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over a year ago
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You’ve never had a social meet with someone, laughed, chatted, compared Fab disaster stories and thought ‘Yes, this person is sexy as fuck in real life, fun company and I feel relaxed and sexy with them?’
As opposed to ‘This person is dull as ditchwater and I have absolutely nothing in common with them, even though they have abs of steel and thighs that could crack an elephant skull’.. |
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"You’ve never had a social meet with someone, laughed, chatted, compared Fab disaster stories and thought ‘Yes, this person is sexy as fuck in real life, fun company and I feel relaxed and sexy with them?’
As opposed to ‘This person is dull as ditchwater and I have absolutely nothing in common with them, even though they have abs of steel and thighs that could crack an elephant skull’.."
*swooooooon*
Yep! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh really
So we order latte
He looks me in eye
Cum let's fuck... 
Seduction is a lot more than a fecking latte  "
Yes its the flirting the little touches the eye contact to creat the spark lattes just a good reason to chat |
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"You’ve never had a social meet with someone, laughed, chatted, compared Fab disaster stories and thought ‘Yes, this person is sexy as fuck in real life, fun company and I feel relaxed and sexy with them?’
As opposed to ‘This person is dull as ditchwater and I have absolutely nothing in common with them, even though they have abs of steel and thighs that could crack an elephant skull’.."
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"Oh really
So we order latte
He looks me in eye
Cum let's fuck...
Seduction is a lot more than a fecking latte
Yes its the flirting the little touches the eye contact to creat the spark lattes just a good reason to chat"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh really
So we order latte
He looks me in eye
Cum let's fuck...
Seduction is a lot more than a fecking latte
Yes its the flirting the little touches the eye contact to creat the spark lattes just a good reason to chat"
exactly this....love flirting over a coffee |
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It works... or at least does for me. If it doesn't 'flow' then I know we're not right for each other... sorry, but I can't define 'flow' any better!
But if the connection IS there then I love the thrill of casting your eye appreciatively over someone who you just might fuck before too long. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Done plenty of coffee meets where I thought thank fuck I didn't agree to meet just for a fuck.
Also a great way of sussing out if they're gonna be pushy or not and respect boundaries."
I only push if it needs it, it's not good otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh really
So we order latte
He looks me in eye
Cum let's fuck...
Seduction is a lot more than a fecking latte "
You could always just say no. Meeting for a coffee is a good ice breaker, no pressure and you can see if you’re on the same wave length and whether you’d like to take it further. I really don’t see what the problem is. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You’ve never had a social meet with someone, laughed, chatted, compared Fab disaster stories and thought ‘Yes, this person is sexy as fuck in real life, fun company and I feel relaxed and sexy with them?’
As opposed to ‘This person is dull as ditchwater and I have absolutely nothing in common with them, even though they have abs of steel and thighs that could crack an elephant skull’.."
No, sadly |
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"You’ve never had a social meet with someone, laughed, chatted, compared Fab disaster stories and thought ‘Yes, this person is sexy as fuck in real life, fun company and I feel relaxed and sexy with them?’
As opposed to ‘This person is dull as ditchwater and I have absolutely nothing in common with them, even though they have abs of steel and thighs that could crack an elephant skull’.."
Absolutely this
Also I find it a major turn off if they don't at least offer to buy me a latte (I always refuse and buy my own) but I can't stand tight arses (insert own joke) as I always offer to buy the first round. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You’ve never had a social meet with someone, laughed, chatted, compared Fab disaster stories and thought ‘Yes, this person is sexy as fuck in real life, fun company and I feel relaxed and sexy with them?’
As opposed to ‘This person is dull as ditchwater and I have absolutely nothing in common with them, even though they have abs of steel and thighs that could crack an elephant skull’.."
None of my meets have had abs of steel and thighs that could crack an elephant skull. Am I doing the whole Fab thing wrong!?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh really
So we order latte
He looks me in eye
Cum let's fuck...
Seduction is a lot more than a fecking latte
You could always just say no. Meeting for a coffee is a good ice breaker, no pressure and you can see if you’re on the same wave length and whether you’d like to take it further. I really don’t see what the problem is."
No one said it was a problem
Thanks for the message though made my day... I can tell in messages if there is a connection.
I don't want to sit at a coffee table just after a couple of messages on here. Connection is a lot more.
I can sense you think I posted this a problem.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Love a social that crackles. You know there’s something there you want to explore. And yet all the normal people slurp their cappuccinos near by knowing nothing "
Indeed, but there has to be some form of connection going from here first, I don't do cold calling  |
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"Oh really
So we order latte
He looks me in eye
Cum let's fuck...
Seduction is a lot more than a fecking latte
You could always just say no. Meeting for a coffee is a good ice breaker, no pressure and you can see if you’re on the same wave length and whether you’d like to take it further. I really don’t see what the problem is.
No one said it was a problem
Thanks for the message though made my day... I can tell in messages if there is a connection.
I don't want to sit at a coffee table just after a couple of messages on here. Connection is a lot more.
I can sense you think I posted this a problem.
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well dont meet th then. Seems pretty simple to me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Coffee
Care to elaborate on this.
How the feck do you connect over a coffee?
Did you never see those Nescafè Gold Blend TV Ads????"
Sadly, yes, I know but that's just advertising its not reality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know you’ve made that connection when the cwaffee social ends with a mahossive song at the end! Not all socials are *just* social (as long as you don’t go expecting anything else of course!) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh really
So we order latte
He looks me in eye
Cum let's fuck...
Seduction is a lot more than a fecking latte
You're obviously doing it wrong then  "
No right way or wrong way.
Just I can't connect over cold coffee |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You know you’ve made that connection when the cwaffee social ends with a mahossive song at the end! Not all socials are *just* social (as long as you don’t go expecting anything else of course!) "
Wtf... Cwaffee
And a song Danberks... You going to serenade me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh really
So we order latte
He looks me in eye
Cum let's fuck...
Seduction is a lot more than a fecking latte
You're obviously doing it wrong then
No right way or wrong way.
Just I can't connect over cold coffee "
frappacino omg love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You know you’ve made that connection when the cwaffee social ends with a mahossive song at the end! Not all socials are *just* social (as long as you don’t go expecting anything else of course!)
Wtf... Cwaffee
And a song Danberks... You going to serenade me "
Sorry thought I was in New York for a moment there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You know you’ve made that connection when the cwaffee social ends with a mahossive song at the end! Not all socials are *just* social (as long as you don’t go expecting anything else of course!)
Wtf... Cwaffee
And a song Danberks... You going to serenade me
Sorry thought I was in New York for a moment there"
Think you were thinking of big apples |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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"Done plenty of coffee meets where I thought thank fuck I didn't agree to meet just for a fuck.
Also a great way of sussing out if they're gonna be pushy or not and respect boundaries."
Heard several horror stories regarding socials where they definitely dodged a bullet as their prospective meets were horrific..
A coffee (or other social) is a safer way of meeting what is effectively a complete stranger. There is always the risk that a meet is not as described or have only shown you an online persona. It gives you time to work out if the reality matches the virtual, and as stated, suss if they are right for you.
I have also in the past arranged to meet in a club and when they have turned up they have zero personality. They can be really pretty but if they can't engage on a basic level then I'm not interested in playing.
#staysafeplaysafe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh really
So we order latte
He looks me in eye
Cum let's fuck...
Seduction is a lot more than a fecking latte
You could always just say no. Meeting for a coffee is a good ice breaker, no pressure and you can see if you’re on the same wave length and whether you’d like to take it further. I really don’t see what the problem is.
No one said it was a problem
Thanks for the message though made my day... I can tell in messages if there is a connection.
I don't want to sit at a coffee table just after a couple of messages on here. Connection is a lot more.
I can sense you think I posted this a problem.
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What message? I havn’t sent you a message.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh really
So we order latte
He looks me in eye
Cum let's fuck...
Seduction is a lot more than a fecking latte
You could always just say no. Meeting for a coffee is a good ice breaker, no pressure and you can see if you’re on the same wave length and whether you’d like to take it further. I really don’t see what the problem is.
No one said it was a problem
Thanks for the message though made my day... I can tell in messages if there is a connection.
I don't want to sit at a coffee table just after a couple of messages on here. Connection is a lot more.
I can sense you think I posted this a problem.
What message? I havn’t sent you a message. "
Message on here. No not had one of yours in ages in my message box |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh really
So we order latte
He looks me in eye
Cum let's fuck...
Seduction is a lot more than a fecking latte
You're obviously doing it wrong then
No right way or wrong way.
Just I can't connect over cold coffee frappacino omg love it"
Yuck fuck. Iced coffee.
That be like drinking cold milk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh really
So we order latte
He looks me in eye
Cum let's fuck...
Seduction is a lot more than a fecking latte
You're obviously doing it wrong then
No right way or wrong way.
Just I can't connect over cold coffee "
You can connect on here..
You then meet to see if it works for you both in the real world..
Its not rocket science so no need to make it so complicated |
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"You’ve never had a social meet with someone, laughed, chatted, compared Fab disaster stories and thought ‘Yes, this person is sexy as fuck in real life, fun company and I feel relaxed and sexy with them?’
As opposed to ‘This person is dull as ditchwater and I have absolutely nothing in common with them, even though they have abs of steel and thighs that could crack an elephant skull’..
None of my meets have had abs of steel and thighs that could crack an elephant skull. Am I doing the whole Fab thing wrong!? "
You're obviously not meeting the right people!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh really
So we order latte
He looks me in eye
Cum let's fuck...
Seduction is a lot more than a fecking latte
You're obviously doing it wrong then
No right way or wrong way.
Just I can't connect over cold coffee frappacino omg love it
Yuck fuck. Iced coffee.
That be like drinking cold milk "
nooooo it's gawjus |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh really
So we order latte
He looks me in eye
Cum let's fuck...
Seduction is a lot more than a fecking latte
You're obviously doing it wrong then
No right way or wrong way.
Just I can't connect over cold coffee
You can connect on here..
You then meet to see if it works for you both in the real world..
Its not rocket science so no need to make it so complicated "
Ticket to the moon... Rocket to the science... I prefer biology
I asked for opinions about connection over coffee which is science but its just an opinion.i don't ask for complicated opinions...
Kind regards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh really
So we order latte
He looks me in eye
Cum let's fuck...
Seduction is a lot more than a fecking latte "
How about a caramel machiatto with an extra syrup shot and the sprinkly bits?.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh really
So we order latte
He looks me in eye
Cum let's fuck...
Seduction is a lot more than a fecking latte
How about a caramel machiatto with an extra syrup shot and the sprinkly bits?.."
This sounds more inviting than just coffee |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know you’ve made that connection when the cwaffee social ends with a mahossive song at the end! Not all socials are *just* social (as long as you don’t go expecting anything else of course!) "
Yep Love being serenaded after a coffee lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You know you’ve made that connection when the cwaffee social ends with a mahossive song at the end! Not all socials are *just* social (as long as you don’t go expecting anything else of course!)
Yep Love being serenaded after a coffee lol"
Not with my singing lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You know you’ve made that connection when the cwaffee social ends with a mahossive song at the end! Not all socials are *just* social (as long as you don’t go expecting anything else of course!)
Yep Love being serenaded after a coffee lol"
Singing is going a bit far but entertaining conversation might be doable... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me i will have already connected with someone on line the social is too see if it carries through into real life
Exactly this "
Indeed, but better be quick before Costa sells fizzy coffee... |
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Yes you need that connection but you are not going to get that through JUST messaging online .
Anyone can be anyone online.
Over the phone and in person is where you can really get the feel of a connection and judge the person's reaction and eye signal plus body language .
All of that is hidden away via messaging on here .
Yes you can still be someone else for a coffee meet BUT it's harder and more noticeable via the body language and eyes . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You know you’ve made that connection when the cwaffee social ends with a mahossive song at the end! Not all socials are *just* social (as long as you don’t go expecting anything else of course!)
Wtf... Cwaffee
And a song Danberks... You going to serenade me "
Ah I’ve FINALLY clicked what the hell you were on about!! I thought you’d lost it for a minute!!
Bloody autocorrect!!! SNOG!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh really
So we order latte
He looks me in eye
Cum let's fuck...
Seduction is a lot more than a fecking latte
You could always just say no. Meeting for a coffee is a good ice breaker, no pressure and you can see if you’re on the same wave length and whether you’d like to take it further. I really don’t see what the problem is.
No one said it was a problem
Thanks for the message though made my day... I can tell in messages if there is a connection.
I don't want to sit at a coffee table just after a couple of messages on here. Connection is a lot more.
I can sense you think I posted this a problem.
What message? I havn’t sent you a message.
Message on here. No not had one of yours in ages in my message box "
You’ve never had one love. Soz to disappoint |
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"You know you’ve made that connection when the cwaffee social ends with a mahossive song at the end! Not all socials are *just* social (as long as you don’t go expecting anything else of course!)
Wtf... Cwaffee
And a song Danberks... You going to serenade me
Ah I’ve FINALLY clicked what the hell you were on about!! I thought you’d lost it for a minute!!
Bloody autocorrect!!! SNOG!! "
Once More With Feeling? |
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"Coffee
Care to elaborate on this.
How the feck do you connect over a coffee? "
Er, you chat, you laugh, you talk, you listen, you ask questions, you engage.
You swap life story's, the things that make you laugh and the things that make you cry.
You flirt......
It's. Not. That. Difficult. To. Understand. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oh really
So we order latte
He looks me in eye
Cum let's fuck...
Seduction is a lot more than a fecking latte
You could always just say no. Meeting for a coffee is a good ice breaker, no pressure and you can see if you’re on the same wave length and whether you’d like to take it further. I really don’t see what the problem is.
No one said it was a problem
Thanks for the message though made my day... I can tell in messages if there is a connection.
I don't want to sit at a coffee table just after a couple of messages on here. Connection is a lot more.
I can sense you think I posted this a problem.
What message? I havn’t sent you a message.
Message on here. No not had one of yours in ages in my message box
You’ve never had one love. Soz to disappoint "
Haha... I saved it |
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"You’ve never had a social meet with someone, laughed, chatted, compared Fab disaster stories and thought ‘Yes, this person is sexy as fuck in real life, fun company and I feel relaxed and sexy with them?’
As opposed to ‘This person is dull as ditchwater and I have absolutely nothing in common with them, even though they have abs of steel and thighs that could crack an elephant skull’.."
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It's horses for courses.
If you don't care to have a connection with the person you are about to fuck, go ahead and fuck them.
If you do like to have a connection with the person you are about to fuck, meet them and have a drink.
I'm not sure what the issue is |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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No issue
No problem
Not complicated
You lot make it sound that way... Why?
I asked for opinions
Thanks for the messages
Have a lovely issue with the coffee not me. |
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