away but choose to stay because of assets that need protecting " When Mrs Bus and I split up formally a few years ago, I literally just walked away. Didn't want a thing. I knew she loved the house and I could never have afforded the mortgage on my salary alone so it seemed spiteful to make her sell up. I signed it over to her in full, the only condition being that she took out a small remortgage to pay off a loan we had taken out (in my name only) to have some building / renovation work carried out. I also walked away from my job as we worked in the same office and that just couldn't work. We were both extremely unhappy at the time and we had needed that break. All my mates told me I was soft and I should take every last penny I could, but I didn't see it like that. We were making each other extremely unhappy and having had so much happiness previously, I wouldn't allow all that to be stripped away and replaced by bitterness. I went back to mum and dads for 6 months, got a new job and re-built my life from scratch. We went 2 years without contact and then I got to hear she was poorly in hospital. I rang her friend and asked her to send her my best wishes. She asked to see me, we said our 'sorries' and slowly the relationship started to gain strength again, albeit in a much different format than we had before. We now have a format that whilst unconventional, suits US and is stronger than the one we originally had. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
" Now see that statement has just made me think a totally different way about some cheating people as that is just a horrible thing to say IMO , you could walk away but choose to stay because of assets that need protecting When Mrs Bus and I split up formally a few years ago, I literally just walked away. Didn't want a thing. I knew she loved the house and I could never have afforded the mortgage on my salary alone so it seemed spiteful to make her sell up. I signed it over to her in full, the only condition being that she took out a small remortgage to pay off a loan we had taken out (in my name only) to have some building / renovation work carried out. I also walked away from my job as we worked in the same office and that just couldn't work. We were both extremely unhappy at the time and we had needed that break. All my mates told me I was soft and I should take every last penny I could, but I didn't see it like that. We were making each other extremely unhappy and having had so much happiness previously, I wouldn't allow all that to be stripped away and replaced by bitterness. I went back to mum and dads for 6 months, got a new job and re-built my life from scratch. We went 2 years without contact and then I got to hear she was poorly in hospital. I rang her friend and asked her to send her my best wishes. She asked to see me, we said our 'sorries' and slowly the relationship started to gain strength again, albeit in a much different format than we had before. We now have a format that whilst unconventional, suits US and is stronger than the one we originally had." well thats a really nice story..and good for you.. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"were they your assets or you gold digger..show him your profile on here, he may just realise what he,s clinging on to. thats really of no concern to you... Much as I admire your candour, if you post your private life in a public forum, it allows people to comment. Now admittedly I spoke about my ex-wifes snoring, but well she did snore like a drain (or she could have done it to avoid sleeping with me...... blimey, minds in overdrive now). Its your choice how you behave, both on here and in life in general, but the thing about a site like this, is that many users have been cheated on, especially the guys, and well, that wrenches the old heart strings a little, so perhaps thats why they are not applauding i dont expect applause.." I wonder what you did expect though, posting an extremely contentious subject and then further inciting a "marmite" reaction.... As I have said, this is your life, your choice, it concerns me very little, I find it a little distasteful, but then, I didnt like legwarmers back in the 80's I am no saint, trust me on that, but I am not brazen either, still if it works for you, thats great | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
" Now see that statement has just made me think a totally different way about some cheating people as that is just a horrible thing to say IMO , you could walk away but choose to stay because of assets that need protecting When Mrs Bus and I split up formally a few years ago, I literally just walked away. Didn't want a thing. I knew she loved the house and I could never have afforded the mortgage on my salary alone so it seemed spiteful to make her sell up. I signed it over to her in full, the only condition being that she took out a small remortgage to pay off a loan we had taken out (in my name only) to have some building / renovation work carried out. I also walked away from my job as we worked in the same office and that just couldn't work. We were both extremely unhappy at the time and we had needed that break. All my mates told me I was soft and I should take every last penny I could, but I didn't see it like that. We were making each other extremely unhappy and having had so much happiness previously, I wouldn't allow all that to be stripped away and replaced by bitterness. I went back to mum and dads for 6 months, got a new job and re-built my life from scratch. We went 2 years without contact and then I got to hear she was poorly in hospital. I rang her friend and asked her to send her my best wishes. She asked to see me, we said our 'sorries' and slowly the relationship started to gain strength again, albeit in a much different format than we had before. We now have a format that whilst unconventional, suits US and is stronger than the one we originally had." I walked out on my husband 3 years ago leaving him with 3 kids as i knew I couldnt support them or keep ther house . I left with a car and 27p in my purse but 3yrs on I am happy and so is he he has a new girlfriend and has now asked for a divorce and as i said to him not interested in taking you to cleaners a little bit of money be fine . I still love him as father of my kids and someone I spent 23yrs with not all bad and we now get on so much better apart than we did last cpl years we together | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
" well thats a really nice story..and good for you.." forgive me if i translate potential honest sentiment as sarcasm hopefully it is just a function of things coming across differently when written down don't think that my being honest about my circumstances was in any way a reflection of my thoughts on yours - as that was never intended ! all we know is what works for us - and it is all too easy to sit on the sidelines and pass comment or judgement on other peoples circumstances, which is something that i haven't done | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
" Now see that statement has just made me think a totally different way about some cheating people as that is just a horrible thing to say IMO , you could walk away but choose to stay because of assets that need protecting When Mrs Bus and I split up formally a few years ago, I literally just walked away. Didn't want a thing. I knew she loved the house and I could never have afforded the mortgage on my salary alone so it seemed spiteful to make her sell up. I signed it over to her in full, the only condition being that she took out a small remortgage to pay off a loan we had taken out (in my name only) to have some building / renovation work carried out. I also walked away from my job as we worked in the same office and that just couldn't work. We were both extremely unhappy at the time and we had needed that break. All my mates told me I was soft and I should take every last penny I could, but I didn't see it like that. We were making each other extremely unhappy and having had so much happiness previously, I wouldn't allow all that to be stripped away and replaced by bitterness. I went back to mum and dads for 6 months, got a new job and re-built my life from scratch. We went 2 years without contact and then I got to hear she was poorly in hospital. I rang her friend and asked her to send her my best wishes. She asked to see me, we said our 'sorries' and slowly the relationship started to gain strength again, albeit in a much different format than we had before. We now have a format that whilst unconventional, suits US and is stronger than the one we originally had. well thats a really nice story..and good for you.." wow...  are you sure the problem is your husband ? | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
" especially the guys, and well, that wrenches the old heart strings a little, so perhaps thats why they are not applauding" *Applauds Pauley...* Ffs... And single blokes can get a hard time...
You hang on to his assets... Clearly they are all you have...  | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"well well well ...a planned post just so i could see who would take the bait..and judge you all did...end of.." congratulations.. your twice as twisted as your original post made you out to be.. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
" Now see that statement has just made me think a totally different way about some cheating people as that is just a horrible thing to say IMO , you could walk away but choose to stay because of assets that need protecting When Mrs Bus and I split up formally a few years ago, I literally just walked away. Didn't want a thing. I knew she loved the house and I could never have afforded the mortgage on my salary alone so it seemed spiteful to make her sell up. I signed it over to her in full, the only condition being that she took out a small remortgage to pay off a loan we had taken out (in my name only) to have some building / renovation work carried out. I also walked away from my job as we worked in the same office and that just couldn't work. We were both extremely unhappy at the time and we had needed that break. All my mates told me I was soft and I should take every last penny I could, but I didn't see it like that. We were making each other extremely unhappy and having had so much happiness previously, I wouldn't allow all that to be stripped away and replaced by bitterness. I went back to mum and dads for 6 months, got a new job and re-built my life from scratch. We went 2 years without contact and then I got to hear she was poorly in hospital. I rang her friend and asked her to send her my best wishes. She asked to see me, we said our 'sorries' and slowly the relationship started to gain strength again, albeit in a much different format than we had before. We now have a format that whilst unconventional, suits US and is stronger than the one we originally had. I walked out on my husband 3 years ago leaving him with 3 kids as i knew I couldnt support them or keep ther house . I left with a car and 27p in my purse but 3yrs on I am happy and so is he he has a new girlfriend and has now asked for a divorce and as i said to him not interested in taking you to cleaners a little bit of money be fine . I still love him as father of my kids and someone I spent 23yrs with not all bad and we now get on so much better apart than we did last cpl years we together "you left him with 3 kids and all you want is a little money....omg how do you sleep at night | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"Well i have been married to my lovely hubby for 40/odd years , and i love him more every day ,he is the most wonderful thing that has happened to me xxxx " nice one !!!!!!!!!!! | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"well well well ...a planned post just so i could see who would take the bait..and judge you all did...end of.. congratulations.. your twice as twisted as your original post made you out to be.. "do i care what you think | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"well well well ...a planned post just so i could see who would take the bait..and judge you all did...end of.. congratulations.. your twice as twisted as your original post made you out to be..
do i care what you think "obviously you do or you wouldn't have baited us to find out what we really think.. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"your like a packof wolves....picking people to pieces..." You said it was a planned thread and you didnt care what people think so what does it matter | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"your like a packof wolves....picking people to pieces... You said it was a planned thread and you didnt care what people think so what does it matter" it really dosent.. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
" Now see that statement has just made me think a totally different way about some cheating people as that is just a horrible thing to say IMO , you could walk away but choose to stay because of assets that need protecting When Mrs Bus and I split up formally a few years ago, I literally just walked away. Didn't want a thing. I knew she loved the house and I could never have afforded the mortgage on my salary alone so it seemed spiteful to make her sell up. I signed it over to her in full, the only condition being that she took out a small remortgage to pay off a loan we had taken out (in my name only) to have some building / renovation work carried out. I also walked away from my job as we worked in the same office and that just couldn't work. We were both extremely unhappy at the time and we had needed that break. All my mates told me I was soft and I should take every last penny I could, but I didn't see it like that. We were making each other extremely unhappy and having had so much happiness previously, I wouldn't allow all that to be stripped away and replaced by bitterness. I went back to mum and dads for 6 months, got a new job and re-built my life from scratch. We went 2 years without contact and then I got to hear she was poorly in hospital. I rang her friend and asked her to send her my best wishes. She asked to see me, we said our 'sorries' and slowly the relationship started to gain strength again, albeit in a much different format than we had before. We now have a format that whilst unconventional, suits US and is stronger than the one we originally had. I walked out on my husband 3 years ago leaving him with 3 kids as i knew I couldnt support them or keep ther house . I left with a car and 27p in my purse but 3yrs on I am happy and so is he he has a new girlfriend and has now asked for a divorce and as i said to him not interested in taking you to cleaners a little bit of money be fine . I still love him as father of my kids and someone I spent 23yrs with not all bad and we now get on so much better apart than we did last cpl years we together
you left him with 3 kids and all you want is a little money....omg how do you sleep at night "yep I did they were 24 21 and 15 at the time so not little and I have no regrets at doing it as they were better off with him than they ever would have been with me ,oh and the fact I wasnt happy not him so why should I put him out of his home . | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"your like a pack of wolves....picking people to pieces..." your a lemming with rip me to shreds tattood on your head | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
 | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"What is it you wanted to achieve? It's not ad if we lose our morals when joining fab why the he'll shouldn't faithful couples thin cheating is wrong berating your husband on a public forum you got nothing but the truth" i did it to prove a point...how most of you love to have a victim on here that you feel you can intimidate and humiliate as you like....just hope admin picks up on it.. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
" Now see that statement has just made me think a totally different way about some cheating people as that is just a horrible thing to say IMO , you could walk away but choose to stay because of assets that need protecting When Mrs Bus and I split up formally a few years ago, I literally just walked away. Didn't want a thing. I knew she loved the house and I could never have afforded the mortgage on my salary alone so it seemed spiteful to make her sell up. I signed it over to her in full, the only condition being that she took out a small remortgage to pay off a loan we had taken out (in my name only) to have some building / renovation work carried out. I also walked away from my job as we worked in the same office and that just couldn't work. We were both extremely unhappy at the time and we had needed that break. All my mates told me I was soft and I should take every last penny I could, but I didn't see it like that. We were making each other extremely unhappy and having had so much happiness previously, I wouldn't allow all that to be stripped away and replaced by bitterness. I went back to mum and dads for 6 months, got a new job and re-built my life from scratch. We went 2 years without contact and then I got to hear she was poorly in hospital. I rang her friend and asked her to send her my best wishes. She asked to see me, we said our 'sorries' and slowly the relationship started to gain strength again, albeit in a much different format than we had before. We now have a format that whilst unconventional, suits US and is stronger than the one we originally had. I walked out on my husband 3 years ago leaving him with 3 kids as i knew I couldnt support them or keep ther house . I left with a car and 27p in my purse but 3yrs on I am happy and so is he he has a new girlfriend and has now asked for a divorce and as i said to him not interested in taking you to cleaners a little bit of money be fine . I still love him as father of my kids and someone I spent 23yrs with not all bad and we now get on so much better apart than we did last cpl years we together
you left him with 3 kids and all you want is a little money....omg how do you sleep at night
yep I did they were 24 21 and 15 at the time so not little and I have no regrets at doing it as they were better off with him than they ever would have been with me ,oh and the fact I wasnt happy not him so why should I put him out of his home ."lol that,ll teach me to get on my high horse..do appogise for jumping the gun..  | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"your like a packof wolves....picking people to pieces... You said it was a planned thread and you didnt care what people think so what does it matter it really dosent.." Why are you still posting then? | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
" Now see that statement has just made me think a totally different way about some cheating people as that is just a horrible thing to say IMO , you could walk away but choose to stay because of assets that need protecting When Mrs Bus and I split up formally a few years ago, I literally just walked away. Didn't want a thing. I knew she loved the house and I could never have afforded the mortgage on my salary alone so it seemed spiteful to make her sell up. I signed it over to her in full, the only condition being that she took out a small remortgage to pay off a loan we had taken out (in my name only) to have some building / renovation work carried out. I also walked away from my job as we worked in the same office and that just couldn't work. We were both extremely unhappy at the time and we had needed that break. All my mates told me I was soft and I should take every last penny I could, but I didn't see it like that. We were making each other extremely unhappy and having had so much happiness previously, I wouldn't allow all that to be stripped away and replaced by bitterness. I went back to mum and dads for 6 months, got a new job and re-built my life from scratch. We went 2 years without contact and then I got to hear she was poorly in hospital. I rang her friend and asked her to send her my best wishes. She asked to see me, we said our 'sorries' and slowly the relationship started to gain strength again, albeit in a much different format than we had before. We now have a format that whilst unconventional, suits US and is stronger than the one we originally had. I walked out on my husband 3 years ago leaving him with 3 kids as i knew I couldnt support them or keep ther house . I left with a car and 27p in my purse but 3yrs on I am happy and so is he he has a new girlfriend and has now asked for a divorce and as i said to him not interested in taking you to cleaners a little bit of money be fine . I still love him as father of my kids and someone I spent 23yrs with not all bad and we now get on so much better apart than we did last cpl years we together
you left him with 3 kids and all you want is a little money....omg how do you sleep at night
yep I did they were 24 21 and 15 at the time so not little and I have no regrets at doing it as they were better off with him than they ever would have been with me ,oh and the fact I wasnt happy not him so why should I put him out of his home .
lol that,ll teach me to get on my high horse..do appogise for jumping the gun.. "thats ok and thank you | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
Nough said xx | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"What is it you wanted to achieve? It's not ad if we lose our morals when joining fab why the he'll shouldn't faithful couples thin cheating is wrong berating your husband on a public forum you got nothing but the truth i did it to prove a point...how most of you love to have a victim on here that you feel you can intimidate and humiliate as you like....just hope admin picks up on it.." This is not particularly logical, you posted something that you knew would be judged, in both a negative or positive way, and unfortunately most of the comments have been negative. Why would admin pick up on this? Its a little like wearing a BNP sticker and going into an indian takeaway, dont be surprised if they spit in your food, does it make it right? No, but you courted negative responses by being negative yourself (about your husband), not only that but some may regard your comments as "crass", again, I am not judging you for your comments about your partner. However your comments about other forum posters are moot, you want to prove what exactly, that people are judgemental? Welcome to the world | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"What is it you wanted to achieve? It's not ad if we lose our morals when joining fab why the he'll shouldn't faithful couples thin cheating is wrong berating your husband on a public forum you got nothing but the truth i did it to prove a point...how most of you love to have a victim on here that you feel you can intimidate and humiliate as you like....just hope admin picks up on it.. This is not particularly logical, you posted something that you knew would be judged, in both a negative or positive way, and unfortunately most of the comments have been negative. Why would admin pick up on this? Its a little like wearing a BNP sticker and going into an indian takeaway, dont be surprised if they spit in your food, does it make it right? No, but you courted negative responses by being negative yourself (about your husband), not only that but some may regard your comments as "crass", again, I am not judging you for your comments about your partner. However your comments about other forum posters are moot, you want to prove what exactly, that people are judgemental? Welcome to the world" if you had of looked at my first post..you would have seen as the first few did it was a joke....it was others who made it sinister...nothing less as to what i expected.. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
" yep I did they were 24 21 and 15 at the time so not little and I have no regrets at doing it as they were better off with him than they ever would have been with me ,oh and the fact I wasnt happy not him so why should I put him out of his home ." It must have have been a horrible decision to make hon, people seem to forget at times that there are 'two' parents when the needs of the kids are considered. x | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"Yeah! Couldnt stand mine so gave him away for free...lol" Snap, couldnt sell her, so put her on freecycle. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"What is it you wanted to achieve? It's not ad if we lose our morals when joining fab why the he'll shouldn't faithful couples thin cheating is wrong berating your husband on a public forum you got nothing but the truth i did it to prove a point...how most of you love to have a victim on here that you feel you can intimidate and humiliate as you like....just hope admin picks up on it.. This is not particularly logical, you posted something that you knew would be judged, in both a negative or positive way, and unfortunately most of the comments have been negative. Why would admin pick up on this? Its a little like wearing a BNP sticker and going into an indian takeaway, dont be surprised if they spit in your food, does it make it right? No, but you courted negative responses by being negative yourself (about your husband), not only that but some may regard your comments as "crass", again, I am not judging you for your comments about your partner. However your comments about other forum posters are moot, you want to prove what exactly, that people are judgemental? Welcome to the world if you had of looked at my first post..you would have seen as the first few did it was a joke....it was others who made it sinister...nothing less as to what i expected.." To be honest it was the post that you made about "protecting your assets" that I found distateful. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"What is it you wanted to achieve? It's not ad if we lose our morals when joining fab why the he'll shouldn't faithful couples thin cheating is wrong berating your husband on a public forum you got nothing but the truth i did it to prove a point...how most of you love to have a victim on here that you feel you can intimidate and humiliate as you like....just hope admin picks up on it.. This is not particularly logical, you posted something that you knew would be judged, in both a negative or positive way, and unfortunately most of the comments have been negative. Why would admin pick up on this? Its a little like wearing a BNP sticker and going into an indian takeaway, dont be surprised if they spit in your food, does it make it right? No, but you courted negative responses by being negative yourself (about your husband), not only that but some may regard your comments as "crass", again, I am not judging you for your comments about your partner. However your comments about other forum posters are moot, you want to prove what exactly, that people are judgemental? Welcome to the world if you had of looked at my first post..you would have seen as the first few did it was a joke....it was others who made it sinister...nothing less as to what i expected.. To be honest it was the post that you made about "protecting your assets" that I found distateful." That was the post that did it for me as well | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"What is it you wanted to achieve? It's not ad if we lose our morals when joining fab why the he'll shouldn't faithful couples thin cheating is wrong berating your husband on a public forum you got nothingbut the truth i did it to prove a point...how mostof you love to have a victim on here that you feel you can intimidateand humiliate as you like....just hope admin picks up on it.. This is not particularly logical, you posted something that you knew would be judged, in both a negative or positive way,and unfortunately mostof the comments have been negative. Why would admin pick up on this? Its a little like wearing a BNP stickerand going into an indian takeaway, dont be surprised if they spit in your food, does it make it right? No,but you courted negative responses by being negative yourself (about your husband), not only thatbut some may regard your comments as "crass", again, I am not judging you for your comments about your partner. However your comments about other forum posters are moot, you want to prove what exactly, that people are judgemental? Welcome to the world if you hadof looked at my first post..you would have seen as the first few did it was a joke....it was others who made it sinister...nothing less as to what i expected.. To be honest it was the post that you made about "protecting your assets" that I found distateful. That was the post that did it for me as well " and most others as well | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"What is it you wanted to achieve? It's not ad if we lose our morals when joining fab why the he'll shouldn't faithful couples thin cheating is wrong berating your husband on a public forum you got nothing but the truth i did it to prove a point...how most of you love to have a victim on here that you feel you can intimidate and humiliate as you like....just hope admin picks up on it.. This is not particularly logical, you posted something that you knew would be judged, in both a negative or positive way, and unfortunately most of the comments have been negative. Why would admin pick up on this? Its a little like wearing a BNP sticker and going into an indian takeaway, dont be surprised if they spit in your food, does it make it right? No, but you courted negative responses by being negative yourself (about your husband), not only that but some may regard your comments as "crass", again, I am not judging you for your comments about your partner. However your comments about other forum posters are moot, you want to prove what exactly, that people are judgemental? Welcome to the world if you had of looked at my first post..you would have seen as the first few did it was a joke....it was others who made it sinister...nothing less as to what i expected.. To be honest it was the post that you made about "protecting your assets" that I found distateful. That was the post that did it for me as well " well as long as its given you all something to chat about..condemn me at your leisure...same old same old.. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"What is it you wanted to achieve? It's not ad if we lose our morals when joining fab why the he'll shouldn't faithful couples thin cheating is wrong berating your husband on a public forum you got nothing but the truth i did it to prove a point...how most of you love to have a victim on here that you feel you can intimidate and humiliate as you like....just hope admin picks up on it.. This is not particularly logical, you posted something that you knew would be judged, in both a negative or positive way, and unfortunately most of the comments have been negative. Why would admin pick up on this? Its a little like wearing a BNP sticker and going into an indian takeaway, dont be surprised if they spit in your food, does it make it right? No, but you courted negative responses by being negative yourself (about your husband), not only that but some may regard your comments as "crass", again, I am not judging you for your comments about your partner. However your comments about other forum posters are moot, you want to prove what exactly, that people are judgemental? Welcome to the world if you had of looked at my first post..you would have seen as the first few did it was a joke....it was others who made it sinister...nothing less as to what i expected.." I did read your initial post and whilst composing my initial response (about my ex-wifes snoring), a few other things were said that polarised the thread into "I cheat on my husband, and I only stay with him for money". You were the one posting that, not anyone else, most of the initial comments were from people that had "left" their partners that "irritated" them, perhaps because they are that way inclined. You on the other hand have decided not to leave your husband, but to have affairs, live off his money (implied by YOU not me) and couldnt care if he was hit by a bus.... You see not liking your ex is fine, its natural, but saying someone is "rubbish" whilst still living with them, will get peoples backs up. Anyway, its your life Susy, and at no point in any of my posts have I judged you, my personal opinion, will remain personal | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
" yep I did they were 24 21 and 15 at the time so not little and I have no regrets at doing it as they were better off with him than they ever would have been with me ,oh and the fact I wasnt happy not him so why should I put him out of his home . It must have have been a horrible decision to make hon, people seem to forget at times that there are 'two' parents when the needs of the kids are considered. x" It was yes , I had stayed far longer than I should have because of kids but when I explained to them why i was doing it they understood which did make it easier , still at the end of a phone at 2 in morning when they call but have to book to see them weeks in advance now | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"it was others who made it sinister...nothing less as to what i expected.." We all have sensitive issues in or lives If like you i would have expected "nothing less" than those nasty responses then i personally would not have posted the thread knowing that it would inflame and alienate people The forums dont have to be a war ground Its just obvious some think they should be | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"it was others who made it sinister...nothing less as to what i expected.. We all have sensitive issues in or lives If like you i would have expected "nothing less" than those nasty responses then i personally would not have posted the thread knowing that it would inflame and alienate people The forums dont have to be a war ground Its just obvious some think they should be "Soapy for PM ! | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"I suspect that this 'poor' bloke isn't so poor which is why she's still married to him. I also suspect that he's probably well aware of his wife and her antics and has himself a nice little playmate too tucked away somewhere. He must know that if there is no sex in a marriage and that marriage is allow to continue, it's for economic reasons only. Which makes him just as bad as her and welcome to each other." | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"I suspect that this 'poor' bloke isn't so poor which is why she's still married to him. I also suspect that he's probably well aware of his wife and her antics and has himself a nice little playmate too tucked away somewhere. He must know that if there is no sex in a marriage and that marriage is allow to continue, it's for economic reasons only. Which makes him just as bad as her and welcome to each other." The guy has been slagged off on a Forum, judged and found guilty without getting the chance to put his side forward. Whether he is 'poor' or not I think this thread is awful. For all we know he could be completely oblivious to her antics..... | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"I suspect that this 'poor' bloke isn't so poor which is why she's still married to him. I also suspect that he's probably well aware of his wife and her antics and has himself a nice little playmate too tucked away somewhere. He must know that if there is no sex in a marriage and that marriage is allow to continue, it's for economic reasons only. Which makes him just as bad as her and welcome to each other. The guy has been slagged off on a Forum, judged and found guilty without getting the chance to put his side forward. Whether he is 'poor' or not I think this thread is awful. For all we know he could be completely oblivious to her antics....." True.....he may well know nothing. To label him as complicent in it all is rather strange to be honest. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"Wealthy people aren't stupid people in my experience. I wouldn't be at all surprised if he does know what his wife is up to, and I'd be even less surprised if he didn't actually give a damn what she does. If she can slag him off on here to use - complete strangers - it's not rocket science to imagine what's been said to his face. Maybe he doesn't mind having a trophy wife for formal occasions, and his nice sexy playmate for private matters. "you lot and your assumptions..you really amaze me | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"I really can honestly say i dont like my husband,the things that he does just irritates me,if i could sell him on ebay i would....does anyone else have these feelings about their other half ??? just curious mind.." No, because if things ever got that bad, i'd have the spine to admit it and move on instead of moaning about it. *Her* | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"I really can honestly say i dont like my husband,the things that he does just irritates me,if i could sell him on ebay i would....does anyone else have these feelings about their other half ??? just curious mind.. No, because if things ever got that bad, i'd have the spine to admit it and move on instead of moaning about it. *Her*" i suggest you read the full thread.. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"I really can honestly say i dont like my husband,the things that he does just irritates me,if i could sell him on ebay i would....does anyone else have these feelings about their other half ??? just curious mind.. No, because if things ever got that bad, i'd have the spine to admit it and move on instead of moaning about it. *Her* i suggest you read the full thread.." by that she means she has posted this thread in the hopes that the admin will tell everyone who thinks that the things she said about her relationship werent nice, that they are mean mean people and shouldnt post their opinions on a thread anymore.. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"And your still posting..you certainly like the attention." no i like the propaganda thats being spread | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"I really can honestly say i dont like my husband,the things that he does just irritates me,if i could sell him on ebay i would....does anyone else have these feelings about their other half ??? just curious mind.. No, because if things ever got that bad, i'd have the spine to admit it and move on instead of moaning about it. *Her* i suggest you read the full thread.. by that she means she has posted this thread in the hopes that the admin will tell everyone who thinks that the things she said about her relationship werent nice, that they are mean mean people and shouldnt post their opinions on a thread anymore.. "you know nothing about my life,as i have no wish to know nothing about yours..so try to refrain from your nasty comments.. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"propaganda..its not the third riech. Its more like a spoilt child throwing its teddy in the corner." do i care what you think .. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"I really can honestly say i dont like my husband,the things that he does just irritates me,if i could sell him on ebay i would....does anyone else have these feelings about their other half ??? just curious mind.. No, because if things ever got that bad, i'd have the spine to admit it and move on instead of moaning about it. *Her* i suggest you read the full thread.. by that she means she has posted this thread in the hopes that the admin will tell everyone who thinks that the things she said about her relationship werent nice, that they are mean mean people and shouldnt post their opinions on a thread anymore..
you know nothing about my life,as i have no wish to know nothing about yours..so try to refrain from your nasty comments.."Pot kettle black | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"I really can honestly say i dont like my husband,the things that he does just irritates me,if i could sell him on ebay i would....does anyone else have these feelings about their other half ??? just curious mind.. No, because if things ever got that bad, i'd have the spine to admit it and move on instead of moaning about it. *Her* i suggest you read the full thread.. by that she means she has posted this thread in the hopes that the admin will tell everyone who thinks that the things she said about her relationship werent nice, that they are mean mean people and shouldnt post their opinions on a thread anymore.. you know nothing about my life,as i have no wish to know nothing about yours..so try to refrain from your nasty comments.."Yes we do, youve told us your cheating on your husband and just staying with him to protect "your" assets. I think thats classed as telling people about your life | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"propaganda..its not the third riech. Its more like a spoilt child throwing its teddy in the corner. do i care what you think .." obviously you do,otherwise you wouldnt keep replying.. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"I really can honestly say i dont like my husband,the things that he does just irritates me,if i could sell him on ebay i would....does anyone else have these feelings about their other half ??? just curious mind.. No, because if things ever got that bad, i'd have the spine to admit it and move on instead of moaning about it. *Her* i suggest you read the full thread.. by that she means she has posted this thread in the hopes that the admin will tell everyone who thinks that the things she said about her relationship werent nice, that they are mean mean people and shouldnt post their opinions on a thread anymore..
you know nothing about my life,as i have no wish to know nothing about yours..so try to refrain from your nasty comments..
Pot kettle black "arnt you all loving it hey...gives you something to get yr teeth into on a boring afternoon.. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"I really can honestly say i dont like my husband,the things that he does just irritates me,if i could sell him on ebay i would....does anyone else have these feelings about their other half ??? just curious mind.. No, because if things ever got that bad, i'd have the spine to admit it and move on instead of moaning about it. *Her* i suggest you read the full thread.." Why? I was responding to your OP. If you had something more to say relevant to your post, you should have said it in the first post. *Her* | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"Have to say, this thread is right up there with Pig Fertilizer & Country Gazette in terms of exciting editorial content. "well dont read it....simple | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
" It must have have been a horrible decision to make hon, people seem to forget at times that there are 'two' parents when the needs of the kids are considered. x It was yes , I had stayed far longer than I should have because of kids but when I explained to them why i was doing it they understood which did make it easier , still at the end of a phone at 2 in morning when they call but have to book to see them weeks in advance now "lol! I don't have kids, but I do have a friend who is very unhappy in her marraige and has a very young daughter, she is also convinced the wee girl would be better off with her daddy, but as yet she hasn't felt strong enough to make the decision. I'm glad it worked out for you. x | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"I really can honestly say i dont like my husband,the things that he does just irritates me,if i could sell him on ebay i would....does anyone else have these feelings about their other half ??? just curious mind.. No, because if things ever got that bad, i'd have the spine to admit it and move on instead of moaning about it. *Her* i suggest you read the full thread.. Why? I was responding to your OP. If you had something more to say relevant to your post, you should have said it in the first post. *Her*" Hey, she's got a point there. How short would all our threads be on here if we said everything that needed to be said in the very first post we made on a thread. We should make it like Jeopardy on here where we give the answer and someone has to has the question, but in our case we decide what the OP will be then someone posts the OP a bit further down, say Post 175 before it closes. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"I really can honestly say i dont like my husband,the things that he does just irritates me,if i could sell him on ebay i would....does anyone else have these feelings about their other half ??? just curious mind.. No, because if things ever got that bad, i'd have the spine to admit it and move on instead of moaning about it. *Her* i suggest you read the full thread.. by that she means she has posted this thread in the hopes that the admin will tell everyone who thinks that the things she said about her relationship werent nice, that they are mean mean people and shouldnt post their opinions on a thread anymore..
you know nothing about my life,as i have no wish to know nothing about yours..so try to refrain from your nasty comments.."how was my comment nasty.. I was just compressing this whole thread into one post for her so she didn't have to read through all of it.. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"I really can honestly say i dont like my husband,the things that he does just irritates me,if i could sell him on ebay i would....does anyone else have these feelings about their other half ??? just curious mind.. No, because if things ever got that bad, i'd have the spine to admit it and move on instead of moaning about it. *Her* i suggest you read the full thread.. Why? I was responding to your OP. If you had something more to say relevant to your post, you should have said it in the first post. *Her* Hey, she's got a point there. How short would all our threads be on here if we said everything that needed to be said in the very first post we made on a thread. We should make it like Jeopardy on here where we give the answer and someone has to has the question, but in our case we decide what the OP will be then someone posts the OP a bit further down, say Post 175 before it closes. "haha your soooooo funny...not | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"I really can honestly say i dont like my husband,the things that he does just irritates me,if i could sell him on ebay i would....does anyone else have these feelings about their other half ??? just curious mind.. No, because if things ever got that bad, i'd have the spine to admit it and move on instead of moaning about it. *Her* i suggest you read the full thread.. Why? I was responding to your OP. If you had something more to say relevant to your post, you should have said it in the first post. *Her* Hey, she's got a point there. How short would all our threads be on here if we said everything that needed to be said in the very first post we made on a thread. We should make it like Jeopardy on here where we give the answer and someone has to has the question, but in our case we decide what the OP will be then someone posts the OP a bit further down, say Post 175 before it closes. "lol awesome.. you start it... ill give it a guess.. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"I reckon if we keep posting we could hit 175 by teatime and then go and do sommat else instead. "ooooooooh lets hope so | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"See this is all getting a little nasty, Suzy has made a "life choice", you may not like it, but well, thats her choice. I think personal insults are uncalled for, many of you are defending a man you do not know, which is your right, but, well he could be a bastard couldnt he? Susy could be "venting" because this is the only place she can. Judgement you brought upon yourself M/S Q, but personal insult is not warranted. Now I am going to sit back with my blue beret on,,," womens refuges are full of women whose husbands were bastards...dont think many of them would be posting as the op did.. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"I reckon if we keep posting we could hit 175 by teatime and then go and do sommat else instead. "well ... to help reach 175 ... heres out two pence worth. dont give a flying fuck either way as we dont know either the OP or her OH.. therfore it does not affect us in the slightest | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
P.S : Our 10th wedding anniversary on the 14th and really looking forward to our party then 2 nights at a hotel with lots of facilities and no youngen
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"I reckon if we keep posting we could hit 175 by teatime and then go and do sommat else instead.
well ... to help reach 175 ... heres out two pence worth.
dont give a flying fuck either way as we dont know either the OP or her OH..
therfore it does not affect us in the slightest "I will give that a +1. Just to help it along to the closing point. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"See this is all getting a little nasty, Suzy has made a "life choice", you may not like it, but well, thats her choice. I think personal insults are uncalled for, many of you are defending a man you do not know, which is your right, but, well he could be a bastard couldnt he? Susy could be "venting" because this is the only place she can. Judgement you brought upon yourself M/S Q, but personal insult is not warranted. Now I am going to sit back with my blue beret on,,, womens refuges are full of women whose husbands were bastards...dont think many of them would be posting as the op did.. " Statistically 1 in 4 women are abused either emotionally or physically by their partner in the uk. Now I am sure that 25% of the female population dont live in refuges. The internet gives the disaffected a voice. Now obviously I am not saying that the OP is in this kind of relationship, but the possibility is there, as are a hundred others that if voiced could turn this thread completely around, strangely turning the villified into the victim. But that is an enormous amount of conjecture which is probably wrong, but I dont have my judging boots on today, and my insulting hat is at the cleaners | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"I reckon if we keep posting we could hit 175 by teatime and then go and do sommat else instead.
well ... to help reach 175 ... heres out two pence worth.
dont give a flying fuck either way as we dont know either the OP or her OH..
therfore it does not affect us in the slightest
I will give that a +1.
Just to help it along to the closing point. "+2 | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"See this is all getting a little nasty, Suzy has made a "life choice", you may not like it, but well, thats her choice. I think personal insults are uncalled for, many of you are defending a man you do not know, which is your right, but, well he could be a bastard couldnt he? Susy could be "venting" because this is the only place she can. Judgement you brought upon yourself M/S Q, but personal insult is not warranted. thankyou for that...but its nothing as to what i expected on here..can now see why so many people dont like posting on the forums.. Now I am going to sit back with my blue beret on,,," | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"See this is all getting a little nasty, Suzy has made a "life choice", you may not like it, but well, thats her choice. I think personal insults are uncalled for, many of you are defending a man you do not know, which is your right, but, well he could be a bastard couldnt he? Susy could be "venting" because this is the only place she can. Judgement you brought upon yourself M/S Q, but personal insult is not warranted. Now I am going to sit back with my blue beret on,,, womens refuges are full of women whose husbands were bastards...dont think many of them would be posting as the op did.. Statistically 1 in 4 women are abused either emotionally or physically by their partner in the uk. Now I am sure that 25% of the female population dont live in refuges. The internet gives the disaffected a voice. Now obviously I am not saying that the OP is in this kind of relationship, but the possibility is there, as are a hundred others that if voiced could turn this thread completely around, strangely turning the villified into the victim. But that is an enormous amount of conjecture which is probably wrong, but I dont have my judging boots on today, and my insulting hat is at the cleaners" But more would if they could im sure..the op didnt actually say her hubby was a bad one in bastard terms its you who added that little gem.. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
"See this is all getting a little nasty, Suzy has made a "life choice", you may not like it, but well, thats her choice. I think personal insults are uncalled for, many of you are defending a man you do not know, which is your right, but, well he could be a bastard couldnt he? Susy could be "venting" because this is the only place she can. Judgement you brought upon yourself M/S Q, but personal insult is not warranted. Now I am going to sit back with my blue beret on,,, womens refuges are full of women whose husbands were bastards...dont think many of them would be posting as the op did.. Statistically 1 in 4 women are abused either emotionally or physically by their partner in the uk. Now I am sure that 25% of the female population dont live in refuges. The internet gives the disaffected a voice. Now obviously I am not saying that the OP is in this kind of relationship, but the possibility is there, as are a hundred others that if voiced could turn this thread completely around, strangely turning the villified into the victim. But that is an enormous amount of conjecture which is probably wrong, but I dont have my judging boots on today, and my insulting hat is at the cleaners But more would if they could im sure..the op didnt actually say her hubby was a bad one in bastard terms its you who added that little gem.." I added that it was a "possibility", please try to read what I write before calling them "gems". I am not defending the OPs actions, however she shouldnt be the source of open insults, which lead her to defending herself with further insults. As soapy said, "welcome to the warzone", but really, I couldnt give a stuff about this woman, her husband, or the state of their marriage, but a forum is "open" for a reason, and it should not be "closed" to those that lead a different lifestyle, make choices others dont agree with or dally in the art of being contentious. | |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
| |||
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |||
