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By *oelDorian OP Man over a year ago

vanaheim

So i'm curious if this has happened to anyone else that a potential meet has read your veris then decided to not meet you because they felt they wouldn't live up to you expectations. As this happened to me recently.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope. My verifications are selling dream

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It was something that was said to me when I was here before - but to be 100% honest I think it was an excuse for them not to meet me!

Sometimes it might just be that - an ego boosting way of letting you down, but others are genuine and feel that they can’t live up to the expectations of others.

I know I’d feel uncomfortable meeting a lass that always usually meets hung, ripped Adonises for example!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So i'm curious if this has happened to anyone else that a potential meet has read your veris then decided to not meet you because they felt they wouldn't live up to you expectations. As this happened to me recently."

Yes people often are put off by previous meets. For good and bad reasons.

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By *oelDorian OP Man over a year ago

vanaheim

Yes people often are put off by previous meets. For good and bad reasons. "

Ah was just curious

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's never happened to me that I'm aware of, but I can be put off potential meets by reading other people's verifications that they are displaying. Never because I don't think I'll be good enough for them, but for several other reasons.

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By *ickygirl41Woman over a year ago

Glasgow

"Nope. My verifications are selling dream "

Hahaha, love your veri.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a shit shag. #SavingTime

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s put me off meeting someone, but I’m trying to grow a pair and get over it

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

It's not put anyone off meeting me, well not that I'm aware of.

But I have questioned myself after reading some veris.

I think we all have a little self doubt in us, and seeing certain things has made me think, that I'd shouldn't meet someone as I feel I won't live up to their expectations, I'd be boring in comparison to others they'd met.

I'd rather stay a happy fantasy, than a real life disappointment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I sometimes question if they are worth it, no one has a bad one.

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By *oelDorian OP Man over a year ago

vanaheim

But like you won’t know it if you don’t try to that person could be better than they think they are

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple over a year ago

Cumbria

Seem like Curious Case of cold feet any excuse will do..

Would you read too much into it at all.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

Nothing to do with living up to expectations.... I wouldn't meet if they had met certain people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've turned down men who only meet body beautiful women, based on their verifications. I don't want my lumps and bumps compared. So it does happen with others, for varying reasons, I would assume

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I'm not sure about living up to expectations being the reason beyond a change of mind.

I've had 2 social meets cancel and block because I had a social with someone they didn't like.

*Bitches be crazy maaaaaaan.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

I'm not sure about living up to expectations being the reason beyond a change of mind.

I've had 2 social meets cancel and block because I had a social with someone they didn't like.

*Bitches be crazy maaaaaaan.

I think you'll find there is a bit more to it than simply "Not liking them"

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I'm not sure about living up to expectations being the reason beyond a change of mind.

I've had 2 social meets cancel and block because I had a social with someone they didn't like.

*Bitches be crazy maaaaaaan.

I think you'll find there is a bit more to it than simply "Not liking them""

On this occasion, it was exactly that.....

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

I'm not sure about living up to expectations being the reason beyond a change of mind.

I've had 2 social meets cancel and block because I had a social with someone they didn't like.

*Bitches be crazy maaaaaaan.

I think you'll find there is a bit more to it than simply "Not liking them"

On this occasion, it was exactly that.....

Then that is crazy..I must admit

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I'm not sure about living up to expectations being the reason beyond a change of mind.

I've had 2 social meets cancel and block because I had a social with someone they didn't like.

*Bitches be crazy maaaaaaan.

I think you'll find there is a bit more to it than simply "Not liking them"

On this occasion, it was exactly that.....

Then that is crazy..I must admit"

Fab never ceases to amaze me.

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By *oelDorian OP Man over a year ago

vanaheim

I'm not sure about living up to expectations being the reason beyond a change of mind.

I've had 2 social meets cancel and block because I had a social with someone they didn't like.

*Bitches be crazy maaaaaaan.

I think you'll find there is a bit more to it than simply "Not liking them"

On this occasion, it was exactly that.....

Then that is crazy..I must admit

Fab never ceases to amaze me.

Yeah it just seems very strange like with no reason just that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not sure about living up to expectations being the reason beyond a change of mind.

I've had 2 social meets cancel and block because I had a social with someone they didn't like.

*Bitches be crazy maaaaaaan.

In all honesty, if i took a major dislike to someone, i wouldn't got there myself with someone they had met. But then again, this bitch is crazy

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By *evil_u_knowMan over a year ago

city

I find girls who have a low opinion of themselves keep it secret and don't tell you but eventually sabotage their chances with a decent guy by running off to a terrible choice, but someone they think is down at their level.

Sad thing is, they are usually pretty girls, who just had a bad relationship with a guy who told them they were awful over and over as a means of control and now they think that is what they are.

Ah well, not here to fix people so if they feel that way its fine with me.

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I'm not sure about living up to expectations being the reason beyond a change of mind.

I've had 2 social meets cancel and block because I had a social with someone they didn't like.

*Bitches be crazy maaaaaaan.

In all honesty, if i took a major dislike to someone, i wouldn't got there myself with someone they had met. But then again, this bitch is crazy

But you're my kind of crazy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not sure about living up to expectations being the reason beyond a change of mind.

I've had 2 social meets cancel and block because I had a social with someone they didn't like.

*Bitches be crazy maaaaaaan.

In all honesty, if i took a major dislike to someone, i wouldn't got there myself with someone they had met. But then again, this bitch is crazy

But you're my kind of crazy.

You are all charm dear

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By *oelDorian OP Man over a year ago

vanaheim

"I find girls who have a low opinion of themselves keep it secret and don't tell you but eventually sabotage their chances with a decent guy by running off to a terrible choice, but someone they think is down at their level.

Sad thing is, they are usually pretty girls, who just had a bad relationship with a guy who told them they were awful over and over as a means of control and now they think that is what they are.

Ah well, not here to fix people so if they feel that way its fine with me."

Yeah true and possibly

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By *tingly ByronMan over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I'm not sure about living up to expectations being the reason beyond a change of mind.

I've had 2 social meets cancel and block because I had a social with someone they didn't like.

*Bitches be crazy maaaaaaan.

In all honesty, if i took a major dislike to someone, i wouldn't got there myself with someone they had met. But then again, this bitch is crazy

But you're my kind of crazy.

You are all charm dear

I'm all sincere acherlee.