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Out of your depth?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Recently got invited to join a couple and another guy for mmmf. First time I'd ever been involved in this so was bit nervous already. Cut to 5 mins later whilst she's sucking me I look down and the other guy is elbow deep in her (sorry to be graphic), it struck me then that I was not ready for this and just wanted to leave as soon as possible lol.
Anyone else had moments in their swinging life where they have felt out of their depth?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not myself but my friend was involved in his first mmf when he realised it wasn't for him. He said he had to go to the loo and hid in there til they were in the throes of passion then bolted past them and out the hotel room. He even left his shoes behind  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I fully understand the situation there........ not a great feeling either 
Yes, and the fantasy is often far different from the reality."
Exactly .......... however I’ve had a couple of FFM that once I get the nerves outta the way we’re the best thing ever..... so worth overcoming the nerves  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only put myself in situations I'm happy and comfortable in. My first 3sum encounter was with guys who I knew and introduced to each other before any action took place. "
Best way to be........ and they work out much better fun that way too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not myself but my friend was involved in his first mmf when he realised it wasn't for him. He said he had to go to the loo and hid in there til they were in the throes of passion then bolted past them and out the hotel room. He even left his shoes behind "
Haha I can relate. I left my towel in the room and had to ask for another at the club reception lol  |
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"I only put myself in situations I'm happy and comfortable in. My first 3sum encounter was with guys who I knew and introduced to each other before any action took place.
Best way to be........ and they work out much better fun that way too "
I think there are less nerves involved that way...when everyone knows the other people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a mmff and I didn’t like what one of the guys was going despite me saying no.
I sat in the loo for hours awaiting them to finish so I could give the other female a lift ( I had given her a lift there ). Afterwards she said oh that’s ok you could have left me !
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I only put myself in situations I'm happy and comfortable in. My first 3sum encounter was with guys who I knew and introduced to each other before any action took place.
Best way to be........ and they work out much better fun that way too
I think there are less nerves involved that way...when everyone knows the other people."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats the best least offensive way out of these situations? "
Just say you’re not comfortable and this isn’t for you, bide them a good evening and get out of there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not myself but my friend was involved in his first mmf when he realised it wasn't for him. He said he had to go to the loo and hid in there til they were in the throes of passion then bolted past them and out the hotel room. He even left his shoes behind
Haha I can relate. I left my towel in the room and had to ask for another at the club reception lol "
So, at your recently advertised ' fab legend mmf' you were envisaging a game of cribbage, and a nice glass of Tokaji?
You shoulda said. I would have been there like a shot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats the best least offensive way out of these situations? "
There was a similar thread a while back. Saying you feel ill/ need fresh air seemed to be a popular idea.
Just don't stay as you'll feel like shit afterwards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Recently got invited to join a couple and another guy for mmmf. First time I'd ever been involved in this so was bit nervous already. Cut to 5 mins later whilst she's sucking me I look down and the other guy is elbow deep in her (sorry to be graphic), it struck me then that I was not ready for this and just wanted to leave as soon as possible lol.
Anyone else had moments in their swinging life where they have felt out of their depth?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not myself but my friend was involved in his first mmf when he realised it wasn't for him. He said he had to go to the loo and hid in there til they were in the throes of passion then bolted past them and out the hotel room. He even left his shoes behind
Haha I can relate. I left my towel in the room and had to ask for another at the club reception lol
So, at your recently advertised ' fab legend mmf' you were envisaging a game of cribbage, and a nice glass of Tokaji?
You shoulda said. I would have been there like a shot"
Yeah you're right I should specify no fisting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not myself but my friend was involved in his first mmf when he realised it wasn't for him. He said he had to go to the loo and hid in there til they were in the throes of passion then bolted past them and out the hotel room. He even left his shoes behind
Haha I can relate. I left my towel in the room and had to ask for another at the club reception lol
So, at your recently advertised ' fab legend mmf' you were envisaging a game of cribbage, and a nice glass of Tokaji?
You shoulda said. I would have been there like a shot
Yeah you're right I should specify no fisting "
Probably
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not myself but my friend was involved in his first mmf when he realised it wasn't for him. He said he had to go to the loo and hid in there til they were in the throes of passion then bolted past them and out the hotel room. He even left his shoes behind
Haha I can relate. I left my towel in the room and had to ask for another at the club reception lol
So, at your recently advertised ' fab legend mmf' you were envisaging a game of cribbage, and a nice glass of Tokaji?
You shoulda said. I would have been there like a shot
Yeah you're right I should specify no fisting
Probably
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You cant really do that in a club though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not myself but my friend was involved in his first mmf when he realised it wasn't for him. He said he had to go to the loo and hid in there til they were in the throes of passion then bolted past them and out the hotel room. He even left his shoes behind
Haha I can relate. I left my towel in the room and had to ask for another at the club reception lol
So, at your recently advertised ' fab legend mmf' you were envisaging a game of cribbage, and a nice glass of Tokaji?
You shoulda said. I would have been there like a shot
Yeah you're right I should specify no fisting
Probably
You cant really do that in a club though"
Oh they did, this is why I felt out my depth lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not myself but my friend was involved in his first mmf when he realised it wasn't for him. He said he had to go to the loo and hid in there til they were in the throes of passion then bolted past them and out the hotel room. He even left his shoes behind
Haha I can relate. I left my towel in the room and had to ask for another at the club reception lol
So, at your recently advertised ' fab legend mmf' you were envisaging a game of cribbage, and a nice glass of Tokaji?
You shoulda said. I would have been there like a shot
Yeah you're right I should specify no fisting
Probably
You cant really do that in a club though
Oh they did, this is why I felt out my depth lol "
You missed my point
Never mind |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not myself but my friend was involved in his first mmf when he realised it wasn't for him. He said he had to go to the loo and hid in there til they were in the throes of passion then bolted past them and out the hotel room. He even left his shoes behind
Haha I can relate. I left my towel in the room and had to ask for another at the club reception lol
So, at your recently advertised ' fab legend mmf' you were envisaging a game of cribbage, and a nice glass of Tokaji?
You shoulda said. I would have been there like a shot
Yeah you're right I should specify no fisting
Probably
You cant really do that in a club though
Oh they did, this is why I felt out my depth lol
You missed my point
Never mind"
I'm sure it wasn't an important point anyway  |
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Not personally but at a club last weekend, several of us playing in the same room.
Woman (on her first visit to any club) walks in to watch.
A couple start trying to talk her into joining in, pressurising her to join in when she'd expressly said she didn't want to.
She was so uncomfortable that we stopped playing, walked her out of the room and gave her a pep talk about her personal comfort and how she should feel able to say no, or to walk away and not feel pressured into doing anything she didn't want to.
Poor woman looked perfectly fine until a few people tried to push her out of her depth.
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