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If Swinging isn’t for you

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Has anyone tried swinging and decided it wasn’t for you, you liked the idea of it but when you came to try it,it made you feel bad about yourself. You found the experience left you empty, when in fact you just needed a cuddle, or is everyone have a great time fucking people you are not intimate with ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has anyone tried swinging and decided it wasn’t for you, you liked the idea of it but when you came to try it,it made you feel bad about yourself. You found the experience left you empty, when in fact you just needed a cuddle, or is everyone have a great time fucking people you are not intimate with ?

Yes but il try again until i get it right

call it ocd

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a way swinging in the traditional sence isn't for me and I've been in the scene a long time. I don't do random hookups. I like the social side of swinging and I have to get to know someone well to fuck them. I always describe myself as a shit swinger

But my way works for me, I have some amazing friends on the scene

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By *an_LexaCouple over a year ago

Sunderland

Early in our time we met with a couple who were new to it all and the next day I got a call from her telling me how devastated they were and it wasn’t right for them. In the moment they’d had a great time but jealousies had kicked in when they talked about it afterwards.

We met for coffee, we’ve kept in touch.

It did make us realise not to meet with people who were new to this.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I couldn’t fuck someone I don’t have some degree of intimacy with

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Early in our time we met with a couple who were new to it all and the next day I got a call from her telling me how devastated they were and it wasn’t right for them. In the moment they’d had a great time but jealousies had kicked in when they talked about it afterwards.

We met for coffee, we’ve kept in touch.

It did make us realise not to meet with people who were new to this."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know that I'm no swinger,so why fab?the forums keep me here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m a woman who likes to have a connection with someone in order for me to have sex with them

So , I’m crap at ‘swinging’ but then I don’t call myself that anyway

So it matters not and all is well with the world

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm a way swinging in the traditional sence isn't for me and I've been in the scene a long time. I don't do random hookups. I like the social side of swinging and I have to get to know someone well to fuck them. I always describe myself as a shit swinger

But my way works for me, I have some amazing friends on the scene "

You look pretty good at it to me.

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By *ediMan over a year ago

Leeds

Yes but il try again until i get it right

call it ocd"

Good question

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But my way works for me, I have some amazing friends on the scene

You look pretty good at it to me.

Haha all my naughty pics are with my then FWB so nope still not a swinger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I ever manage to start swinging, I'll let you know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a shit swinger.

I have to admit that when I found this world random hookups were fun and made my mundane life a bit more interesting

But that's not swinging is it - that's just fucking around

Random hook ups are empty as a single and I've never been into the club scene.

I'm a bit antisocial as well so I might be THE worst swinger in the world

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a bit antisocial as well so I might be THE worst swinger in the world

Bold claim, I think there's competition.

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By *entleman JayMan over a year ago

Wakefield

The majority of females I’ve met on Fab are not swingers as such. They use Fab to meet new people. Like others would use tinder.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a bit antisocial as well so I might be THE worst swinger in the world

Bold claim, I think there's competition."

Haha well I read your profile and 44 meets is hardly being anti social is it

I win

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a shit swinger.

I have to admit that when I found this world random hookups were fun and made my mundane life a bit more interesting

But that's not swinging is it - that's just fucking around

Random hook ups are empty as a single and I've never been into the club scene.

I'm a bit antisocial as well so I might be THE worst swinger in the world

Nope I'm the worst swinger,also single never been to a club or interested in 3sums etc, I own that title

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By *offee with MilkCouple over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

We met for coffee, we’ve kept in touch.

It did make us realise not to meet with people who were new to this."

If they hadn't tried they would not have known it wasn't for them. Now at least they are not beating themselves up saying what if, what if.

If everyone decided not to meet first timers the scene would eventually fizzle out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m sorting out a couple of couples divorce.. it’s hilarious

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a bit antisocial as well so I might be THE worst swinger in the world

Bold claim, I think there's competition.

Haha well I read your profile and 44 meets is hardly being anti social is it

I win

You should look past the raw numbers, virtually every verification I've ever had was from an organised social where I sat in a corner being ignored by everyone, and got a pro forma "turned up, wasn't a cunt' veri from the organiser.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm a bit antisocial as well so I might be THE worst swinger in the world

Bold claim, I think there's competition.

Haha well I read your profile and 44 meets is hardly being anti social is it

I win

Still, at least you turned up. A lot don’t make it that far

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a bit antisocial as well so I might be THE worst swinger in the world

Bold claim, I think there's competition.

Haha well I read your profile and 44 meets is hardly being anti social is it

I win

Still, at least you turned up. A lot don’t make it that far"

The last few, I wished I hadn't bothered.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope I'm the worst swinger,also single never been to a club or interested in 3sums etc, I own that title

I've never been to a club either.

But I might be guilty of a couple 3somes and moresomes

Ok we have a winner

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You’ve started a race to the bottom ‘I’m the worst swinger’ competition.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a bit antisocial as well so I might be THE worst swinger in the world

Bold claim, I think there's competition.

Haha well I read your profile and 44 meets is hardly being anti social is it

I win

Still, at least you turned up. A lot don’t make it that far

The last few, I wished I hadn't bothered. "

Not being a cunt is a compliment surely

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm a bit antisocial as well so I might be THE worst swinger in the world

Bold claim, I think there's competition.

Haha well I read your profile and 44 meets is hardly being anti social is it

I win

Still, at least you turned up. A lot don’t make it that far

The last few, I wished I hadn't bothered. "

That’s the spirit !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I did for a few years. We had great fun and ticked off everything we'd wanted to do. Good times to look back on. I was awesome at making fantasies a reality.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a bit antisocial as well so I might be THE worst swinger in the world

Bold claim, I think there's competition.

Haha well I read your profile and 44 meets is hardly being anti social is it

I win

Still, at least you turned up. A lot don’t make it that far

The last few, I wished I hadn't bothered.

Not being a cunt is a compliment surely

If I thought I couldn't reach that kind of minimum standard, I'd kill myself.

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By *AYENCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

" virtually every verification I've ever had was from an organised social where I sat in a corner being ignored by everyone, and got a pro forma "turned up, wasn't a cunt' veri from the organiser."

Hahaha, that's hilarious - I like your style

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m a woman who likes to have a connection with someone in order for me to have sex with them

So , I’m crap at ‘swinging’ but then I don’t call myself that anyway

So it matters not and all is well with the world

This...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not being a cunt is a compliment surely

If I thought I couldn't reach that kind of minimum standard, I'd kill myself. "

Like Tame said at least you went!

Some people don't get that far- they're just pyjama keyboard warriors with a shadow as a picture!

You don't win - sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm a bit antisocial as well so I might be THE worst swinger in the world

Bold claim, I think there's competition.

Haha well I read your profile and 44 meets is hardly being anti social is it

I win

Still, at least you turned up. A lot don’t make it that far

The last few, I wished I hadn't bothered.

Not being a cunt is a compliment surely

If I thought I couldn't reach that kind of minimum standard, I'd kill myself. "

No offence but I read your comments in the voice of Eeyore.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m a woman who likes to have a connection with someone in order for me to have sex with them

So , I’m crap at ‘swinging’ but then I don’t call myself that anyway

So it matters not and all is well with the world

Men don’t like to have a connection because men don’t have feelings

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I realised that swinging in the traditional sense left me cold and empty and more than a little down on myself afterwards.

Now I only swing with people who enjoy cuddles as much as I do and I'd be happy spending time with with our clothes on too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I realised that swinging in the traditional sense left me cold and empty and more than a little down on myself afterwards.

Now I only swing with people who enjoy cuddles as much as I do and I'd be happy spending time with with our clothes on too.

You need to PM me immediately

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I couldn’t fuck someone I don’t have some degree of intimacy with "
yet I'm the opposite and prefer it as stranger sex. I do however like the social side.. but rare I would play with someone I'd got to become friends with.

But it's what works .. currently I've played.. felt guilty as sin despite being 100% single... so hidden my profile. I had an amazing time at the time. But for whatever reason after I felt bad in myself... never had that before and I've been swinging for 20 years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know that I'm no swinger,so why fab?the forums keep me here"

Experience tought me that I need more than random hook ups. I agree with the above, for many reasons. I'm incapable of sex without those little feelings getting in the way. I need to get to know someone first before I'll let them get to know my intimate areas better, which inevitably leads to more emotional meets.

A highly risky method for a swinger

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple over a year ago

Manchester

Yeah, we’re really choosy about who we meet and swap with, but love the social side.

Still keen on swapping with local people, but think we’re more in the ‘want to meet friends we can occasionally fuck zone’ as opposed to rampant swingers

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By *ove3funCouple over a year ago

Cheltenham

Not being a cunt is a compliment surely

There are many people who can't be described in that way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have never understood the,"I like the social side of swinging" ?

Don't you mean you just like to socialise?it's not like swingers have a monopoly on being social.

Even vanilla daters socialise.

Some might even end up having sex

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By *ohnThomas0168Man over a year ago

Algarve Portugal

I think it varies over time with people, and depends on their overall mood and what is going on in their lives.

I have at various times (a) loved the fuck and go, the zipless fuck, the gangbang, the 'cant get enough' times (b) only swinging with those I had an attraction, a connection, lots of sensual play, and a social good time (c) periods of absence from the scene altogether

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Aww. Do you need a hug.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Swinging is meant for married people to consent to sharing their wife. It started in the 16th century

Its wife swapping.

No Partner no swinging

Some relationships are open where the man agrees she can fuck others.

Singles fucking many isn't swinging.

Kind regards

I would love a swinging life with a friend who wants the same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a bit antisocial as well so I might be THE worst swinger in the world

Bold claim, I think there's competition.

Haha well I read your profile and 44 meets is hardly being anti social is it

I win

Still, at least you turned up. A lot don’t make it that far"

I’ve never made it that far. I’ve only met two men from fab lol, two of them just kept deleting their profile then coming back and reverifying me, then doing it again and again

And all the cam ones are from the chat rooms, which took me over a year to pluck up the currage and use.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

No, but we've met people who have

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a swinger. I enjoy the social side of meeting people at swinging events and clubs, and I enjoy random sex with random strangers in clubs.

I also enjoy 1 on 1 meets which isn't swinging, but I do like a connection with the other person for 1 in 1. In threesomes and moresomes it's not as important, and in club play, well my 'rules' sort of go out the window and I enjoy the heat of the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a swinger. I enjoy the social side of meeting people at swinging events and clubs, and I enjoy random sex with random strangers in clubs.

I think single women are unicorns, couples are swingers & single men are dicks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a bit antisocial as well so I might be THE worst swinger in the world

Bold claim, I think there's competition.

Haha well I read your profile and 44 meets is hardly being anti social is it

I win

Still, at least you turned up. A lot don’t make it that far

The last few, I wished I hadn't bothered.

Not being a cunt is a compliment surely

If I thought I couldn't reach that kind of minimum standard, I'd kill myself.

No offence but I read your comments in the voice of Eeyore."

Boo fucking hoo.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a swinger. I enjoy the social side of meeting people at swinging events and clubs, and I enjoy random sex with random strangers in clubs.

I think single women are unicorns, couples are swingers & single men are dicks "

But I love a bit of Dick

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By *riefcase_WankerMan over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I'm still trying to figure out whether I'm into it or not.

Being rather new to all this I think I need to wet my beak a little so to speak before I make any kind of decision, but it's all a learning experience - I try to subscribe to the "I'll try anything twice" philosophy before I decide whether or not it's for me.

I mean...the first time I got fucked in the arse with a strap-on it was a bit painful like, but the second time it was great fun, so...

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I'm still trying to figure out whether I'm into it or not.

I mean...the first time I got fucked in the arse with a strap-on it was a bit painful like, but the second time it was great fun, so...

Think of an ex you still have good will towards. Does the thought of sharing her with another guy excite or repulse you?

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By *ohnThomas0168Man over a year ago

Algarve Portugal

Think of an ex you still have good will towards. Does the thought of sharing her with another guy excite or repulse you? "

Excite - but then she was like that and we had many years of happy times together and with others!

How nice it would be to find a hot wife again -

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By *riefcase_WankerMan over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"I'm still trying to figure out whether I'm into it or not.

I mean...the first time I got fucked in the arse with a strap-on it was a bit painful like, but the second time it was great fun, so...

Think of an ex you still have good will towards. Does the thought of sharing her with another guy excite or repulse you? "

Well my current fwb and I have talked about sharing each other, and it's something we're both up for, so...

But as with many things, the reality may be different. Proof of the pudding I guess...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm still trying to figure out whether I'm into it or not.

I mean...the first time I got fucked in the arse with a strap-on it was a bit painful like, but the second time it was great fun, so...

Think of an ex you still have good will towards. Does the thought of sharing her with another guy excite or repulse you? "

I loved it. Hot as fuck. I just don't want to join in. I'm a crap swinger.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I used to love it, when i was first introduced to the scene. Over time my feelings have changed and i now love the connection i can get with one person. I still enjoy the social scene though and have made some really good friends as a result. I've also formed strong friendships based around the forums

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you like meeting people, and like sex. Well, Swinging is meeting people. And swinging is sex. Easy answer is, what’s not to like?

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’m just selecting the tastiest chocolates from the box... hardly swinging but it serves me well for suitors... no shortage

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Aww. Do you need a hug."

Yes, please. Can I also play with your lovely boobs ?

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By *oman wantedCouple over a year ago

Cheshire/Liverpool/Manchester

Don't consider myself a swinger. Only looking for the one special friend x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't consider myself a swinger. Only looking for the one special friend x"

I’m busy sorry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *oman wantedCouple over a year ago

Cheshire/Liverpool/Manchester

"Don't consider myself a swinger. Only looking for the one special friend x

I’m busy sorry

Cheeky

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I havent tried it. I am too busy with going to the gym

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By *oman wantedCouple over a year ago

Cheshire/Liverpool/Manchester

"I havent tried it. I am too busy with going to the gym

I can tell

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I havent tried it. I am too busy with going to the gym

I can tell

"
Ty yes and also the diet. I have to eat every 2hrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I havent tried it. I am too busy with going to the gym

I can tell

Ty yes and also the diet. I have to eat every 2hrs

Tell me about it! What do they know about our pain

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I don't want intimacy but I do need to feel comfortable with someone before I'll do the stuff we do. I don't think we're swingers but there isn't an easy to navigate, specific site for people like us.

I do think that there are a lot of people on fab looking for intimacy via casual sex though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I used to love it, when i was first introduced to the scene. Over time my feelings have changed and i now love the connection i can get with one person. I still enjoy the social scene though and have made some really good friends as a result. I've also formed strong friendships based around the forums

Smitten

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I havent tried it. I am too busy with going to the gym

I can tell

Ty yes and also the diet. I have to eat every 2hrs

Tell me about it! What do they know about our pain

"
That is right as you cant really travel, miss a 800kcal meal and a awesome workout where you might of set a new pr on deadlifting or sex? I know which one I would choose

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By *MP3Man over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

"I havent tried it. I am too busy with going to the gym

I can tell

Ty yes and also the diet. I have to eat every 2hrs

Tell me about it! What do they know about our pain

That is right as you cant really travel, miss a 800kcal meal and a awesome workout where you might of set a new pr on deadlifting or sex? I know which one I would choose

Deadlifting every time, brother

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By *adame BWoman over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

There are so many aspects of swinging I enjoy and I love the diversity of everyone involved. We take from this what suits us individually and I do find for me it's mood dependant as in I can swing carnally with little interaction or possibility of a repeat meet or I want tantric touching and intimacy with as many repeats as possible. I also love role play, group, threesomes and love witnessing intimacy between a couple while swinging. I have met people on the scene that claim that they are swingers but are not but that is their journey of discovery.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Smitten

Hahaha shhh he reads the forums

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Smitten

Hahaha shhh he reads the forums

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Smitten

Hahaha shhh he reads the forums

And tell him to stop bloody lurking too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Smitten

Hahaha shhh he reads the forums

And tell him to stop bloody lurking too

I'd get a spank for that..... Actually, I'll tell him now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Smitten

Hahaha shhh he reads the forums

And tell him to stop bloody lurking too

I'd get a spank for that..... Actually, I'll tell him now

"
il kiss it better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Joking hahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Joking hahahahahaha"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Joking hahahahahaha

Not really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I havent tried it. I am too busy with going to the gym

I can tell

Ty yes and also the diet. I have to eat every 2hrs

Tell me about it! What do they know about our pain

That is right as you cant really travel, miss a 800kcal meal and a awesome workout where you might of set a new pr on deadlifting or sex? I know which one I would choose

Deadlifting every time, brother

"
Good. I recently joined the 3 plate club and making good progress with the deadlift

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By *ur1ou2Man over a year ago

Prudhoe

Lots of different types on here

Some love the whole swinging scene clubs and stuff

Some use it as a free dating site but where it’s ok to talk about the sex up front (‘cause that’s what it is - a sex site)

A lot of previous comments are about having that emotional ‘intimacy’ and I guess that’s the pitfall - if you need that too and there’s another partner involved then could lead to problems.

I lost my partner a few years ago - am not looking for another - but this site gives me access to HEALTHY recreational sex

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I’ve been here for 10 years now and at the beginning all was good and I met some lovely respectful men.

Unfortunately the attitudes of a lot of men now who have since found the site has meant I haven’t met anyone from here for a sexual meet since last March. So I suppose I’ve stopped looking now as I don’t do fuck and go .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve been here for 10 years now and at the beginning all was good and I met some lovely respectful men.

Those b’stard ‘lots of men’, I blame them for everything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s a hobby for us, we like to arrange meets with like minded people, however when we’re playing we’re happy for others to join in.

We’re not into key swapping parties though.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive done all ends of the spectrum from the cold hard emotionless sex. Faceless fucks. Gangbangs. Many different scenarios. Sex with an amazing connection. I dont regret any of it all just different phases of my life

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

I can imagine there are lots of single swingers who have had thoughts like this .

As a couple , we have found that fucking random strangers has been fun , but after seven years we’ve begun to feel it’s all a bit pointless . I really think we’ve had our fill of cold and empty hook ups , and we are truly enjoying and appreciating each other more now than ever before .

Cuddles , enjoying each other , and doing things together that we didn’t have the time for before we took this break a couple of months ago , have been a real eye opener for us .

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I’ve been here for 10 years now and at the beginning all was good and I met some lovely respectful men.

Those b’stard ‘lots of men’, I blame them for everything. "

Sorry, as you can clearly see I’m not saying all men in the slightest, so there is no need for blame or sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Aww. Do you need a hug.

Yes, please. Can I also play with your lovely boobs ?"

You may yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not for me. It didn't leave me empty or feeling bad I just realised it's not what I want from a relationship.

I don't class myself as a swinger, because i don't crave group fun.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope I'm the worst swinger,also single never been to a club or interested in 3sums etc, I own that title

I've never been to a club either.

But I might be guilty of a couple 3somes and moresomes

Ok we have a winner

I rest my case

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve been here for 10 years now and at the beginning all was good and I met some lovely respectful men.

Those b’stard ‘lots of men’, I blame them for everything.

Sorry, as you can clearly see I’m not saying all men in the slightest, so there is no need for blame or sarcasm

There’s always room for sarcasm ... and obviously blame.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have never understood the,"I like the social side of swinging" ?

Don't you mean you just like to socialise?it's not like swingers have a monopoly on being social.

Even vanilla daters socialise.

Some might even end up having sex

we not into the social side just the fun part

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By *bonynivoryCouple over a year ago

market harborough

"I havent tried it. I am too busy with going to the gym

I can tell

Ty yes and also the diet. I have to eat every 2hrs

Youre in great shape, but that is just a myth, you really dont

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

I'm not a swinger. It isn't for me.

I'm just here for the 1-2-1 NSA, baby.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m not a swinger either. A lot of people aren’t on here. I’m only looking for one person. Taking bloody ages though! Too fussy lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m starting to believe single women can’t be swingers.....

Feelings and jealousy always creep up on them.....

It happens to men also.... but I think we handle it better.....

This is why I think couples are more suited to be swingers....

They have love between each other and just want others for the sex.....

For the record I’ve gotten feelings for 2 women in the swinging world.... I blocked both of them because I knew a relationship would not work and I was only going to hurt them in the future...

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By *oachman 9CoolMan over a year ago

derby

being single and not going behind someones back has to be good but for me its the venereal side that makes me feel uncomfortable even with safe fun, I am more a vanilla mindset, but the std side and the thought of regular tests is not for me, but I like the forums if anything else, vanilla can get boreing I agree its something I constantly battle with in my mind but thats my personality comeing out, I,ve been vanilla all my life if others have on here I don,t know but I don,t take this site seriously at all I just come on with a open mind and enjoy what I can..

and I do find most folk friendly to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it takes two to tango. You swing with a partner you love and that's when it works... if it ever works. If the person you love isn't into it it's not worth doing. It'll be nothing like your fantasy. It'll just be empty and crap. If the desire to explore is mutual then I'm convinced it can be amazing. If you're not in love, want to do it with a "friend", or you're single it's probably not worth bothering. It really is so pants and unrewarding. I can't see the allure at all. Hence why my profile is currently hidden.

A single guy hiding his profile?! Is that a first? Haha

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I think it takes two to tango. You swing with a partner you love and that's when it works... if it ever works. If the person you love isn't into it it's not worth doing. It'll be nothing like your fantasy. It'll just be empty and crap. If the desire to explore is mutual then I'm convinced it can be amazing. If you're not in love, want to do it with a "friend", or you're single it's probably not worth bothering. It really is so pants and unrewarding. I can't see the allure at all. Hence why my profile is currently hidden.

A single guy hiding his profile?! Is that a first? Haha

"
couldnt disagree with you more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A single guy hiding his profile?! Is that a first? Haha

couldnt disagree with you more"

Taking you literally does that mean to you... you shouldn't swing with someone you love, apart from when the person you love isn't into it, in which case it's likely to be even better than your fantasy. Otherwise, if you're not in love, want to do it with a "friend", or are single go for it! It's really great and rewarding.

That's what "I couldn't disagree with you more" looks like. Is that what you meant?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

A single guy hiding his profile?! Is that a first? Haha

couldnt disagree with you more

That's what "I couldn't disagree with you more" looks like. Is that what you meant?

"
yes i disagreed with everything you said

ive played as a single, with a friend, in a loving relationship and played as a single while in said relationship. All have been great and rewarding experiences in their own way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The majority of females I’ve met on Fab are not swingers as such. They use Fab to meet new people. Like others would use tinder. "

Wrong.

Most single females are on this site for the FAB part... Friends And Benefits! Clue is in the site name.

To the OP's question... I tried to attempt to enter the swingers part of this site. However, I just kept on having horrible couples message me or they turned out to be men posing as a couple.

Happened far too many times, so I switched to seeking just single men for a FAB... Friend And Benefits.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A single guy hiding his profile?! Is that a first? Haha

I agree. In a loving relationship with trust and respect it is amazing, and so much fun. Not as much as a swingle because it’s the connection between the two people that are sharing the experience that offers enlightenment and pleasure. I still swing as a swingle though just for fun, but I do like seeing the connection between a couple.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A single guy hiding his profile?! Is that a first? Haha

couldnt disagree with you more

That's what "I couldn't disagree with you more" looks like. Is that what you meant?

yes i disagreed with everything you said

ive played as a single, with a friend, in a loving relationship and played as a single while in said relationship. All have been great and rewarding experiences in their own way"

Haha

Well fair enough. I thought I'd check. We really do see things differently then. But wouldn't life be dull if we all agreed

For myself, I'll only swing again if a future partner brings it up as something they want to do. So that doesn't mean I'm against it on principle or would rule it out entirely. But without that tangoing twosome it doesn't have any appeal to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A single guy hiding his profile?! Is that a first? Haha

couldnt disagree with you more"

Me too. I really enjoyed it with a fwb. I would prefer to do it within a loving relationship but until that time comes a fwb is the closest thing to swing with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I havent tried it. I am too busy with going to the gym

I can tell

Ty yes and also the diet. I have to eat every 2hrs

Youre in great shape, but that is just a myth, you really dont

"
Ty and you are right there too. I like to spread it out instead of eating to big portions

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"
I would agree. I thought after 15 years as a single previously.. that I could just jump back in but having spent the last 5 years swinging with the man I love .. now trying as a single feels nothing like it used to. I miss so many elements of being part of a loving couple. I am not sure I can make it work as a single anymore. And I don't want to swing as a couple with anyone else so..it has left me wondering if I stay or go

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would agree. I thought after 15 years as a single previously.. that I could just jump back in but having spent the last 5 years swinging with the man I love .. now trying as a single feels nothing like it used to. I miss so many elements of being part of a loving couple. I am not sure I can make it work as a single anymore. And I don't want to swing as a couple with anyone else so..it has left me wondering if I stay or go

Thats sad i hope you find your mojo again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thats sad i hope you find your mojo again"

That makes it sound like it's her problem to get over. In my case it just feels like I've outgrown what Fab has to offer. I've still got my mojo good and proper. But I'm not going to waste it on people I don't have a kindling fondness for. My mojo is my compass. It'll lead me to my soul mate. Why would I want to waste it chasing dead ends on here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can relate to this

limbo land

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

A single guy hiding his profile?! Is that a first? Haha

You make some excellent points , and as I said in an earlier post , we’ve done this as a loving couple and had a great time . I think we are satiated now , there’s not really much , if anything left for us to explore in the swinging world .

I really don’t see the allure of swinging as a single , I never have . It’s an absolutely ideal inbetweener for singles to still get fun between relationships , good for cheaters , and good for those who struggle to hold or grasp the the concept of relationships .

But the op was suggesting it’s a cold and meaningless thing , which it is . Why would singles want this to be their sole purpose ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m not a swinger, never have claimed to be one.

I’ve used this website in the past to meet men for nsa fun, however the urge to do that has diminished in the last year as I feel I need more. The excitement I once felt from meeting strangers isn’t there at the moment.

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"I’m not a swinger, never have claimed to be one.

Another name badge for the jaded club?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you want NSA your time is better invested just going on a night out with friends.

Yes, it does all leave me feeling a bit empty, but I wouldn't really classify myself as a swinger; I'm here to try and scratch an itch.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

A single guy hiding his profile?! Is that a first? Haha

But the op was suggesting it’s a cold and meaningless thing , which it is . Why would singles want this to be their sole purpose ? "
i can explain the bit about be the allure as a single from my point of view. I have no problem with the concept of relationships im in a wonderful loving one now

I can still do as i please if i want

But when i was single i loved it

I was wild and free and could do whati liked when i liked. If i wanted a cold faceless fuck id have a gangbang. If i wanted something more intimate id have a one to one with someone i had a connection with. I just did what i liked when i liked with who i liked and loved it all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone told me it not for me loll

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m not a swinger, never have claimed to be one.

Another name badge for the jaded club?

what’s the saying ~ all good things come to an end...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Give me a choice of illicit sex with a sexy stranger that i may or may not meet again or good sex with a man i’m loved up with, i’d choose the loved up version.

So long as you have the right partner and you’re sexually compatible then relationship sex, for me, is 100 times better than a knee trembler.

There’s no better feeling than being ploughed by a man who loves you.

I’m lucky in that the men i’ve been in relationships with have been filthy fuckers in bed, so i’ve never felt i’ve missed out sexually.

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"I’m not a swinger, never have claimed to be one.

Another name badge for the jaded club?

what’s the saying ~ all good things come to an end...

If you are gonna be a full member of the jaded club, you have to question if it was a good thing in the first place.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m not a swinger, never have claimed to be one.

Another name badge for the jaded club?

what’s the saying ~ all good things come to an end...

If you are gonna be a full member of the jaded club, you have to question if it was a good thing in the first place....."

Yes it was definitely a good thing, I have no regrets about the decisions I’ve made.

I guess over time needs change, people change.

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

A single guy hiding his profile?! Is that a first? Haha

But the op was suggesting it’s a cold and meaningless thing , which it is . Why would singles want this to be their sole purpose ? i can explain the bit about be the allure as a single from my point of view. I have no problem with the concept of relationships im in a wonderful loving one now

I can still do as i please if i want

But when i was single i loved it

So did we , it just became boring , meaningless , cold , calculated , and utterly pointless .

The itch has been scratched I guess .

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

A single guy hiding his profile?! Is that a first? Haha

I can still do as i please if i want

But when i was single i loved it

So did we , it just became boring , meaningless , cold , calculated , and utterly pointless .

The itch has been scratched I guess ."
ha ha it only took you 7 years lightweights took me 30 years to calm down

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But when i was single i loved it

Alright alright woman

Don't rub it in

Us men can't organise FFFFFM gang bangs on a whim one day, a faceless fuck the next, followed by a fuck with a connection the next. We can only dream of such wonders. For us, we work for 6 months just to get a 5 minute social outside the local Tesco

...and we're chuffed pink when we get that

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"But when i was single i loved it

Alright alright woman

Don't rub it in

...and we're chuffed pink when we get that

"
actually i just read back what i wrote

it does sound pretty full on. But i guess it was like that its only the last 10 years i slowly started to calm down but now im happy with just my partner and regular one to one meets. I will never be monogomous as i wasnt made that way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *rthur156Man over a year ago

Eastbourne

I soppose,it's true what you say ,I've sometimes felt the same x

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By *bonynivoryCouple over a year ago

market harborough

Really quite so ked by this thread, so many people on a swingers website who either aren't swingers, or disagree with swinging.

I would join a football supporters website if I didn't like football, and especially if I didn't support that team.

Id join a forum for something I did do and like, I absolutely don't get it one little bit.

Anyway, I'm off to join the railway engine spotters Forum, just for the social side, hate trains but it's good banter, lol.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Really quite so ked by this thread, so many people on a swingers website who either aren't swingers, or disagree with swinging.

I would join a football supporters website if I didn't like football, and especially if I didn't support that team.

Id join a forum for something I did do and like, I absolutely don't get it one little bit.

Anyway, I'm off to join the railway engine spotters Forum, just for the social side, hate trains but it's good banter, lol. "

Can of worms. They'll come back and argue that fabswingers isn't a swingers site. Trust me. Half the comments look like they came from people on their way to mumsnet and clicked the wrong link.

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By *bonynivoryCouple over a year ago

market harborough

"Really quite so ked by this thread, so many people on a swingers website who either aren't swingers, or disagree with swinging.

I would join a football supporters website if I didn't like football, and especially if I didn't support that team.

Id join a forum for something I did do and like, I absolutely don't get it one little bit.

Anyway, I'm off to join the railway engine spotters Forum, just for the social side, hate trains but it's good banter, lol.

Can of worms. They'll come back and argue that fabswingers isn't a swingers site. Trust me. Half the comments look like they came from people on their way to mumsnet and clicked the wrong link. "

Haha, you're, so right on that, calling it fabSWINGERS, was a typo when they realised tinder was already gone. they meant fabspoliticalandsocialclubveryrarelyusedforsexualhookups.Com

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When stood in a group play room watching multiple guys jacking off in the corner watching strangers fuck other strangers I sometimes wonder what I'm doing with my life yeah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When stood in a group play room watching multiple guys jacking off in the corner watching strangers fuck other strangers I sometimes wonder what I'm doing with my life yeah

Not been in this situation but I often wonder the same on my way back from meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Really quite so ked by this thread, so many people on a swingers website who either aren't swingers, or disagree with swinging.

I would join a football supporters website if I didn't like football, and especially if I didn't support that team.

Id join a forum for something I did do and like, I absolutely don't get it one little bit.

Anyway, I'm off to join the railway engine spotters Forum, just for the social side, hate trains but it's good banter, lol.

Can of worms. They'll come back and argue that fabswingers isn't a swingers site. Trust me. Half the comments look like they came from people on their way to mumsnet and clicked the wrong link. "

Says the bloke who regularly starts gaming threads.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Really quite so ked by this thread, so many people on a swingers website who either aren't swingers, or disagree with swinging.

I would join a football supporters website if I didn't like football, and especially if I didn't support that team.

Id join a forum for something I did do and like, I absolutely don't get it one little bit.

Anyway, I'm off to join the railway engine spotters Forum, just for the social side, hate trains but it's good banter, lol.

Can of worms. They'll come back and argue that fabswingers isn't a swingers site. Trust me. Half the comments look like they came from people on their way to mumsnet and clicked the wrong link.

Says the bloke who regularly starts gaming threads. "

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"When stood in a group play room watching multiple guys jacking off in the corner watching strangers fuck other strangers I sometimes wonder what I'm doing with my life yeah

Try watching the women instead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Really quite so ked by this thread, so many people on a swingers website who either aren't swingers, or disagree with swinging.

I would join a football supporters website if I didn't like football, and especially if I didn't support that team.

Id join a forum for something I did do and like, I absolutely don't get it one little bit.

Anyway, I'm off to join the railway engine spotters Forum, just for the social side, hate trains but it's good banter, lol.

Can of worms. They'll come back and argue that fabswingers isn't a swingers site. Trust me. Half the comments look like they came from people on their way to mumsnet and clicked the wrong link.

Haha, you're, so right on that, calling it fabSWINGERS, was a typo when they realised tinder was already gone. they meant fabspoliticalandsocialclubveryrarelyusedforsexualhookups.Com

Apart from Fabswingers was around way before Tinder.

Yours factually X

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Really quite so ked by this thread, so many people on a swingers website who either aren't swingers, or disagree with swinging.

I would join a football supporters website if I didn't like football, and especially if I didn't support that team.

Id join a forum for something I did do and like, I absolutely don't get it one little bit.

Anyway, I'm off to join the railway engine spotters Forum, just for the social side, hate trains but it's good banter, lol.

Can of worms. They'll come back and argue that fabswingers isn't a swingers site. Trust me. Half the comments look like they came from people on their way to mumsnet and clicked the wrong link.

Says the bloke who regularly starts gaming threads. "

Not sure you really grasped the reference there. It's ok, you can be forgiven for not understanding what mumsnet really is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Really quite so ked by this thread, so many people on a swingers website who either aren't swingers, or disagree with swinging.

I would join a football supporters website if I didn't like football, and especially if I didn't support that team.

Id join a forum for something I did do and like, I absolutely don't get it one little bit.

Anyway, I'm off to join the railway engine spotters Forum, just for the social side, hate trains but it's good banter, lol.

Can of worms. They'll come back and argue that fabswingers isn't a swingers site. Trust me. Half the comments look like they came from people on their way to mumsnet and clicked the wrong link.

Says the bloke who regularly starts gaming threads.

Not sure you really grasped the reference there. It's ok, you can be forgiven for not understanding what mumsnet really is. "

Probably not, I’m at work and scanned through the bollocks. Try your intellectual wheelies with the usual suspects, I haven’t got time.

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By *bonynivoryCouple over a year ago

market harborough

"Really quite so ked by this thread, so many people on a swingers website who either aren't swingers, or disagree with swinging.

I would join a football supporters website if I didn't like football, and especially if I didn't support that team.

Id join a forum for something I did do and like, I absolutely don't get it one little bit.

Anyway, I'm off to join the railway engine spotters Forum, just for the social side, hate trains but it's good banter, lol.

Can of worms. They'll come back and argue that fabswingers isn't a swingers site. Trust me. Half the comments look like they came from people on their way to mumsnet and clicked the wrong link.

Haha, you're, so right on that, calling it fabSWINGERS, was a typo when they realised tinder was already gone. they meant fabspoliticalandsocialclubveryrarelyusedforsexualhookups.Com

Apart from Fabswingers was around way before Tinder.

Yours factually X"

Lol, now that's a, good fact I didn't know

and actually might explain some of my surprise joking aside.

Plus from the once watching a friend use it it looked boring as hell.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Really quite so ked by this thread, so many people on a swingers website who either aren't swingers, or disagree with swinging.

I would join a football supporters website if I didn't like football, and especially if I didn't support that team.

Id join a forum for something I did do and like, I absolutely don't get it one little bit.

Anyway, I'm off to join the railway engine spotters Forum, just for the social side, hate trains but it's good banter, lol.

Can of worms. They'll come back and argue that fabswingers isn't a swingers site. Trust me. Half the comments look like they came from people on their way to mumsnet and clicked the wrong link.

Says the bloke who regularly starts gaming threads.

Not sure you really grasped the reference there. It's ok, you can be forgiven for not understanding what mumsnet really is.

Probably not, I’m at work and scanned through the bollocks. Try your intellectual wheelies with the usual suspects, I haven’t got time. "

Back to work Tony, the gutter is still blocked

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When stood in a group play room watching multiple guys jacking off in the corner watching strangers fuck other strangers I sometimes wonder what I'm doing with my life yeah

Not been in this situation but I often wonder the same on my way back from meets

Or the second after you cum?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But my way works for me, I have some amazing friends on the scene "

We call ourselves shit swingers aswell..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When stood in a group play room watching multiple guys jacking off in the corner watching strangers fuck other strangers I sometimes wonder what I'm doing with my life yeah

Not been in this situation but I often wonder the same on my way back from meets

Or the second after you cum?

Exactly

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

"When stood in a group play room watching multiple guys jacking off in the corner watching strangers fuck other strangers I sometimes wonder what I'm doing with my life yeah

One thing is certain , and that’s if you’re looking for something that has depth , meaning , and real purpose then swinging isn’t gonna cut it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Really quite so ked by this thread, so many people on a swingers website who either aren't swingers, or disagree with swinging.

I would join a football supporters website if I didn't like football, and especially if I didn't support that team.

Id join a forum for something I did do and like, I absolutely don't get it one little bit.

Anyway, I'm off to join the railway engine spotters Forum, just for the social side, hate trains but it's good banter, lol.

Can of worms. They'll come back and argue that fabswingers isn't a swingers site. Trust me. Half the comments look like they came from people on their way to mumsnet and clicked the wrong link.

Says the bloke who regularly starts gaming threads.

Not sure you really grasped the reference there. It's ok, you can be forgiven for not understanding what mumsnet really is.

Probably not, I’m at work and scanned through the bollocks. Try your intellectual wheelies with the usual suspects, I haven’t got time.

Back to work Tony, the gutter is still blocked

I’m still jealous of everyone on Fab who doesn’t know who you are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Really quite so ked by this thread, so many people on a swingers website who either aren't swingers, or disagree with swinging.

I would join a football supporters website if I didn't like football, and especially if I didn't support that team.

Id join a forum for something I did do and like, I absolutely don't get it one little bit.

Anyway, I'm off to join the railway engine spotters Forum, just for the social side, hate trains but it's good banter, lol.

Can of worms. They'll come back and argue that fabswingers isn't a swingers site. Trust me. Half the comments look like they came from people on their way to mumsnet and clicked the wrong link.

Says the bloke who regularly starts gaming threads.

Not sure you really grasped the reference there. It's ok, you can be forgiven for not understanding what mumsnet really is.

Probably not, I’m at work and scanned through the bollocks. Try your intellectual wheelies with the usual suspects, I haven’t got time.

Back to work Tony, the gutter is still blocked

I’m still jealous of everyone on Fab who doesn’t know who you are. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Really quite so ked by this thread, so many people on a swingers website who either aren't swingers, or disagree with swinging.

I would join a football supporters website if I didn't like football, and especially if I didn't support that team.

Id join a forum for something I did do and like, I absolutely don't get it one little bit.

Anyway, I'm off to join the railway engine spotters Forum, just for the social side, hate trains but it's good banter, lol.

Can of worms. They'll come back and argue that fabswingers isn't a swingers site. Trust me. Half the comments look like they came from people on their way to mumsnet and clicked the wrong link.

Says the bloke who regularly starts gaming threads.

Not sure you really grasped the reference there. It's ok, you can be forgiven for not understanding what mumsnet really is.

Probably not, I’m at work and scanned through the bollocks. Try your intellectual wheelies with the usual suspects, I haven’t got time.

Back to work Tony, the gutter is still blocked

I’m still jealous of everyone on Fab who doesn’t know who you are. "

#youknowwhoyouare

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Really quite so ked by this thread, so many people on a swingers website who either aren't swingers, or disagree with swinging.

I would join a football supporters website if I didn't like football, and especially if I didn't support that team.

Id join a forum for something I did do and like, I absolutely don't get it one little bit.

Anyway, I'm off to join the railway engine spotters Forum, just for the social side, hate trains but it's good banter, lol.

Can of worms. They'll come back and argue that fabswingers isn't a swingers site. Trust me. Half the comments look like they came from people on their way to mumsnet and clicked the wrong link.

Says the bloke who regularly starts gaming threads.

Not sure you really grasped the reference there. It's ok, you can be forgiven for not understanding what mumsnet really is.

Probably not, I’m at work and scanned through the bollocks. Try your intellectual wheelies with the usual suspects, I haven’t got time.

Back to work Tony, the gutter is still blocked

I’m still jealous of everyone on Fab who doesn’t know who you are.

#youknowwhoyouare "

You’re such a tedious bore.

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