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Who or what awakened your 'sexual side'?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always have been underneath only now am i letting it out"
I think it’s a mix of this and other things. Gaining the confidence to ‘want’ to try new things can be difficult when all around you your told it’s wrong. (We know it’s not).
If you can’t feel free to try exploring sex (or other things in life), your never going to feel like your living live. And that’s how I started to feel, like I was being shown how ‘not’ to do things.
...and that’s not my character. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Joined here to help awaken it and Miss Red has helped me do things I never thought I would and enjoy things I didn't think I would like, so she has really made me discover who I am sexually.
M"
I love that.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Always have been underneath only now am i letting it out
I think it’s a mix of this and other things. Gaining the confidence to ‘want’ to try new things can be difficult when all around you your told it’s wrong. (We know it’s not).
If you can’t feel free to try exploring sex (or other things in life), your never going to feel like your living live. And that’s how I started to feel, like I was being shown how ‘not’ to do things.
...and that’s not my character. "
I've had this same discussion with a man friend. Agree.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hannah Solo in the Ford Focus Ghia, it was a journey of discovery for the both of us. Although I had to replace the shocks and got ripped off at the garage, it was truly worth it. I will never look at that gear stick the same way again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always have been underneath only now am i letting it out
I think it’s a mix of this and other things. Gaining the confidence to ‘want’ to try new things can be difficult when all around you your told it’s wrong. (We know it’s not).
If you can’t feel free to try exploring sex (or other things in life), your never going to feel like your living live. And that’s how I started to feel, like I was being shown how ‘not’ to do things.
...and that’s not my character.
I've had this same discussion with a man friend. Agree. "
Life experiences change us and our views on what we think is morally right. (Eg, I shot a squirrel when I was younger, I’d never do it again, I learned that was wrong). But your character and motivation in life is what makes you, and when people around you (or society) try to drive you to be someone your not (by educating you with their ideals), you need to change direction, and find the real you again.
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By (user no longer on site)
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It was always there, I remember asking to be spanked and I had a role play idea. I was told by my ex I was weird. So I surpressed that side of me for years.
Then after being celibate for a long time, I met someone who didn’t find it odd at all. |
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"It was always there, I remember asking to be spanked and I had a role play idea. I was told by my ex I was weird. So I surpressed that side of me for years.
Then after being celibate for a long time, I met someone who didn’t find it odd at all. "
Totally understand, and I find that very sad. I know a girl who was inherently very submissive but repressed it for years because of a throwaway comment by an ex which made her feel ashamed and embarrassed. So wrong.
Now she's making up for lost time though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It was always there, I remember asking to be spanked and I had a role play idea. I was told by my ex I was weird. So I surpressed that side of me for years.
Then after being celibate for a long time, I met someone who didn’t find it odd at all. "
That horrible feeling when your longing to try something you feel your not ‘allowed’ to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It was always there, I remember asking to be spanked and I had a role play idea. I was told by my ex I was weird. So I surpressed that side of me for years.
Then after being celibate for a long time, I met someone who didn’t find it odd at all.
That horrible feeling when your longing to try something you feel your not ‘allowed’ to do. "
Exactly. Still I’ve explored it a lot since. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first ever boyfriend who i was in a long term relationship with from the age of 18 to 27 was a dirty bastard in bed and we fucked like rabbits throughout our relationship.
He showed me the joy and pleasure of sex, and more importantly (to me) he made it fun. He showed me lots of positions, we had sex outdoors (a lot - mostly in the Countryside) and he made me feel like a sex goddess.
Lots of laughs, lots of different positions and lots of sex.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was a mix of my separation and meeting mr, I’d been married for years and sex was something I avoided as much as possible because he was crap at it. When we separated I knew I was missing something so wanted to explore and did try with a man that made me realise I was capable of enjoying sex. Then I met mr and he woke up a side of me I didn’t know existed but is the me that was always just waiting for the right person to bring it out x |
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When I was about 13 and had my first wank probably! Then finding my dads porn stash the same year, I stole a magazine and didn't leave my room for about a week! I'm surprised I wasn't found as a dehydrated empty husk  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Always have been underneath only now am i letting it out
I think it’s a mix of this and other things. Gaining the confidence to ‘want’ to try new things can be difficult when all around you your told it’s wrong. (We know it’s not).
If you can’t feel free to try exploring sex (or other things in life), your never going to feel like your living live. And that’s how I started to feel, like I was being shown how ‘not’ to do things.
...and that’s not my character.
I've had this same discussion with a man friend. Agree.
Life experiences change us and our views on what we think is morally right. (Eg, I shot a squirrel when I was younger, I’d never do it again, I learned that was wrong). But your character and motivation in life is what makes you, and when people around you (or society) try to drive you to be someone your not (by educating you with their ideals), you need to change direction, and find the real you again.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Was a mix of my separation and meeting mr, I’d been married for years and sex was something I avoided as much as possible because he was crap at it. When we separated I knew I was missing something so wanted to explore and did try with a man that made me realise I was capable of enjoying sex. Then I met mr and he woke up a side of me I didn’t know existed but is the me that was always just waiting for the right person to bring it out x "
I know a woman like this. Her husband thought she was a sexless prude because he made her feel like shit. With the right man she was a totally different person. x |
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"When I was about 13 and had my first wank probably! Then finding my dads porn stash the same year, I stole a magazine and didn't leave my room for about a week! I'm surprised I wasn't found as a dehydrated empty husk "
Water bottle in your left hand. ((( ))) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was a mix of my separation and meeting mr, I’d been married for years and sex was something I avoided as much as possible because he was crap at it. When we separated I knew I was missing something so wanted to explore and did try with a man that made me realise I was capable of enjoying sex. Then I met mr and he woke up a side of me I didn’t know existed but is the me that was always just waiting for the right person to bring it out x
I know a woman like this. Her husband thought she was a sexless prude because he made her feel like shit. With the right man she was a totally different person. x"
It’s good to break free from things that hold us back, be it a person or a situation. Good for her x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you always been very sexual?
Did you meet someone that made you feel safe enough to try new things?
What awakened your 'sexual side'?
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I got sick of being used and abused and scared. I think someone just pushed me one step to far. I suddenly found that as a woman I could be in control. And found what I liked. And mostly since then I have explored and found myself to be ever evolving. |
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"Have you always been very sexual?
Did you meet someone that made you feel safe enough to try new things?
What awakened your 'sexual side'?
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I (Ms) have always been very sexual, love sex, passion, connection, exploring and experimenting but due to circumstances before I felt I had to keep that side of me "napping" but now I'm free from previous circumstances that side of me is fully awake and luckily I have someone who is non judgemental and just as like-minded as myself |
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"Was a mix of my separation and meeting mr, I’d been married for years and sex was something I avoided as much as possible because he was crap at it. When we separated I knew I was missing something so wanted to explore and did try with a man that made me realise I was capable of enjoying sex. Then I met mr and he woke up a side of me I didn’t know existed but is the me that was always just waiting for the right person to bring it out x
I know a woman like this. Her husband thought she was a sexless prude because he made her feel like shit. With the right man she was a totally different person. x"
Can so relate to both of these (Ms) |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"It was always there, I remember asking to be spanked and I had a role play idea. I was told by my ex I was weird. So I surpressed that side of me for years.
Then after being celibate for a long time, I met someone who didn’t find it odd at all.
Totally understand, and I find that very sad. I know a girl who was inherently very submissive but repressed it for years because of a throwaway comment by an ex which made her feel ashamed and embarrassed. So wrong.
Now she's making up for lost time though!"
My first husband told me I was weird... I left him, found BDSM and never looked back.
I was 18. It's been a fun 20 years |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have you always been very sexual?
Did you meet someone that made you feel safe enough to try new things?
What awakened your 'sexual side'?
I (Ms) have always been very sexual, love sex, passion, connection, exploring and experimenting but due to circumstances before I felt I had to keep that side of me "napping" but now I'm free from previous circumstances that side of me is fully awake and luckily I have someone who is non judgemental and just as like-minded as myself "
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
Sunderland |
Prince when I was about 13. The man was pure dirt. I saw that a man in little knickers and thigh high boots was crazy hot. He just turned everything I thought about sex, the way I viewed men and women, the things I’d already learned from my dads porn videos and mags that we’d all discovered in the field, upside down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My advancing years and a fear of it I dont try it now I never will. A wrenching realisation that even the people we love the most aren't infallible, so sometimes we have to do things, explore fantasies that are just for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always been, since at least 15. People have tried to shame me but mostly positive. I’m in a place now where I care a lot less what people think and about the “perfectness” of mine or a partner/s body, and enjoy how we make each other feel. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Nothing particularly - I've always had an inquisitive and relatively uninhibited sexual mind for as long as I can remember and not wanting to veer into matters that can't be discussed on the forums I can't expand any further than that.
I haven't always been able to act on much of it but this life has certainly allowed me to explore and embrace sides of my sexuality that remained suppressed for many years.
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