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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m sick of hearing this in messages what the hell does that mean ?!
My point of view which seems to be the wrong one  is this is a site for swingers ie people that wish to engage in sexual social activity general not seen as socially acceptable ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It means nothing it's just that some expect sex to be the be all and end all of this meeting place, just use it as you want to, it's a place for getting to know people and if you want to meet meeting them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging is a way of chosen life.
I'd love to find a real man
A genuine one that wants to partner me and enjoy the swing of life.
A lot think I am hanging on here to be fucked over and over by single guys.
If I want a good fuck there is a knocking shop near me and I will ask for payment lol.
Swinging for me...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging is a way of chosen life.
I'd love to find a real man
A genuine one that wants to partner me and enjoy the swing of life.
A lot think I am hanging on here to be fucked over and over by single guys.
If I want a good fuck there is a knocking shop near me and I will ask for payment lol.
Swinging for me... |
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It means some people around here expect that because you're on here you'll fuck anyone under any circumstances. They're low lives. Block them and move on. (some people use this as a sex site, and more power to them, but my experience is that those who use the sex site line expect the world to be handed to them) |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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"It means some people around here expect that because you're on here you'll fuck anyone under any circumstances. They're low lives. Block them and move on. (some people use this as a sex site, and more power to them, but my experience is that those who use the sex site line expect the world to be handed to them) "
Really? Who are they?
Please tell me! They’re just what I’m looking for |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Swinging is a way of chosen life.
I'd love to find a real man
A genuine one that wants to partner me and enjoy the swing of life.
A lot think I am hanging on here to be fucked over and over by single guys.
If I want a good fuck there is a knocking shop near me and I will ask for payment lol.
Swinging for me... "
Glad I’m not alone in my thinking  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It means some people around here expect that because you're on here you'll fuck anyone under any circumstances. They're low lives. Block them and move on. (some people use this as a sex site, and more power to them, but my experience is that those who use the sex site line expect the world to be handed to them) "
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"Yeah I think most people of my generation see it as a fuck and go place but some (not many) don’t see it that way.
What's your thoughts x "
I think it’s a site where we do things that aren’t classed in the social norm that isn’t acceptable by quite a large chunk of the populous. |
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
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Thing is people are always going to use this site and all the others in the way that suits them. That necessarily is not always going to be what suits you or what suits me. We have to accept it or move on really.
I get so many people messaging to me personally on our couple profile saying they are in the area tonight, will I meet them now. Really? I’m not a prostitute, are you paying me? Coz that what it feels like to me. But you know there are a lot of women do meet like that and enjoy it. Who am I to piss on someone else’s parade. I may be mildly irritated by it but I just ignore it and move on to the next message. Husband needless to say gets much more than mildly irritated |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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I don't think that this site is too much different from what happens at the local nightclub week in week out. People meet, like each other, have sex, been going on for decades now
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think that this site is too much different from what happens at the local nightclub week in week out. People meet, like each other, have sex, been going on for decades now
K"
Getvthat but literally just received message saying that it’s a sex site if I’m online then surely I’m desperate for a shag ?!
When did men stop respecting us women ? |
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Swinging began as partner swapping.
Call it what you want , it involves sex.
Things evolve. There's no need to dress things up.
There are a lot of site members here for the social side but they joined for other reasons too. Otherwise they'd be members of some kind of 'meet up' group.
SEX SITE - this is. No amount of 'nice labels' will make it morally okay for you if you think immoral things about it. |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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"I don't think that this site is too much different from what happens at the local nightclub week in week out. People meet, like each other, have sex, been going on for decades now
K
Getvthat but literally just received message saying that it’s a sex site if I’m online then surely I’m desperate for a shag ?!
When did men stop respecting us women ? "
Some men respect women, some don't, don't get upset by any message you receive, just add then to the Neanderthal pile ie. block and delete |
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"I don't think that this site is too much different from what happens at the local nightclub week in week out. People meet, like each other, have sex, been going on for decades now
K
Getvthat but literally just received message saying that it’s a sex site if I’m online then surely I’m desperate for a shag ?!
When did men stop respecting us women ? "
I have this horrible feeling that they never did, but now they don't have to pretend anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ffs it really winds me up people saying this is a sex site I'm here to enjoy the company of women go out to socials and clubs have a drink enjoy yourself then if something happens then fantastic it's not all about fucking even if I love to fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ffs it really winds me up people saying this is a sex site I'm here to enjoy the company of women go out to socials and clubs have a drink enjoy yourself then if something happens then fantastic it's not all about fucking even if I love to fuck."
But for others it is a site to just fuck. And thats the point. This means duffrent things to diffrent people.
I dont see what the issue is with either veiw to be honest. Why let a strangers use or opinion on how a site should be used annoy you.
I dont about any one else but i have far more impirtant things to invest my emtional energy on that getting wound up about how each individual uses this site. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think that this site is too much different from what happens at the local nightclub week in week out. People meet, like each other, have sex, been going on for decades now
K
Getvthat but literally just received message saying that it’s a sex site if I’m online then surely I’m desperate for a shag ?!
When did men stop respecting us women ?
Some men respect women, some don't, don't get upset by any message you receive, just add then to the Neanderthal pile ie. block and delete "
Neanderthal pile I like that lol
Normally it wouldn’t bother me but I must be feeling over sensitive today and the number of Neanderthals about must be immense  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ffs it really winds me up people saying this is a sex site I'm here to enjoy the company of women go out to socials and clubs have a drink enjoy yourself then if something happens then fantastic it's not all about fucking even if I love to fuck.
But for others it is a site to just fuck. And thats the point. This means duffrent things to diffrent people.
I dont see what the issue is with either veiw to be honest. Why let a strangers use or opinion on how a site should be used annoy you.
I dont about any one else but i have far more impirtant things to invest my emtional energy on that getting wound up about how each individual uses this site. "
It usually doesnt bother me your going to get people like that on her. I do understand you point but I would just like this site to be used the way it was ment to. |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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" Normally it wouldn’t bother me but I must be feeling over sensitive today and the number of Neanderthals about must be immense "
Awww, yes there are many, most with red raw cocks wanked to within an inch of their life, just feel sorry for them and wait for one with a bit of sense to come along |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Normally it wouldn’t bother me but I must be feeling over sensitive today and the number of Neanderthals about must be immense
Awww, yes there are many, most with red raw cocks wanked to within an inch of their life, just feel sorry for them and wait for one with a bit of sense to come along "
You didnt have to look long :- |
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It is a site where most people's primary aim is to get sex. You might, like us enjoy socialising but that's a prelude to sex.
I think the cause of so many hurt feelings on here is based on the misunderstanding of the majority of people's motives. Person A says they want more than NSA. Person B wants sex so tells Person A they want more than NSA too.
I'd rather know that someone viewed it as a sex site if I was person A. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think that this site is too much different from what happens at the local nightclub week in week out. People meet, like each other, have sex, been going on for decades now
K"
it isn't you're spot on its the process of man meeting woman and visa versa |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It is a site where most people's primary aim is to get sex. You might, like us enjoy socialising but that's a prelude to sex.
I think the cause of so many hurt feelings on here is based on the misunderstanding of the majority of people's motives. Person A says they want more than NSA. Person B wants sex so tells Person A they want more than NSA too.
I'd rather know that someone viewed it as a sex site if I was person A."
Who’s one that doesn’t want more nsa but isn’t a free prostitute tat wants drop the knickers meets |
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"It is a site where most people's primary aim is to get sex. You might, like us enjoy socialising but that's a prelude to sex.
I think the cause of so many hurt feelings on here is based on the misunderstanding of the majority of people's motives. Person A says they want more than NSA. Person B wants sex so tells Person A they want more than NSA too.
I'd rather know that someone viewed it as a sex site if I was person A.
Who’s one that doesn’t want more nsa but isn’t a free prostitute tat wants drop the knickers meets "
That's person C I reckon.
I think one needs to be realistic to most people this IS a sex site. If you want nsa sex that is what you're going to get, you just need to be clear in your mind on what terms you personally are happy with. |
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I don't mind it being a sex site to most. But the issue comes with "this is a sex site love, therefore" lower your standards/ you can't go expecting respect/ meet me now or I'll have a tantrum/ and more. The block button is a beautiful thing, but I won't pretend it's not draining sometimes dealing with it. |
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"Thing is people are always going to use this site and all the others in the way that suits them. That necessarily is not always going to be what suits you or what suits me. We have to accept it or move on really.
I get so many people messaging to me personally on our couple profile saying they are in the area tonight, will I meet them now. Really? I’m not a prostitute, are you paying me? Coz that what it feels like to me. But you know there are a lot of women do meet like that and enjoy it. Who am I to piss on someone else’s parade. I may be mildly irritated by it but I just ignore it and move on to the next message. Husband needless to say gets much more than mildly irritated "
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Lol same here!
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