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Holding hands

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Kissing on meets is often discussed but I don’t see mention of holding hands. Is this something you’d do if out on a social with a meet or is this something intimate that should be reserved for loved ones only?

For me if I’m comfortable with the person I’m meeting I love to hold hands but maybe not on a first social meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Holding hands is part of the experience if both parties are comfortable with it... Which begs the question, if they aren't then why not?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like lying holding hands post play.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

The only hand holding I want from fab guys is when they're holding my hands above my head kissing me into tomorrow

Someone tried to hold my hand once on a social (we went for a walk after a coffee), I didn't like it.

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By *alking DisasterWoman over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

I'm a quite touchy feely person, so I would (and do) feel awkward if I'm not holding his hand (if I felt comfortable to do so, obviously).

If I was out with a couple though, I wouldn't even consider it.

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By *ymaleMan over a year ago

nr Bradford

I think hand holding is a demonstration of a closer connection than I'd imagine likely on a first meet, pre coitus. But to each your own.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think hand holding is a demonstration of a closer connection than I'd imagine likely on a first meet, pre coitus. But to each your own."

I was thinking of someone you’d met a lot.

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By *icassolifelikeMan over a year ago

Luton

I usually pull the inner of my pocket out and make them hold that as we walk around.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm more of an arm linker than a hand holder.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The only hand holding I want from fab guys is when they're holding my hands above my head kissing me into tomorrow

Someone tried to hold my hand once on a social (we went for a walk after a coffee), I didn't like it. "

Ditto! I love them holding my hand(s) over my head etc or when fucking but not holding hands in an intimate way.

That's reserved for Adam and Adam alone.

Maybe I feel this way because we are a couple but for me, no chance would hand holding be a thing!

Eve x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If it's someone I've met a couple of times then yes, or link arms.

Not something I do often as we're usually too busy in bed to be going out and about!

Take their hand and lead them to bed maybe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only hold hands with boyfriends.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Yes & no!

With a few people it just seems a perfectly natural thing to do, I've found myself walking along holding their hand & not even been consciously aware how it happened.

But have had other occasions, when the person has tried to hold my hand, and it just feels odd.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have done it with a couple of meets, it’s just seemed natural, but I wouldn’t with everyone x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like holding hands as long as it feels like a natural step, would generally be with someone I know pretty well.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS over a year ago

Stockport

I recently found myself holding hands with a friend who i met through fab, it seemed the most natural thing in the world. But then we aren't having sex...

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By *tonMessCouple over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

We are both fairly tactile so are always holding hands... In fact the first time we met we held hands across the table, it felt very natural.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

I have held hands but it was with someone I had been meeting for a while. As others have said, it felt natural to do it.

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