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So at what point do you send a Friends Request?

By *indMasterUK OP Man over a year ago

All over England

So at what point do you send a Friends Request? Obviously NOT (1) without some sort of interaction (2) after a quick chat in the forum or chatroom (3) because someone responded to a forum post. But at what point does someone become 'a friend' on FS?

. (PS. I am excluding someone you have actually met in person as an option)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Once we’ve been chatting for a while and I can see us meeting. I have a few exceptions with some formites, I don’t know....it’s like marriage. When the time is right, you know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Once you have met them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't accept friend requests unless we have met in person and I'm going to have sex with them, or I've had sex with them, or I talk to them from the forums.

I don't have many friends on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't accept friend requests unless we have met in person and I'm going to have sex with them, or I've had sex with them, or I talk to them from the forums.

I don't have many friends on here."

Me too

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Once you've been chatting for a while and only after asking first if it is ok to send one!

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Once you've been chatting for a while and only after asking first if it is ok to send one!"

Pretty much this for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

After talking to them for a while, my friends list is tiny.

Though, I have met someone for a social before even having them on my friends list.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple over a year ago

Cumbria

After 2/3 messages ..

Like to friend people so they can see what we like with out sending picture...

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Once you've been chatting for a while and only after asking first if it is ok to send one!

Pretty much this for me

This.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"After talking to them for a while, my friends list is tiny.

Though, I have met someone for a social before even having them on my friends list.

I’m honoured

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By *indMasterUK OP Man over a year ago

All over England

Not one man has responded yet. Interesting? (or lazy lol)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"After talking to them for a while, my friends list is tiny.

Though, I have met someone for a social before even having them on my friends list.

I’m honoured

You should be

I think you're the only other single lady on my friends list.

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Once you've been chatting for a while and only after asking first if it is ok to send one!

Pretty much this for me

This

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Not one man has responded yet. Interesting? (or lazy lol)"

Last time I checked it was still there!!

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

If I have met them at a social or club; However if it is likely that we will meet then I invite

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Generally after a play meet if both want to but can be when a few laughs have been shared and there is some mutual chemistry.

Not sure a long list of friends means anything ...

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By *olliPineCouple over a year ago

swingers clubs

Our minimum requirement is meeting in person but even that's not a guarantee.

We just cba to have our news feed clogged up.

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By *lenderfoxMan over a year ago

Leeds

Either after a lengthy conversation and asking, or after meeting someone if we get clicked at an event

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't accept friend invited until I've met them in person

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So at what point do you send a Friends Request? Obviously NOT (1) without some sort of interaction (2) after a quick chat in the forum or chatroom (3) because someone responded to a forum post. But at what point does someone become 'a friend' on FS?

. (PS. I am excluding someone you have actually met in person as an option)

You ask first and if they say yes thats the right time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's exceptionally rare I send a friend's request. I know lots of girls get flooded with them. If they want to be friends I leave it to them to send the request.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When a meet is imminent.

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By *imandHerNottsCouple over a year ago

North Notts

For us it’s after a successful social meet x

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By *ottie_84Woman over a year ago

Nottingham

"Once you've been chatting for a while and only after asking first if it is ok to send one!"

This with the odd exception for forumites

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When you're comfortable with their thumb up your bum.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never send a friend request to some one I've never met,..lady's prerogative!

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By *ucyfur77Woman over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Some convo leading up to a meet..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't mind friend requests even if we've not chatted. I'll accept if I'm interested. Later I'll remove if it turns out we are not clicking.

I've got about 12 people on my friends list. Mostly people I've actually met.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

After chatting for a while and asking if it's ok. However, I found that being friends with unattainable ladies is too distracting from those that might be attainable so 'unfriended' them. Some know and some are too polite to ask why, but still chat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't accept friend requests unless we have met in person and I'm going to have sex with them, or I've had sex with them, or I talk to them from the forums.

I don't have many friends on here.

Me too

Same as this

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

Met them, like them

I've no private pics so don't understand online friendship with strangers

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By *ottie_84Woman over a year ago

Nottingham

I go through my friends list at least once a month and if we haven’t spoken in a while it’s a case of bye bye and get removed

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