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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Views on whether or not some profiles and personalities on here are a tad serious and maybe lost sight of the fun that is to be had? Lots of factors of course, just curious as to the views? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons "
What makes them a moron in your eyes? Just curious and maybe love a good debate too much, so I apologise in advance x. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been told I must be hard work because of the length of my profile. This made me laugh, in reality, I am so laid back.
I want a specific type of sex & my profile should eliminate the need for the 'so what are you looking for?' questions.
Still get them though & still direct them back to my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've been told I must be hard work because of the length of my profile. This made me laugh, in reality, I am so laid back.
I want a specific type of sex & my profile should eliminate the need for the 'so what are you looking for?' questions.
Still get them though & still direct them back to my profile."
Do you not think the profile may ruin some of the anticipation of getting to know one another? I know you want a specific type of sex but sometimes isn’t better for it to happen naturally? |
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"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons
What makes them a moron in your eyes? Just curious and maybe love a good debate too much, so I apologise in advance x."
Inability to read profiles and work out if they're the kind of person you're looking for, and even if they do and they're clearly the opposite of what you're looking for still send messages just in case, ya know, coz they reckon they can change your mind.
Those who pressurise.
Those who think they know you better than you know yourself.
Those who fuck you about, for the fun of it.
Liars.
I'll say that one loud just in case you didn't hear..... LIARS. Can you tell im not a fan?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons
What makes them a moron in your eyes? Just curious and maybe love a good debate too much, so I apologise in advance x.
Inability to read profiles and work out if they're the kind of person you're looking for, and even if they do and they're clearly the opposite of what you're looking for still send messages just in case, ya know, coz they reckon they can change your mind.
Those who pressurise.
Those who think they know you better than you know yourself.
Those who fuck you about, for the fun of it.
Liars.
I'll say that one loud just in case you didn't hear..... LIARS. Can you tell im not a fan?
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Well honesty is the best policy and agree that liars on here are normally under the same heading as cheats! Which I can’t stand. But maybe with the messages with what your looking for some maybe exactly that but don’t know how to put it into words? I know I’m a lot better in person than I am online.... hands down x. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For some its a serious business trying to get laid
The question I have to ask is,why?
I've no idea... its not my problem  "
So you’re not the serious type? I’m guessing getting laid comes naturally to you? Gaha |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"Some pics are serious looking. Don’t people smile or do selfies take that much concentration? "
I've noticed this too. Some of my fab friends have let me see the type of messages they get and the face pics that are sent....mug shot central!  Smile...a genuine looking smile can sometimes go a long way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For some its a serious business trying to get laid
The question I have to ask is,why?
I've no idea... its not my problem
So you’re not the serious type? I’m guessing getting laid comes naturally to you? Gaha "
I don't take fab seriously at all..
Never have, never will |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For some its a serious business trying to get laid
The question I have to ask is,why?
I've no idea... its not my problem
So you’re not the serious type? I’m guessing getting laid comes naturally to you? Gaha
I don't take fab seriously at all..
Never have, never will "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For some its a serious business trying to get laid
The question I have to ask is,why?
I've no idea... its not my problem
So you’re not the serious type? I’m guessing getting laid comes naturally to you? Gaha
I don't take fab seriously at all..
Never have, never will "
Agreed x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For some its a serious business trying to get laid
The question I have to ask is,why?
I've no idea... its not my problem
So you’re not the serious type? I’m guessing getting laid comes naturally to you? Gaha
I don't take fab seriously at all..
Never have, never will "
It is what it is |
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"I just had a meet that wouldnt send a facepic. Wouldnt give me a phone number. Wouldnt verify me...
I feel a little stupid that i put myself in that position and actually went.
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Was it a man?
Did they turn up?
Was it any good after all that? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just had a meet that wouldnt send a facepic. Wouldnt give me a phone number. Wouldnt verify me...
I feel a little stupid that i put myself in that position and actually went.
Was it a man?
Did they turn up?
Was it any good after all that?"
Why think it was with a man? Fetish if your? Or gender stereotyping? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So many serious people!
I’m a sarcastic little shit who jokes a lot and sometimes you try that in a message and you’ll get an offended message back!
Chill! |
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"I just had a meet that wouldnt send a facepic. Wouldnt give me a phone number. Wouldnt verify me...
I feel a little stupid that i put myself in that position and actually went.
Was it a man?
Did they turn up?
Was it any good after all that?
Why think it was with a man? Fetish if your? Or gender stereotyping?"
I didn't say I thought it was, I asked if it was.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just had a meet that wouldnt send a facepic. Wouldnt give me a phone number. Wouldnt verify me...
I feel a little stupid that i put myself in that position and actually went.
Was it a man?
Did they turn up?
Was it any good after all that?
Why think it was with a man? Fetish if your? Or gender stereotyping?
I didn't say I thought it was, I asked if it was.
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Wouldn’t your first thought be female? As he is straight in his profile? |
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"I just had a meet that wouldnt send a facepic. Wouldnt give me a phone number. Wouldnt verify me...
I feel a little stupid that i put myself in that position and actually went.
Was it a man?
Did they turn up?
Was it any good after all that?
Why think it was with a man? Fetish if your? Or gender stereotyping?
I didn't say I thought it was, I asked if it was.
Wouldn’t your first thought be female? As he is straight in his profile?"
Yes, but I'm heading down the route that he may have been tricked by a tricky trickster who wasn't a female at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just had a meet that wouldnt send a facepic. Wouldnt give me a phone number. Wouldnt verify me...
I feel a little stupid that i put myself in that position and actually went.
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Well I hope you will never do that again - there are some serious nutters on here. Lucky escape |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been told I must be hard work because of the length of my profile. This made me laugh, in reality, I am so laid back.
I want a specific type of sex & my profile should eliminate the need for the 'so what are you looking for?' questions.
Still get them though & still direct them back to my profile.
Do you not think the profile may ruin some of the anticipation of getting to know one another? I know you want a specific type of sex but sometimes isn’t better for it to happen naturally?"
I don't think so, it hasn't worked out that way so far at least. I don't list a play by play of how I want or expect a meet to go but I'm very clear on the type of man I want.
There is still plenty of opportunity to get to know one another. I kind of see it as an explained extension of the interests.
It's definitely not a serious profile though & honestly if someone can't take 2mins to read it, then they're not going to be the type of man I'm looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My previous profile words got pinched by a man who is actively posting in the forums..
I prefer my latest incarnation so he is welcome to it but it just makes me a teeny bit pissed off that i did all the work and someone came along and nicked it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My previous profile words got pinched by a man who is actively posting in the forums..
I prefer my latest incarnation so he is welcome to it but it just makes me a teeny bit pissed off that i did all the work and someone came along and nicked it "
Bloody thief! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons
What makes them a moron in your eyes? Just curious and maybe love a good debate too much, so I apologise in advance x."
Not a serious debate, surely?  |
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"My previous profile words got pinched by a man who is actively posting in the forums..
I prefer my latest incarnation so he is welcome to it but it just makes me a teeny bit pissed off that i did all the work and someone came along and nicked it "
the cheek of some people. One of my friends had his profile right down to age and name and then sent him a wink |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons
What makes them a moron in your eyes? Just curious and maybe love a good debate too much, so I apologise in advance x.
Inability to read profiles and work out if they're the kind of person you're looking for, and even if they do and they're clearly the opposite of what you're looking for still send messages just in case, ya know, coz they reckon they can change your mind.
Those who pressurise.
Those who think they know you better than you know yourself.
Those who fuck you about, for the fun of it.
Liars.
I'll say that one loud just in case you didn't hear..... LIARS. Can you tell im not a fan?
Well honesty is the best policy and agree that liars on here are normally under the same heading as cheats! Which I can’t stand. But maybe with the messages with what your looking for some maybe exactly that but don’t know how to put it into words? I know I’m a lot better in person than I am online.... hands down x. "
Did you really say, honesty is the best policy??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons
Gordon is a moron 
Just cos he's better looking than you'oo. cmon is that possible
Uh huh....... "
cmon we're townies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons
Gordon is a moron
Just cos he's better looking than you'oo. cmon is that possible
Uh huh.......
cmon we're townies
*Shoulder punch...."
see solidarity |
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"For others it's a serious problem trying to avoid morons
Gordon is a moron
Just cos he's better looking than you'oo. cmon is that possible
Uh huh.......
cmon we're townies
*Shoulder punch....
see solidarity "
True dat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For every Fuddy Duffy, there’s a clown.
It’s like everywhere, there’s a group of people with different personalities, which is a good thing. I love having a laugh, but if it was party time all the time, it would bore the pants off me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Serious ? About what ?
My view is that if you consider yourself to be the life and soul of frivolity and fun ..... great.
Now let the serious folk be serious."
100% |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Life is good so make it a bit better by add new to people into it who are like minded decent and want the same things it’s simple! It’s just finding them.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Life is good so make it a bit better by adding* new to people into it who are like minded decent and want the same things it’s simple! It’s just finding them...."
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"I've been told I must be hard work because of the length of my profile. This made me laugh, in reality, I am so laid back.
I want a specific type of sex & my profile should eliminate the need for the 'so what are you looking for?' questions.
Still get them though & still direct them back to my profile.
Do you not think the profile may ruin some of the anticipation of getting to know one another? I know you want a specific type of sex but sometimes isn’t better for it to happen naturally?"
Swingers aren't trying to get to know each other, it should be about sexual gratification there and then. |
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