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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are we annoying?
You've seen the posts where couples post after eachother, little 'in jokes' no one gets except them.
Do you see fab as a place for couples who aren't meeting?
Asking for a friend  |
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By *MP3Man
over a year ago
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little 'in jokes' no one gets except them."
I'm struggling to think what 'in jokes' that people would only understand if they were part of a couple. Do you mean 'in jokes' between people who just know or have met one another? There's a few on here that fit that description |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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little 'in jokes' no one gets except them.
I'm struggling to think what 'in jokes' that people would only understand if they were part of a couple. Do you mean 'in jokes' between people who just know or have met one another? There's a few on here that fit that description"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You do get the sense that some have history but never sure who are real couples.
Maybe they need a tag ‘I’m with xyz’ "
Maybe but then some like their own individuality where they're seen for themselves and not just a part of a couple.
I really relate to this. Yes I'm in a relationship but I'm also my own person with my own thoughts.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You do get the sense that some have history but never sure who are real couples.
Maybe they need a tag ‘I’m with xyz’
Maybe but then some like their own individuality where they're seen for themselves and not just a part of a couple.
I really relate to this. Yes I'm in a relationship but I'm also my own person with my own thoughts.
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Was referring to your OP on the in-jokes, ratger then an individuals petsonality. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wow! Predictive went crazy in that post  "
 it did.
I actually annoy myself sometimes when I post something only my other half would get.
Probably makes me look like a twannock to everyone else |
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"Are we annoying?
You've seen the posts where couples post after eachother, little 'in jokes' no one gets except them.
Do you see fab as a place for couples who aren't meeting?
Asking for a friend "
It’s taken me 5 mins to figure out what you’re asking  . My only issue are those that don’t make it clear they are just here for the forum and continue to give folk false hope regarding potentially meeting. I think that’s cruel.
Have I mentioned I’m just here for the forum and I’m part of a couple |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are we annoying?
You've seen the posts where couples post after eachother, little 'in jokes' no one gets except them.
Do you see fab as a place for couples who aren't meeting?
Asking for a friend
It’s taken me 5 mins to figure out what you’re asking . My only issue are those that don’t make it clear they are just here for the forum and continue to give folk false hope regarding potentially meeting. I think that’s cruel.
Have I mentioned I’m just here for the forum and I’m part of a couple "
I thought the 'are we annoying' at the start gave it away
I agree with you totally, honesty is essential to ensure you don't lead anyone else on. Although with the amount of messages I get daily from single guys, I doubt any of them actually read my profile and realise I'm not meeting |
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"Are we annoying?
You've seen the posts where couples post after eachother, little 'in jokes' no one gets except them.
Do you see fab as a place for couples who aren't meeting?
Asking for a friend
It’s taken me 5 mins to figure out what you’re asking . My only issue are those that don’t make it clear they are just here for the forum and continue to give folk false hope regarding potentially meeting. I think that’s cruel.
Have I mentioned I’m just here for the forum and I’m part of a couple
I thought the 'are we annoying' at the start gave it away
I agree with you totally, honesty is essential to ensure you don't lead anyone else on. Although with the amount of messages I get daily from single guys, I doubt any of them actually read my profile and realise I'm not meeting "
Because you’re displaying the goods but not meeting that’s a green light to most |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are we annoying?
You've seen the posts where couples post after eachother, little 'in jokes' no one gets except them.
Do you see fab as a place for couples who aren't meeting?
Asking for a friend
It’s taken me 5 mins to figure out what you’re asking . My only issue are those that don’t make it clear they are just here for the forum and continue to give folk false hope regarding potentially meeting. I think that’s cruel.
Have I mentioned I’m just here for the forum and I’m part of a couple
I thought the 'are we annoying' at the start gave it away
I agree with you totally, honesty is essential to ensure you don't lead anyone else on. Although with the amount of messages I get daily from single guys, I doubt any of them actually read my profile and realise I'm not meeting
Because you’re displaying the goods but not meeting that’s a green light to most "
Hmmm, rethink of my pics needed maybe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I find private jokes between couples on the forum annoying, show-offy and rude, but then that's probably just me"
I agree but don't tell the others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because you’re displaying the goods but not meeting that’s a green light to most
Hmmm, rethink of my pics needed maybe "
Whoah! Hold your horses! No need to be hasty! We may not be able to touch but that doesn’t mean we don’t enjoy looking!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because you’re displaying the goods but not meeting that’s a green light to most
Hmmm, rethink of my pics needed maybe
Whoah! Hold your horses! No need to be hasty! We may not be able to touch but that doesn’t mean we don’t enjoy looking! "
If it stops the 'lets meet' messages I'm all for it! |
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"Because you’re displaying the goods but not meeting that’s a green light to most
Hmmm, rethink of my pics needed maybe
Whoah! Hold your horses! No need to be hasty! We may not be able to touch but that doesn’t mean we don’t enjoy looking! "
I didn’t need to scroll back to know you’d posted that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are we annoying?
You've seen the posts where couples post after eachother, little 'in jokes' no one gets except them.
Do you see fab as a place for couples who aren't meeting?
Asking for a friend
It’s taken me 5 mins to figure out what you’re asking . My only issue are those that don’t make it clear they are just here for the forum and continue to give folk false hope regarding potentially meeting. I think that’s cruel.
Have I mentioned I’m just here for the forum and I’m part of a couple
I thought the 'are we annoying' at the start gave it away
I agree with you totally, honesty is essential to ensure you don't lead anyone else on. Although with the amount of messages I get daily from single guys, I doubt any of them actually read my profile and realise I'm not meeting
Because you’re displaying the goods but not meeting that’s a green light to most "
I get to play with the goods |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP you could always use filters to stop the messages or maybe going back to your couples profile might help do you think? "
I've just had a very helpful message where I changed my 'looking for' section. I thought you had to click one at least but I've turned them all off.
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"OP you could always use filters to stop the messages or maybe going back to your couples profile might help do you think?
I've just had a very helpful message where I changed my 'looking for' section. I thought you had to click one at least but I've turned them all off.
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Well I never, I didn’t know that but can’t get rid of the age and won’t meet smokers. There needs to be a new option ‘not looking’ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP you could always use filters to stop the messages or maybe going back to your couples profile might help do you think?
I've just had a very helpful message where I changed my 'looking for' section. I thought you had to click one at least but I've turned them all off.
Well I never, I didn’t know that but can’t get rid of the age and won’t meet smokers. There needs to be a new option ‘not looking’"
Agreed. Although it is a meeting site, we seem to be the exceptions.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP you could always use filters to stop the messages or maybe going back to your couples profile might help do you think?
I've just had a very helpful message where I changed my 'looking for' section. I thought you had to click one at least but I've turned them all off.
Well I never, I didn’t know that but can’t get rid of the age and won’t meet smokers. There needs to be a new option ‘not looking’"
Go into account, then looking for. The option to meet smokers is in there |
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I dont have a boyfriend on the forums. Could get him to join but we like our own sites. I do have "in" jokes with my friends so it doesnt bother me. Makes me laugh when soneone sees someone once then they are all over each other like a rash then BOOM its over and they start snarling at each other |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just another prick teaser people like you ruin this site "
Maybe if I'd not said in my profile I'm with someone, your point would be valid.
I did, so no prick teaser here.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dont have a boyfriend on the forums. Could get him to join but we like our own sites. I do have "in" jokes with my friends so it doesnt bother me. Makes me laugh when soneone sees someone once then they are all over each other like a rash then BOOM its over and they start snarling at each other "
Dirty laundry is awful to watch, car crash viewing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not at all, the ones who annoy me are the ones who are annoyed by other's people using the forum the way they want.
Glad to see most don't mind.  "
That comment annoys me though !!!!!!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just another prick teaser people like you ruin this site
Maybe if I'd not said in my profile I'm with someone, your point would be valid.
I did, so no prick teaser here.
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So why flaunt yourself all over a swingers site if you are gonna put out |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"OP you could always use filters to stop the messages or maybe going back to your couples profile might help do you think?
I've just had a very helpful message where I changed my 'looking for' section. I thought you had to click one at least but I've turned them all off.
Well I never, I didn’t know that but can’t get rid of the age and won’t meet smokers. There needs to be a new option ‘not looking’"
You could type ‘not looking’ as your strap line on your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just another prick teaser people like you ruin this site
Maybe if I'd not said in my profile I'm with someone, your point would be valid.
I did, so no prick teaser here.
So why flaunt yourself all over a swingers site if you are gonna put out "
As Delboy once famously said - did you get your money back? From the Charm School!? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just another prick teaser people like you ruin this site
Maybe if I'd not said in my profile I'm with someone, your point would be valid.
I did, so no prick teaser here.
So why flaunt yourself all over a swingers site if you are gonna put out "
If you don't bother to read profiles when people say they're not meeting then that's your issue not mine.
Everyone has a right in here to not meet at any given time and for whatever reason they want.
It's called respect and I suggest you try being more respectful when you post.
All women (or men) on fab are not just here for whoever wants them. |
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"OP you could always use filters to stop the messages or maybe going back to your couples profile might help do you think?
I've just had a very helpful message where I changed my 'looking for' section. I thought you had to click one at least but I've turned them all off.
Well I never, I didn’t know that but can’t get rid of the age and won’t meet smokers. There needs to be a new option ‘not looking’
You could type ‘not looking’ as your strap line on your profile. "
I don’t have a problem with unsolicited messages I just delete them as stated on my profile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only thing I find annoying about couples is confusion who's posting. Most have lady avatars but it's the chap talking. Would be nice to know, y'know"
Good point. When we had ours I'd always sign mine with my initials. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"OP you could always use filters to stop the messages or maybe going back to your couples profile might help do you think?
I've just had a very helpful message where I changed my 'looking for' section. I thought you had to click one at least but I've turned them all off.
Well I never, I didn’t know that but can’t get rid of the age and won’t meet smokers. There needs to be a new option ‘not looking’
You could type ‘not looking’ as your strap line on your profile.
I don’t have a problem with unsolicited messages I just delete them as stated on my profile "
Oh I know you do Pink
It’s just another way of letting people know you’re not meeting. You could always put ‘loved up so do one’ (that was a joke) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh I know you do Pink
It’s just another way of letting people know you’re not meeting. You could always put ‘loved up so do one’ (that was a joke)"
I may use that tag line |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh I know you do Pink
It’s just another way of letting people know you’re not meeting. You could always put ‘loved up so do one’ (that was a joke)
I may use that tag line
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Status changed |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"Are we annoying?
You've seen the posts where couples post after eachother, little 'in jokes' no one gets except them.
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Oh, like in the clit spanking thread where your other half said he knows what he's doing tonight and you said shall I get the toys ready (words to those effect) it did register at the time, lol. Not annoying kinda cute actually. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are we annoying?
You've seen the posts where couples post after eachother, little 'in jokes' no one gets except them.
Oh, like in the clit spanking thread where your other half said he knows what he's doing tonight and you said shall I get the toys ready (words to those effect) it did register at the time, lol. Not annoying kinda cute actually."
Yeah that kind of thing. That's actually the one I was thinking of |
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"Are you referring to the mutual appreciation society. 
There's a society? Probably not as I'm sure I'm not in one "
I think it's affiliated to the up your own arse brigade, present company accepted of course. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you referring to the mutual appreciation society.
There's a society? Probably not as I'm sure I'm not in one
I think it's affiliated to the up your own arse brigade, present company accepted of course. "
Accepted or excepted?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just another prick teaser people like you ruin this site
Maybe if I'd not said in my profile I'm with someone, your point would be valid.
I did, so no prick teaser here.
So why flaunt yourself all over a swingers site if you are gonna put out "
Am I a prick tease?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are we annoying?
You've seen the posts where couples post after eachother, little 'in jokes' no one gets except them.
Do you see fab as a place for couples who aren't meeting?
Asking for a friend "
I'm really crap at picking up on who is shagging who. Recently I've been asking for a regular Omnibus edition thread with all the latest gossip but no-one has done one!  
*hint hint*
I see Fab as a place for many many things. Space for all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh I know you do Pink
It’s just another way of letting people know you’re not meeting. You could always put ‘loved up so do one’ (that was a joke)
I may use that tag line
Status changed "
It’s cute; maybe us singletons are just jealous
The sites for everyone and situations change, many are in transition and come n go, stop, rejoin, meet, take a break etc. It’s all their choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just another prick teaser people like you ruin this site
Maybe if I'd not said in my profile I'm with someone, your point would be valid.
I did, so no prick teaser here.
So why flaunt yourself all over a swingers site if you are gonna put out "
I’m here to put out; I leave my door open and allow anyone with a fab membership to walk right in and help themselves - I just love teasing those pricks!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are couples on the forum? Well I never!
Seriously- it doesn’t bother me in the slightest "
It's almost like couples take part in swinging as well as singles isn't it?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You do get the sense that some have history but never sure who are real couples.
Maybe they need a tag ‘I’m with xyz’
I thought it was “abc”  "
And there I was about to change my user name to XYZ too |
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"OP you could always use filters to stop the messages or maybe going back to your couples profile might help do you think?
I've just had a very helpful message where I changed my 'looking for' section. I thought you had to click one at least but I've turned them all off.
Well I never, I didn’t know that but can’t get rid of the age and won’t meet smokers. There needs to be a new option ‘not looking’
You could type ‘not looking’ as your strap line on your profile.
I don’t have a problem with unsolicited messages I just delete them as stated on my profile
Oh I know you do Pink
It’s just another way of letting people know you’re not meeting. You could always put ‘loved up so do one’ (that was a joke)"
Omg I love it Babs I’m on it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP you could always use filters to stop the messages or maybe going back to your couples profile might help do you think?
I've just had a very helpful message where I changed my 'looking for' section. I thought you had to click one at least but I've turned them all off.
Well I never, I didn’t know that but can’t get rid of the age and won’t meet smokers. There needs to be a new option ‘not looking’
You could type ‘not looking’ as your strap line on your profile.
I don’t have a problem with unsolicited messages I just delete them as stated on my profile
Oh I know you do Pink
It’s just another way of letting people know you’re not meeting. You could always put ‘loved up so do one’ (that was a joke)
Omg I love it Babs I’m on it "
Brilliant |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are we annoying?
You've seen the posts where couples post after eachother, little 'in jokes' no one gets except them.
Do you see fab as a place for couples who aren't meeting?
Asking for a friend "
No you’re not.
No I haven’t.
It’s a place for everyone and anyone if you abide by the rules.
Please inform your friend that we think she’s quite lovely and it’s great to hear of her coupling happiness |
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"Are we annoying?
You've seen the posts where couples post after eachother, little 'in jokes' no one gets except them.
Do you see fab as a place for couples who aren't meeting?
Asking for a friend "
Probably
Babycakes and I were talking about this the other day
Yes it is as we enjoy the Lounge socials and the fine folk here keep us coming back for more laughs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are we annoying?
You've seen the posts where couples post after eachother, little 'in jokes' no one gets except them.
Do you see fab as a place for couples who aren't meeting?
Asking for a friend
No you’re not.
No I haven’t.
It’s a place for everyone and anyone if you abide by the rules.
Please inform your friend that we think she’s quite lovely and it’s great to hear of her coupling happiness "
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By *abs..Woman
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"OP you could always use filters to stop the messages or maybe going back to your couples profile might help do you think?
I've just had a very helpful message where I changed my 'looking for' section. I thought you had to click one at least but I've turned them all off.
Well I never, I didn’t know that but can’t get rid of the age and won’t meet smokers. There needs to be a new option ‘not looking’
You could type ‘not looking’ as your strap line on your profile.
I don’t have a problem with unsolicited messages I just delete them as stated on my profile
Oh I know you do Pink
It’s just another way of letting people know you’re not meeting. You could always put ‘loved up so do one’ (that was a joke)
Omg I love it Babs I’m on it
Brilliant "
Always happy to help you loved up peeps |
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