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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi fabbers
I know I’ve only been on this site for a few weeks but what’s wrong with me that I don’t get any replies, the only winks I get are from bi guys hoping my straightness would slip, im never in the most fanned section and I get no meets?
I’m 52, which seems to be too old for a lot of people on here. I’m a single guy and I’m married and my wife doesn’t know im here. Im polite in my messages and I don’t send cock pics just my face.
I don’t have any verifications as i haven’t met anyone.
I mean what do I have to do to get noticed on here?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've answered your own question all in that one resume
You're getting on
You're cheating (oh my)
You're a guy
And I don't know but would hazard a guess all messages are about the sex sex sex you're here to get  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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At 52,you can't really complain about being too old for people when your own upper age limit is 50! So people will rule out the over 50s for the same reasons as you yourself have done I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In reply to your OP; nothing is wrong, you’ve given the reasons as to why you’ve not had any interest so far.
I’m not going to get into it as I’m sure there will be plenty of people along soon enough to point out the obvious but I will say this; patience. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"At 52,you can't really complain about being too old for people when your own upper age limit is 50! So people will rule out the over 50s for the same reasons as you yourself have done I guess. "
I see your point. But why is that stopping me getting on the most fanned page? I don’t understand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At 52,you can't really complain about being too old for people when your own upper age limit is 50! So people will rule out the over 50s for the same reasons as you yourself have done I guess.
I see your point. But why is that stopping me getting on the most fanned page? I don’t understand. "
Why do you want to be on most fabbed? The best I’ve ever done is page 2 of guys and I was impressed with that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At 52,you can't really complain about being too old for people when your own upper age limit is 50! So people will rule out the over 50s for the same reasons as you yourself have done I guess.
I see your point. But why is that stopping me getting on the most fanned page? I don’t understand. "
It's fabbed not fanned |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes less is more, maybe just rewrite profile but make it shorter but to the point, ppl genuinely judt want to know what u want.
Also I don't know how u message but personally I think the message has to be about her and not u.
Be polite be respectful, show you have read her profile, attach a nice face pic and if u can make her laugh too it's a good start...works for me anyway.goodluck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi fabbers
I know I’ve only been on this site for a few weeks but what’s wrong with me that I don’t get any replies, the only winks I get are from bi guys hoping my straightness would slip, im never in the most fanned section and I get no meets?
I’m 52, which seems to be too old for a lot of people on here. I’m a single guy and I’m married and my wife doesn’t know im here. Im polite in my messages and I don’t send cock pics just my face.
I don’t have any verifications as i haven’t met anyone.
I mean what do I have to do to get noticed on here?
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Mate, it’s tough to get reply’s. You can’t be everyone’s cup of tea.
Don’t think it as anything wrong with you... it’s just you are probably not what the other person / couple is looking for.
No bloke on here gets stacked with replies. I wouldn’t worry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We think you would be much better hiring a escorts than being on here.
Absolutely detest people on here who are lying to their partners would never meet a person we knew was doing the dirty.
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at least he's telling you up front |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My advice is:
1.Get better photos
2. Change your age range (we're not all over the hill after 50)
3. Shorten your profile by dropping all the attempted humour
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Okay brace yourself, incoming!!
Based on your profile alone:-
Username / over 50 / Man / profile text needs to be snappier / more photos.
I think the inital hurdle is coming onto this website at 50+. You could try socialising in the forum / chat rooms, let your personality come through, that may help...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Okay brace yourself, incoming!!
Based on your profile alone:-
Username / over 50 / Man / profile text needs to be snappier / more photos.
I think the inital hurdle is coming onto this website at 50+. You could try socialising in the forum / chat rooms, let your personality come through, that may help... "
or lie about his age and marital status damn too late now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Okay brace yourself, incoming!!
Based on your profile alone:-
Username / over 50 / Man / profile text needs to be snappier / more photos.
I think the inital hurdle is coming onto this website at 50+. You could try socialising in the forum / chat rooms, let your personality come through, that may help... or lie about his age and marital status damn too late now "
Yup, drop ten years off your age OP, it’s what all the cool kids do these days. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Okay brace yourself, incoming!!
Based on your profile alone:-
Username / over 50 / Man / profile text needs to be snappier / more photos.
I think the inital hurdle is coming onto this website at 50+. You could try socialising in the forum / chat rooms, let your personality come through, that may help... or lie about his age and marital status damn too late now "
His martial status wasn’t on his profile, and the forums attract minimal users so yes he could (like so many others) tweak his profile accordingly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Okay brace yourself, incoming!!
Based on your profile alone:-
Username / over 50 / Man / profile text needs to be snappier / more photos.
I think the inital hurdle is coming onto this website at 50+. You could try socialising in the forum / chat rooms, let your personality come through, that may help... or lie about his age and marital status damn too late now
His martial status wasn’t on his profile, and the forums attract minimal users so yes he could (like so many others) tweak his profile accordingly."
Hey surely looking much younger than your quoted age is a deception of sorts |
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It's Andy Capp,
Your profile text is awful, and if that's your sense of humour then it's going to put people off. Sorry but you aren't funny
Also, it's OK for women to cheat on here, especially with other women, only yesterday the very people who are about to vilify you were encouraging a women to do exa tly that, lol, but guys get slaughtered for it. Sadly that doesn't mean we're on your side, but if we wanted to meet it wouldn't put us off, however your maximum age being younger than you does, judgemental or what! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I agree with PrincessNiki. This is either a joke profile or a seriously poor attempt at humour. "
Surely if it’s a joke profile it has succeeded with the humour? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At 52,you can't really complain about being too old for people when your own upper age limit is 50! So people will rule out the over 50s for the same reasons as you yourself have done I guess.
I see your point. But why is that stopping me getting on the most fanned page? I don’t understand. "
Buy a fan or two |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Christ knows! Everyone in your area are ageist? That's what I'd do OP. Blame everyone for being ageist. Either that, or for being blind. "
where have you gone
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Christ knows! Everyone in your area are ageist? That's what I'd do OP. Blame everyone for being ageist. Either that, or for being blind. where have you gone "
Take the blindfold off, then you'll see me again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Christ knows! Everyone in your area are ageist? That's what I'd do OP. Blame everyone for being ageist. Either that, or for being blind. where have you gone
Take the blindfold off, then you'll see me again. "
nope you've gone where I don't know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Christ knows! Everyone in your area are ageist? That's what I'd do OP. Blame everyone for being ageist. Either that, or for being blind. where have you gone
Take the blindfold off, then you'll see me again. nope you've gone where I don't know "
You're still wearing it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So my eyes deceive me, or are people really taking this seriously? It seems standard form at present on the forums, a general lack of a sense of humour.......! "
Humour is subjective, also don’t know the OP so tend take the written word on face value. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking at your profile, i'd just say you're too fussy for a man. Demanding as you are, i'd guess you don't need to move your ass to get extra-marital fun which brings a question to my mind: why are you on this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Christ knows! Everyone in your area are ageist? That's what I'd do OP. Blame everyone for being ageist. Either that, or for being blind. where have you gone
Take the blindfold off, then you'll see me again. nope you've gone where I don't know
You're still wearing it "
My shorts no they're off I'm on nudist beach |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't read your profile, and truth be told didn't even finishing your post. Your chosen user name alone would put me off
Thanks for posting. "
you're welcome |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Looking at your profile, i'd just say you're too fussy for a man. Demanding as you are, i'd guess you don't need to move your ass to get extra-marital fun which brings a question to my mind: why are you on this?"
Fun.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The profile name may be a little off putting. Reminds me of a rapist or something"
I’m getting that vibe. What suggestions then? Old perv? Wellhungguy145? Cheatinghubby4523?
I think I have one more name change otherwise I’ll have to create a new profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi fabbers
I know I’ve only been on this site for a few weeks but what’s wrong with me that I don’t get any replies, the only winks I get are from bi guys hoping my straightness would slip, im never in the most fanned section and I get no meets?
I’m 52, which seems to be too old for a lot of people on here. I’m a single guy and I’m married and my wife doesn’t know im here. Im polite in my messages and I don’t send cock pics just my face.
I don’t have any verifications as i haven’t met anyone.
I mean what do I have to do to get noticed on here?
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I think your profile is fun and it highlights the divas here you now have some attention by virtue of this, whether that's a good thing remains to be seen |
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