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Blind Meets

By *ady Lick OP Woman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

So....just for research purposes I'm wondering how many people would be prepared to meet someone, social or otherwise, without seeing a face pic first.

Me ~ not on your nelly!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My first meet I met without seeing a pic of him it worked out well

I wouldn't meet without seeing a face pic now though

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By *lenderfoxMan over a year ago

Leeds

It's a no from me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Against my better judgment I have. Wouldn’t do it again though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Il meet anyone for a brew unless they dont have social skills or humour then its pointless nothings ever guaranteed after that

All il guarantee is a laugh plain and simple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Done it once!

...never again!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Done it once ...I was probably quite lucky to be honest ..wouldn't do it again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Currently fb two years in was a no face meet in first meet... wouldn’t do it now learnt a lot in that two years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a few times and wasn’t disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope.

I mean, how would you recognise someone if you haven't seen their face?

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By *r Appreciator.Man over a year ago

Bedfordshire.

I'd have no problem with going for a blind social. I think it would be exciting.

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By *hrewsgirl0Woman over a year ago

shrewsbury

No way, not a chance

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By *ottie_84Woman over a year ago

Nottingham

Not a cat in hells chance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We’re not too fussy when it comes to looks etc, however we want to know that we are meeting a real person at least and not a fake profile.

All we ask is they have a sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nope.

I mean, how would you recognise someone if you haven't seen their face? "

Red flower and a trench coat?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not in a million years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not in a million years"

It’s a no from Milf Karen & Bananaman

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Blind date anyone??

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

No no no no just no.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Blind date anyone??

With you I will

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No I wouldn't. I'm here to swing and my time is precious so I want to know beforehand that I'm at least physically attracted to someone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nope.

I mean, how would you recognise someone if you haven't seen their face?

Red flower and a trench coat? "

I prefer the method where you whip your genitals out to compare them to the fab photos though.

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By *layfulfoxMan over a year ago

nowhere

"Blind date anyone??

Absolutely

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

I always offer to bring a paper bag if my face pic isn't satisfactory.

Is that the same thing?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope! (Both ways - I wouldn't expect anyone to meet me without seeing me first)

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By *urious couple400Couple over a year ago

Leeds

No never have and never will x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have done many years ago, but would never do it again. If peeps don't want to send face pics, that's fine. I always send mine, and defo will not meet unless i have seen a couple's face pic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would.. I enjoy just meeting people and having a laugh if nothing else. That's why I think people on here that filter everyone out that they could potentially meet, are loosing out and that is sad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No never

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So....just for research purposes I'm wondering how many people would be prepared to meet someone, social or otherwise, without seeing a face pic first.

Me ~ not on your nelly!!!"

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By *horecruxCouple over a year ago

SE4

Blind date could be a laugh

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By *ucyfur77Woman over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Nae chance!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Blind date anyone??

Ah screw it, go on then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never. Facial attraction is a big thing for me

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I wouldn't say absolutely never, but it'd have to be someone I had connected with on every other level and got some level of chemistry with for me to do so - there's one person here whose face I've not seen who I'd meet for a social but they'd probably be the exception not the rule.

I also guess for it to happen you'd have to either be sent a pic before the meet anyway, or have agreed to a carnation in the buttonhole and a copy of The Times under one arm set up for recognition purposes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nope.

I mean, how would you recognise someone if you haven't seen their face?

Red flower and a trench coat?

I prefer the method where you whip your genitals out to compare them to the fab photos though. "

Not sure the coffee shop staff would agree

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Group social yes, 1 on 1 no. Sounds like a great way to waste each other's time meeting blind 1 on 1

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a no from me"

What he said ^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I couldn’t do it......

But I’m sure some people will.....

The amount of super spies , astronauts, and politicians on sex sites are rampant....

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Back in times of yore, before t'interweb & digital photography, you had to purchase a copy of Rendezvous, send an introductory letter (including your landline phone number), and an actual photograph. Then wait a couple of weeks for a reply, some of the pics we received back in return, were amusing to say the least!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I did it last year and it worked out really well. But, to this day, I have no idea why he wasn't prepared to share a face pic.

I think I got lucky. I probably wouldn't push my luck again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't say absolutely never, but it'd have to be someone I had connected with on every other level and got some level of chemistry with for me to do so - there's one person here whose face I've not seen who I'd meet for a social but they'd probably be the exception not the rule.

I *think this for me too. I wouldn't do a blind sex date as such but if we had got on really well in messages I dont see why I wouldnt do a social. Im finding photos compared to real life can vary massively anyway. You'd have to pick something really obscure to recognise each other by for a bit of fun.

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I've done it a few times (socials)...the success rate is probably as high (if not slightly higher) as meets where I've already seen a face pic.

Make of that what you will, but personally I do like an adventure.

Do whatever works for you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did it once. Actually lucked out. They were one of my more enjoyable meets... and such fun too.

Would I do it again? No. I think I used up all 9 of my swinging cat's lives in that one evening. The next one would be sure to be an absolute disaster

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

can be fun . the nerves and build up ,

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By *inkyalfieMan over a year ago

hampshire

I would. Sex with a total stranger is near the top of my bucket list. I’d need a few clues though, ie body pics.

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By *tatMan over a year ago

Horrabridge

"My first meet I met without seeing a pic of him it worked out well

I wouldn't meet without seeing a face pic now though"

Same here, first meed I hadn't seen her face and all went well.

I wouldn't do it again to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So....just for research purposes I'm wondering how many people would be prepared to meet someone, social or otherwise, without seeing a face pic first.

Me ~ not on your nelly!!!"
I met one woman years ago without seeing her but no more ha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No would always want to share face pics

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

My mug's up for all to see, only fair I see theirs.

Saying that, did meet a chap once without a face pic. I liked his attitude and demeanor. Pleasantly surprised

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Men do. I don't have any pics but they still want to meet me.

Always get a guaranteed fuck that way as they say they'd feel bad about turning me down in person, and they travelled all that way so might as well fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No not for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Socially I wouldn't mind at all.

But not sexually. Or maybe it is the opposite, I can't remember now

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

I don’t suppose you get many actual blind people on Fab.

The website format would be tricky.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Definitely not. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I often cary my eyes in a cup un my pocket just in case

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

I roll this take out in all these threads but....

I've once met a guy and to this day have no clue what he looks like. He turned up, let himself in and fucked me while I was blindfolded.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I roll this take out in all these threads but....

I've once met a guy and to this day have no clue what he looks like. He turned up, let himself in and fucked me while I was blindfolded. "

#youknowwhoyouare

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I roll this take out in all these threads but....

I've once met a guy and to this day have no clue what he looks like. He turned up, let himself in and fucked me while I was blindfolded. "

It wasn’t me for sure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope... Not a chance... Not even for coffee

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"I roll this take out in all these threads but....

I've once met a guy and to this day have no clue what he looks like. He turned up, let himself in and fucked me while I was blindfolded.

It wasn’t me for sure

Errrr....... Thanks

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I don’t suppose you get many actual blind people on Fab.

The website format would be tricky. "
my blind friend was on here he was a regular formite

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just wear blind folds

Fuck for England lol

Who cares what you look like

I got to connect and have a fecking giggle

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By *annedandtallMan over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

My first ever meet with a couple was a blind one. We had chatted online and they said I wouldn't be disappointed, boy were they right....absolute stunners and an awesome way to lose my couples cherry.

Having said that, I wouldn't consider a meet now under the same circumstances.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I usually say no way to this. But lately I've been considering it, if they hot all the other points I like in a person. I also fancy a blindfold meet, where I never get to see them at all.

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

"I usually say no way to this. But lately I've been considering it, if they hot all the other points I like in a person. I also fancy a blindfold meet, where I never get to see them at all. "

I’m in Glasgow next week, just saying!!

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No way

There has to be attraction for me to meet and without a face pic,I wouldn't know .

I has a man once say "you don't need to see me to meet for cofee",err yes I do thanks.

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

Before fab and smart pnone, all my meets were blind.

I wouldn’t want to do one now though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes if we only had to walk around to the local pub, no if we had to travel.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

No I wouldn’t do it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" No I wouldn’t do it. "
What? Meet a handsome blind man for sex? Andrea Bocelli

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By *naquest321Man over a year ago

Carlisle

"So....just for research purposes I'm wondering how many people would be prepared to meet someone, social or otherwise, without seeing a face pic first.

Me ~ not on your nelly!!!"

Oh, so you know aunt Nellie but wouldn’t meet me. You know little Jimmy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did it twice, both times were a disaster for similar reasons.

There won't be a third!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I did it once. Never again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My first ever meet with a couple was a blind one. We had chatted online and they said I wouldn't be disappointed, boy were they right....absolute stunners and an awesome way to lose my couples cherry.

Having said that, I wouldn't consider a meet now under the same circumstances."

Why wouldn't you now, if it worked last time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I did in the 90s, one or two worked out ok, most were unmitigated disasters.

There's no need now with smart phones, and I would really resent wasting my free time meeting someone I had no physical attraction to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've done it a few times (socials)...the success rate is probably as high (if not slightly higher) as meets where I've already seen a face pic.

Make of that what you will, but personally I do like an adventure.

Do whatever works for you."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Naw I like to know who I'm meeting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm meeting someone who hasn't seen mine. Only because I know him and it's been funny him trying to work out who I am so has become part of the game.

I wouldn't meet without seeing a face pic, I don't have much free time so I'd only want to meet if I knew there was at least some physical attraction and potential for more.

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By *Devil77Man over a year ago

West Midlands

I have do e this with my first ever meet from here, and it went well to be fair.

Since then I've always had a photo, although I never ask for one!

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By *ilancsguyMan over a year ago

Burnley

Did a blind meet quite a few years back - disaster couldn't end it quick enough. Said I'd never do it again.....

Roll on to 2018 and in a moment of weakness following a reasonable period of chatting over a number of days I agreed to meet without having seen a face pic... got there and left pronto - let's just say the profile was not true to real life.

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By *ynecplCouple over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Never again, we did it once and luckily it was just a social so we're able to back out gracefully.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd give it a try. As long as I saw body pics at least.

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By *ilancsguyMan over a year ago

Burnley

"I'd give it a try. As long as I saw body pics at least.

Sadly that's not always a guarantee... fake pics, Photoshopped etc.

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By *mber DextrousWoman over a year ago

Devon

Nope, no chance, like a vague idea what I'm getting myself into.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So....just for research purposes I'm wondering how many people would be prepared to meet someone, social or otherwise, without seeing a face pic first.

Me ~ not on your nelly!!!"

Possibly for a social if a really good rapport established ... but can't really expect more until then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd give it a try. As long as I saw body pics at least.

Sadly that's not always a guarantee... fake pics, Photoshopped etc."

If they were ugly though, I'd still let them suck my balls

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So....just for research purposes I'm wondering how many people would be prepared to meet someone, social or otherwise, without seeing a face pic first.

Me ~ not on your nelly!!!"

I’ve done it twice - first time was amazing - beautiful, sensual and a perfect evening in every way....

2nd occasion a total and utter mistake in every way imaginable.

3rd time? I’ll take a lot of convincing to do it a 3rd time....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So....just for research purposes I'm wondering how many people would be prepared to meet someone, social or otherwise, without seeing a face pic first.

Me ~ not on your nelly!!!"

Yes for social as we've found that pics don't always truly represent the person even if taken on the day. Wouldn't meet for anything else without social anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think that it would actually be kind of exciting meeting somebody and not knowing what their face looks like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've agreed to one social without seeing a face pic. I got stood up. Learned my lesson.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Seen many a fine photo but it was 3o years old. There should be more control of photos and new ones put up. Some here are over 6 years old.

Thats why I do socials first because of being let down.

So no, blind meets are not for me.

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By *alking DisasterWoman over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

I would as long as we had chatted for a while and we connected.

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By *ady Lick OP Woman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Thanks for all your replies. I'll have to send a link to this thread to someone who has asked me to meet for a coffee but is refusing point blank to send a face pic. He seemed to think to most people it wouldn't be important.

I have loosely considered it though because he does seem to tick my boxes!

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By *alking DisasterWoman over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"Thanks for all your replies. I'll have to send a link to this thread to someone who has asked me to meet for a coffee but is refusing point blank to send a face pic. He seemed to think to most people it wouldn't be important.

I have loosely considered it though because he does seem to tick my boxes! "

I'd say try it, especially if it's just a coffee. What have you got to lose?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have loosely considered it though because he does seem to tick my boxes!

I'd say try it, especially if it's just a coffee. What have you got to lose?"

Just be aware there's a good chance you'll be drinking coffee with yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No!

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have loosely considered it though because he does seem to tick my boxes! "

If you have the time and inclination then meet him, otherwise don’t bother.

Either way it’s upto the individual how they wish to go about meeting...

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By *alking DisasterWoman over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

I have loosely considered it though because he does seem to tick my boxes!

I'd say try it, especially if it's just a coffee. What have you got to lose?

Just be aware there's a good chance you'll be drinking coffee with yourself."

I've been stood up when I had a face pic, so it doesn't actually matter if you have one or not.

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By *ady Lick OP Woman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I have loosely considered it though because he does seem to tick my boxes!

I'd say try it, especially if it's just a coffee. What have you got to lose?"

Just my time I guess.

And, yes Roxi, I agree people can go about this fab thing however they like. I've been told 'I won't be disappointed', oh.....how I hate it when guys say that!!

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By *ynecplCouple over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I have loosely considered it though because he does seem to tick my boxes! "

At the end of the day you do what you feel is right if he wanted to meet you that much then he would send you a face pic after all he is happy to show it to you in person. If you want to see a face pic and he won't send one then just say thanks but no thanks and leave it at that, the ball as they say is then in his court.

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