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Inspired by a thread on clear heels..
Does swinging require embracing the tacky, tarty and trashy, or can you swing ‘tastefully’? Do you want to, or is tacky part of the fun? |
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I'm thinking of travelling through France soon. I like the idea of being open, friendly, and flirtatious and seeing if any situations present themselves naturally. I'd say that's classy, erotic, and enchanting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Inspired by a thread on clear heels..
Does swinging require embracing the tacky, tarty and trashy, or can you swing ‘tastefully’? Do you want to, or is tacky part of the fun?"
Definitely it can be tasteful. Despite both of us liking sex with others, we try to avoid being tacky or tarty.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Inspired by a thread on clear heels..
Does swinging require embracing the tacky, tarty and trashy, or can you swing ‘tastefully’? Do you want to, or is tacky part of the fun?"
yes if you meet in a restaurant you can have horsderves
And pigs in blankets followed by angel cakes |
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The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something   |
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"I'm thinking of travelling through France soon. I like the idea of being open, friendly, and flirtatious and seeing if any situations present themselves naturally. I'd say that's classy, erotic, and enchanting "
Love this, but am now imagining a wandering swinger, cycling from one village to another... It's all sounding a little bit 1970's German porn to me...
(No idea where the pushbike came from, sorry!  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm thinking of travelling through France soon. I like the idea of being open, friendly, and flirtatious and seeing if any situations present themselves naturally. I'd say that's classy, erotic, and enchanting
Love this, but am now imagining a wandering swinger, cycling from one village to another... It's all sounding a little bit 1970's German porn to me...
(No idea where the pushbike came from, sorry! )"
Leaving a bit of himself in every town he passes through |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm thinking of travelling through France soon. I like the idea of being open, friendly, and flirtatious and seeing if any situations present themselves naturally. I'd say that's classy, erotic, and enchanting
Love this, but am now imagining a wandering swinger, cycling from one village to another... It's all sounding a little bit 1970's German porn to me...
(No idea where the pushbike came from, sorry! )"
 You can be my Helga if you like
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p.s I hate to burst your beautiful bubble but I might drive |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm thinking of travelling through France soon. I like the idea of being open, friendly, and flirtatious and seeing if any situations present themselves naturally. I'd say that's classy, erotic, and enchanting
Love this, but am now imagining a wandering swinger, cycling from one village to another... It's all sounding a little bit 1970's German porn to me...
(No idea where the pushbike came from, sorry! )
Leaving a bit of himself in every town he passes through"
Oi! Quit trying to turn this into a bareback thread! |
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"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something "
It depends on the club that you go to, some have sheets which get stripped and swapped after every use. |
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"I'm thinking of travelling through France soon. I like the idea of being open, friendly, and flirtatious and seeing if any situations present themselves naturally. I'd say that's classy, erotic, and enchanting
Love this, but am now imagining a wandering swinger, cycling from one village to another... It's all sounding a little bit 1970's German porn to me...
(No idea where the pushbike came from, sorry! )
You can be my Helga if you like
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p.s I hate to burst your beautiful bubble but I might drive "
Really...? Driving? Soooo much less classy... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm thinking of travelling through France soon. I like the idea of being open, friendly, and flirtatious and seeing if any situations present themselves naturally. I'd say that's classy, erotic, and enchanting
Love this, but am now imagining a wandering swinger, cycling from one village to another... It's all sounding a little bit 1970's German porn to me...
(No idea where the pushbike came from, sorry! )"
Please, please let there be lederhosen.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm thinking of travelling through France soon. I like the idea of being open, friendly, and flirtatious and seeing if any situations present themselves naturally. I'd say that's classy, erotic, and enchanting
Love this, but am now imagining a wandering swinger, cycling from one village to another... It's all sounding a little bit 1970's German porn to me...
(No idea where the pushbike came from, sorry! )
Leaving a bit of himself in every town he passes through
Oi! Quit trying to turn this into a bareback thread! "
All those fair maidens  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something
It depends on the club that you go to, some have sheets which get stripped and swapped after every use. "
Ooh that sounds a bit posh. There was a plentiful supply of loo rolls though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm thinking of travelling through France soon. I like the idea of being open, friendly, and flirtatious and seeing if any situations present themselves naturally. I'd say that's classy, erotic, and enchanting
Love this, but am now imagining a wandering swinger, cycling from one village to another... It's all sounding a little bit 1970's German porn to me...
(No idea where the pushbike came from, sorry! )
You can be my Helga if you like
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p.s I hate to burst your beautiful bubble but I might drive
Really...? Driving? Soooo much less classy... "
What about if I'm in a convertible with biggles goggles and a scarf blowing in the wind...
...and (by popular demand) lederhosen |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something
It depends on the club that you go to, some have sheets which get stripped and swapped after every use.
Ooh that sounds a bit posh. There was a plentiful supply of loo rolls though "
Did you steal them?! (We won’t tell,,) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm thinking of travelling through France soon. I like the idea of being open, friendly, and flirtatious and seeing if any situations present themselves naturally. I'd say that's classy, erotic, and enchanting
Love this, but am now imagining a wandering swinger, cycling from one village to another... It's all sounding a little bit 1970's German porn to me...
(No idea where the pushbike came from, sorry! )
You can be my Helga if you like
.
p.s I hate to burst your beautiful bubble but I might drive
Really...? Driving? Soooo much less classy...
What about if I'm in a convertible with biggles goggles and a scarf blowing in the wind...
...and (by popular demand) lederhosen "
Can you do photostories on fab? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it’s good to embrace the trashy. I think a classy woman dressed like a slut is a big turn on for many men.
Plus, you know, budget."
But a classy woman dressed as a classy woman, concealing the slut is an even bigger turn on!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something
It depends on the club that you go to, some have sheets which get stripped and swapped after every use.
Ooh that sounds a bit posh. There was a plentiful supply of loo rolls though
Did you steal them?! (We won’t tell,,)"
Its amazing how many you can shove in your stocking tops |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think it’s good to embrace the trashy. I think a classy woman dressed like a slut is a big turn on for many men.
Plus, you know, budget.
But a classy woman dressed as a classy woman, concealing the slut is an even bigger turn on! "
Ah bugger. Clearly where I’ve been going wrong.. |
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"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something "
when you’re on my yacht laying on the cockpit cushions, if you close your eyes really really tight, you could imagine being in a swingers club |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something
when you’re on my yacht laying on the cockpit cushions, if you close your eyes really really tight, you could imagine being in a swingers club"
I stopped reading at "cockpit" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something
when you’re on my yacht laying on the cockpit cushions, if you close your eyes really really tight, you could imagine being in a swingers club"
Do you also have single men pressing up against the portholes looking in whilst bashing one out?... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something
when you’re on my yacht laying on the cockpit cushions, if you close your eyes really really tight, you could imagine being in a swingers club
Do you also have single men pressing up against the portholes looking in whilst bashing one out?... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something
when you’re on my yacht laying on the cockpit cushions, if you close your eyes really really tight, you could imagine being in a swingers club"
Sounds a much better way round |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something
when you’re on my yacht laying on the cockpit cushions, if you close your eyes really really tight, you could imagine being in a swingers club
Do you also have single men pressing up against the portholes looking in whilst bashing one out?... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No interest in tacky myself, prefer a little class.
But if you're into stripper heels, cheap scratchy underwear from Lovehoney and posting pics of your genitals, go for it "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it’s good to embrace the trashy. I think a classy woman dressed like a slut is a big turn on for many men.
Plus, you know, budget.
But a classy woman dressed as a classy woman, concealing the slut is an even bigger turn on! "
I love this. Spot on x |
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"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something
when you’re on my yacht laying on the cockpit cushions, if you close your eyes really really tight, you could imagine being in a swingers club
Do you also have single men pressing up against the portholes looking in whilst bashing one out?... "
It’s a small select crew... and they’d definitely want to be pressed up against your holes whilst coming about... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something
when you’re on my yacht laying on the cockpit cushions, if you close your eyes really really tight, you could imagine being in a swingers club
Do you also have single men pressing up against the portholes looking in whilst bashing one out?...
It’s a small select crew... and they’d definitely want to be pressed up against your holes whilst coming about..."
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"No interest in tacky myself, prefer a little class.
But if you're into stripper heels, cheap scratchy underwear from Lovehoney and posting pics of your genitals, go for it "
Does class have to mean expensive lingerie? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Inspired by a thread on clear heels..
Does swinging require embracing the tacky, tarty and trashy, or can you swing ‘tastefully’? Do you want to, or is tacky part of the fun?"
Yep sorry but serious swinging is a little sleazy so you have to embrace that or you're not doing it right |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I, personally, don’t think you have to conform to any form of ‘style’.
Why do you have to wear heels and corsets and push up bras to swing?
Couldn’t you just do it in hoodies and trainers?
I get the appeal to dress sexy and want to dress a certain way... but if it’s not for you then why try and make it something for you if it’s only going to make you feel uncomfortable? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I, personally, don’t think you have to conform to any form of ‘style’.
Why do you have to wear heels and corsets and push up bras to swing?
Couldn’t you just do it in hoodies and trainers?
I get the appeal to dress sexy and want to dress a certain way... but if it’s not for you then why try and make it something for you if it’s only going to make you feel uncomfortable? "
sex in a hoody omg I don't even like hoodys as a fashion statement or the jeans that hang so low at the bum they look like you've pooped yourself I mean cmon |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Inspired by a thread on clear heels..
Does swinging require embracing the tacky, tarty and trashy, or can you swing ‘tastefully’? Do you want to, or is tacky part of the fun?"
I enjoy both, variety is the spice of life! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I, personally, don’t think you have to conform to any form of ‘style’.
Why do you have to wear heels and corsets and push up bras to swing?
Couldn’t you just do it in hoodies and trainers?
I get the appeal to dress sexy and want to dress a certain way... but if it’s not for you then why try and make it something for you if it’s only going to make you feel uncomfortable? sex in a hoody omg I don't even like hoodys as a fashion statement or the jeans that hang so low at the bum they look like you've pooped yourself I mean cmon "
I was being over the top for its sake... I’m not saying I turn up like that but the point remains... surely it’s whatever makes you feel most confident / sexy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Expensive lingerie makes fucking strangers classy. Awesome!!
So social conformity is classy?
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How does expensive lingerie or fucking strangers = social conformity? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I, personally, don’t think you have to conform to any form of ‘style’.
Why do you have to wear heels and corsets and push up bras to swing?
Couldn’t you just do it in hoodies and trainers?
I get the appeal to dress sexy and want to dress a certain way... but if it’s not for you then why try and make it something for you if it’s only going to make you feel uncomfortable? "
Have to say Ive started to ditch fancy shoes in preference to comfy ie trainers  |
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