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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I remember the days in my early 20s when I would literally fuck anyone who showed an interest in me. Probably because of my own insecurities. Nowadays I actually say no to people and the offers I get.
Maybe being a man slut can eventually develop a sense of self worth or is it just, as someone just informed me after I declined their offer, an act of an 'arrogant prick?'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's mad how low self esteem works in different ways for people. I can have bouts of low self esteem but it's never manifested in those kind of ways. I've never slept with anyone that wasn't insanely attractive but when faced with these über attractive creatures I get all self conscious and feel intimidated  |
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Preferences my man. I too was the same in my twenties. Young, dumb and full of swimmers! As we get older we become more discerning.
Of course I can always revert back to that mindless woman snatcher of my early twenties, but these days I tend to sit back, relax, have my life in order and what’ll be will be.
Not arrogant at all. You just have better judgement for your own personal needs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I remember the days in my early 20s when I would literally fuck anyone who showed an interest in me. Probably because of my own insecurities. Nowadays I actually say no to people and the offers I get.
Maybe being a man slut can eventually develop a sense of self worth or is it just, as someone just informed me after I declined their offer, an act of an 'arrogant prick?' "
How did you decline them? What did you say? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Before I met M, I used sex in the wrong way (who thought such a thing existed). I would sleep with men just to stop the lonely feeling I had. I’d not long broken up with my ex of 7 years and yeah, I used it as an antidepressant in a way I guess. Wasn’t a good thing though and I’m not proud of it at all. But in my mind it was a nice thing to think men wanted me. In reality they probably would have wanted anyone with a pulse. Hindsight is a wonderful thing, and I’m glad I’m no longer ‘that’ woman. My self esteem is a lot better. M makes me feel sexy and helps me on my bad days. I’m so glad I saw the light in the end!
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It seems some people aren't adult enough for this site and can't handle rejection very well. Not everyone is going to be your cup of tea, hence why I am very selective, nothing to do with being arrogant I just know what I want and what I like x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve never been one to fuck anything that walks, I just don’t get it.
However having standards isn’t arrogant in the slightest! The person who called you an arrogant prick is no doubt bitter you could ever have the cheek to reject them!  |
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