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"We get a lot of messages from married men, presumably they're on here because they're not getting it at home. Presumably, they're not getting it at home because their wives are bored of them. Why don't they just kill two birds with one stone and get their wives going again by suggesting a couples profile on fab? Kev" ...Does that not count for married women as well?...or is this a "have a go at the fellas" thread? | |||
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"That's a lot of presuming "Haha, yes I suppose it is - but even if I've presumed wrongly, still wonder why they feel the need to cheat on their wife rather than get her involved  | |||
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"Not my business so i dont care" Exactly this | |||
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"Not my business so i dont care Exactly this" | |||
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"We get a lot of messages from married men, presumably they're on here because they're not getting it at home. Presumably, they're not getting it at home because their wives are bored of them. Why don't they just kill two birds with one stone and get their wives going again by suggesting a couples profile on fab? Kev...Does that not count for married women as well?...or is this a "have a go at the fellas" thread?" Didn't really think I was 'having a go' at anyone, was just wondering. Haven't had any messages from married women - didn't want to pressume anymore than I already have but of course the same applies | |||
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"That's a lot of presuming
Haha, yes I suppose it is - but even if I've presumed wrongly, still wonder why they feel the need to cheat on their wife rather than get her involved "How about the cheating women on fab? | |||
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"That's a lot of presuming
Haha, yes I suppose it is - but even if I've presumed wrongly, still wonder why they feel the need to cheat on their wife rather than get her involved "Maybe the wives aren't interested in being involved. | |||
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"That's a lot of presuming
Haha, yes I suppose it is - but even if I've presumed wrongly, still wonder why they feel the need to cheat on their wife rather than get her involved
Maybe the wives aren't interested in being involved.
"I would think that's the most likely reason, it's not 'the norm' so perhaps the idea takes a lot of discussion between the husband and wife, which must surely be a good thing. | |||
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"That's a lot of presuming
Haha, yes I suppose it is - but even if I've presumed wrongly, still wonder why they feel the need to cheat on their wife rather than get her involved
Maybe the wives aren't interested in being involved.
I would think that's the most likely reason, it's not 'the norm' so perhaps the idea takes a lot of discussion between the husband and wife, which must surely be a good thing."It does but communication is difficult in some relationships. Quite often one partner point blank refuses to discuss certain matters or becomes aggressive when certain subjects arise. | |||
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"We get a lot of messages from married men, presumably they're on here because they're not getting it at home. Presumably, they're not getting it at home because their wives are bored of them. Why don't they just kill two birds with one stone and get their wives going again by suggesting a couples profile on fab? Kev" is it that easy........ Improve your failing marriage by shagging others  | |||
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"Everyone has their reasons for being here I’m sure. Does it matter as long as they’re honest about their situation and everyone knows the score?" exactly but people like to direct things here | |||
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"Some wives just aren’t interested full stop " It took me years to get Niki to open up sexually and come round to the idea, but I had to use the right approach and push the right buttons. | |||
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"Everyone has their reasons for being here I’m sure. Does it matter as long as they’re honest about their situation and everyone knows the score?exactly but people like to direct things here " Yeah I’ve noticed. Think I’ll get my coat!  | |||
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"Everyone has their reasons for being here I’m sure. Does it matter as long as they’re honest about their situation and everyone knows the score?exactly but people like to direct things here Yeah I’ve noticed. Think I’ll get my coat! "why have you pulled | |||
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"Some wives just aren’t interested full stop It took me years to get Niki to open up sexually and come round to the idea, but I had to use the right approach and push the right buttons. " Or did she just have enough of you banging on and gave in for a quiet life
Oooops there’s me assuming, my bad! | |||
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"Everyone has their reasons for being here I’m sure. Does it matter as long as they’re honest about their situation and everyone knows the score?" I understand that, but they're often not honest about it. I have a curious mind that's all, no problem if you're not interested | |||
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"Some wives just aren’t interested full stop It took me years to get Niki to open up sexually and come round to the idea, but I had to use the right approach and push the right buttons. Or did she just have enough of you banging on and gave in for a quiet life
Oooops there’s me assuming, my bad!"assumption is the mother of invention | |||
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"Some wives just aren’t interested full stop It took me years to get Niki to open up sexually and come round to the idea, but I had to use the right approach and push the right buttons. " 'grooming'? | |||
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"Everyone has their reasons for being here I’m sure. Does it matter as long as they’re honest about their situation and everyone knows the score? I understand that, but they're often not honest about it. I have a curious mind that's all, no problem if you're not interested" Fair enough if they’re not honest but your post stated married men so I presume they were honest about it. Good to be curious, just giving my opinion x | |||
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"Some wives just aren’t interested full stop It took me years to get Niki to open up sexually and come round to the idea, but I had to use the right approach and push the right buttons. Or did she just have enough of you banging on and gave in for a quiet life
Oooops there’s me assuming, my bad!"No, didn't bang on about it - Niki's a very strong willed woman - I mostly used to joke about it. There was a chain of events that turned it from little more than a joke to something of a reality. | |||
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"Everyone has their reasons for being here I’m sure. Does it matter as long as they’re honest about their situation and everyone knows the score? I understand that, but they're often not honest about it. I have a curious mind that's all, no problem if you're not interested Fair enough if they’re not honest but your post stated married men so I presume they were honest about it. Good to be curious, just giving my opinion x" Well glad I'm not the only one pressuming things | |||
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"Some wives just aren’t interested full stop It took me years to get Niki to open up sexually and come round to the idea, but I had to use the right approach and push the right buttons. " She wasn’t interested in sex at all and is now a swinger? Write a book and this time next year, Rodney, you’ll be a millionaire | |||
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"If only it were that simple. I suggested to my wife that that I get a fleshlight for those nights I'm away from home (I travel a lot with work) and she looked at me like I was something she'd scraped off of her shoe...."  | |||
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"We get a lot of messages from married men, presumably they're on here because they're not getting it at home. Presumably, they're not getting it at home because their wives are bored of them. Why don't they just kill two birds with one stone and get their wives going again by suggesting a couples profile on fab? Kev...Does that not count for married women as well?...or is this a "have a go at the fellas" thread?" Hehe . Women are the same but I am not that type of woman.
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"I'm sick of them and their dirty lying scheming ways! Esp when they pretend to be single! Clearly not happy in their relationship but don't have the balls to sort it or walk away" Exactly this
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"My ex wife thought that sex was for one reason only, Creating children, we had one daughter, The wife did not want any more so that was it, the matter was settled, No more sex
that's why she became the ex "I have two ex's myself - if it aint working surely the best option is to move on | |||
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"Some wives just aren’t interested full stop It took me years to get Niki to open up sexually and come round to the idea, but I had to use the right approach and push the right buttons. She wasn’t interested in sex at all and is now a swinger? Write a book and this time next year, Rodney, you’ll be a millionaire" Haha, didn't say she wasn't interested in sex at all, just a little conservative. And we're not really swingers - more poly. | |||
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"Having my ex husband cheat on me Forced sex on me. No kids. Not here to judge myself or anyone. Sex is great with the right person. Sadly some of us meet wrong uns. " Glad he's now the ex I'm really not judging anyone, was just wondering why married guys don't try to turn a negative into a positive. | |||
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"Married people have their reasons. Its a shame so many married people end up online. Various reasons why but they have needs too but I don't meet them. " Exactly! Half the people on here I won’t meet but that’s mainly coz I think their mental health is questionable not whether they’re married but I don’t judge I just don’t speak to them. | |||
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"I'm married & playing solo. We used to have a couples profile. We had several meets,but my wife decided swinging wasn't for her. For various reasons that I'm not going to discuss here she's gone right off sex with anyone including me,but is happy for me to get it else where. I have tried to get her to give swinging another go but she flatly refuses. " Shame your adventures didn't work out with your wife but great that you're honest with her | |||
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"I'm married & playing solo. We used to have a couples profile. We had several meets,but my wife decided swinging wasn't for her. For various reasons that I'm not going to discuss here she's gone right off sex with anyone including me,but is happy for me to get it else where. I have tried to get her to give swinging another go but she flatly refuses. Shame your adventures didn't work out with your wife but great that you're honest with her" Thanks. It would be easier to get meets if my wife was playing,but ever the optomist I'll keep trying. | |||
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"A thread coming from a swinger couple that are probably bored of each other. Stop making assumptions " Actually we're not bored of each other - we rarely argue, laugh a lot, live and work together, have a great relationship and a great life, but thanks for your assumption | |||
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"As you pondering OP, what’s your take on this age old fab question. Why do some people voice on a forum thread that they’re anti cheaters, dislike them blah blah blah and then still meet them, knowing full well their status ~ rather bizarre behaviour dontcha think? " I do indeed, as the saying goes: nowt stranger than folk! | |||
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"We get a lot of messages from married men, presumably they're on here because they're not getting it at home. Presumably, they're not getting it at home because their wives are bored of them. Why don't they just kill two birds with one stone and get their wives going again by suggesting a couples profile on fab? Kev...Does that not count for married women as well?...or is this a "have a go at the fellas" thread?"
There's so many married women on here but never hear such a narrow narrative towards them. Not my view, but only what I've observed on here is that if the man strays it's because the women at home must be bored of him, yet the argument if a women strays is never that the husband must be bored of her. What an outrageous, outdated and narrow view. A women version of a nandathral and chauvinist.
It's the 21st century and women or men have affairs, play around and have sex outside they're marriage for all kinds of unassuming reasons. | |||
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"No issues with married men, as long as they have permission from their wife's to meet happy to do so, however won't meet if they don't just don't like deceiving anyone.." I absolutely agree with that | |||
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"We get a lot of messages from married men, presumably they're on here because they're not getting it at home. Presumably, they're not getting it at home because their wives are bored of them. Why don't they just kill two birds with one stone and get their wives going again by suggesting a couples profile on fab? Kev...Does that not count for married women as well?...or is this a "have a go at the fellas" thread?
There's so many married women on here but never hear such a narrow narrative towards them. Not my view, but only what I've observed on here is that if the man strays it's because the women at home must be bored of him, yet the argument if a women strays is never that the husband must be bored of her. What an outrageous, outdated and narrow view. A women version of a nandathral and chauvinist.
It's the 21st century and women or men have affairs, play around and have sex outside they're marriage for all kinds of unassuming reasons. "Perhaps in my opening post I should have listed every conceivable reason a man cheats on his wife or a wife cheats on her husband - thought this could be an interesting debate rather than a critique on the width of my mind, oh well  | |||
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"Some love there wifes ……….. And to them sex is not love just like going to the loo nothing . They come and go back to the wife ." Yeah, get that - good point | |||
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"It was based on what was written, which is all I can base the debate on. Nothing more, or less. "We've never received a message from a married woman, so was writing from our experience on here rather than trying to please everyone's sensitivities - will try harder next time | |||
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"We get a lot of messages from married men, presumably they're on here because they're not getting it at home. Presumably, they're not getting it at home because their wives are bored of them. Why don't they just kill two birds with one stone and get their wives going again by suggesting a couples profile on fab? Kev...Does that not count for married women as well?...or is this a "have a go at the fellas" thread?
There's so many married women on here but never hear such a narrow narrative towards them. Not my view, but only what I've observed on here is that if the man strays it's because the women at home must be bored of him, yet the argument if a women strays is never that the husband must be bored of her. What an outrageous, outdated and narrow view. A women version of a nandathral and chauvinist.
It's the 21st century and women or men have affairs, play around and have sex outside they're marriage for all kinds of unassuming reasons.
Perhaps in my opening post I should have listed every conceivable reason a man cheats on his wife or a wife cheats on her husband - thought this could be an interesting debate rather than a critique on the width of my mind, oh well "The “interesting debate” can quite quickly turn into a bashing one. Even if you were to list every conceivable reason as to why, it’s still not one scenario fits all. No one knows or understands the relationship dynamics other than the two people in it. | |||
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"I saw on a profile once, no married men if your wife won’t fuck you why do you think I would. Bitchy but funny " | |||
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"It was based on what was written, which is all I can base the debate on. Nothing more, or less.
We've never received a message from a married woman, so was writing from our experience on here rather than trying to please everyone's sensitivities - will try harder next time "Maybe less narrow - enjoy your evening | |||
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"We get a lot of messages from married men, presumably they're on here because they're not getting it at home. Presumably, they're not getting it at home because their wives are bored of them. Why don't they just kill two birds with one stone and get their wives going again by suggesting a couples profile on fab? Kev...Does that not count for married women as well?...or is this a "have a go at the fellas" thread?
There's so many married women on here but never hear such a narrow narrative towards them. Not my view, but only what I've observed on here is that if the man strays it's because the women at home must be bored of him, yet the argument if a women strays is never that the husband must be bored of her. What an outrageous, outdated and narrow view. A women version of a nandathral and chauvinist.
It's the 21st century and women or men have affairs, play around and have sex outside they're marriage for all kinds of unassuming reasons.
Perhaps in my opening post I should have listed every conceivable reason a man cheats on his wife or a wife cheats on her husband - thought this could be an interesting debate rather than a critique on the width of my mind, oh well
The “interesting debate” can quite quickly turn into a bashing one.
Even if you were to list every conceivable reason as to why, it’s still not one scenario fits all. No one knows or understands the relationship dynamics other than the two people in it."Exactly this ^^ | |||
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"We get a lot of messages from married men, presumably they're on here because they're not getting it at home. Presumably, they're not getting it at home because their wives are bored of them. Why don't they just kill two birds with one stone and get their wives going again by suggesting a couples profile on fab? Kev...Does that not count for married women as well?...or is this a "have a go at the fellas" thread?
There's so many married women on here but never hear such a narrow narrative towards them. Not my view, but only what I've observed on here is that if the man strays it's because the women at home must be bored of him, yet the argument if a women strays is never that the husband must be bored of her. What an outrageous, outdated and narrow view. A women version of a nandathral and chauvinist.
It's the 21st century and women or men have affairs, play around and have sex outside they're marriage for all kinds of unassuming reasons.
Perhaps in my opening post I should have listed every conceivable reason a man cheats on his wife or a wife cheats on her husband - thought this could be an interesting debate rather than a critique on the width of my mind, oh well
The “interesting debate” can quite quickly turn into a bashing one.
Even if you were to list every conceivable reason as to why, it’s still not one scenario fits all. No one knows or understands the relationship dynamics other than the two people in it."Of course - that's why I didn't attempt to - buggered if I do, buggered if I don't
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"It was based on what was written, which is all I can base the debate on. Nothing more, or less.
We've never received a message from a married woman, so was writing from our experience on here rather than trying to please everyone's sensitivities - will try harder next time
Maybe less narrow - enjoy your evening "Thanks - you too | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police....." Fuck em. None of their damn business! | |||
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"Everyone has their reasons for being here I’m sure. Does it matter as long as they’re honest about their situation and everyone knows the score?" Why would you expect them to be honest here if they can't be honest with their significant other? | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police....." LOL, didn't want to stir up a shit storm, I'm sure you'll deal with it. | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business!" Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. | |||
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"Everyone has their reasons for being here I’m sure. Does it matter as long as they’re honest about their situation and everyone knows the score? Why would you expect them to be honest here if they can't be honest with their significant other?" About 20% have been honest about their situation - the other 80% weren't. They have anonymity on here, can bring the best (and the worst) out of people. | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. " Don’t do that. I know what you mean though. Nobody knows anyone’s situation and their reasons. This sort of thing annoys me. Didn’t think this would be a judgemental place tbh | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. Don’t do that. I know what you mean though. Nobody knows anyone’s situation and their reasons. This sort of thing annoys me. Didn’t think this would be a judgemental place tbh " Sadly there's nowhere more judgemental than here it seems. | |||
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"Everyone has their reasons for being here I’m sure. Does it matter as long as they’re honest about their situation and everyone knows the score? Why would you expect them to be honest here if they can't be honest with their significant other?" More of a case of being upfront, which is possible to be when meeting off here. | |||
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"Everyone has their reasons for being here I’m sure. Does it matter as long as they’re honest about their situation and everyone knows the score? Why would you expect them to be honest here if they can't be honest with their significant other? More of a case of being upfront, which is possible to be when meeting off here." Exactly | |||
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"Everyone has their reasons for being here I’m sure. Does it matter as long as they’re honest about their situation and everyone knows the score? Why would you expect them to be honest here if they can't be honest with their significant other? More of a case of being upfront, which is possible to be when meeting off here." yeah, but it's possible to be honest with the other half and up front, but they choose not to be. | |||
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"A friend of mine suggested killing two birds with one stone but he meant his and my wife! Luckily mine left me 10 years ago and his was out so we didn’t kill anyone." | |||
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"A friend of mine suggested killing two birds with one stone but he meant his and my wife! Luckily mine left me 10 years ago and his was out so we didn’t kill anyone. "You are, by the way, very, very hot. | |||
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"We get a lot of messages from married men, presumably they're on here because they're not getting it at home. Presumably, they're not getting it at home because their wives are bored of them. Why don't they just kill two birds with one stone and get their wives going again by suggesting a couples profile on fab? Kev" Maybe she was bored of you and was glad of someone else in the bedroom to satisfy her? | |||
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You are, by the way, very, very hot."Haha, Thanks, but I pressume you mean my wife (there I go again) she HATES the forums, has tried to post a couple of times but they're not for her. Would of found her lurking in Harlow's TK Maxx a couple of years ago | |||
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"Everyone has their reasons for being here I’m sure. Does it matter as long as they’re honest about their situation and everyone knows the score? Why would you expect them to be honest here if they can't be honest with their significant other? More of a case of being upfront, which is possible to be when meeting off here. yeah, but it's possible to be honest with the other half and up front, but they choose not to be." That wasn’t what you asked, and I’ve replied accordingly. They chose not to be for a reason that’s personal to them. Meeting people off t’internet for nsa sex, don’t be surprised that they may not be what they seem. | |||
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"We get a lot of messages from married men, presumably they're on here because they're not getting it at home. Presumably, they're not getting it at home because their wives are bored of them. Why don't they just kill two birds with one stone and get their wives going again by suggesting a couples profile on fab? Kev Maybe she was bored of you and was glad of someone else in the bedroom to satisfy her?" Maybe...she's always told me she's a crap actress, but maybe she's a lying little minx! | |||
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"Everyone has a different situation, they need to be honest about it so others can make an informed decision" Yep | |||
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"Everyone has a different situation, they need to be honest about it so others can make an informed decision" | |||
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"Like I’ve always said with any situation, unless you’re in it you have no idea. " and you've gotta be in it to win it | |||
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You are, by the way, very, very hot.
Haha, Thanks, but I pressume you mean my wife (there I go again) she HATES the forums, has tried to post a couple of times but they're not for her.
So sorry. Omg what to say! But never been in TK Max,
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"Like I’ve always said with any situation, unless you’re in it you have no idea. and you've gotta be in it to win it" Absolutely | |||
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"Like I’ve always said with any situation, unless you’re in it you have no idea. and you've gotta be in it to win it Absolutely "keep your eyes on the prize | |||
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"I thought we settled this issue last week and the week before that and the week before that and the week before that. Maybe I was mistaken. " It's a change from barebacking I suppose | |||
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"If only it were that simple. I suggested to my wife that that I get a fleshlight for those nights I'm away from home (I travel a lot with work) and she looked at me like I was something she'd scraped off of her shoe...." I hope you bought one anyway | |||
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"I thought we settled this issue last week and the week before that and the week before that and the week before that. Maybe I was mistaken. " It's very much a regular subject within the forum's and always will be. | |||
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"I've always been up front it's within the first few lines of my profile. I have my reasons for being here which is my business alone. Some are ok with this others just pass on by which is fine also. " Exactly it’s your business why you’re here. | |||
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"We get a lot of messages from married men, presumably they're on here because they're not getting it at home. Presumably, they're not getting it at home because their wives are bored of them. Why don't they just kill two birds with one stone and get their wives going again by suggesting a couples profile on fab? Kev" May I suggest you include the line "No married men........" as the FIRST line of your profile text? You may have less married men contacting you then. You're welcome | |||
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I just wonder if their wives are playing away just as they are. Maybe they are! | |||
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"I saw on a profile once, no married men if your wife won’t fuck you why do you think I would. Bitchy but funny " LOL! Savage | |||
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"It was more a 'why don't they get their wives involved' rathet than a right/wrong thread. My first wife (then girlfriend) looked at me in disgust when I first suggested she should try sex with another woman - she said bi-sexuals were nymphomaniacs! I laughed and didn't really bring the subject up again, until three days later when she confessed to "desperately" wanting a woman. We had several FFM's then a full time poly relationship with a female work colleague for a couple of years. Niki had no interest in a threesome when I first mentioned it - but I continued to joke about it - never in a million years did I think she would come round to and then love the idea. So that was really my point (obviously poorly worded), perhaps it is often badly received initially, but many could come round to the suggestion if handled right. If my poor writing style annoys you, the subject bores or offends you, don't add to it - saying it doesn't interest you or bores you just extends the thread! " I think it might have annoyed some people because the question is never put to married women cheating on their partners. I guess some people respond negatively to double standards. | |||
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"We get a lot of messages from married men, presumably they're on here because they're not getting it at home. Presumably, they're not getting it at home because their wives are bored of them. Why don't they just kill two birds with one stone and get their wives going again by suggesting a couples profile on fab? Kev" Presumably they are not getting it at home cos they are fucking shit at it. | |||
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"It was more a 'why don't they get their wives involved' rathet than a right/wrong thread. My first wife (then girlfriend) looked at me in disgust when I first suggested she should try sex with another woman - she said bi-sexuals were nymphomaniacs! I laughed and didn't really bring the subject up again, until three days later when she confessed to "desperately" wanting a woman. We had several FFM's then a full time poly relationship with a female work colleague for a couple of years. Niki had no interest in a threesome when I first mentioned it - but I continued to joke about it - never in a million years did I think she would come round to and then love the idea. So that was really my point (obviously poorly worded), perhaps it is often badly received initially, but many could come round to the suggestion if handled right. If my poor writing style annoys you, the subject bores or offends you, don't add to it - saying it doesn't interest you or bores you just extends the thread! I think it might have annoyed some people because the question is never put to married women cheating on their partners. I guess some people respond negatively to double standards. " But these annoyed people could always start a thread themselves and put their thoughts out there about married women. A cheat is a cheat in my book regardless of gender. Not my business why they do what they do! | |||
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"We get a lot of messages from married men, presumably they're on here because they're not getting it at home. Presumably, they're not getting it at home because their wives are bored of them. Why don't they just kill two birds with one stone and get their wives going again by suggesting a couples profile on fab? Kev Presumably they are not getting it at home cos they are fucking shit at it. " What a piss-poor presumption! | |||
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"It was more a 'why don't they get their wives involved' rathet than a right/wrong thread. My first wife (then girlfriend) looked at me in disgust when I first suggested she should try sex with another woman - she said bi-sexuals were nymphomaniacs! I laughed and didn't really bring the subject up again, until three days later when she confessed to "desperately" wanting a woman. We had several FFM's then a full time poly relationship with a female work colleague for a couple of years. Niki had no interest in a threesome when I first mentioned it - but I continued to joke about it - never in a million years did I think she would come round to and then love the idea. So that was really my point (obviously poorly worded), perhaps it is often badly received initially, but many could come round to the suggestion if handled right. If my poor writing style annoys you, the subject bores or offends you, don't add to it - saying it doesn't interest you or bores you just extends the thread! I think it might have annoyed some people because the question is never put to married women cheating on their partners. I guess some people respond negatively to double standards. But these annoyed people could always start a thread themselves and put their thoughts out there about married women. A cheat is a cheat in my book regardless of gender. Not my business why they do what they do! "Maybe they don't have any thoughts on married women either way, so they don't feel the need to start a thread about it. I think you've missed my point. | |||
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"We get a lot of messages from married men, presumably they're on here because they're not getting it at home. Presumably, they're not getting it at home because their wives are bored of them. Why don't they just kill two birds with one stone and get their wives going again by suggesting a couples profile on fab? Kev Presumably they are not getting it at home cos they are fucking shit at it. What a piss-poor presumption!" So were all the other presumptions before mine. Obviously you are fantastic at it. | |||
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"It was more a 'why don't they get their wives involved' rathet than a right/wrong thread. My first wife (then girlfriend) looked at me in disgust when I first suggested she should try sex with another woman - she said bi-sexuals were nymphomaniacs! I laughed and didn't really bring the subject up again, until three days later when she confessed to "desperately" wanting a woman. We had several FFM's then a full time poly relationship with a female work colleague for a couple of years. Niki had no interest in a threesome when I first mentioned it - but I continued to joke about it - never in a million years did I think she would come round to and then love the idea. So that was really my point (obviously poorly worded), perhaps it is often badly received initially, but many could come round to the suggestion if handled right. If my poor writing style annoys you, the subject bores or offends you, don't add to it - saying it doesn't interest you or bores you just extends the thread! I think it might have annoyed some people because the question is never put to married women cheating on their partners. I guess some people respond negatively to double standards. But these annoyed people could always start a thread themselves and put their thoughts out there about married women. A cheat is a cheat in my book regardless of gender. Not my business why they do what they do!
Maybe they don't have any thoughts on married women either way, so they don't feel the need to start a thread about it.
I think you've missed my point."Nah I got it. I just don’t get the “What about this gender” moaning on here. Someone posts about their personal experiences & it triggers people who want it to reflect every gender, colour, race & creed. A lady made a thread the other day about abuse she had got from men when she rejected them. Lots of men came on to moan and say “What about all the women that send abuse” well the female was straight and only seeking men so she wouldn’t have a clue on women sending abuse would she. | |||
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"It was more a 'why don't they get their wives involved' rathet than a right/wrong thread. My first wife (then girlfriend) looked at me in disgust when I first suggested she should try sex with another woman - she said bi-sexuals were nymphomaniacs! I laughed and didn't really bring the subject up again, until three days later when she confessed to "desperately" wanting a woman. We had several FFM's then a full time poly relationship with a female work colleague for a couple of years. Niki had no interest in a threesome when I first mentioned it - but I continued to joke about it - never in a million years did I think she would come round to and then love the idea. So that was really my point (obviously poorly worded), perhaps it is often badly received initially, but many could come round to the suggestion if handled right. If my poor writing style annoys you, the subject bores or offends you, don't add to it - saying it doesn't interest you or bores you just extends the thread! I think it might have annoyed some people because the question is never put to married women cheating on their partners. I guess some people respond negatively to double standards. But these annoyed people could always start a thread themselves and put their thoughts out there about married women. A cheat is a cheat in my book regardless of gender. Not my business why they do what they do!
Maybe they don't have any thoughts on married women either way, so they don't feel the need to start a thread about it.
I think you've missed my point.
Nah I got it.
I just don’t get the “What about this gender” moaning on here. Someone posts about their personal experiences & it triggers people who want it to reflect every gender, colour, race & creed.
A lady made a thread the other day about abuse she had got from men when she rejected them. Lots of men came on to moan and say “What about all the women that send abuse” well the female was straight and only seeking men so she wouldn’t have a clue on women sending abuse would she. "No, I really don't think you did. | |||
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"It was more a 'why don't they get their wives involved' rathet than a right/wrong thread. My first wife (then girlfriend) looked at me in disgust when I first suggested she should try sex with another woman - she said bi-sexuals were nymphomaniacs! I laughed and didn't really bring the subject up again, until three days later when she confessed to "desperately" wanting a woman. We had several FFM's then a full time poly relationship with a female work colleague for a couple of years. Niki had no interest in a threesome when I first mentioned it - but I continued to joke about it - never in a million years did I think she would come round to and then love the idea. So that was really my point (obviously poorly worded), perhaps it is often badly received initially, but many could come round to the suggestion if handled right. If my poor writing style annoys you, the subject bores or offends you, don't add to it - saying it doesn't interest you or bores you just extends the thread! I think it might have annoyed some people because the question is never put to married women cheating on their partners. I guess some people respond negatively to double standards. But these annoyed people could always start a thread themselves and put their thoughts out there about married women. A cheat is a cheat in my book regardless of gender. Not my business why they do what they do!
Maybe they don't have any thoughts on married women either way, so they don't feel the need to start a thread about it.
I think you've missed my point.
Nah I got it.
I just don’t get the “What about this gender” moaning on here. Someone posts about their personal experiences & it triggers people who want it to reflect every gender, colour, race & creed.
A lady made a thread the other day about abuse she had got from men when she rejected them. Lots of men came on to moan and say “What about all the women that send abuse” well the female was straight and only seeking men so she wouldn’t have a clue on women sending abuse would she.
No, I really don't think you did."Alright love. As you were. | |||
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"It was more a 'why don't they get their wives involved' rathet than a right/wrong thread. My first wife (then girlfriend) looked at me in disgust when I first suggested she should try sex with another woman - she said bi-sexuals were nymphomaniacs! I laughed and didn't really bring the subject up again, until three days later when she confessed to "desperately" wanting a woman. We had several FFM's then a full time poly relationship with a female work colleague for a couple of years. Niki had no interest in a threesome when I first mentioned it - but I continued to joke about it - never in a million years did I think she would come round to and then love the idea. So that was really my point (obviously poorly worded), perhaps it is often badly received initially, but many could come round to the suggestion if handled right. If my poor writing style annoys you, the subject bores or offends you, don't add to it - saying it doesn't interest you or bores you just extends the thread! I think it might have annoyed some people because the question is never put to married women cheating on their partners. I guess some people respond negatively to double standards. But these annoyed people could always start a thread themselves and put their thoughts out there about married women. A cheat is a cheat in my book regardless of gender. Not my business why they do what they do!
Maybe they don't have any thoughts on married women either way, so they don't feel the need to start a thread about it.
I think you've missed my point.
Nah I got it.
I just don’t get the “What about this gender” moaning on here. Someone posts about their personal experiences & it triggers people who want it to reflect every gender, colour, race & creed.
A lady made a thread the other day about abuse she had got from men when she rejected them. Lots of men came on to moan and say “What about all the women that send abuse” well the female was straight and only seeking men so she wouldn’t have a clue on women sending abuse would she.
No, I really don't think you did.
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. " I just want people to be honest about their situation. I’ve met 3 guys on here that failed to tell me about their partner, I found out on Facebook as they came up on people you may know as we chatted on WhatsApp. My profile states no attached men playing away. I’ve been married and we broke up when we realised we weren’t sexually compatible. Still love each other as friends but would never have cheated on each other. I couldn’t do that to someone I really loved. Guys just need to be upfront so I can tell them I’m not interested from the start. | |||
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"We get a lot of messages from married men, presumably they're on here because they're not getting it at home. Presumably, they're not getting it at home because their wives are bored of them. Why don't they just kill two birds with one stone and get their wives going again by suggesting a couples profile on fab? Kev" I don't know how many times I've asked that and never got a reply!!! | |||
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"We get a lot of messages from married men, presumably they're on here because they're not getting it at home. Presumably, they're not getting it at home because their wives are bored of them. Why don't they just kill two birds with one stone and get their wives going again by suggesting a couples profile on fab? Kev I don't know how many times I've asked that and never got a reply!!!" I actually did suggest that to my wife but she wasn't interested | |||
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"I'm sick of them and their dirty lying scheming ways! Esp when they pretend to be single! Clearly not happy in their relationship but don't have the balls to sort it or walk away" So the husband walks away from his marriage and kids..... He now lives at home with his parents because he has to pay child support and a mortgage.... Is he still the man of your dreams? | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. I just want people to be honest about their situation. I’ve met 3 guys on here that failed to tell me about their partner, I found out on Facebook as they came up on people you may know as we chatted on WhatsApp. My profile states no attached men playing away. I’ve been married and we broke up when we realised we weren’t sexually compatible. Still love each other as friends but would never have cheated on each other. I couldn’t do that to someone I really loved. Guys just need to be upfront so I can tell them I’m not interested from the start. " But what if his wife is in prison? What if his wife is working abroad? | |||
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"We get a lot of messages from married men, presumably they're on here because they're not getting it at home. Presumably, they're not getting it at home because their wives are bored of them. Why don't they just kill two birds with one stone and get their wives going again by suggesting a couples profile on fab? Kev Presumably they are not getting it at home cos they are fucking shit at it. "  | |||
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"We get a lot of messages from married men, presumably they're on here because they're not getting it at home. Presumably, they're not getting it at home because their wives are bored of them. Why don't they just kill two birds with one stone and get their wives going again by suggesting a couples profile on fab? Kev" If I was bored of my husband and wasn't sexually attracted to him, I wouldn't want to be used as bait just so he could fuck someone else. | |||
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"These type threads are such good filters. " Agreed | |||
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"These type threads are such good filters. " loving your new profile pic | |||
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"One thing that always crosses my mind when I get messages from people who are attached and playing without their partner's knowledge and consent is: "If he/she doesn't want to fuck you then why do you think I want to?" Perhaps the problem at home isn't their husband/wife and it's them that's just a bit of a dick." But why assume that that person isn't getting sex at home? Why assume the husband/wife at home is capable of having sex? Why assume that the other half wants to know? Lots of very silly assumptions going on as usual in the forums | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. I just want people to be honest about their situation. I’ve met 3 guys on here that failed to tell me about their partner, I found out on Facebook as they came up on people you may know as we chatted on WhatsApp. My profile states no attached men playing away. I’ve been married and we broke up when we realised we weren’t sexually compatible. Still love each other as friends but would never have cheated on each other. I couldn’t do that to someone I really loved. Guys just need to be upfront so I can tell them I’m not interested from the start. But what if his wife is in prison? What if his wife is working abroad? " What about it? I still want honesty and I still wouldn’t want to meet them. | |||
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"Some wives just aren’t interested full stop " This is the reason. If she wont make curry you get a takeaway same principle | |||
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"Some wives just aren’t interested full stop This is the reason. If she wont make curry you get a takeaway same principle " Cute. | |||
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"One thing that always crosses my mind when I get messages from people who are attached and playing without their partner's knowledge and consent is: "If he/she doesn't want to fuck you then why do you think I want to?" Perhaps the problem at home isn't their husband/wife and it's them that's just a bit of a dick. But why assume that that person isn't getting sex at home? Why assume the husband/wife at home is capable of having sex? Why assume that the other half wants to know? Lots of very silly assumptions going on as usual in the forums " | |||
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"We get a lot of messages from married men, presumably they're on here because they're not getting it at home. Presumably, they're not getting it at home because their wives are bored of them. Why don't they just kill two birds with one stone and get their wives going again by suggesting a couples profile on fab? Kev" maybe they are just highly sexed and need more than the conventional horny wife can achieve maybe she's said to him get out there and get some take the pressure off me will you darling love you | |||
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"There are hundreds of married abd cheating people on here who are quietly going about their own business, meeting singles and married people without making a song and dance about it. Allowing people to make an informed choice is the absolute right thing to do. Where it all goes wrong time and time again is when people declare they are married and get abuse for it from people with a different moral position. This in turns drives the cheats underground. Believe it or not, cheats aren't always on here just for the sex. It can be about companionship ans understanding. They may have exhausted every other avenue at home, may be in a situation that they don't want to be in but cannot get out of. They actually may love their partner but their partner gives nothing back. Some of us may be here for things they don't get at home, like sex, anal, threesomes, watersports, a hug, a kind word, the occasional kiss or being listened to without being judged. Nothing is ever as simple as it is made out to be. Please walk a mile in my shoes before you criticise me. Then you'll have fucked feet and you'll be a mile away and I won't have to listen to you." Agree with that | |||
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"There are hundreds of married abd cheating people on here who are quietly going about their own business, meeting singles and married people without making a song and dance about it. Allowing people to make an informed choice is the absolute right thing to do. Where it all goes wrong time and time again is when people declare they are married and get abuse for it from people with a different moral position. This in turns drives the cheats underground. Believe it or not, cheats aren't always on here just for the sex. It can be about companionship ans understanding. They may have exhausted every other avenue at home, may be in a situation that they don't want to be in but cannot get out of. They actually may love their partner but their partner gives nothing back. Some of us may be here for things they don't get at home, like sex, anal, threesomes, watersports, a hug, a kind word, the occasional kiss or being listened to without being judged. Nothing is ever as simple as it is made out to be. Please walk a mile in my shoes before you criticise me. Then you'll have fucked feet and you'll be a mile away and I won't have to listen to you." Everyone judges. People are allowed their opinions. If they have judged you incorrectly why does it bother you? They won't know your personal situation so why care if they think you are a bad person? | |||
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"That's a lot of presuming
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"There are hundreds of married abd cheating people on here who are quietly going about their own business, meeting singles and married people without making a song and dance about it. Allowing people to make an informed choice is the absolute right thing to do. Where it all goes wrong time and time again is when people declare they are married and get abuse for it from people with a different moral position. This in turns drives the cheats underground. Believe it or not, cheats aren't always on here just for the sex. It can be about companionship ans understanding. They may have exhausted every other avenue at home, may be in a situation that they don't want to be in but cannot get out of. They actually may love their partner but their partner gives nothing back. Some of us may be here for things they don't get at home, like sex, anal, threesomes, watersports, a hug, a kind word, the occasional kiss or being listened to without being judged. Nothing is ever as simple as it is made out to be. Please walk a mile in my shoes before you criticise me. Then you'll have fucked feet and you'll be a mile away and I won't have to listen to you. Everyone judges. People are allowed their opinions. If they have judged you incorrectly why does it bother you? They won't know your personal situation so why care if they think you are a bad person? "I couldn't write a sensible post without being a twat somewhere along the line | |||
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"Why assume he's not getting any at home, maybe he just loves sex and meeting up for fun is just something he likes to do, don't understand why some people say I'm not interested if married, it's a sex site why are you bothered, just have fun and go your separate ways " Because people are allowed to choose who they want to meet. It’s all about choice. I don’t want to meet married men as I don’t want to have an angry wife calling/stalking me if he ever gets found out, it’s happened before when he claimed he was single. I also don’t condone cheating however I will not judge anyone’s situation, nor will I get involved. You could say “why do some people have age/race/size preferences, it’s a sex site why are you bothered” People are allowed to have a preference on here and anywhere else. If someone doesn’t want to meet married men or women that is entirely their choice. | |||
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"There are hundreds of married abd cheating people on here who are quietly going about their own business, meeting singles and married people without making a song and dance about it. Allowing people to make an informed choice is the absolute right thing to do. Where it all goes wrong time and time again is when people declare they are married and get abuse for it from people with a different moral position. This in turns drives the cheats underground. Believe it or not, cheats aren't always on here just for the sex. It can be about companionship ans understanding. They may have exhausted every other avenue at home, may be in a situation that they don't want to be in but cannot get out of. They actually may love their partner but their partner gives nothing back. Some of us may be here for things they don't get at home, like sex, anal, threesomes, watersports, a hug, a kind word, the occasional kiss or being listened to without being judged. Nothing is ever as simple as it is made out to be. Please walk a mile in my shoes before you criticise me. Then you'll have fucked feet and you'll be a mile away and I won't have to listen to you. Everyone judges. People are allowed their opinions. If they have judged you incorrectly why does it bother you? They won't know your personal situation so why care if they think you are a bad person? " | |||
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"Why assume he's not getting any at home, maybe he just loves sex and meeting up for fun is just something he likes to do, don't understand why some people say I'm not interested if married, it's a sex site why are you bothered, just have fun and go your separate ways Because people are allowed to choose who they want to meet. It’s all about choice. I don’t want to meet married men as I don’t want to have an angry wife calling/stalking me if he ever gets found out, it’s happened before when he claimed he was single. I also don’t condone cheating however I will not judge anyone’s situation, nor will I get involved. You could say “why do some people have age/race/size preferences, it’s a sex site why are you bothered” People are allowed to have a preference on here and anywhere else. If someone doesn’t want to meet married men or women that is entirely their choice. " | |||
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"Why assume he's not getting any at home, maybe he just loves sex and meeting up for fun is just something he likes to do, don't understand why some people say I'm not interested if married, it's a sex site why are you bothered, just have fun and go your separate ways " It’s a swinging site. | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. I just want people to be honest about their situation. I’ve met 3 guys on here that failed to tell me about their partner, I found out on Facebook as they came up on people you may know as we chatted on WhatsApp. My profile states no attached men playing away. I’ve been married and we broke up when we realised we weren’t sexually compatible. Still love each other as friends but would never have cheated on each other. I couldn’t do that to someone I really loved. Guys just need to be upfront so I can tell them I’m not interested from the start. But what if his wife is in prison? What if his wife is working abroad? What about it? I still want honesty and I still wouldn’t want to meet them. " Agreed. I want honesty too, however we are asking for honesty from people who lie to one of the most important people in their lives, their significant other. We want honesty, but are we really going to get it?  | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. I just want people to be honest about their situation. I’ve met 3 guys on here that failed to tell me about their partner, I found out on Facebook as they came up on people you may know as we chatted on WhatsApp. My profile states no attached men playing away. I’ve been married and we broke up when we realised we weren’t sexually compatible. Still love each other as friends but would never have cheated on each other. I couldn’t do that to someone I really loved. Guys just need to be upfront so I can tell them I’m not interested from the start. But what if his wife is in prison? What if his wife is working abroad? What about it? I still want honesty and I still wouldn’t want to meet them. Agreed. I want honesty too, however we are asking for honesty from people who lie to one of the most important people in their lives, their significant other. We want honesty, but are we really going to get it? "I keep pointing that out! From experience, I would say a good majority of "single" men on here are attached in some way. | |||
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"We get a lot of messages from married men, presumably they're on here because they're not getting it at home. Presumably, they're not getting it at home because their wives are bored of them. Why don't they just kill two birds with one stone and get their wives going again by suggesting a couples profile on fab? Kev" That’s a lot of presumptions. I’m none of the above but I do think it’s wrong to presume and judge on no evidence. | |||
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"Like I’ve always said with any situation, unless you’re in it you have no idea. " | |||
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"Why assume he's not getting any at home, maybe he just loves sex and meeting up for fun is just something he likes to do, don't understand why some people say I'm not interested if married, it's a sex site why are you bothered, just have fun and go your separate ways " While many do have that attitude towards married people on the site, many don't and that's their prerogative. I personally don't care about why people cheat, and don't make any assumptions, but I don't want to meet them. Not only because I don't want to be involved in any potential drama, but also because their free time is limited and usually overnight meets aren't an option. | |||
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"That's a lot of presuming
Haha, yes I suppose it is - but even if I've presumed wrongly, still wonder why they feel the need to cheat on their wife rather than get her involved
How about the cheating women on fab?"That's obviously not so much of an issue... | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. I just want people to be honest about their situation. I’ve met 3 guys on here that failed to tell me about their partner, I found out on Facebook as they came up on people you may know as we chatted on WhatsApp. My profile states no attached men playing away. I’ve been married and we broke up when we realised we weren’t sexually compatible. Still love each other as friends but would never have cheated on each other. I couldn’t do that to someone I really loved. Guys just need to be upfront so I can tell them I’m not interested from the start. But what if his wife is in prison? What if his wife is working abroad? What about it? I still want honesty and I still wouldn’t want to meet them. Agreed. I want honesty too, however we are asking for honesty from people who lie to one of the most important people in their lives, their significant other. We want honesty, but are we really going to get it?
I keep pointing that out!
From experience, I would say a good majority of "single" men on here are attached in some way. "It’s why I get to know people away from here on whatsapp. I usually find out if they are not being honest quite quickly. Only had that a few times thankfully. Most I’ve met from here are genuinely single. | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. I just want people to be honest about their situation. I’ve met 3 guys on here that failed to tell me about their partner, I found out on Facebook as they came up on people you may know as we chatted on WhatsApp. My profile states no attached men playing away. I’ve been married and we broke up when we realised we weren’t sexually compatible. Still love each other as friends but would never have cheated on each other. I couldn’t do that to someone I really loved. Guys just need to be upfront so I can tell them I’m not interested from the start. But what if his wife is in prison? What if his wife is working abroad? What about it? I still want honesty and I still wouldn’t want to meet them. Agreed. I want honesty too, however we are asking for honesty from people who lie to one of the most important people in their lives, their significant other. We want honesty, but are we really going to get it?
I keep pointing that out!
From experience, I would say a good majority of "single" men on here are attached in some way.
It’s why I get to know people away from here on whatsapp. I usually find out if they are not being honest quite quickly. Only had that a few times thankfully. Most I’ve met from here are genuinely single. "Ya it's not usually that hard to suss out. I've found if you ask straight out, people are usually upfront. | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. I just want people to be honest about their situation. I’ve met 3 guys on here that failed to tell me about their partner, I found out on Facebook as they came up on people you may know as we chatted on WhatsApp. My profile states no attached men playing away. I’ve been married and we broke up when we realised we weren’t sexually compatible. Still love each other as friends but would never have cheated on each other. I couldn’t do that to someone I really loved. Guys just need to be upfront so I can tell them I’m not interested from the start. But what if his wife is in prison? What if his wife is working abroad? What about it? I still want honesty and I still wouldn’t want to meet them. Agreed. I want honesty too, however we are asking for honesty from people who lie to one of the most important people in their lives, their significant other. We want honesty, but are we really going to get it? "And that’s why I will not have respect for someone that can lie to someone they love very much. My body, my choice. Don’t want any drama or restrictions. | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. I just want people to be honest about their situation. I’ve met 3 guys on here that failed to tell me about their partner, I found out on Facebook as they came up on people you may know as we chatted on WhatsApp. My profile states no attached men playing away. I’ve been married and we broke up when we realised we weren’t sexually compatible. Still love each other as friends but would never have cheated on each other. I couldn’t do that to someone I really loved. Guys just need to be upfront so I can tell them I’m not interested from the start. But what if his wife is in prison? What if his wife is working abroad? What about it? I still want honesty and I still wouldn’t want to meet them. Agreed. I want honesty too, however we are asking for honesty from people who lie to one of the most important people in their lives, their significant other. We want honesty, but are we really going to get it?
I keep pointing that out!
From experience, I would say a good majority of "single" men on here are attached in some way.
It’s why I get to know people away from here on whatsapp. I usually find out if they are not being honest quite quickly. Only had that a few times thankfully. Most I’ve met from here are genuinely single.
Ya it's not usually that hard to suss out. I've found if you ask straight out, people are usually upfront."One guy on here that I liked very much didn’t tell me. He knew I wouldn’t speak to him if he had. I found out via his business as his partner is part of it. Then Facebook revealed he also had a child. I felt sick. It was hard as I had feelings. He still wants to meet me and won’t let it go. So frustrating as I didn’t ask for any of that. | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. I just want people to be honest about their situation. I’ve met 3 guys on here that failed to tell me about their partner, I found out on Facebook as they came up on people you may know as we chatted on WhatsApp. My profile states no attached men playing away. I’ve been married and we broke up when we realised we weren’t sexually compatible. Still love each other as friends but would never have cheated on each other. I couldn’t do that to someone I really loved. Guys just need to be upfront so I can tell them I’m not interested from the start. But what if his wife is in prison? What if his wife is working abroad? What about it? I still want honesty and I still wouldn’t want to meet them. Agreed. I want honesty too, however we are asking for honesty from people who lie to one of the most important people in their lives, their significant other. We want honesty, but are we really going to get it?
I keep pointing that out!
From experience, I would say a good majority of "single" men on here are attached in some way.
It’s why I get to know people away from here on whatsapp. I usually find out if they are not being honest quite quickly. Only had that a few times thankfully. Most I’ve met from here are genuinely single.
Ya it's not usually that hard to suss out. I've found if you ask straight out, people are usually upfront.
One guy on here that I liked very much didn’t tell me. He knew I wouldn’t speak to him if he had. I found out via his business as his partner is part of it. Then Facebook revealed he also had a child. I felt sick. It was hard as I had feelings. He still wants to meet me and won’t let it go. So frustrating as I didn’t ask for any of that. "Sorry to hear that. Life can be shit sometimes... | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. I just want people to be honest about their situation. I’ve met 3 guys on here that failed to tell me about their partner, I found out on Facebook as they came up on people you may know as we chatted on WhatsApp. My profile states no attached men playing away. I’ve been married and we broke up when we realised we weren’t sexually compatible. Still love each other as friends but would never have cheated on each other. I couldn’t do that to someone I really loved. Guys just need to be upfront so I can tell them I’m not interested from the start. But what if his wife is in prison? What if his wife is working abroad? What about it? I still want honesty and I still wouldn’t want to meet them. Agreed. I want honesty too, however we are asking for honesty from people who lie to one of the most important people in their lives, their significant other. We want honesty, but are we really going to get it?
I keep pointing that out!
From experience, I would say a good majority of "single" men on here are attached in some way.
It’s why I get to know people away from here on whatsapp. I usually find out if they are not being honest quite quickly. Only had that a few times thankfully. Most I’ve met from here are genuinely single.
Ya it's not usually that hard to suss out. I've found if you ask straight out, people are usually upfront.
One guy on here that I liked very much didn’t tell me. He knew I wouldn’t speak to him if he had. I found out via his business as his partner is part of it. Then Facebook revealed he also had a child. I felt sick. It was hard as I had feelings. He still wants to meet me and won’t let it go. So frustrating as I didn’t ask for any of that. "That's shit | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. I just want people to be honest about their situation. I’ve met 3 guys on here that failed to tell me about their partner, I found out on Facebook as they came up on people you may know as we chatted on WhatsApp. My profile states no attached men playing away. I’ve been married and we broke up when we realised we weren’t sexually compatible. Still love each other as friends but would never have cheated on each other. I couldn’t do that to someone I really loved. Guys just need to be upfront so I can tell them I’m not interested from the start. But what if his wife is in prison? What if his wife is working abroad? What about it? I still want honesty and I still wouldn’t want to meet them. Agreed. I want honesty too, however we are asking for honesty from people who lie to one of the most important people in their lives, their significant other. We want honesty, but are we really going to get it?
I keep pointing that out!
From experience, I would say a good majority of "single" men on here are attached in some way. "to their umbilical cords yes I agree | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. I just want people to be honest about their situation. I’ve met 3 guys on here that failed to tell me about their partner, I found out on Facebook as they came up on people you may know as we chatted on WhatsApp. My profile states no attached men playing away. I’ve been married and we broke up when we realised we weren’t sexually compatible. Still love each other as friends but would never have cheated on each other. I couldn’t do that to someone I really loved. Guys just need to be upfront so I can tell them I’m not interested from the start. But what if his wife is in prison? What if his wife is working abroad? What about it? I still want honesty and I still wouldn’t want to meet them. Agreed. I want honesty too, however we are asking for honesty from people who lie to one of the most important people in their lives, their significant other. We want honesty, but are we really going to get it?
And that’s why I will not have respect for someone that can lie to someone they love very much. My body, my choice. Don’t want any drama or restrictions. "I think a lot of blokes aren't particularly in love with their partners. They get involved with someone who is OK, and end up living with them because it's comfortable and safe. Hence a lack of compunction in shagging around. | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. I just want people to be honest about their situation. I’ve met 3 guys on here that failed to tell me about their partner, I found out on Facebook as they came up on people you may know as we chatted on WhatsApp. My profile states no attached men playing away. I’ve been married and we broke up when we realised we weren’t sexually compatible. Still love each other as friends but would never have cheated on each other. I couldn’t do that to someone I really loved. Guys just need to be upfront so I can tell them I’m not interested from the start. But what if his wife is in prison? What if his wife is working abroad? What about it? I still want honesty and I still wouldn’t want to meet them. Agreed. I want honesty too, however we are asking for honesty from people who lie to one of the most important people in their lives, their significant other. We want honesty, but are we really going to get it?
I keep pointing that out!
From experience, I would say a good majority of "single" men on here are attached in some way.
It’s why I get to know people away from here on whatsapp. I usually find out if they are not being honest quite quickly. Only had that a few times thankfully. Most I’ve met from here are genuinely single.
Ya it's not usually that hard to suss out. I've found if you ask straight out, people are usually upfront.
One guy on here that I liked very much didn’t tell me. He knew I wouldn’t speak to him if he had. I found out via his business as his partner is part of it. Then Facebook revealed he also had a child. I felt sick. It was hard as I had feelings. He still wants to meet me and won’t let it go. So frustrating as I didn’t ask for any of that.
Sorry to hear that. Life can be shit sometimes... "It’s ok, I’ve met a guy that is definitely single and a lot of fun. We shall see. | |||
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"Some wives just aren’t interested full stop " and some partners are and still the other half strays. I'd say 9 times out of 10 when a man says he isn't getting it at home he is lying. | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. I just want people to be honest about their situation. I’ve met 3 guys on here that failed to tell me about their partner, I found out on Facebook as they came up on people you may know as we chatted on WhatsApp. My profile states no attached men playing away. I’ve been married and we broke up when we realised we weren’t sexually compatible. Still love each other as friends but would never have cheated on each other. I couldn’t do that to someone I really loved. Guys just need to be upfront so I can tell them I’m not interested from the start. But what if his wife is in prison? What if his wife is working abroad? What about it? I still want honesty and I still wouldn’t want to meet them. Agreed. I want honesty too, however we are asking for honesty from people who lie to one of the most important people in their lives, their significant other. We want honesty, but are we really going to get it?
And that’s why I will not have respect for someone that can lie to someone they love very much. My body, my choice. Don’t want any drama or restrictions.
I think a lot of blokes aren't particularly in love with their partners. They get involved with someone who is OK, and end up living with them because it's comfortable and safe. Hence a lack of compunction in shagging around. "that has to be a grossly inaccurate generalisation | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. I just want people to be honest about their situation. I’ve met 3 guys on here that failed to tell me about their partner, I found out on Facebook as they came up on people you may know as we chatted on WhatsApp. My profile states no attached men playing away. I’ve been married and we broke up when we realised we weren’t sexually compatible. Still love each other as friends but would never have cheated on each other. I couldn’t do that to someone I really loved. Guys just need to be upfront so I can tell them I’m not interested from the start. But what if his wife is in prison? What if his wife is working abroad? What about it? I still want honesty and I still wouldn’t want to meet them. Agreed. I want honesty too, however we are asking for honesty from people who lie to one of the most important people in their lives, their significant other. We want honesty, but are we really going to get it?
And that’s why I will not have respect for someone that can lie to someone they love very much. My body, my choice. Don’t want any drama or restrictions.
I think a lot of blokes aren't particularly in love with their partners. They get involved with someone who is OK, and end up living with them because it's comfortable and safe. Hence a lack of compunction in shagging around. that has to be a grossly inaccurate generalisation "Me too! Like I said before. Nobody knows people’s reasons and as with anything unless you’re in their shoes you have no idea and therefore no right to judge. Having said that people should be upfront with what situation they’re in as that is unfair on the other person they may be meeting/getting involved with. | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. I just want people to be honest about their situation. I’ve met 3 guys on here that failed to tell me about their partner, I found out on Facebook as they came up on people you may know as we chatted on WhatsApp. My profile states no attached men playing away. I’ve been married and we broke up when we realised we weren’t sexually compatible. Still love each other as friends but would never have cheated on each other. I couldn’t do that to someone I really loved. Guys just need to be upfront so I can tell them I’m not interested from the start. But what if his wife is in prison? What if his wife is working abroad? What about it? I still want honesty and I still wouldn’t want to meet them. Agreed. I want honesty too, however we are asking for honesty from people who lie to one of the most important people in their lives, their significant other. We want honesty, but are we really going to get it?
And that’s why I will not have respect for someone that can lie to someone they love very much. My body, my choice. Don’t want any drama or restrictions.
I think a lot of blokes aren't particularly in love with their partners. They get involved with someone who is OK, and end up living with them because it's comfortable and safe. Hence a lack of compunction in shagging around. that has to be a grossly inaccurate generalisation
Me too! Like I said before. Nobody knows people’s reasons and as with anything unless you’re in their shoes you have no idea and therefore no right to judge. Having said that people should be upfront with what situation they’re in as that is unfair on the other person they may be meeting/getting involved with. "I agree | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. I just want people to be honest about their situation. I’ve met 3 guys on here that failed to tell me about their partner, I found out on Facebook as they came up on people you may know as we chatted on WhatsApp. My profile states no attached men playing away. I’ve been married and we broke up when we realised we weren’t sexually compatible. Still love each other as friends but would never have cheated on each other. I couldn’t do that to someone I really loved. Guys just need to be upfront so I can tell them I’m not interested from the start. But what if his wife is in prison? What if his wife is working abroad? What about it? I still want honesty and I still wouldn’t want to meet them. Agreed. I want honesty too, however we are asking for honesty from people who lie to one of the most important people in their lives, their significant other. We want honesty, but are we really going to get it?
And that’s why I will not have respect for someone that can lie to someone they love very much. My body, my choice. Don’t want any drama or restrictions. "This | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. I just want people to be honest about their situation. I’ve met 3 guys on here that failed to tell me about their partner, I found out on Facebook as they came up on people you may know as we chatted on WhatsApp. My profile states no attached men playing away. I’ve been married and we broke up when we realised we weren’t sexually compatible. Still love each other as friends but would never have cheated on each other. I couldn’t do that to someone I really loved. Guys just need to be upfront so I can tell them I’m not interested from the start. But what if his wife is in prison? What if his wife is working abroad? What about it? I still want honesty and I still wouldn’t want to meet them. Agreed. I want honesty too, however we are asking for honesty from people who lie to one of the most important people in their lives, their significant other. We want honesty, but are we really going to get it?
And that’s why I will not have respect for someone that can lie to someone they love very much. My body, my choice. Don’t want any drama or restrictions.
I think a lot of blokes aren't particularly in love with their partners. They get involved with someone who is OK, and end up living with them because it's comfortable and safe. Hence a lack of compunction in shagging around. that has to be a grossly inaccurate generalisation
Me too! Like I said before. Nobody knows people’s reasons and as with anything unless you’re in their shoes you have no idea and therefore no right to judge. Having said that people should be upfront with what situation they’re in as that is unfair on the other person they may be meeting/getting involved with. " | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. I just want people to be honest about their situation. I’ve met 3 guys on here that failed to tell me about their partner, I found out on Facebook as they came up on people you may know as we chatted on WhatsApp. My profile states no attached men playing away. I’ve been married and we broke up when we realised we weren’t sexually compatible. Still love each other as friends but would never have cheated on each other. I couldn’t do that to someone I really loved. Guys just need to be upfront so I can tell them I’m not interested from the start. But what if his wife is in prison? What if his wife is working abroad? What about it? I still want honesty and I still wouldn’t want to meet them. Agreed. I want honesty too, however we are asking for honesty from people who lie to one of the most important people in their lives, their significant other. We want honesty, but are we really going to get it?
And that’s why I will not have respect for someone that can lie to someone they love very much. My body, my choice. Don’t want any drama or restrictions.
I think a lot of blokes aren't particularly in love with their partners. They get involved with someone who is OK, and end up living with them because it's comfortable and safe. Hence a lack of compunction in shagging around. that has to be a grossly inaccurate generalisation
Me too! Like I said before. Nobody knows people’s reasons and as with anything unless you’re in their shoes you have no idea and therefore no right to judge. Having said that people should be upfront with what situation they’re in as that is unfair on the other person they may be meeting/getting involved with. "That’s all I ask for. Just be upfront. | |||
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"Some wives just aren’t interested full stop and some partners are and still the other half strays. I'd say 9 times out of 10 when a man says he isn't getting it at home he is lying. " So it can be something else other than just sex people seek | |||
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"Wow, this thread has brought out the morality police with their private messages telling me I'm the worst person in the world. Tell you what, check my veris. You cant? Why? Because I havemt got any given that, despite some offers, Ive not actually met anyone - ergo, I'm not actually a cheat! Tell you what then, you probably havent murdered anyone but I'm still going to call you a muderer. Hows that? Self-righteous morality police..... Fuck em. None of their damn business! Indeed. Why contact a stranger to give them a lecture on morality when they kmow absolutely nothing about me and my situation? Its these type of holier-than-thou that make me want to delete my account. I just want people to be honest about their situation. I’ve met 3 guys on here that failed to tell me about their partner, I found out on Facebook as they came up on people you may know as we chatted on WhatsApp. My profile states no attached men playing away. I’ve been married and we broke up when we realised we weren’t sexually compatible. Still love each other as friends but would never have cheated on each other. I couldn’t do that to someone I really loved. Guys just need to be upfront so I can tell them I’m not interested from the start. But what if his wife is in prison? What if his wife is working abroad? What about it? I still want honesty and I still wouldn’t want to meet them. Agreed. I want honesty too, however we are asking for honesty from people who lie to one of the most important people in their lives, their significant other. We want honesty, but are we really going to get it?
And that’s why I will not have respect for someone that can lie to someone they love very much. My body, my choice. Don’t want any drama or restrictions.
I think a lot of blokes aren't particularly in love with their partners. They get involved with someone who is OK, and end up living with them because it's comfortable and safe. Hence a lack of compunction in shagging around. that has to be a grossly inaccurate generalisation
Me too! Like I said before. Nobody knows people’s reasons and as with anything unless you’re in their shoes you have no idea and therefore no right to judge. Having said that people should be upfront with what situation they’re in as that is unfair on the other person they may be meeting/getting involved with.
That’s all I ask for. Just be upfront. "Can I be behind occasionally? ... | |||
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"That's a lot of presuming
Haha, yes I suppose it is - but even if I've presumed wrongly, still wonder why they feel the need to cheat on their wife rather than get her involved
How about the cheating women on fab?
That's obviously not so much of an issue... "That might be a question for another thread | |||
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