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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m very trustworthy. What people tell me stays with me. I have morals and would never snitch or fuck anyone over.
With regards to Fab, I’m very discreet too!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very trustworthy, and too honest for my own good to be honest with you 
Too honest for your own good, isn’t it sad that that is even a phrase?"
Yes indeed, but when you get slated for honesty it makes you think ... Not that I intend to change it one little bit x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m very trustworthy. What people tell me stays with me. I have morals and would never snitch or fuck anyone over.
With regards to Fab, I’m very discreet too!!"
Morals; exactly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In what sense
No specific context.
Simply, would someone be right to trust you? "
Yes 100%.... but
There's a BUT here though. Often we give our trust to someone and it's with our own expectations and sometimes the other person isn't aware and agreed to or wanting to have the trust placed in them. When that is the issue then we find our trust is misplaced and often broken.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm very trustworthy, and too honest for my own good to be honest with you
Too honest for your own good, isn’t it sad that that is even a phrase?
Yes indeed, but when you get slated for honesty it makes you think ... Not that I intend to change it one little bit x"
How does one get slated for honesty? Perhaps that’s a different area and about context or delivery.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very trustworthy, and too honest for my own good to be honest with you
Too honest for your own good, isn’t it sad that that is even a phrase?
Yes indeed, but when you get slated for honesty it makes you think ... Not that I intend to change it one little bit x
How does one get slated for honesty? Perhaps that’s a different area and about context or delivery.
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If someone asks my opinion, then I will give it honestly, if said requester doesn't agree with it, I get slated...I'm actually referring to specific people here lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In what sense
No specific context.
Simply, would someone be right to trust you?
Yes 100%.... but
There's a BUT here though. Often we give our trust to someone and it's with our own expectations and sometimes the other person isn't aware and agreed to or wanting to have the trust placed in them. When that is the issue then we find our trust is misplaced and often broken.
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That is true. But, there’s some accepted do’s and don’ts in the world too.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Context. There are certain things I wouldn't keep quiet about. In general you could trust me with your life or your last rolo. "
Absolutely. I would wholeheartedly concur. I also want your last rolo. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm very trustworthy, and too honest for my own good to be honest with you
Too honest for your own good, isn’t it sad that that is even a phrase?
Yes indeed, but when you get slated for honesty it makes you think ... Not that I intend to change it one little bit x
How does one get slated for honesty? Perhaps that’s a different area and about context or delivery.
If someone asks my opinion, then I will give it honestly, if said requester doesn't agree with it, I get slated...I'm actually referring to specific people here lol x"
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"In what sense
No specific context.
Simply, would someone be right to trust you?
Yes 100%.... but
There's a BUT here though. Often we give our trust to someone and it's with our own expectations and sometimes the other person isn't aware and agreed to or wanting to have the trust placed in them. When that is the issue then we find our trust is misplaced and often broken.
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Very true, it's the violation of expectation that hurts so much. |
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Im honest and trustworthy. .... I saw a 10 pound note on my neighnours front step ....I knocked on his door and gave it him ...
Recently I found a credit card in a supermarket .. and handed it to the store manager
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do you ask?"
Just pondering the topic, people’s self reflection and or blind spots or guilty consciences, and so on. People are often so self focused, that they don’t think about their impact on other people and yet are very quick to glorify their values and integrity. Nothing specific, I was just thinking about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm completely untrustworthy.
I hide my sexuality from my friends and my activities from my wife.
Worst of the worst and I wouldn't meet me on that basis.
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Trustworthy? Yes.
I obviously have secrets, somethings I keep from family & friends.
I know secrets about people I would never ever divulge even when they've abused my loyalty, a secret told will still never be shared.
Sadly I can't say the same about a few people I put my trust in.
If I give someone my word, make a promise I will do my upmost up keep it.. Only an issue with my family, my children mainly would stop me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very , my friends say it about me all the time. I’m the one they come to with their secrets. But I’ve learned that not everyone I’ve trusted is the same to me in return x |
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"Very , my friends say it about me all the time. I’m the one they come to with their secrets. But I’ve learned that not everyone I’ve trusted is the same to me in return x "
This and it's disappointing when you find out  |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"Trustworthy? Yes.
I obviously have secrets, somethings I keep from family & friends.
I know secrets about people I would never ever divulge even when they've abused my loyalty, a secret told will still never be shared.
Sadly I can't say the same about a few people I put my trust in.
If I give someone my word, make a promise I will do my upmost up keep it.. Only an issue with my family, my children mainly would stop me. "
This about sums me up too. Although I wouldn’t leave your chocolate with me for safeguarding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In what sense
No specific context.
Simply, would someone be right to trust you?
Yes 100%.... but
There's a BUT here though. Often we give our trust to someone and it's with our own expectations and sometimes the other person isn't aware and agreed to or wanting to have the trust placed in them. When that is the issue then we find our trust is misplaced and often broken.
That is true. But, there’s some accepted do’s and don’ts in the world too. "
This may be true but what accepted by one may not be accepted the other, hense they get slatted. Happens often here in the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If Im told something in confidence I will take it to the grave.
Bet you cheat at Twister though
That was never a leg "
was it the fact it was longer than the other two a giveaway? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sure we all like to think we're trustworthy, I know I think I am too. But ultimately it's only as much as it suits us to be at the time. People are flawed, get over it."
Who is under it?!  |
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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago
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"I'm sure we all like to think we're trustworthy, I know I think I am too. But ultimately it's only as much as it suits us to be at the time. People are flawed, get over it.
Who is under it?! "
The virtue signalling platitude pushers trying to say the right thing perhaps? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most people will pride themselves in proclaiming loyalty and trustworthiness as foundations of their personalities.
My experiences have shown that under proper duress or dire circumstances all sorts of people with untrustworthy pasts in the popular sense, can be the best around. Don't believe one answer fits all in this...has to be contextualised. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In what sense
No specific context.
Simply, would someone be right to trust you? "
That's a decision for the someone to make.
I would never intentionally break another's trust, and their will secrets never reveal. But would they be right to trust me....only "they" could say. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In what sense
No specific context.
Simply, would someone be right to trust you?
That's a decision for the someone to make.
I would never intentionally break another's trust, and their will secrets never reveal. But would they be right to trust me....only "they" could say."
So you’re saying you are, in answer to the OP then. Excellent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we are just talking about keeping secrets then I could be considered trustworthy.
However my excellent ability to keep secrets could also mean I could be seen as untrustworthy too... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't got any friends so I haven't got anyone to tell other people's secrets to 
I’ll be your friend. Now tell me the secrets  "
Haha awww thanks chick - I'll tell you mine if you tell me yours  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't got any friends so I haven't got anyone to tell other people's secrets to
I’ll be your friend. Now tell me the secrets
Haha awww thanks chick - I'll tell you mine if you tell me yours "
I’ll be your fwiend and I’ll show you mine if you show me yours ..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't got any friends so I haven't got anyone to tell other people's secrets to
I’ll be your friend. Now tell me the secrets
Haha awww thanks chick - I'll tell you mine if you tell me yours
I’ll be your fwiend and I’ll show you mine if you show me yours .. "
You first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't got any friends so I haven't got anyone to tell other people's secrets to
I’ll be your friend. Now tell me the secrets
Haha awww thanks chick - I'll tell you mine if you tell me yours
I’ll be your fwiend and I’ll show you mine if you show me yours ..
You first "
Pfft! My cunning plan failed! My bluff called!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does make me think if any playing away from home consider themselves to be."
They're all out tonight. Everyone on fab is a fucking saint all of a sudden! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In what sense
No specific context.
Simply, would someone be right to trust you? "
Always. You'll never get more than a white lie out of me and I'll bend over backwards to do right by anyone (even strangers). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I haven't got any friends so I haven't got anyone to tell other people's secrets to
I’ll be your friend. Now tell me the secrets
Haha awww thanks chick - I'll tell you mine if you tell me yours "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does make me think if any playing away from home consider themselves to be.
They're all out tonight. Everyone on fab is a fucking saint all of a sudden! "
Or non fucking saint because they can’t get a meet or were timewasted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does make me think if any playing away from home consider themselves to be.
They're all out tonight. Everyone on fab is a fucking saint all of a sudden!
Or non fucking saint because they can’t get a meet or were timewasted. "
Or don't fuck because they can't find a connection |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does make me think if any playing away from home consider themselves to be.
They're all out tonight. Everyone on fab is a fucking saint all of a sudden!
Or non fucking saint because they can’t get a meet or were timewasted.
Or don't fuck because they can't find a connection "
Word.  |
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