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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
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This is my question Fabsters
Inspiration drawn from another thread.
Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?
I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is my question Fabsters
Inspiration drawn from another thread.
Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?
I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.
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Definitely! |
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"This is my question Fabsters
Inspiration drawn from another thread.
Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?
I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.
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Of course they can, it's a ridiculous notion to think otherwise. Any other answer from this point on is moot |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is my question Fabsters
Inspiration drawn from another thread.
Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?
I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.
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yes I have several women friends that I've had for years, I've had sex with all but one and have been friends with one 7 years |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What do you think OP? Is there some form sexual tension in all of the Male friendships you have?
I have female friends but they’re not my besties or anything like that, so not really tight-knit friendships. And I don’t feel sexually drawn to them all (hey, I’m not going to deny there’s one or two I wouldn’t mind get tiddly or handsy over a bottle of wine with ..  ) but on the whole, absolutely, I think you can have friends of the opposite sex without wanting to get your tinky winky wet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you think OP? Is there some form sexual tension in all of the Male friendships you have?
I have female friends but they’re not my besties or anything like that, so not really tight-knit friendships. And I don’t feel sexually drawn to them all (hey, I’m not going to deny there’s one or two I wouldn’t mind get tiddly or handsy over a bottle of wine with .. ) but on the whole, absolutely, I think you can have friends of the opposite sex without wanting to get your tinky winky wet! "
Haha you make me laugh! Bet you’re a good friend to have Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. I have had a female friend for the last 7 years and we have never had any inclination to have sex. In fact I think if we did it might damage what is very valuable in the relationship. We can give each other mutual support as friends rather than lovers when we go through the inevitable difficult times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex only gets in the way of a friendship (same sex too) if people aren’t being upfront and honest about feelings they either have or develop along the way. |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
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"What do you think OP? Is there some form sexual tension in all of the Male friendships you have?
I have female friends but they’re not my besties or anything like that, so not really tight-knit friendships. And I don’t feel sexually drawn to them all (hey, I’m not going to deny there’s one or two I wouldn’t mind get tiddly or handsy over a bottle of wine with .. ) but on the whole, absolutely, I think you can have friends of the opposite sex without wanting to get your tinky winky wet! "
I have experienced a male friend trying to step over the line of friendship with me yes but that’s not what my thread was about. It was inspiration from a different thread.
I see sex could get in the way for you though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes my best friend is a woman,we met when I was 7 and she was 6! ....she moved in two doors down,she's like a sister to me,we've laughed together cried together, and we've always been there for each other, we live in different countries now but still stay in touch regularly! |
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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago
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One of my best friends is a woman, we've known each other for about 15 years now and never once has there been anything even approaching a sexual nature to our friendship.
To that end, I'd never want there to be either, I'd absolutely hate for it to all go wonky  |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
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"This is my question Fabsters
Inspiration drawn from another thread.
Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?
I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.
yes I have several women friends that I've had for years, I've had sex with all but one and have been friends with one 7 years "
You’ve had sex with all but 1 of your female friends?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course! Most of my closest friends are male, though since joining fab I've formed the closest friendships that I've ever had with a group of amazing women who I would now class as family 
I get how difficult some people find it to accept friends of opposite sex, it's hard to see past the social conditioning, but openness and trust plays a major part.
Peach x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is my question Fabsters
Inspiration drawn from another thread.
Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?
I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.
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Of course you can be friends. |
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
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"This is my question Fabsters
Inspiration drawn from another thread.
Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?
I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.
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I grew up around women so most of my friends are women.
They are like sisters to me and I do not think of them in any other way.
So it is possible. All depends on how the friendships developed.
I've got 3 very close female friends and I've known them since they were 5 years old. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is my question Fabsters
Inspiration drawn from another thread.
Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?
I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.
yes I have several women friends that I've had for years, I've had sex with all but one and have been friends with one 7 years
You’ve had sex with all but 1 of your female friends? "
yes but we don't have sex anymore and have remained friends is that so hard to believe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I seem to only make friends with people I want sex with
Ive done friendship all wrong  "
Have you been friend zoning yourself without trying 
Yes OP it's possible to have female friends without any issues. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're my friend and you're a girl it means I want to/will try to fuck you at some point depending on your hotness and how much alcohol I've had. I'm a great friend  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a female friend been friends for year's we sometimes go out not very often once I a while she wants sex but i never try it on with her she just needs me in different ways sometimes that's all |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"This is my question Fabsters
Inspiration drawn from another thread.
Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?
I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.
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I think it possible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is my question Fabsters
Inspiration drawn from another thread.
Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?
I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.
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is this to do with the thread where the woman didn't believe the guy was not fucking his female friend of 30 years? |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"This is my question Fabsters
Inspiration drawn from another thread.
Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?
I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.
is this to do with the thread where the woman didn't believe the guy was not fucking his female friend of 30 years? "
Is that the thread you think it is? I thought my question a good one and it seems you have had sex with all but 1 of your female friends  I don’t think they can be friends  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is my question Fabsters
Inspiration drawn from another thread.
Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?
I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.
is this to do with the thread where the woman didn't believe the guy was not fucking his female friend of 30 years?
Is that the thread you think it is? I thought my question a good one and it seems you have had sex with all but 1 of your female friends I don’t think they can be friends "
Ha........ But they are |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
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"This is my question Fabsters
Inspiration drawn from another thread.
Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?
I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.
is this to do with the thread where the woman didn't believe the guy was not fucking his female friend of 30 years?
Is that the thread you think it is? I thought my question a good one and it seems you have had sex with all but 1 of your female friends I don’t think they can be friends Ha........ But they are "
Do you mean you or the other thread you think this is about? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is my question Fabsters
Inspiration drawn from another thread.
Let’s just say outside of Fab can men and women be friends without sex getting in the way? Can they?
I’m curious to hear all views on this and as usual with me I mean no offence to anyone with this topic.
is this to do with the thread where the woman didn't believe the guy was not fucking his female friend of 30 years?
Is that the thread you think it is? I thought my question a good one and it seems you have had sex with all but 1 of your female friends I don’t think they can be friends Ha........ But they are
Do you mean you or the other thread you think this is about? "
in my case at the end of day, the other thread absolutely no way of knowing |
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