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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t really believe in either!
Life’s too short for dramarama.
But I did once let the tyres down on a car that totally cut me up for the last space in a car park at Christmas : they deserved it!
Mind you it was about 20 years ago and I’m a *much* better person now!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Revenge just reduces you to their level.
Karma....strange thing. If you wish it on others in a negative way be prepared for it to bounce right back at you... |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"Revenge just reduces you to their level.
Karma....strange thing. If you wish it on others in a negative way be prepared for it to bounce right back at you..."
Exactly - I think some people forget that about karma, especially when they have been pretty nasty themselves  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being consumed by revenge can be soul destroying. Karma does it really exist, probably not and if it does could take forever to come full circle.
Best bet is to just - let it go! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Karma is my best friend i thought i wanted revenge on my ex when we split and he was hurting our kids but i waited and karma is everytime i hear my kids laugh and they tell me about their day and plans for future he will never hear or see any of it so karma is serving up my revenge everyday |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't go after revenge and dont believe in karma.
I'm a believer in rising above it all and moving on.
No point holding grudges, or going after revenge as that is allowing negative feelings to take over.
Why waste your effort on people who aren't worth it.
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Revenge takes effort & energy, not something I'd bother waste on someone, no matter what they'd done.
I'd rather focus on my own life & making it better and happier.
But I do believe in what goes around comes around, sooner or later life will turn round & bite people on the arse... I may spare a few moments to have a little chuckle when it does |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone is expecting a reaction, rising above that is probably the best revenge you can ever have. This will wind them up more than any thing, as it removes their alleged power. "
Have to agree. I moved all correspondence with ex to email so i have evidence if required at a later date. He continued to try and bait me - but that very knowledge kept me calm. |
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I don’t believe in karma
Seen some horrible stuff happen to the nicest people and some amazing stuff happen to some horrors.
It’s all down to chance.
Now revenge in some circumstances I can get behind. Nothing at that level has ever happened to me so I’m chill. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Karma comes about, if you take revenge you will inevitably recieve Karma down the line. For some it comes quick, for some you have to wait a while, but it always comes |
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"Karma comes about, if you take revenge you will inevitably recieve Karma down the line. For some it comes quick, for some you have to wait a while, but it always comes "
This... Karma isn't that hard to understand, it's just another way of stating causes have effects, actions have consequences. It's not some devine intervention, though it might seem that way sometimes as the full consequences have not been thought through. Revenge is a negative action and almost always has negative concequences for perpetrator. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't believe in karma.
Revenge? The idea might sound appealing, but it makes you just as shitty a human as they are.
Just let go, get on with your life and enjoy it. |
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