So my Pictures are suggested to be fake or I get told I only meet white guys and don’t meet Asians, or “how are you mixed when your legs are white lol.” My Mum is White and Asian mix and my dad is Black and mixed race mixed.
I in all cases am mixed race confused lol.
Trouble about being mixed race is that I have white bits brown bits and very dark brown bits depending on where I expose myself to the sun most.
one of my girlfriends used to say My skin is like Neapolitan ice cream depending on the season.
Why is this such an issue when sending pictures over even though I clearly say I’m mixed race
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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OP, some will pick holes no matter what you say. You know who you are and how you choose to identify. Ignore them.
I've been accused of trying to pass myself as white (with a tan). I don't bother to try and explain my ethnicity and mix as people see what they want to see and apply their own categories.
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Just shows they have no knowledge as to how genetics work. In genetic terms, skin colour is not a binary trait with only two possibilities, it’s a quantitative trait, and everyone has some gradient on this spectrum. |
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I can't see anywhere on your profile where it mentions you are mixed race, and from the one colour pic you have public you have lily white legs.
Yes I'm aware how generics work, but you don't look mixed race, its not on your profile so I'd be curious if you them mentioned it at a later date, if we'd been chatting a while. |
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over a year ago
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Funny that you have your name as Serendipity.
We have an event each year called Serendipity where I live. It's unfortunately my job to organise some of it this year haha!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't see anywhere on your profile where it mentions you are mixed race, and from the one colour pic you have public you have lily white legs.
Yes I'm aware how generics work, but you don't look mixed race, its not on your profile so I'd be curious if you them mentioned it at a later date, if we'd been chatting a while. "
He's obviously selected mixed race on sign up. Unlike fabguys, this part of the description does not automatically appear on your profile here at swingers.
Im guessing he comes up in searches where mixed race has been selected, then they see his pale legs! |
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"I can't see anywhere on your profile where it mentions you are mixed race, and from the one colour pic you have public you have lily white legs.
Yes I'm aware how generics work, but you don't look mixed race, its not on your profile so I'd be curious if you them mentioned it at a later date, if we'd been chatting a while.
He's obviously selected mixed race on sign up. Unlike fabguys, this part of the description does not automatically appear on your profile here at swingers.
Im guessing he comes up in searches where mixed race has been selected, then they see his pale legs! "
In that case, maybe add something to the profile explaining?
If I was using the search facility to find someone of mixed race, I'd be surprised if white legs popped up!
I've got mixed race ticked on my profile, but I'd say my skin tone obviously shows my genetic traits. |
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