"a older lady has told me im fuckable but too young to date?... dateable or/and fuckable.... is there a difference? "
Big difference. An actual relationship involves a lot more than just sex. As a result, people look for a lot more than just sexual attraction when they consider dating someone. |
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By *ilth500 OP Man
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"a older lady has told me im fuckable but too young to date?... dateable or/and fuckable.... is there a difference?
Big difference. An actual relationship involves a lot more than just sex. As a result, people look for a lot more than just sexual attraction when they consider dating someone."
i didn't suggest a relationship with her, i said a date or 2 as i enjoy the build up to sex as much as i love a quickie meet.... she replied "im far too old to be seen with you, but id gladly have you fuck me..." i should be flattered i suppose |
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"a older lady has told me im fuckable but too young to date?... dateable or/and fuckable.... is there a difference?
Big difference. An actual relationship involves a lot more than just sex. As a result, people look for a lot more than just sexual attraction when they consider dating someone.
i didn't suggest a relationship with her, i said a date or 2 as i enjoy the build up to sex as much as i love a quickie meet.... she replied "im far too old to be seen with you, but id gladly have you fuck me..." i should be flattered i suppose "
The principal is still the same. You obviously tick her box for sex, just not for anything else. I don't know if you should be flattered by her reasons, but you certainly should be offended by it. |
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"a older lady has told me im fuckable but too young to date?... dateable or/and fuckable.... is there a difference?
Big difference. An actual relationship involves a lot more than just sex. As a result, people look for a lot more than just sexual attraction when they consider dating someone.
i didn't suggest a relationship with her, i said a date or 2 as i enjoy the build up to sex as much as i love a quickie meet.... she replied "im far too old to be seen with you, but id gladly have you fuck me..." i should be flattered i suppose "
How old is said lady? |
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"a older lady has told me im fuckable but too young to date?... dateable or/and fuckable.... is there a difference?
Big difference. An actual relationship involves a lot more than just sex. As a result, people look for a lot more than just sexual attraction when they consider dating someone.
i didn't suggest a relationship with her, i said a date or 2 as i enjoy the build up to sex as much as i love a quickie meet.... she replied "im far too old to be seen with you, but id gladly have you fuck me..." i should be flattered i suppose "
I would not be flattered if someone said that to me  |
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I wouldn't want to date most of the men I've had sex with.
It's not a case of them not being good enough for me; we aren't compatible for a relationship.
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"a older lady has told me im fuckable but too young to date?... dateable or/and fuckable.... is there a difference? "
Yeah, I tell people that all the time! I prefer someone near my own age for a relationship or even a fwb, you have more in common, and you don't draw attention out in the real world. If it's purely sex and a little pillow talk then fine, I can find younger men attractive. You can be a touch flattered, but should mostly just accept it as realism IMO. |
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By *ilth500 OP Man
over a year ago
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"a older lady has told me im fuckable but too young to date?... dateable or/and fuckable.... is there a difference?
Big difference. An actual relationship involves a lot more than just sex. As a result, people look for a lot more than just sexual attraction when they consider dating someone.
i didn't suggest a relationship with her, i said a date or 2 as i enjoy the build up to sex as much as i love a quickie meet.... she replied "im far too old to be seen with you, but id gladly have you fuck me..." i should be flattered i suppose
How old is said lady? "
55 |
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"a older lady has told me im fuckable but too young to date?... dateable or/and fuckable.... is there a difference?
Big difference. An actual relationship involves a lot more than just sex. As a result, people look for a lot more than just sexual attraction when they consider dating someone.
i didn't suggest a relationship with her, i said a date or 2 as i enjoy the build up to sex as much as i love a quickie meet.... she replied "im far too old to be seen with you, but id gladly have you fuck me..." i should be flattered i suppose
How old is said lady?
55"
Ok, I get that. My ex husband is your age but I’m 47. I only date 35-early 40s. I don’t sleep with anyone I wouldn’t consider dating. It’s why I rarely meet. |
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I’d definitely say so. For example I’ve met with some people before older than myself. Attractive don’t get me wrong and I definitely wanted to fuck them but date them I couldn’t purely down to that age gap. Plus a lot of people you do meet on here you might not get along with enough to form a relationship. But the attraction is there |
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"as iv said earlier on here, im not asking or looking for a relationship, i just enjoy the build up as much as the sex... "
I get that and I would do the same if just doing casual. Find someone else to have fun with on your wavelength. Not someone that makes lame excuses. |
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"as iv said earlier on here, im not asking or looking for a relationship, i just enjoy the build up as much as the sex...
I get that and I would do the same if just doing casual. Find someone else to have fun with on your wavelength. Not someone that makes lame excuses. "
oh i didn't mind the suggestion.... i will gladly fuck her, it just made me wonder x |
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"as iv said earlier on here, im not asking or looking for a relationship, i just enjoy the build up as much as the sex...
I get that and I would do the same if just doing casual. Find someone else to have fun with on your wavelength. Not someone that makes lame excuses.
oh i didn't mind the suggestion.... i will gladly fuck her, it just made me wonder x"
Crack on then... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Did Fabswingers turn into a dating site and I didn't get the memo  "
Funnily enough, it’s also a swinging site but not many actual swingers on here either. |
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There is a huge difference between fuckable and dateable. Fuckable engages the genitals and a little bit of personality. Dateable engages EVERYTHING.... That's my take anyway  |
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By *ilth500 OP Man
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"There is a huge difference between fuckable and dateable. Fuckable engages the genitals and a little bit of personality. Dateable engages EVERYTHING.... That's my take anyway "
Thanks... your both by the way x |
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It basically means she can bare your presence for 40 mins if you shut up and fuck her. Stay any longer or open your mouth and she's liable to clobber you  |
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