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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really don’t know. I’m going to have to think about that. "
Same. I’ve got 5 boys,3 of which are 18 & older so it’s a real possibility it could happen. |
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I think we'd probably leave the site. At the very least we'd put all our pictures to private and block them. Since we get a lot of pleasure from taking and posting pictures that would mean a big part of the fun was gone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would anyone actively encourage their adult children to create a profile? If it’s good for you, might it not be good for them? "
I wouldn't encourage no, I'd be quite concerned if they joined at a young age. Hence another reason that I would chat to them. Parents are there for children about absolutely everything in life, even when things are awkward. |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
I'd be a little upset that they felt the need, my lad is 22 and has a beautiful wife and child. I'd want them to be concentrating on themselves for a few more years, 10 or so, at least. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You discovered one of your kids was on here?
(Assume they are over 18 - let’s not take this anywhere else). "
I'd be disappointed with myself to be honest and I would leave  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would anyone actively encourage their adult children to create a profile? If it’s good for you, might it not be good for them? "
Absolutely no way.
What’s good for me isn’t necessarily good for them! |
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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago
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"Would anyone actively encourage their adult children to create a profile? If it’s good for you, might it not be good for them?
Absolutely no way.
What’s good for me isn’t necessarily good for them!"
I feel the same. I’m very clear about it too. I guess I’ll just be happy being hypocritical on this one. |
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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago
Swindon |
"I was nearly sick here a while ago, there was a local couple on here that had the name names as one of my kids and their partners.
And yes, I v quickly looked at the profile (NOT PICS) from behind a hand just to make sure it wasn't. "
** same names |
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"Would anyone actively encourage their adult children to create a profile? If it’s good for you, might it not be good for them? "
No. I feel that our kids sex life is something they need to build for themselves. Obviously if one of them came to us with a problem we would give advice but actively encouraging one course of action is asking for trouble if it goes wrong. The only time we would actively encourage would be to leave an abusive situation. |
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I've spotted several of my eldest sons friends on here, and blocked them.
It's one of the reasons, I have my filters set to 35.
If I did spot my son on here, I'd be hoping it was a couples profile with his GF and not as single too!
And yes, we'd talk.
I've always raised my children to be open minded, they know they can ask me anything.
I've been a shoulder to a lot of his friends in their teens/early 20s, and having issues dealing with their sexuality, coming out as gay, bi & 1 TG.
I don't see it would be an issue between us, but just something to be aware of when chatting to people "Yeah I shagged your mum" might not go down well
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"Would anyone actively encourage their adult children to create a profile? If it’s good for you, might it not be good for them?
Absolutely no way.
What’s good for me isn’t necessarily good for them!
I feel the same. I’m very clear about it too. I guess I’ll just be happy being hypocritical on this one. "
They are adults. This is an adult website. |
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"I've spotted several of my eldest sons friends on here, and blocked them.
It's one of the reasons, I have my filters set to 35.
If I did spot my son on here, I'd be hoping it was a couples profile with his GF and not as single too!
And yes, we'd talk.
I've always raised my children to be open minded, they know they can ask me anything.
I've been a shoulder to a lot of his friends in their teens/early 20s, and having issues dealing with their sexuality, coming out as gay, bi & 1 TG.
I don't see it would be an issue between us, but just something to be aware of when chatting to people "Yeah I shagged your mum" might not go down well
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It's pretty standard banter amongst that generation...
But if it was actually true then it could get a touch awkward  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My daughter and son know I am on here (and was on elsewhere) so no secrets. When my daughter's marriage went tits up she started Swinging but had a long chat with me first. we made sure we never were on the same site ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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True story from when I was at Chams one evening, Following a young couple down the stairs to where the jacuzzis and door to the bar area are when at the bottom an older lady waiting said "What are YOU doing here?" To which her daughter (as it turned out) said "Probably the same as you Mum. Hello Dad"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would anyone actively encourage their adult children to create a profile? If it’s good for you, might it not be good for them?
Absolutely no way.
What’s good for me isn’t necessarily good for them!
I feel the same. I’m very clear about it too. I guess I’ll just be happy being hypocritical on this one.
They are adults. This is an adult website. "
On paper that’s true, however they’re my children and I wouldn’t want them on here. |
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It's probably easier for parents than kids to be honest.
I mean, at least you spent the first few years seeing them naked all the time so there's slightly less chance of inadvertently fabbing one of their photos
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really think I'd be too bothered if any of my kids were using this site as adults,I'd probably just block them and have a quick chat with them about it all.Would want to make sure any club visits didn't clash too,that would just be too awkward |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You discovered one of your kids was on here?
(Assume they are over 18 - let’s not take this anywhere else).
Send a dick pic
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My ex’s mum messaged him not knowing was him awkward |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Block them "
Agreed. Block them before they know your on here and avoid embarressment. I mean, they wont wanna see you, you wont wanna see them, no matter how open a family you are! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't really think I'd be too bothered if any of my kids were using this site as adults,I'd probably just block them and have a quick chat with them about it all.Would want to make sure any club visits didn't clash too,that would just be too awkward
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Agreed |
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